This Is How Women TRULY Feel About Straight Men 

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If you've never been called "toxic" or "controlling" or "misogynist", you ain't doing it right, son.

Modern paradigm. A justified criticism of an individual woman is sexism. A blanket unjustified abuse of all men is always justified and acceptable.

I used to generalize men like this and speak hatefully about men because I had a lot of unresolved trauma. But over time I realised that I'll never find a relationship where I feel safe and am a good partner if I don't believe men can be good. This is because I'll always view what happens through a lense of bad intentions and never give the benefit of the doubt. That's a huge barricade for a conscious, beautiful relationship because you can't truly know, understand and trust someone if you're constantly projecting your fears on to their actions and can't truly see them beyond that curtain. I couldn't see that men too desire to be loved, supported, understood... because I had such a low view of myself that I believed most men just wanted to use me for sex. Yes, it hurts to hear myself grouped with "low-quality" women. I have to grieve the years I've lost choosing the wrong path but I'm dedicated to building myself to be a trustworthy and responsible person so that I can be truly fulfilled (no cheap thrills or quick fixes) and my partner and I can have a beautiful life together. Thanks Alexander!

As a straight man, I've accepted I'm not a human being; I'm an ATM.

This is why I broke up with my girlfriend last year. It got to the point my weekends were entirely to serve her and I was being taken for granted. One weekend I said I wanted to go for a run for my own enjoyment and she objected saying we weren't getting enough time together. Didn't start out like that, but any time to myself bothered her and gradually manipulated the situation to get control. Eventually I realised she didn't care about my own wellbeing, and she would tell me to stop being negative but she was too self centered to realise she was causing this negativity by being so controlling. I broke up shortly after only to be told I was selfish with my time and money 🤣.

I hear the word misogynist almost daily. It's common on TV and the internet. But I almost never hear the word misandrist. I doubt most people know what it means.

I'm a woman, and I'm proud to openly shout from the rooftops that I love men. I love your straightforwardness, your ability to take a craft and perfect it, your mental and physical strength, your emotional stability, your protective and hard-working nature, your logic, I could go on and on and on. Unlike what we see in the media, most of the men I've ever known are sensitive, honest, strong, brave, and they only want to cherish women and children, they just want us to be happy and safe. In my opinion, that's actually the main reason men are starting to stand up against modern causes like feminism, they can see that it's not making women, or men, happy. The proof is not in the pudding, so to speak. What Alexander is saying about the 'feminine agenda' is totally spot on, every level of society is corrupted with this agenda. Even in preschool, the rubric of good behaviour is based on female behaviour. That's why we see boys being punished and medicated for have high energy levels, or called racist for playing cowboys and indians, or made out to be the next school shooter for making finger guns, or called a toxic masculine sx offender for simply 'playing doctor' with a female friend, (all while the media they consume from a very young age is full of gratuitous violence and sx). None of this stuff is happening by accident. Do you really think the people creating these standards are just stupid and bumbling with no idea what they're doing, even after the evidence is in? Why is it they are so against masculinity, particularly straight white men? Is it because they know S.W.M have a root, a genetic memory, of moral goodness, bravery, strength and intelligence, that they're not easily corrupted or manipulated? Someone very wise once said 'the earlier you start, the less the propaganda has to make sense'. What is happening today is a conspiracy in the truest sense of the word, and if this makes me a 'conspiracy theorist', so be it. (The opposite of which is a 'coincidence theorist', and after the 50,000th coincidence, i just can't make it make sense.)

When having "anti-man' discussions I say "Look out the window and tell me what you see." When she does, I then ask "Who built that?"

Them : "Everything a man can do, women can do better" Me : " A man can be sexist" Logic : "Checkmate"

Remember, When WW3 starts, Don't be a misogynist and protect women. They got this! After all, They are strong and brave.

Bought a house from a couple that were divorcing, lived at the house for a few years, then my wife divorced me. Choosing her undying toxic friendship with her harpie girlfriends, via the almighty telephone, over the family we had built. I then find out my neighbor is divorcing. I see a common denominator in all 3 of these relationship failures. All 3 men worked hard for family , far as financial, time, sincere care. All 3 women were obsessed with their phone connections with friends including comparing selfies, material acquisition, etc. None of these 3 gals knew each other really. I really believe many women / girls are going all out crazy for this self made media attention,

"Institutionalized misandry" is the term you want, AG. And victim privilege IS female privilege.

This is the next generation folks. This is the thinking they are being raised on. Jeez

In my childhood, I've been told to not take people who look like clowns seriously, and I still apply that to this day.

Men who don't place a woman's "feelings" above their own are considered immature. Literally I just had a argument with a girl yesterday where I left feeling crazy, she said I'm like a 6 year old when she tells me her feelings. The situation abridged is as such, her dog is dying and a family member of mine is in the hospital. We talk about our situations and keep each other updated. Yesterday after work school gym and hospital I decided to play my game for 2 hours. She messages me and gives me the update so I reply and give mines, then suddenly she breaks down about how I didn't message her and how all her friends messaged her, how I'm such a bad best friend because I didn't even choose to keep updated (mind you its been less than 24 hours since our last talk). So as she keeps telling me how bad I am, I simply said, "Please stop lecturing me, I understand you feel bad but all this complaining about how shitty I am is just making me feel worse." Apparently me saying that is akin to me killing her dog or something because she went off on me threatened to not be my friend anymore, said I don't understand feelings and I'm so robotic. Is it truly so wrong to not allow someone to get away with EVERYTHING even if they're in a stressful situation? I just didn't appreciate how I've been helping her with schoolwork, talking to her, helping her figure things out, WHILE finishing my masters and receiving nor asking for any help from her, then after 24 hours she's ready to stop talking to me .

Whenever I hold a door, I hold it out of respect for anyone, not just women, and if a women tries to say I’m sexist because of it, that’s what I’ll say, and I will also chastise the blatant disrespect towards me, a person who’s just is simply trying to do a good deed…

Society should be careful of normalising Misandry. There are a lot of studies showing men checking out of society. A recent Pew Institute Study showing one in five men of working age in American are off the grid as far as having a tax paying job. There are a lot of reasons for this (black economy/being in prison/drug dealing) but one is men not bothering to work on their career. Living at home just doing casual work etc. Not marrying, not having long term relationship, not bothering with careers. If you dont have a chance to get a wife and house and family why bother to progress in the economy? You can just drift and live low and with low overheads. Society needs men to engage and have a stake in society or they will not contribute. Why should they? What do they get back? In our culture at the moment Men and particularly Fathers are seen as worthless. As a divorced man- I can tell you how badly society treats Fathers and have told my son not to marry. He agrees having seen the treatment his father received . Sadly this will not end well for Western Societies.

Yes.... weak, sexist, misogynistic, egotistical, lazy, selfish, lying, cheating, superficial men need to grow up and take care of strong, independent, resourceful, honest, faithful, modest, cerebral, hard working super-women! Heard it a million times.

I’m struggling daily to find reasons to keep going, everything is in a state of rot, our women, our government, our rights & freedoms, our culture, our society, the world, inflation is about to be unsustainable, no relief is coming, exponentially more and more suffering is the only thing on the horizon.

i love that you put your own reaction on these videos...i can see your reactions like they mirror my own. I can see that you're legitimately listening and processing and open-minded about what you're hearing. 3 words: outstanding! great channel. subscribed.

More men need to see videos like this and internalize the truth.

Nowadays i only open doors for men after being called a sexist. A girl called me out on not opening the door for her, so i lied i was gay and she backed down. Appearantly it's ok for gay men to do it.

I'm glad I'm happy single. Won't lie I get lonely from time to time but better to be a single and feel alone than be with someone and still feel alone.

I love how clear and defined his words and the way he talks are, it is does not have stuttering or slurring of words, its clear and coherent.

Those girls literally could not survive without us. It's at least not likely long-term.

Telling women they aren't entitled to men's bodies, mind and creativity is a high crime in the womanist court.

as a young straight man this is terrifying me, i get constantly generalised for the actions of some twats out there and constantly misjudged, i feel villainised

"When Rome forgot about the Legions, the Legions forgot about Rome.". More men need to wake up and stop joining the military or supporting society until society remembers they need us.

Spot on man. Like when she says " I dont like men who dont know what they want". Men do know what they want, just often is not not the same as what women want.

The more we teach "inclusivity" in our society, the more everyone hates those who are different from themselves.

I am 30 years old and across my lifetime I have come to a simple conclusion, when it comes to relationships it should be 50/50. If either part is not interested in pulling their weight in their life together then it is not worth it.

I really used to appreciate and respect women.... I USED TO.

As a gay man, I've been approached by groups of women who want me to take care of some woman i barely know. just so she's ok. no one cares if it's ok for me.

"Thus steel sharpens steel, a man becomes such with others." Don't let a girl without a father tell you what is or what is not a man.

This type of behavior is 100% women not being held accountable in our culture for being awful human beings to the same level that men are. It's not even remotely comparable.

I'm not surprised "women" think this way about men. It has been this way for years.

It's not ingrained in our "culture", its ingrained in our DNA... women are the bottleneck for the group's reproduction, so we innately protect them more than men... but we now live in a paradigm where the benefits men bring (protection and providing) can be provided 3rd party by the government (never mind the fact that it is still mostly men doing all the heavy lifting in the background), so slowly over the last 50-60 years the average man has been devalued. Just my $0.02

Reject Modernity, Embrace Tradition

If you want to know if your girlfriend really likes you, say ‘No’ next time she asks you to do something for her.

I hear that misogyny is about to become a criminal offense in Scotland! Misandry however is perfectly exceptable - even encouraged! I'm assuming that the men would need a government issued license just to speck to women and may need a chaperone in order to engage in anything remotely resembling intimacy. Credit/debit card details would be needed of course!

It's easy to be the victim when the world allows you to be one. For men, they can truly be victims in the most serious of ways and even people who agree they were wronged will say get over it and say you'll survive. It's like when women are victims, (even when it's not serious) people have to take them serious to protect their image. With men, people don't want to get involved. In the end, no one really cares about anyone. So many just take up for others when it makes them look good or it helps push their own agenda.

Misandry has already become normalized, to the point where there’s literally body shaming “jokes” in film, television and music.

That girl couldn't even give a credible answer as to why men are inherently bad, so she dragged her friend into the situation to explain for her. While doing so the entire time, proceeds to pick her phone up and busy herself with it. Obviously, she felt awkward which kind of tells me that maybe deep down she doesn't actually believe what she is saying and is just jumping on this trend like a lot of gen z alt girls do.

I listen to your videos from time to time/fairly often actually but after watching this video, I couldn’t help but subscribe. Keep doing what you’re doing man. I mean what you’re saying is the actual objective fact and it’s speaking for healthy lifestyles for humans in general men and women.

Just ignore them. Don't be mean to them and don't mistreat them. If you work with them, get your work done and keep it pushing. Focus on yourselves fellas.

Dont get angry - give them nothing Eventually as they have less and less, they will beg men to rescue them Dont The next generation needs to see what happens to these delusional women who think they are superior.

Not all women think this way. But enough of them do.

To all the straight men reading this... I care about you. I respect any man out there doing what he has to to take care of himself. If you are a father and you are in your children's life raising them to be the best they can be, I respect that. You are appreciated, even if some purple haired idiots who hate themselves say otherwise. Not all women hate good men, it's just the loudest voices who seem to think they speak for all women, they do not.

One pattern that I noticed in society and this is not just limited to women is that if your nice/trying to help you get trampled on because this makes you a easy/convenient target and this is not just valid for individuals but also for entire society's !

i remember bill burr in one of his podcast said that one time he rented a classic car and drove along the pacific coast highway in california with his wife. he said that she wasn't all that happy about that. he then explained that when you do an activity with a woman, for her to enjoy it fully it has to benefit ONLY her.

I really admire you and your way of analize different behaviours, it helps me and teaches me how to improve myself and processig my traumatizing experiences with women. Grazie Mille.

This is a good one Alexander. Thanks, it serves a purpose.

Right on, Brother. My gf bugging me about how she expects me to confess my love by dedicating my total financial assets to her. She says women need this to feel secure with a man, it is not about money. That is how a man shows a woman he loves her. But when I ask from her for the same thing, she looks at me with contempt, even though she is far more wealthier than me.

The first two are definitely not normal women, going by hair color and makeup.

Stuff like that would get me mad 3 years ago but now I realise most women don’t even see the majority of men so all the gripes with the male gender they deal with are based of a few select males that have caused them problems in the past and it doesn’t involve me and it’s more so about projecting negative emotions.

Who else is in the "I don't date because I don't want to get accused for anything, or loose anything" boat?

And yet men has invented, built and maintain the comfortable world they live in! It's outrageous!

I drove right past a carload of young women yesterday who had a flat tire and obviously had no idea what they were doing. I laughed. In years past I would have stopped to help. Not any more 🤣

That's funny, the way those women feel about straight men is exactly how I feel about their breathing my oxygen.

I had to comment on this one. Last night a guy called me goofy. All because i have something he wanted to buy but dont wanna sell it. I dont have kids so i have toys. He said if he was my brother he tell me i was lame for doing the things that i like to do🙄🤔. Also says to me that he can tell that im hard headed😳 and cant learn nothing from nobody..then he got mad started yelling at me and left..these people crazy🙈..all i can think was this guy is emotional. Your video helped me understand him

Nah, it's worse than you say. They know what they're doing is wrong but they've been preemptively taught that it is the moral good to treat the "oppressors" as subhuman. this is somehow scarier.

Women, lowkey, regret feminism and are upset that men allowed it. Think of a spoiled child lashing out because the parents are too lenient: they crave discipline.

Thank you for this video !

Haven't watched this channel in a while. Damn, it looks like you really went down the rabbit hole Alex. I had a feeling it would happen.

Bet their beliefs will change when raid alarms start blaring. 😎

Subbed. Keep going brother, the majority of men now are nothing in this world while giving everything to the world.

In 2011 I came back from a year long combat deployment from Iraq. My first day back I sat in my dad's house and was watching TV. My stepmother made a list of chores for me to do. I didn't do them because I wanted to relax and decompress from my deployment. My stepmother came home and told me "If you're going to stay here on your post department vacation you need to earn your keep." I replied with "So spending a year fighting for your freedoms doesn't count as earning my keep?" This guy is absolutely right. Women can't stand it when they are not the focus of a man's attitude, anything he does for himself is met with disappointment.

Great video man, thanks

It's amazing that this has to be pointed out to people.

Alexander, I hear what you're saying about men being happiest in a relationship with a high quality woman. The problem is, there aren't enough such women to go round. They're incredibly rare and worse, the toxic ones are often very good at pretending to be high quality in the short term. This is not a problem that's going to be fixed easily. It's not just that dating is broken, the entire supply is broken. There are narcissists everywhere. That's why I'm content to remain in the 'second tier' of happiness for men: single and alone. The prospect of a search for a partner being fruitful is so low that it's just not worth the expenditure of time, money and effort. And that's not even taking into account punitive divorce and family laws if it does go wrong. It's a sad state of affairs.

Good talk Alexander and what you said is all true, keep promoting good mental health and values for young men.

First time? These kinds of videos don't even shock me anymore.. i'm already expecting them

hey Alexander I appreciate you making a video about my content. This is really cool to see especially because i've been watching your content for a long time now. also I'm from Perth too btw.

Don't interact with women in any kind. Ignore them.

great video. Top grade content. Excellent advice. ONe of your best. Thankyou.

Your dad was straight darling. "I don't know my dad." Now we know the entire problem.

"Sugar and spice, and everything nice." Oh, the lies we men have been told.

To me, shame and guilt are usually signs the person has no facts to support their argument, just opinions.

I think it is healthy that these conversations are being discussed. What we do with the outcome is solely up to the individual. I will say this...it is another moment where modern society does not even come close to how things used to be.

Alexander I like the way you always give us your best message.... thank you

As my Grandma used to say: " Consider the source." Spoiled little children.

Once I was able to spot shaming language it made me stop caring about it and by extension the person who said it.

I am so lucky to have found the man I am with we are both so grateful for another and are each other's first love and have been going out since we were 17 now at 23 we are having our first baby. We don't have much money but we have loads of fun together and push each other to become our best selves for ourselves and for each other. God bless ye guys and I wish ye all the best in finding the one you can live with and create a family 😜

The correlation is after a breakup, women typically move on much quicker than men. There's shows the former in depth of love and caring on average.

Smile and nod. Remember their faces and drink your water when they are on fire. Don't feel symphaty for them, defend and treasure yourself about all else and keep yourself save. No estrogen producing psychopath is worth the hassle.

Once you've seen through the concept of shaming, it can never be used against you - ever again. Great video btw, Alex!

You walked right past the fact that she couldn’t defend her opinion and asked her friend to explain it. These people are not very bright.

I don't care what women think. It is of no consequence. If I stopped to consider what an idiot thinks I become an idiot.

This is what happens when a the men of a society don't control their women.

I have realized that the new generation of young people are beyond repair. I live in Canada and the other day one of my friends unfollowed me over a really funny meme about asian people eating their pets. Had the joke been about genders he would probably assassinate me. I couldn’t believe how easily a harmless joke could end a whole friendship. He was btw a pale, skinny woke woman pleaser (not in the bedroom).

Man, I knew some people thought like but I guess I've been lucky to never really fun into some people like this. I don't see it often with people I meet around my age. (I'm still relatively young). Honestly, If I were ever told that I was immature because I enjoy what I do for myself. I'd remove them from my life. Anyone who is stuck into that I wish you the best to be able to remove toxicity from your life.

"We get it you want us women to stay in the kitchen" Me an intellectual: "hell no. None of you women can cook to save your life."

They're all talk, until you get in their faces. That's why I don't feel intimidated by privileged women whining in their Tiktok.

While everyone is familiar with misogynist, men who hate women, few seem conscious of the opposite side of the coin misandrist, women who hate men, sexism goes both ways. The first two ladies are excellent examples of far-left woke lesbian misandrists.

After a failed marriage and 5 failed relationships, one of which almost cost me to lose everything, I have been single for the last 10 years and have now got used to it. I am far too old to bother about being in a relationship now, but nice that I have a few women that I am just purely friends with.

I find it funny how much liberty women have with what they say and what they do, given the fact that men can literally decimate them physically if we wanted to

I've found the solution, double down, be a man, unapologetically, with the good and bad, instead of trying to appease women expectations live for you and make a live for yourself

I love how its cool and trendy to opt out of the human genepool.

Honestly I feel the same as you. Most women legit thrive of being toxic and bully men and we're just expected to take it.