Imagine you meet a stranger on the street. You think it was a friendly-enough exchange, and then a few days later you go on youtube, and see a stealthcam video of yourself talking to that stranger, and he's breaking the interaction down like he's a frickin sportscaster after a football game.
imagine going on twitch and seeing thousands of women exploiting lonely men, not caring, then suddenly getting mad at a guy show men how to overcome their approach anxiety and live happy lives with women. You communists are completely evil to the core
This! I go a step further. I give a fake name, if they ask where I live I say the opposite side of town from where I actually live, 'where are you going?' lie 'how old are you?' lie 'where do you work?' lie lmao Lying is ok sometimes!! Edit- wait I just remembered I knew this one girl who would order mocktails and pretend to be drunk to see how guys would treat her. 10000 level IQ move tbh. I'm not a good enough actor to pull it off she was absolutely brilliant
If it's real, I feel so bad for her. She's obviously very nervous and confused. She's way too drunk for this. She asks if she's being arrested, so she's at least somewhat scared and seeing him as some kind of authority figure for some reason. She declines his advances and he keeps changing the plan to something more agreeable to get her isolated. Very gross.
Also never tell people you’re not familiar with where you are. If you need help getting somewhere ask someone who works somewhere in the area you are. You’d be surprised how many people get stalked, robbed, or even sadly in some cases murdered when they give up that info.
When I lived on campus during college I always called someone when I was uncomfortable even if I was by myself. It is an easy way to create a barrier. Let someone know what you're up to or where you're goin (friend, family, classmate, etc), text them and keep it simple. Ex: heading to class / just got out of class / study break for groceries / similar brief texts to let them know 'this is what I'm up to' I dint do fake info bc im not good at the improve of make stuff up but I'm great at coming up with legit reasons to leave the situation. Ex: I've gotta go I have a class to get to. If I were to make anything up I'd always include that someone was expecting me to be there, do something, whatever. Including other people always creates a buffer.
theres nothing creepy about it, shes clearly into it. Creepy is when a guy pursues a woman despite her giving a cold shoulder. How is her laughing loudly at his jokes and engaging him, and then messing with him as a test "rejecting"? You losers have no idea how women react and what their signals mean, keep your stupid anti male misandry to yourself
yeah im also thinking it has to be staged.. she was waaay too giggly and all open and shit. Wouldnt suprice me if he said to her after they ended the shot "you are doing a great job" while they walked over to the bar thing place. The dude was also caught using escorts a while back. But I mean so are probably many of these pua type of dudes who sell courses. Or they actually dont "pull" the girl but just go away with them and then get rejected.
Yeah, She knows he’s not putting any attention to anything she’s saying and you can almost see her struggling to be there . she’s getting paid or the man woke up without his wallet. Only kidney thieves would stand that man.
I wouldn't be surprised if he has staged things, but this one actually seems real. He got extremely lucky running into a young girl who was alone and didn't want to be, and he tricked her into thinking they were from the same place. She told him no with his advances that were way too fast and was on guard, it actually seemed natural. He's scum for filming it in secret and wearing her down, that's way worse that staging anything
Judging from her body language, her foot constantly moving and even at one point just anxiously shaking, you can tell she’s extremely nervous around him and only agreed to the one drink to get rid of him. Poor girl! I’ve been in that situation and it makes you afraid to say no when they are pushy like that.
I agree, the amount I regret not just saying "take a fucking hint" but it puts you in a weird mode that makes you feel forced to be nice, it preys on women's dislike of confrontation, they know they're manipulating and playing a game I hate it so much
its like he took it as a "ayee i can commit sexual assuat" permission. like WHAT. he saw that as a win. if i met a random drunk girl during the day alone id be worried if shes getting home safe
theres nothing evil or terrifying about it in the slightest, the woman clearly enjoyed the experience. Are you such an anti male bigot that you hate seeing any guy do well with women?
i hope people learn that if you have to go through all of this after someone rejects you early on, the person is sticking around out of genuine fear, and you did not get consent lol.
Right? Her body language is screaming that she wants to GTFO but is too scared too because this big ass dude is inches from her constantly and won't take hints or nothing and she is scared for her life but dorks look at it and go "bruh he spitting, she totally is into it" 🤦🏽
Its amazing youre claiming she rejected him when she clearly didnt, she is not afraid of him at all demonstrated by her testing him over and over and he passed everytime. The fact you are so delusional you think healthy male female interaction is "bad" is very telling, maybe drop the anti male feminist propaganda and wake up
The best part about this guy is if I ever feel bad about myself then I can remind myself "at least I'm not a 39 year old guy awkwardly trying to pick up drunk college girls"
@@huwdavies-tallon3305 yes I know particularly teenage and college aged woman. Young women basically. But also women in their 30s and much much older women love the young studs for a fling and some validation. So the well developed 19 yr old big boy stud (which is a pretty small minority of males) has his pick of ALL ages of women to fool around with.
I feel like he said he was drunk becuase after she admitted she had just had alcohol - he knew it seems really bad that a sober person is manipulating someone who is not sober.... This guy is a calculated manipulator. And everything he does and says is gross.
no he actually was drinking that day, he drank a lot in those days. Hes not manipulating her either, just trying to meet her, and hang out with her. Thats not manipulative its normal. You anti male bigots are insane
if he "pulled" her, it was not consensual. she has already said no multiple times (even in the VERY beginning) and tried to leave multiple times as well. and it's all documented! she didn't want to be there. coercion is not consent. it is good to see that at least some people (like yourself) get that though, because this is way more prevalent of an issue than dudes often realize simply because they aren't creepy themselves.
@@toxxict-rexx this is absolute Nonsense and a f*cking insult to genuine victims of r*pe, persuading someone to have sex is not r*pe in any way shape or form, I'm so sick of women who play the victim, honestly I can't count the amount of times I couldn't be bothered having sex, yet my boyfriend wanted to, I eventually just gave him it for variety of reasons, I would never ever have the Gaul to say that I didn't consent wheh I absolutely did. Blackmail is non consensual, threat of force is non consensual, me persuading you to change your mind absolutely IS consensual, stop being soft and making women look like a bunch of snowflakes, this is the same nonsense as women who say that regret is not consensual or that not paying an escort isn't consensual, this is just devaluing what actual victims go through. It reminds me of that trash rose McGowan, who claims she was assaulted, yet she took a bribe knowing exactly what he would do to other women, absolute low life, that started all this metoo nonsense, "oh somebody touched my leg, better ruin their life"
@@andrewwood763 "lemme teach you my ways, young grasshopper" lets the video play..."you see, here she said...." I don't think I've ever seen a bigger tool in my life lol
@@andrewwood763 if some strange dude ever tried to touch or hug me right after meeting me I'd probably run away as fast as I can lol ( and like Gunnar mentioned, I'm one of those women that find it hard to say no) I don't care that I'd look ridiculous so long as I get as far away from that weirdo as possible, so you're doing just fine by being respectful to women lol
its because Gunnar is so awkard and cringe with women that he hates on a dude that is clearly succeeding, it bothers him that this woman enjoyed the experience enough to date John. Since he has nothing he just has to pretend this was somehow evil.
This dude’s entire game plan is be boring, obnoxious, lie, and be as creepy as possible. Fail. Repeat. Fail. Repeat 8x. Post the 1 success of the drunk girl you took advantage of 🤨
Deep down they want emotional connection and mental well-being. Too bad the narcissistic approach is chase dopamine and positive feelings, don’t work on yourself to become stronger or happier. It becomes like a mental loop for them to chase toxic dynamics and patterns when wanting to sleep with women, until one day they finally get it but it becomes terribly hard to grow up.
That dude has the most smug, disgusting, sociopathic vibe I've ever seen. I watched a video where he was rating pua's out of curiosity. He talks like an 8th grade bully you'd see in a kids movie, where he just insults everyone with "idiot" or "dummy." And It's as if his life's purpose is devoted to how many women he sleeps with, the higher the body count the more successful you are, and the more of a winner you are. It's truly pathetic.
Yep. He's even rated their partners and basically says how ugly they are. He then shows his girlfriend at the end and if you see her, you'll no doubt be wondering if he's in a position to be knocking down anyone else's girlfriend.
In college, I had a "friend", whose catch phrase could legitimately be "pussy is pussy" this MF would bring 1-2s home/to our dorms, mack on them and talk shit about it lol. Guy was 6'3ish, like 180lbs. It's not like he was an unattractive guy by any means, but I still get haunted about some of the atrocities he did and it's been like 13 years haha
calling girls 1 to 2s aint really it either bro... regardless of if the girl in the video is attractive or not, john pressuring her relentlessly and bragging about having a one night stand with her at the end is as irksome as your pal smack talking his hits. for all that is holy i hope everyone is right and the whole video is staged.
It really is a Catch 22 when dealing with these assholes. On one hand they’re so socially inept that they don’t understand that the person they’re talking to is trying to politely excuse themselves but on the other hand as a woman myself, you don’t know what these people are capable of. Sure they seem cringey and creepy but you have no idea how they will react to you flat out rejecting them. They might blow up and do something violent. So really there is no good way to deal with these creeps, which fucking sucks. I usually go with flat out rejection if I’m with a group of people but if I’m by myself I’ll try to find an escape.
People like him don't even remotely care about what the other person is trying to do and how they are feeling. People like him aren't even bothered by the other person's experience, their own experience wouldn't be ruined if they knew the other person was uncomfortable but ' *complying* ' nevertheless... That's literally an animal, not a man...
she isnt trying to politely excuse herself, youre simply delusional and think that about every woman out there when most actually enjoy confident men approaching them in a calibrated way, which he did here.
@@MElixirDNBTrue. There have been women who have thanked me for approaching them even if they weren't interested. And then there are the women who just appreciate you right away. Those are the best 😍
@@OminousIllustrations same here, majority of the time women are very happy or at leats politely reject you , only a handful out of many will be outright rude or nasty
If he’s not embarrassed watching his own video back, but Gunnar gets second hand embarrassment, does that make my embarrassment second or third hand embarrassment?
Well that depends. Do you feel embarrassed by the street/bar footage? That's second hand embarrassment. Do you feel embarrassed by the guy commenting on his footage? In that case you have to add a 15% increment, so 2.3 hand embarrassment. If it's Gunnar's reaction that triggers your embarrassment that's obviously 3rd hand embarrassment. Now if it is all of those combined, you must take the average of those values, so I'd say that, to qualify what you probably felt, it was 2.44 hand embarrassment.
I can't get over how proud he is of himself for showing off this awkward attempt at getting that girl's attention. Like, anyone else can see that this is clearly not working and that girl just wants him to be gone and even calls him out multiple times for not listening to her and making her uncomfortable, clearly seeing right through him, but he just thinks he he nailed it?? He laughs at his own "fucking around" technique and his supposed jokes while the girl just wants to get out of there. I mean it takes a special kind of delusional to be like that
It wasnt awkward, she liked it quite obviously. "Its not working"! lmao are you actually this delusional? She went home with him. Thats not something ppl do when they arent into a person
@@MElixirDNBshe went home with him because he wouldn’t take no for an answer and she figured it wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world. It was a horrible attempt that somehow succeeded
@@marcusmcgraw3519 Lmao no, you are delusional as hell and dont understand women whatsoever. She was clearly enjoying herself. White knights like you imagine women are in these make believe situations where they would GO HOME WITH A GUY THEY DONT LIKE.. you need mental help lol
@@MElixirDNB she's absolutely a paid actor. But I know how taint and sneacuck fans have trouble differentiating reality from fiction, hope you can fix that one day. It's especially funny that you believe it's real when there are countless "pickup" artists that have been exposed as using actresses to get the content they want, but ig that hurts your feefees.
@@marcusmcgraw3519 I'm sure in a few years he'll be exposed for using actresses to invent false scenarios to get content and to get dweebs to believe they can get girls and that there's some "secret magical hack" that will get you any woman, when in reality life doesn't work like that. This guy is a scam artist that preys on weak and lonely men who would rather a quick easy fix at getting with a woman than just being a normal, decent human. I'm so glad women are giving up on men, I'm sorry for the nice men that genuinely cannot get into a relationship but the rest of them absolutely deserve this "epidemic" of loneliness men are experiencing.
As a girl whose had this happen to we learn to just be nice and seem interested in hopes they won’t become aggressive and hurt us. Being nice got me followed for blocks went to public area with lots of people sat close to a family both times. Being rude made them aggressive. Powerwalking past led them to run after me shouting at me. I do not know the best way to handle this in conversation. Best way I’ve found be loud stick with a crowd out in open lots of people make eye contact with crowd members
@@hypergamyusa1376 we’re not talking about sane people ha. We’re talking about the type of guys who follow you throughout the day who won’t let you leave who grab you. I don’t think the guy who kept following me talking to me cared when he grabbed me but yea that should work on a sane person
for the record, resident NYer here, you'll get a fine, but unless the cop is really being a dick that day, it's highly unlikely that you get arrested for jumping the turnstile. Especially if it was broken anyway. cant tell you how many times ive asked to just go in bc my train was there and the cop said yeah. they dont really care about that
I am glad I am not the only one that finds it really uncomfortable every time he says compliance, ya this moslty is just trying to teach you to be really pushy and manipulative
It reminds me of Dennis from it’s always sunny who is a caricature of these sorts of people. Extra disturbing that there are people doing it unironically
So, his game is find a drunk girl when she repeatedly denies you, coerce her into getting more drunk and then manipulation… got it… how is this guy not in jail again?
To be fair, this has been the number one strategy of scumbags since the dawn of time. Which is why women are so defensive by the age of 20. A bunch of encounters with guys who try to have sex with them while they're compromised who don't care if they live or die once they're finished with them. I feel so bad for women, the world for them is full of predators.
This is exactly why I don’t agree with casual sex, or sex before marriage at all. If more women would decide to wait, men like this wouldn’t be able to manipulate so many women, and those women wouldn’t have to feel regret
Ok, this guy is full of shit, but the fact that you admitted to having one night stands with guys like him means you positively reinforced that... so that's your fault.
So I just want to point out that every guy on Chris Hansen's 'to catch a predator," asks the decoy, "where's my hug?" Im waiting for Chris's cameras to come out behind the curtain on this guy and say, "take a seat!"
If the uncomfortable body language didn't give this one away, the "Why are you so tall" followed by the "If you're gonna kill me I don't trust you" should have made clear how scared the woman is. Damn this was hard to watch.
Yeah, alongside the clear attempts to end the conversation. "I was trying to find my bearings before you came up to me-". "Oh, well, I have to meet a friend-". "OK, look only X then I have to leave-" This poor woman.
He's so proud of himself and this is rough, he's such a creepy ass dude and she's obviously extremely uncomfortable. Dude is selling a course and can't even remember her name after this entire time.
When you said he looks like a serial killer because of his Instagram, I wondered…have we ever done a follow up with these girls? Are they still living? because dude is straight up sociopathic.
If he does "succeed" at picking up this woman. It's probably because she wanted to end the encounter more quickly. Just to get rid of him or he got her more inebriated. She's obviously makes a couple of excuses to leave but he is just doesn't let her. She looks so uncomfortable. You can see it. She's trying to get away. I bet she's only playing along cuz She's afraid he would react aggressively if rejected. Ugh.
I read, "The Game" in college, so it's been a long time. From what I remember, Neill Strauss didn't, "get out" as you stated. He got married. I'm pretty sure the book takes place over a 3-5 year span, not 10. The overall message of the book (in my opinion) is these guys aren't badass playboy ladykillers like Neil initially thought they were. They're nerds who just want to be loved and you see that displayed throughout the book.
As a New Yorker, there are few places as unsexy as Union Square to want to be amorous with strangers. He might as well went to Times Square to pick up women lol.
When you said « yes that’s what anybody drunk walking the streets of NYC would want to hear » about a creepy man pretty much hunting them down to try to sleep with them, it really hit home that some guys don’t get it. They don’t get why that’s creepy, clearly you do! And I appreciate you sharing your opinion to other young men who don’t understand that this isn’t cool, even if you do get the date with the girl, it’s cringe at best and scary at worst! Thank you for spreading a good opinion
I’m not gonna lie the first thing I thought after reading your comment was “holy shit HE DOES”, then the second thought was “lmao I wonder if he gets his ‘ass eaten and dick sucked at the same time’ (as dearest Nick proclaims) in the hordes of threesomes this guy grossly brags about” Final verdict: I hate them both. At least Hard ‘The Rock’ Nick doesn’t base his entire career off of being a predator, and just does it on the side instead
This is literally serial killer behavior. Targeting an alone drunk women who’s giving away too much information. Asking about ethnicity and trying to get her alone? Literally a murderer!!!!
The worst part is, he has a video where he shows an email from Myron Gaines, from FreshandFit, asking him for advice and trying to book a session or trade, which ended up being a who's more Alpha argument!
hi me again, watched part 2. he doesn’t film her agreeing to go back to his place or her place, it cuts off with them supposedly going to his friends and he says “. we did hook up, for the record”. but I didn’t see any point she was into him other than being grateful he carried her umbrella.
He has game like Dennis from Its Always Sunny. At first charming and corny. Than concernedly start to get aggressive. You want to leave but you feel a low level of intent. Plus he ends it with of course the implication.
I thought of that too... then went home and watched The DENNIS Sytem and laughed my ass off for the 1000th time. Sad thing is, one is a fictional character and one is a caricature of himself. Guys like this pos are vile.
This caused me actual pain to watch like, this guy is so creepy and he thinks he's got the best techniques. He's out here manipulating women and not taking no for an answer despite the number of nos he's getting
Gunner, I feel legitimately disgusted. Next time you do a video like this please end it with like a puppy video or something. You can't just show us this garbage than leave, it's not fair to your fans.
There is one infield where JA strikes out with a Russian Victoria Secret model, also in NY. JA is so socially unaware that he thought that that cringefest was good enough to post it for his community. It was sad. The girl was sumply being polite which JA saw it as green light. The guy totally lacks social awareness.
She told him she was drunk and he immediately had to touch her. I mean I know it was just a hug, but like what??!! She's not in her normal frame of mind, not saying she was wasted, and on top of that she was a lil shaken up from that machine thing not working. He just should have said nice to meet you and walked away or just made sure she was able to get to her next destination safely. Yeah, super creepy. Plus, did anyone see that one guy with the black jacket on standing there, watching them?? I swear it looked as if he was pretending to be on his phone and was listening trying to make sure the girl wasn't in any danger.
Alright, I’m a young man and I made a mistake. I didn’t smash the like button, even if I had already watched half of the video. But I’m growing and learning and I *take responsibility*. Also for the next stunt, you could turn yourself into a black hole, since your channel is supermassively entertaining and if you do It, then I’m going to swim all around the earth in about 1 year. Keep going, *killer*!
@@alienshroomhead7203 so awkward. I used to do something similar but it wasn't to hit on women (honest!) I'm just super awkward but I also have a knack for faces. My friends used to call me the human IMDB. I recognize background and side characters like nobody's business. So when I saw a woman who looked like a celebrity (or even somebody I knew sometimes) I would tell them. I know I made a scant few feel good about themselves, but as for the rest...😬😬
So these "pick up artists" go after drunken women and try to get them more drunk. That's just sad and shows that their "technique" or whatever they call it only works when a woman is inebriated. I've seen guys do this at parties. They go after the drunkest women. I always hated that.
I love how the guy who wrote the book looked at his actions afterward and felt shame and regret upon realizing what he had done to other people for his own pleasure. Mad respect
@Nox_VanquisherOfTroons no. If you’re a tall skinny Joe then you’re not going to get respected any more than the average joe. Stop idealizing being tall. It does not matter as much as people think.
@Nox_VanquisherOfTroons you’re the one coping here. Tell me you have never dated without telling me. Height is more of a threshold thing. As long as you’re not super short you’re good.
