I like how she's offended when she's pushed away. It's like she's thinking "but I'm /so pretty/ therefore you should like it". NO. That's sexual assault.
That’s what gets me. She looked shocked when the guy swiped at her after she kissed him, like “can you believe this guy? I can’t believe he pushed me!” She seems to actually think she’s entitled to this and that people should be thankful that she kisses them.
I feel terrible for the guys she recorded. She didn't even have the courtesy to blur their faces. There's no doubt her fans were giving them shit for not being thrilled to be kissed by a complete stranger because that stranger happened to be an attractive woman. As if being attractive suddenly makes it okay to molest people. *war flashbacks to the comment section of every video and article on female sexual predators*
It's because she's worried on some level one of these people are going to knock her out for assaulting them so the giggling is a mix of nervousness and a signal that she's actually non threatening despite invading people's space and privacy. It's a way for her to hedge her bets while being a dick.
Yeah, and I blame mostly men for that because I have noticed that the more physically attractive a woman is, the more arrogant and entitled she is, because men go out of their way to please her. My poor roommate is an overweight woman in her sixties, and she once had to push her broken-down car half a block down a busy street all by herself. Not one person offered to help her. If she had been a young, attractive woman, there is absolutely NO doubt in my mind that she would have had multiple offers of help.
Héctor the Protector I don’t think it’s their attractiveness is what draws guys into helping women it’s either the kindness out of their hearts or its because they might’ve seen themselves in that same situation as I’ve seen my dad help an old lady with her car and had to push it down a couple blocks and he was in a hurry but the same could go for anyone men have their preferences as do women, no reason to blame a specific gender
@@LuckyVine I blame mostly women because if we don't help a young attractive women we are either called an asshole for not helping or they expect help and throw a random person into the situation.
@@LuckyVine dude if she was an attractive woman I probably still wouldn't help her because I'd have to push a car to God knows where, and it's in the middle of a busy street, so I'm *definitely* not doing it if I'm in a car. Almost no guy is gonna change their mind about that because she's attractive, they just might date her afterwards if she was.
Something new that I’ve observed is commentary channels (like Eddy, Drew, Danny, Kurtis and Cody) calling out sexual assault in media and I want to say thank you. Thank you so much for bringing awareness to the subject without making light of assault.
it might be new among some of those folks but H3H3 has been doing it for years with his reaction videos to many creepy youtubers. definitely check him out if you haven't. here's a good example: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-JV9XUp5Rmws.html
@@nou6770 on its own, there's nothing necessarily wrong with making light of a dark topic. But it depends on the way you do it. These shitty Instagram videos make light of the topic by literally making it seem like sexual assault is a joke. That's not okay. I think it can be argued that some of Eddy, Cody, Drew, Danny, and Kurtis's videos actually DO make light of dark topics, but in the right way - they make fun of these things for how cringey the videos are, how awful these people seem, how badly the videos are acted, etc. rather than treating sexual assault (or any other dark topic) as a joke in and of itself. That's the difference.
Kudos to you for calling it for what it is: sexual assault. There's this stereotype that guys always want sex, and since the stereotype for those committing sexual assault isn't female, a lot of people would let her behavior slide. I'm glad you didn't!
K Linda But these are complete strangers that's she's filming though. You're telling me you'd be okay with someone (who you never met) kissing you while also filming you? Assualt may be too strong a word, but it's still harassment.
K Linda it's harassment. And sexual harassment falls under the category of sexual assault. And you said it perfectly: *Europeans* and *Latin Americans* ; not North Americans, though. I'm brazilian and my relatives kiss me on the cheek all the time but North Americans have a different culture, they don't just go around kissing people on the cheek all the time. Plus, if a stranger came up to me in the middle of the street and just kissed me I'd slap them away as fast as I could, it's just not ok, there are boundries. If someone invades your personal space to touch you inappropriately, kiss you on the cheek or just hold your hand, it can be considered sexual harassment. Let's look at the legal forms of sexual harassment: leering, pressure for dates, pressing or rubbing against a person, obscene phone calls, bra snapping, wolf-whistles, lip-smacking, indecent exposure, sexual discrimination, displaying explicit materials, sexist jokes, unwanted grabbing, comments about person's body, soliciting sexual services. So yeah, kissing a stranger definitely fits well into that description. Even if you personally wouldn't feel uncomfortable, most people would. Also, just having a stranger randomly hold a camera up to your face is fucked up too. This woman shouldn't be allowed to have an instagram account.
"Generally, sexual assault falls into one of three categories. Jennifer Gentile Long, the chief executive officer of AEquitas: The Prosecutors' Resource on Violence Against Women, a global project she co-founded in April 2009, tells SELF those include: 1) Penetration crimes a) Of a body part by another body part (i.e., penal penetration of mouth, anus, vagina) b) Of a body part by an object 2) Contact with genitalia, breast, buttocks, or other intimate body parts 3) Exposure of genitalia, breast, buttocks or other intimate body parts" Harassment is a bigger umbrella, and I think she's being rude, no kidding. But it isn't sexual or illegal. It could be harassment if the people were at work, and I imagine that she would be fired if she was doing this to coworkers depending on the company culture. It's important not to trivialize what "assault" means since it is a much more serious crime than attempting to hold someone's hand.
Imagine she does this to the wrong person, possibly a man with PTSD from some kind of previous assault, and “accidentally” triggering him into some kind of panic attack. It’s gross.
Yes, thank you for bringing that up. Or, I have a friend that will react so negatively to anyone touching him at all, *especially strangers* (aka, defending himself as a 'Fight' trauma response) so that's not ok at all no matter what, yes!
Trauma survivor here. I'd start crying. I can't believe she thought that was ok, and never once considered that one of her victims might have PTSD of some kind. I'd like your comment twice if I could
I don't think I have ptsd, but if she came up and touched me she would absolutely trigger a panic response and I would clock her, completely automatically
Yeah, being a hot chick doesn't make it okay to do this. Imagine if some random man kissed various women on the street without their consent. Sometimes guys also feel like they have to pretend to enjoy being kissed by a hot girl without their consent, because that's kind of how our society works.
@Gracie Owens I'm sorry to hear that your stepfather had to go through that. Speaking as a man, there really is a social double standard that men are supposed to enjoy being assaulted by women, and that it can therefore never be assault. If you haven't seen it already, I can't strongly enough recommend the video "The Creepy Female Teacher Epidemic" by Shoe0nHead. The double standards are something that she likes to talk about on her channel and she advocates for the recognition that men can be victims of women, too
I had this happen to me when i was like 16? on lunch break at my first job and then i went into the stockroom and had a panic attack after,,,,,, so like,,, maybe don't do this bc they might feel paranoid walking to school for six months afterwards?? just a thought?? (also it was really comforting to hear you say it is in fact sexual assault bc i've often felt guilty describing it as that bc it wasn't bad "enough"... thanks for the validation Eddy big uwu's)
Yeah, it sucks that people act like it's a contest. I've had unwanted touches, was verbally sexually harrased as a minor, had someone expose himself to me, and was raped. I've been all over the "spectrum" with my shit, and I can say confidently that it's all bad and none of it is okay. People act like you have to pass some arbitrary threshold to be upset at it, and that's just not true. All unwanted touching and harassment is wrong, no matter the "severity."
@@msjkramey exactly. I hate this "hierarchy of suffering" victims have projected on them. I was in a very fucked up prolonged situation while underage, but thankfully was not physically assaulted. People have told me to my face that, since I wasn't raped, what happened to me "doesn't count" or "wasn't a big deal." The complete lack of empathy is staggering. Obviously I am very grateful for the things that didn't happen to me, but I am traumatized by the things that did.
To this 'touching bold heads': It's pretty likely for me to be bold when I'm turning twenty, as my hair has been falling out since I was about 14 years old because of genetics. And if someone would then come up to me and pat me on my bold head, I'd probably get really and I mean _really_ insecure about it. I'd go so far as to say that it could cause a down-phase. So just don't do it. With friends, you know aren't gonna be hurted by it, I guess you can do it but with strangers...just don't. I'm sorry if there are any mistakes, I'm a foreigner and still need to learn a lot.
Your English is really good! Since you're trying to learn, here's the *tiny* mistakes you made: - it's spelled "bald" not "bold" - you should have said "hurt" not "hurted" (Hurt is both the past and present tense of the word. English is weird lol) - I guess that "down-phase" is technically correct, but it would probably be better to say a slump or something like that. We don't really use the those words like that, at least in the US But none of those are big issues at all. Sometimes being able to clearly communicate (which you did) is more important than being 100% grammatically correct What's your first language? I'm trying to brush up on my Spanish myself. I've gotten so bad at it, since I dont use it anymore :/ Also, I hope no one ever treats you like she did. We all have insecurities and no one should mock people like that Edit: typo
@@msjkramey @J Girl Thank you so much! I'm trying to learn how to write texts that sound like they could've been written by a native speaker so even these little corrections help me a lot ^^ My first language is German but I also speak French (I have to learn it in school) and Russian (my parents are from Russia, but I refused to talk in Russian until I was about seven years old so I'm not a native speaker) I hope you'll be able to pick your Spanish back up again! Being able to speak to people in their native language is on a truly different level than only being able to talk in English. Did you learn Spanish in school? And are there maybe other languages that you can choose to learn there? (I only ever hear about Spanish being taught)
@@gor.2336 yeah, i took 4+ years of Spanish in school, went on a trip to a Spanish speaking country, and worked in a restaurant with a lot of Spanish speaking staff, so I got pretty fluent. Unfortunately, I stopped using it and I'm horrible now. It's recommended that people take Spanish in the US, but we also offer American Sign Language, French, Mandarin, German, and Latin, among others, depending on the school. I actually had to learn some Mandarin for work, since I was an aid to a student who was taking that as his language credit, and I had to help him out in class. I never got great at it, but I got good enough to help him with his studies, since it was a super introductory course
There WAS a youtuber that made a horrible "prank" where he touched girls' asses, and it was terribly welcomed, which is a good thing. Why isn't sexual assault towards men seen the same way? It's disgusting and very harmful. Also, thanks for the welcome and i think that Drew and you are the best in this field of content commentary ❤
Sam pepper admitted his was fake as well. I'm not sure if there's any proof, though. Either way, It encourages young followers to try out the "prank" or "social experiment" for themselves. Both of them are just normalizing sexual and physical assault.
i appreciate that you are knowledgeable about consent and how women doing creepy stuff is considered less weird than men (which is crappy) because most men don’t have that knowledge. kudos!
She reminds me of a friend I had who thought guys couldn't be raped or sexually harassed because they just want sex, apparently. We aren't friends anymore.
your school was just fucking crazy. fucking expelled or fined because you touched a beard is like the stupidest thing a school can do. oh yeah, that boy Timmy he's expelled because he felt a shitty teacher beard. yeah no we didn't just like give him detention no we fucking removed him from the school.
@@emrahalien2972 actually that sounds like a good idea. Punishing some retard for touching someone else's face. Expelling him sounds great you fucking imbecile. No one should be touching other people especially near their face. Stupid.
I felt physical pain at the bald part, because I'm bald. I've had people comment on it and it's just... So hard, cuz I get all emotional about it. Being in public and getting called out like that and fighting not to break down is the worst fucking feeling in the whole world. It actually happend to me yesterday. I was at a restaurant with my family, grandma and my brother's family and this kid comes up to me and asked for my name and then asks if I'm a girl, like???? I am! I wanna appear feminine, but it's hard when your bald. Well anyway, it fucking destroyed me. I had to leave and spent the rest of the evening roaming the streets crying like a baby. So... Fuck this 'instagram star'.
Pawoui I actually like when I see bald women because it defines their facial features and bone structure and makes thing like your cheekbones, your lips, your eyes more defined. And it just has this clean, sleek, and cool look to it. I’m so sorry you have to go through that. Hair doesn’t define you through! Rock that shit!
I feel like this is your thing. I think you showing how shit Instagram "comedians" really are and saying what everyone is thinking about is a great thing. I enjoy your content and I hope you make it big on RU-vid eddy
I think the comment "if you turned it around and it was a guy kissing strangers on the street, he'd be in prison already" isn't quite right. He's not. Sam Pepper is still not in prison.
This reminds me of a girl in middle school who I did not know who, on two separate occasions, hugged me slowly and tenderly in the courtyard before class. She never ever said a word and she’d walk away afterwards. This Instagram lady is a nasty freak but at least I know why she’s doing this, I wish I had some answers
WHY DOES SHE JUST STARE INTO THE CAMERA AFTERWARDS OH MY GOD I CAN'T TAKE THE AWKWARDNESS Edit: And THE FLIPPING SOUND OF IT pains me physically, I can't, I cannot. I cannot. I can't. Edit 2: This is terrible, I can't stand this, she needs to go somewhere and stay there.
Every time I think I am getting old and maybe that is why I don't get the sense of humor of some younger people, I see a video like this and I realize that I'm not getting old. What passes for humor for some people is definitely not for everyone. She needs to make a statement about her behavior. It is absolutely wrong.
It sucks because people see this and assume that the whole young generation likes this content. Not saying that you are, but many people don't understand that no one in their right mind thinks this is funny, young or not
Thank you for stating that their reactions, due to the pressure of the situation, are not necessarily indicative of their actual feelings. A lot of people don't understand that. Sometimes people are forced to verbally give false consent, as well.
Kissing someone that has not consented is SEXUAL ASSAULT. How old are you 12? Here, educate yourself baby boy. criminal.findlaw.com/criminal-charges/sexual-assault-overview.html
If a man did this he’d be pepper sprayed, slapped, then shamed/arrested for sexual harassment/-assault. Obviously there’s a big problem with men sexually assaulting/harassing women, but women sexually assaulting/harassing men generally goes unnoticed or is let slide.
I think a lot of it has to do with the stereotype of men liking sex and that they should "enjoy it" when it happens and that women aren't seen as threatening. It's just as valid when a man is assaulted/ harrassed as when a woman is, it's really unfortunate and upsetting that it's not taken as seriously.
If a less attractive woman did it, I guarantee you she would be treated just as badly. I've noticed that the only time men ever report sexual harassment by a woman is when the woman is not what most people would regard as attractive. Beautiful women are never reported for sexual harassment, but ugly/overweight women are reported ALL THE TIME.
Men are usually bigger and more intimidating and aggressive. If people want to point out the difference between Al Franken and Weinstein, then be honest about how different this woman is than aggressive harassment women face on a daily basis.
That kiss thing was really bizarre and inappropriate. I thought it was understood that that reaction of confusion and discomfort those guys have isn't one that you should be trying to get out of people and isn't funny. Gross. ps I'm a new lady subscriber nice content pal lookin good
Listen, Eddy, my dude. My man. I gotta level with ya. I love watching you, you're funny and real. You're engaging. It's great. But man, I do NOT have my proverbial thumb on the proverbial pulse of social media, and so often you introduce me to people who I never would have known existed if I hadn't watched your videos. And I was happier before I knew those people existed. But I'm also happier for having watched one of your videos. I'm so conflicted, brother :-/
found your channel a few days ago and spent an afternoon laughing to myself, further strengthening my mother's theory that im an inept person. so thanks for that
@@smooothest angry? what are you talking about? also you don't know me..how would you know anything about my brain..I'm gonna be true it just seems like you got mad at me for no reason cause i have no clue how my comment was angry
Look I’m a woman and I understand that 9/10 times a guy is going to be much stronger than me, so I appreciate not being hit by them. That being said, if a girl is assaulting or harassing you, guys should be allowed to go wild.
its probably more he didnt because of the big ass guy behind the camera watching, that being said never hit a woman, unless shes assaulting you then its self defense
And then the content chief will have to tell him "goddamnit lieutant burback the content mayor is going to have my ass for this!" but you see sometimes you have to break the content rules to get results
"Where her and her friend just attacked guys on both sides of their face for absolutely no reason." - Eddy Burback referring to Britain and Russia in WWII
Love how you addressed this. Thank you for calling her out for this behavior. A lot of people don't take sexual assault by female perpetrators w the sobriety that it deserves. 💙
Found your channel because I follow similar people like Gus, Danny Gonzales, and Drew Gooden. But I’ve been binging your content and it’s by far the highest quality shit I’ve seen in awhile, don’t know how you flew under my radar for so long. Keep up the good work dude!
I hate how girls can do things like kiss a guy on the cheek out of nowhere and not know them but is groovy but guys can’t look at some girls without getting in trouble with the law like that’s wack
