Women Get SO TRIGGERED When Men Do THIS 

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Moral of the story, you should not start a conversation with two feminists.

Nothing new here: Women getting annoyed when you remind them that facts don't care about their feelings

A feminist ex-friend tried this on me when she told me that ‘men had to be better and try harder’. I asked her a dozen times to give me specific examples of what she meant. She finally started screaming at me calling me a misogynist out of frustration. I honestly tried to understand her and what she kept referring to. She was unable to give any specifics. Our friendship ended right there.

My toxic feminist ex couldn't STAND basic questions about her nonsensical beliefs. It was definitely an accountability thing holding them to even be logically consistent with THEMSELVES is too much to ask. She would become enraged and refuse to engage in basic discussion just like these illogical feminists.

This is why people say that "accountability is kryptonite to women."

This is literally how I win every argument with women. I don't even have to make an argument myself, just ask questions about how they came up to that conclusion and they invalidate their argument themselves.

The best way to end a conversation is always to give some Facts. Works every time

"Those who know that they are profound strive for clarity. Those who would like to seem profound to the crowd strive for obscurity." - Nietzsche

these people who say "im a perfect 10" "MY kind is better in every way" are detached from reality and will only get hostile or even violent if you try to apply reality to them. the worse a person is, the more likely they are to behave like they think theyre perfect.

This's a MAN'S WORLD (Created by men, built by men and operated by men). Women just moved in and claimed half of it just like in divorce.

Real question: why bother with such irrational people who won't even make you a sandwich or do anything for you?🤔

My wife does not want me to fix anything. She just wants to complain to me. Sometimes she is complaining about me but since I stopped trying to fix her problems logically I have become much happier. She is still constantly unhappy but I no longer feel any guilt because of it.

As a women with a very disabling disorder my husband and I have been married 14 beautiful yrs. I live with him in the woods and I hunt, clean, cook, can, etc. We support eachother. If I process our deer he does the dishes! If I clean the house he takes out the garbage. WOMEN NEED TO KNOCK OF THE SPOIL ME BABY ME BULLSH**! People need to start taking responsibility for themselves and have boundries that are healthy!

Ask these "women" what their interests and hobbies are. I'll wager the top two items they'll list are "shopping" and "travel", both of which are not hobbies, but hedonistic pursuits.

This is so true, I had a girl accusing me of manipulating her, just because she developed feelings for me without me feeling the same way about her. When I asked about specifics she would always change the subject and attack some other character trait of mine.

I feel bad for the fathers of those two feminists Working so they can provide for such hateful women.

There was a reddit post saying that women should be allowed in the men's Tour De France bicycle race... Sure, no problem... All the women would get dropped by the men in the first mile, and never catch up for the remaining 2500 miles.

I‘m a weightlifting coach. 1 year Rookys warm up with the PR of our best female athletes 😂

9:00 I remember this all too well. My ex would litterally start an argument/fight with "You are increasing your voice!" - I later learned that she might be a narcissist and they can be triggered by an increase in your voice like if you would like to tell something and you do it enthusiastic. Happy I got out.

Women who treat you like an emotional punching need you to feel lower than them. It’s a good way to keep you demoralized and codependent, especially if she’s full of insecurities. Eventually she’ll see herself as being better than you.

A good example is what happened to me... I got kicked out of my girlfriend's friend apartment because I challenged her in a calm way about her feminist views and talking bad about white men...and guess what....she kicked me out but not my girlfriend even though my girlfriend was agreeing with me and saying the same things to her.

it's a good tool to understand who to stay away from, if a girl says what she says and you know it's not true because it doesn't happen in reality, do yourself a favor and stay away, no matter how beautiful and attractive she is, she's stupid and empty.

Basically, in order to have a semblance of a healthy relationship with a modern woman. You need to have a PhD in Clinical Psychology. Yep, I’ll pass.

I once asked a gf some questions about herself. She said "stop trying to figure me out!". I dropped her soon after.

"you're asking her to be accountable and thats not what she wants" I laughed so hard when you said that 6:40 in the video.

Seriously, who are the worthless excuses for men and fathers who are bringing these young women into the world, and doing a garbage job of raising them! Why is THAT issue not being addressed?

Thanks for your program. I'm 86, a widower and finding myself in the "dating game" after 61 of a good life. So, many of your suggestions and points of view are helpful. Finding a new companion is simply hard work. Thanks. Keep up the good input.

Great video. I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her..

If it were possible to have a reasonable, constructive conversation, then there would be no real problem in the first place, but that's not an option. No matter how good things were at any given moment, if my ex perceived ANYTHING I said as being critical of her or disagreeing with something she said, she would suddenly turn extremely negative and launch an all out, no mercy attack that was entirely fueled by emotion. It didn't matter what I did - she would ALWAYS escalate to the point of kicking me out and ending the relationship. It was like a switch would flip inside her, and she'd transform into a terribly cruel sadist hellbent on destroying me. The really scary part is that she would claim to not remember doing a lot of the things she did when she was like that.

Rangapal deserves more recognition!

Know a girl that gets upset every time when I keep asking her to be more specific lol She starts complaining that I ask too much and that she was clear. When I ask more, she ignores me haha. She is kinda attention seeking though

It's unfortunate that part of this vagueness manifests in acts such as gaslighting; some people are genuinely attempting to objectively understand the world. Well, there's always research.

Rarely happens when you are in a "friends w/ benefits" relationship. They know if they pull that crap, you're gone.

This is good one! Really one of the best way to confirm whether you are dating a woman willing to explore her own feelings and attach them to reality, while being specific, that benefits both you and her, as well as it really shows whether she trusts you and is open to find solution rather then throw punches. Also women are know their privileges well nowadays (while shouting about being oppressed, lol) and sometimes start scenes in public place, so the only working tactics I found here is "I am sorry mam, who are you and why are you yelling at me?", exploring her traumas when there is an audience for her performance is worthless

Look the whole men and women dynamic is just like an actual gf/bf dynamic. We been betas and lost our masculinity. In reaction they’re dressing up more trying to get attention, gaslighting everything, complaining, shaming us, pretending everything we want is too much. Playing the victim. And not men are leaving and finding better and just like a ex, she’s mad and trying to shame us…..best thing to do is raise our standards, raise our value and do better

God damn. I gotta be a psychologist to be in a relationship. That sounds like a lot of work I'm going to have to pay to do. I bet I will still have to pay for dinner as well.

Appreciate how you break down specific behaviors/statements made from both sides. Makes for a tasty nugget of data that becomes easily processed.

A theory I have may add to that: As we know Wmn are the physically weaker sx of the species due to being child beares of the species so they by nature have more softer and elastic muscles so they will strech during pregnancy and be soft for the baby during his/her infancy. This factor also makes them the most danger prone of the two gndrs, they are designed to prioritize the avoiding of physical risks and dangers at all cost because by extension it will make them prioritize the physical safety of their children. I think that this desire for physical/material safety is translated/manifested at the mental/emotional level as the desire to avoid admitting any wrong doing. In other words their desire to be physically safe is shared by the ego's desire to not be wrong since to the ego being proven wrong and having to change one's thoughts brings the same feeling as being physically attacked. This is also why Wmn always speak or make statements in a nebulous and subjective way in order to maintain "possible deniability" so they don't run the risk of being proven wrong. It's also why they are mostly focus on "the appearance of something" or are more focus on how something is percived rather than how it actually is wich is why it is Wmn who will most likely focus on "vertue signaling" about one self/focusing on how others percive them rather than actually working on themselves and becoming a better person because the latter requires work and admitting/facing the reality that one has to admit their wrong and has to change. I also think this is why Wmn don't care or are unable to think or understand abstract ideas like Logic and Morality since they're design to mainly focus on things at the material level. Normally caring about the Logic and Morality of a situation is something they would trust to both their fathers or husbands.

SMDH, got this from my sister when she tried to leverage her kids compel me into doing something... this kind of mindset is an illness that can manifest anywhere from anyone. Stay vigilant.

Calmly asking pointed questions is a great way to deal with people who are passive aggressive. The book "Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst" goes over this in their section about Snipers. Great life skill in general, especially in stressful work situations

Men use logic, Woman use feelings.

Once again. so well-articulated. The way you explained it was so revealing to what I've naturally been doing in past relationships all this time. I'd always lean in to understanding her emotional remarks. It has always felt natural for me to ask "well, why do you think that?" and all other pertinent leading questions, because I felt so in the dark when I would hear her remarks. It was always genuine, and looking back on it, they very often led to her surrendering those hostile ideas she was holding on to, because she was able to understand that she was either making a bigger deal out of essentially nothing or that I understood her emotions better and I'm prepared to take better action to assure she won't feel the same way again later. That's very powerful. With that emotional intelligence and genuine curiosity, you wield a lot of power in these situations, and it's our job as men to handle that power responsibly. You also can tell what kind of quality of woman you are with in these moments, if she's able to figuratively take your hand as you lead her along into finding out the truth of the matter. Excellent video! Very thought-provoking.

Always Remember what the Original point is, and Stay on point.Woman are Masters at changing the subject! Don't fall for it.

Wow this is probably the best advice I’ve ever heard in dealing with an emotional woman

In Neurolinguistic Programming, this is the Milton model and the Meta model. The Milton model, named after hypnotist Milton Erickson was a way of describing something that deliberately avoided specific details in order to accommodate a wide range of internal representations, making suggestions, hypnotic or otherwise more effective. The Meta model is the opposite, seeking to eliminate all ambiguity and clarify precise meanings and intention. Many interviews with politicians, influencers and other types of charlatans feature the clash of Meta and Milton with the politician using artfully vague, emotional language that avoids concrete terms while the interviewer seeks to clarify the language being used.

It really works with practically all people including men...

They don’t like being made to think through their own ideas to the end. It’s not a pleasant thing to realize that what you believe is built on nonsense.

true, I do writing and some women told that its incomprehensible, but when I told them to give me example (copy one of my sentence and write how they understand this or what they dont understand), neither of them tell anything

Good information and great video

Don't ever worry about what low quality, to×ic women complain to you about in what you say Alex, you are doing WAY more TRUE good in this world than almost literally ANY other RU-vidr IMHO! More people, both men AND women, really need to see more of your content, to help better the current gender dynamic in modern society! Keep up your great work man! (At least the truly High Quality people appreciate what you have to say!)

You can avoid this by not being in a relationship. It's over in the west not worth the time or energy to even try to date just let them self destruct and live your life. "If you wanna take your relationship game to the next level." 😂😂 yeah have fun with that fellas it will never be enough for the modern woman but Goodluck.

What I got out of this: don't waste your energy with vague conversations, regardless of with who. Build a realistic foundation to pull points from that don't "cross" any lines. If in these conversations, the point is to reach mutual understanding, not to persuade the other.

Image and reputation is more important to women than food and water. Swear to god.

Great info. Thanks!

I appreciate your advice and perspective.

She will give you some bull crap excuse for her feelings. That she doesn't believe to be the reason for them. But wants you to believe it to be the reason. Only so you would leave the topic alone. And because she simply doesn't know why she feels that way. And she just wants you engaged.

Imagine if we were living in an alternate timeline where women remained true to their femininity and wouldn't try to chase roles better suited to masculinity while saying they're better suited for it than men

Your videos are amazing. Thank you so much for what you do. They way you explain how to related and understand women is phenomenal. I really appreciate you.

This is an interesting video and surprisingly helpful. It is a good communication tool to turn feelings into actionable understanding of her feelings while not blindly taking blame for something you don’t know about. Pretty healthy.

I tried the specific on the pay gap….the reactions were golden.

just so great ! keep going please

Your channel made more stable person than before. I look at my past If I didn't have proper guidance I would've become a monster. Reality of dating is harsh but you taught me how to handle it in a correct way. I am still suffering with mental issues. Still very scared and hopeless and uncertain of future. But atleast when I go I won't do it by hurting others.

Not doing harm when it’s the truth. The harm they’re referring to is a hurt ego - get over it. Keep it up, Alex. Love the content. *This comment was sponsored by Tiege Hanley 😎*

A very helpful video in dealing with emotionally charged accusations. So tiring and potentially destructive.

This is great advice once again. When asking my wife for more information the response was always “you should know this etc…” if I wasn’t getting the silent treatment. I know what you’re thinking but it’s OK, I left her a few years ago and am recovering now

Dude it's like you are talking about my trouble at work lately with my 2 female bosses, who leveled a lot of BS and accusations at me and when i ask the simple question what exactly did i do and when? They never can't give a specific occurance / day / thing that i did.... and after that tried to stop the discussion. Crazy!

Women make perfect sense when instead of trying to interpret what they are saying, you instead focus on what the words make you feel like doing. What you feel like doing is the point not the words themselves whenever the words are not meant to conceal or reenforce her own feelings. Women tend to view themselves as passengers and feelings as the drivers so being able to ignore being controlled by feelings is a huge attractive quality but also terrifying to them bc it makes them feel vulnerable.

I’m probably twice this guy’s age but he is very insightful. Pay attention and take this to heart. Guys had better wise up in this crazy dating/relationship environment.

You’re incredibly wise and erudite Alexander. I salute you. It’s such a sad thing that in order to have a successful relationship with a woman, you have to play a kind of game, as though you’re dealing with a child or a pet. Authentic, truthful relationships shouldn’t have to involve games.

It's the reaction of someone when reality contradicts their fantasy.

A girlfriend sounds like a full time job... :)

A boyfriend is not a therapist, make her get well before you go any further in a relationship.

They got one part right. "You should not start a discussion with two feminists."😄 Playing a video game would be more time productive!

Ah, subjectivity vs objectivity and not being able to tell the difference. A couple wakes up in the morning and she slugs him. Why? Because she had a dream that he was hitting on her best friend

Always feels good that I am not the only one who faced all these

The ad bruh ahahahahah

"Level vague accusations at you." Nailed it.

This episode was great.

I just realized something I'm my mother's punching bag damn

I like the question..' Could you be wrong?' The best filter for trash there is

Great content... 👍

A lion should never argue with donkeys.

Facts over feelings

Ha ha! That is so true. My wife sometimes tries to flip the script on me, even though she might be guilty in the unpleasant situation between us, by giving me vague accusations, using words like "always" or "every time". And each time I slow down her rant and try to get specific with her, she just has nothing to say really, and after a brief moment she usually becomes a purring cat again in order to diffuse the situation and take my mind off of it, which I don't really mind. Being vague is their weapon. Also changing the subject and throwing irrelevant things to knock you off your emotional state is their weapon too. So, all you need is just stay cool and specific, and it's very easy to do so, once you know how they play and what their agenda is.

This is probably the best mens rights kind of stuff I have seen, amongst quite a lot. I have always known that females are very emotional and therefore prone to very short term thinking. I haven't realised quite to what extent though as thinking of my own life experiences while whatching this so many memories came up exactly matching.

Oh Alex! Why are you doing this?? When exactly? Always! What exactly Everything!

Just found your channel, you got a new sub

My ex would argue with me and use words like "you always do this or that, or you never...

It's incredible the amount of delusion you can accumulate from being in a feminist bubble.

It's like trying to reason with an angry grizzly bear, and in the end you're just gonna get the claws across the face again.

Wow i did that before even knowing you and you made me proud of myself again. You start to doubt yourself if she attacks you as person without you knowing the spezific situation why she came to a conclusion. She would even shame me for not knowing what she means when i asked her.

There is no way I am going to live my life asking women millions of questions so they can learn better ways to criticize and manipulate.

She ain't wrong tho. You really shouldn't start a discussion with feminists.

Women nowadays life in lala land and are allergic to logic and facts that disturb their delusion.

This sounds like decent advice, but it also sounds like you're suggesting that men have the responsibility to be their girlfriend's therapist.

So a relationship is really an emotional babysitting job. Lol

@ 06:10 the question I would ask is 'What did I fail to do' ? If there was a coherent response, I would respond with 'Please say something when/if it happens again. You are not going to fix something if you don't know it is broken.

Think when I was young I definitely fell for a lot of what you said. But thinking back I can say I have probably been with only one or two of those high value women. How nice it would be to meet one of those high value women & discuss things like adults. I guess they are out there so I'm hopeful. 😁

all this time energy reinforces her center of the universe perspective.. .this attention is exactly what she what she really craves... may make a difference or more likely gets addicted to free therapy with a touch of drama. valid points with feelings vs reality perspective but if you have to constantly circle back to this ask yourself if the juice is worth the squeeze.