from stream → / gunnartvlive Streams on tues / thurs 9pm est WOMANESE STREAM ON 10/18 9PM EST Edited by: / guiltydogsproductions JOIN THE DISCORD → / discord
Yo guys be real ones and please go support Editor Nick's new vid on Addison Rae's dad it'll make you rofl lolz ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-N6Q9undPSE8.html&ab_channel=GuiltyDogsProductions
I do agree body count should be zero or needs to be a good reason behind it not being zero. I just wouldn't be comfortable dating someone who has killed people
@@Largentina. Exactly! Plus the higher their body count the sloppier they get. I don't want a long distance relationship where I'll have to always be the one visiting...
Something tells me that “who hurt you” doesn’t apply in this case. I think “who didn’t give in to your every whim and in that moment showed you that you lack the power you thought you were entitled to” is a more fitting question.
@@_ITC_ nah, she's right. Too many dudes are entitled like this and then get bitter when they realise women are autonomous human beings and don't simply exist for men to do as they please to do them.
this guy literally said "women are DESIGNED to SEEK THE BEST POSSIBLE OPTION because of BIOLOGICAL HYPERGAMY" like it was some kind of epic own of womankind to observe that if you treat her badly she'll leave you for someone better
Every time I see this "women hypergamy bad(((" talk, I can't help but wonder if all other guys actually like, settle for literally whoever? I missed out on something Ig
The Tinder Swindler dude took the girls to fancy places to establish that he was a rich man so he could ask to borrow money later and they’d think he’d be able to pay them back quickly, not to make them feel “out of place” in order to avoid complacency.
Yep you are correct about the motive. This guy is giving 'advice' acting like he knows how women think but shows his inability to correctly asses behaviour in that comment.
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk growing up I was really confused when I heard the term gold digger and how it was mostly associated with women, because the amount of dudes I'd seen living off of women while providing nothing has been countless times.
You can absolutely give a kid your last name, it's called adoption. Our dad legally adopted us after he married our mom and we got his last name. Never looked back on the pos that was our bio dad.
If the same men who have that mentality were to be raised by a step-dad who they would love for giving them the fatherhood that every child deserves, they'd look at it differently.
As a dude from the UK I could close my eyes and hear the static from his nylon tracksuit. I bet the book he's reading is well past its return to the library date
Chronically online + low or no self worth + the ease of shifting “responsibility” for personal development on an entire other gender + a world full of grifters = the dating advice space
I'm a stepdad and it's great. My stepson's father shares custody, we get along great, and my (now) wife is a great stepmom to my kids. The idea that you have no "authority" over a stepchild is ridiculous, since my wife and I set the rules in the house for all the kids, treat all the kids equally, and individual relationships with each kid regardless of whether they're one of "mine" or "hers". What an asinine take this guy has.
whenever i hear that shit im like?? i have authority over all children everywhere bc im an adult. i dont exercise it without cause because that'd be weird but if i saw some kid like idk licking the floor and i yelled at them to cut that shit out i bet theyd listen. kids are practically designed to listen to adults. how beta are you that you think you couldnt reason with a child you arent related to?
i have the utmost respect for good stepdads, even just ok stepdads that are trying. that's not an easy role. i tried and just can't, and none of the reasons why are the reasons described in the video
Who’s gonna tell this guy that his blood and name doesn’t mean anything if you don’t put ideals and values behind it, especially when your ideals and values are THAT
yooo that’s why he doesn’t wanna date a single mom bc he doesn’t wann have to compete with her kid HE wants to be her only kid that she takes care of! we cracked the case 😂
You are totally right about why “bad boys” are attractive. They aren’t desperate. And that thing about biological basis of attraction is so ridiculous. There’s a huge variety of types that different people are attracted to.
Amen. Guys who act like this dude are doomed to be forever lonely. He's a horrible person above all things and a psycho to top it off. Should be red flagged all over internet so no poor girl would ever have to suffer through trying to save him. Dude is a human equivalent of Titanic.
Same with people colouring their hair… tattoos and coloured hair works in the way poisonous species are super colourful… to repel predators. Giving human beings, specifically women and trans people, the superhuman ability to deter and repulse predatory men…
As an adopted person, the first TikTok really set the mood for me and I already knew what kind of person that guy was. You don't pass your DNA so nothing's in it for you lmao. So I guess to him (and his followers) my parents aren't my real parents? Hell to him I'm probably not even supposed to be living in my own country since I was born Korean but adopted by French parents? Never mind that I was brought up French, have always been speaking French, and don't really speak Korean lmao. I find these people very funny, like DNA/blood's soOOoo important, what are we in 1387?? Is he royalty? or maybe his blood is super precious because it can cure cancer that's why! /s Also yeah fyi Gunnar: for the biological family in an adoptive or foster family setting, I always advise people to use the adjective ‘biological’ (parents/mother/father/siblings/etc.) instead of ‘real’ or 'actual'- because if they are the 'real' ones, it implies the adoptive family is 'fake' (when by all logic it should be the other way around in most cases). I also sometimes use ‘the person(s) who birthed/conceived me’ but it’s a bit longer lol. Ofc that's just my opinion and I don't talk for every adopted person, but it’s always something I inform people of.
these dudes fr roleplay that theyre in the prehistoric times istg. acting like passing on "alpha" dna is so important. like you work a 9 to 5, you dont have to worry about whether your offspring will survive the winter
As soon as this person starts talking, my wife is pretty much every red flag he points out. If people like this had been around when I was younger, he might have cost me a 20 year marriage, my oldest son who I've raised since he was 9 months old (has my last name because I adopted him, someone clue him in on this). She's been everything I could have ever wanted, stuck with me through everything (including 3 deployments). I'm thankful people like this didn't have a platform like the internet when I was young.
I'm old and I'm married to the perfect man for me. You give good advice. I was young and stupid the first time I got married and I married someone who was abusive and unfaithful. My life is only good because my husband picked up the pieces of my broken life and I will forever be loyal and grateful to him.
My bio dad wasn’t really in my life and my stepdad stepped up, even AFTER he divorced my mom… still is my dad and talk to him daily. One thing my bio dad would say to me growing up is that he wanted a boy to pass down his last name, and would guilt me FOR BEING BORN A GIRL. (he only has one kid, didn’t want any, and his siblings all have girls; so he’d say that i was the last hope to continue the family name and I FAILED) 🤣🤣🤣 wild takes in this, my bio dad probably watches his vids
I've been married for 20 years and change. I married a single mother, adopted my stepson, had another kid, got a vasectomy. F**k this guy. If you love her, the kid is only a deal-breaker if you let it be. I hope that advice guy stays well away from women.
& to have authority over them like that sounds scary i mean ofc i want my kids to respect me but i’m more focused on teaching & leading them in being a functional being in society
Yeah, this is why women are opting out. He doesn't even want to be a father. Well only by name. These dudes want the girl to work cook clean and care for children, and he just wants to come home and whine commands.
I'm glad this guy told me I'm not girlfriend material because of my tattoos. I guess I need to go tell my boyfriend of almost 8 years that he has to break up with me
It's weird how in Western countries men care so much about body counts coz in my country people never ask. If it comes up in conversation, fine, but it's rare for people to directly ask how many people you've been with. And guys in my country actually prefer NOT to hookup with virgins anyway
exactly virgins should wait for other virgins why go for someone with experience or vice versa if that’s not what you want. these type of men will pursue virgins then turn around and whine that they’re inexperienced and eventually leave them or cheat on them for someone more experienced. they don’t care about virginity, they care about controlling someone who they see as “ideal”
Just found your channel and I’m obsessed! I don’t have the attention span for watching people live usually so I love when streamers start making RU-vid videos that put everything in a nice little video for us lol
you know what I want to see? a man who's like: "raise another man's kid? you bet I will! I will be better then that kid's actual dad! I will make them love me more then you could ever imagine! You kid? no! Mine! Only mine!" competitive parenting, let's go men. flex on the other man by stealing their girl _and_ their kids.
I don’t get the issue with single moms. I was the kid of a single mom, had a runaway father. My mom remarried to a really great guy who adopted me a few years later. There is absolutely no difference in relationship between my dad and I than there would be if he was my biological father besides the fact that I have an extra sentence to use in a heated teenager vs dad fight (which luckily doesn’t happen often)
7:45 when it comes to "bad boys' whatamy women find appealing about them is what they represent. They represent adventure, freedom, and rebelling against authority (or whatever doesnt suit your moral code). Usually women who are attracted to bad boys (and this can be true for men who like bad girls) often lack adventure and thrill in their lives. Maybe they feel restricted, theyre always playing by the rules. The bad boy/bad girl represents a fantasy that we too can be free and take exciting risks. The other side to this is some people are attracted to the bad boy/bad girl because of the 'i can fix him/her and we'll live happily ever after" fantasy
Two things. 1. "Red flag if she's a single, female woman" - so that's where I'm going wrong, I've been going after single, male women! Cheers for the help, Gunnar! 😜😂 2. Nicw Welsh accent, Gunnar! You had to have done that before or at least practiced it because dude, that was on point!
It’s nice to see him defending single mothers, I’m 21 with an almost 2 year old, people can assume his father left me but they’d be wrong, I was the one that left because it was so toxic, constant lies, manipulation, etc. I was miserable so I chose to leave an wish I had sooner. It hurts hearing people say it’s a red flag because no, I’m just trying to make a better life for my son and myself even if it means being on my own. My baby deserves so much more. I’m in college full time because I want to do right by my son and get the best job I can get. Don’t judge just by what you THINK happened. Thank you Gunnar ✨
Regarding raising someone else's child. It depends, because on one hand, it complicates things, since you'd need a compatibility of 3 people, not just 2 in terms of personality and how you get along. I don't pass on my DNA? It doesn't matter that much, I'm all for adoptions. Last name? That would count for me, to continue the family line. I would have some name changes, like attaching my name to his/her existing one. 0 authority? Well, it is lower since you're not his/her biological parent, so they'll probably feel less bound to you, since you weren't there all along the way, for their entire life. But on the other hand, I guess you can earn enough trust/credit/love to make it work. But yes, you might not ever be on the same level as a biological parent in the child's eyes. It depends on the exact circumstances of each case though. But let's be honest, as a step-parent (dad or mom) you start with a handicap compared to a biological parent. You might compensate for it, sure, but it takes more work to reach a good level than a biological parent would need.
As someone who was raised by my step dad and consider him more of a father figure than my bio dad (I love my bio dad but my sister and I weren’t super high on his priority list growing up 😅), I hate that “don’t raise another man’s child” shit.
Y'know what's the biggest fail of all these "dating advice givers" ever? They generalize and both humans AND relationships are way the fuck more complicated than what can be explained in a short video. Every single person and interpersonal relationship/situation is completely different from each other. So all of the TopGs are just farting in the wind. Even those in the 90s .. so called "pick up ARTists" bahaha
For real. You can’t make a guide for all relationships and even if you could, there’s no way you would achieve that in a short form video app like TikTok. It just doesn’t allow for the time necessary to analyze complex relationships like the one humans form. Heck, even birds and mammals have more complex reasoning for their relationships. But these people can still scam some people for a good profit by boiling everything down to simple and easy to understand cliches
I have been with my girl for about 14 months now.We have known each other since 2018.I always said"The best Relationships,are based on the best Friendships".Proper communication is key,willing to make small sacrifices is important.If you are planning a child or two,folks please,plan at least 2-3 years in advance(financially etc.)Good Luck To All✌❤
Holy God i didn't get thru 4min and I already know a blind squirrel can give better dating advice. It's gonna be a struggle Guns.. but your excellent humor is everything! I should watch your Twitch coz i keep agreeing with the comments.. but there's just not enough hours in the day when you have a dementia parent. My Mom never remarried. I'm low-key glad, coz I've seen too many abusive fathers in my country (Bosnia.. but I'm in USA for like ages, longer than you're alive probs).
Like you pointed out, the guy doesn't have a clue what red flags are. Red flags are warning signs for bigger things so if he doesn't want to date someone with a kid a red flag would be that she keeps large amounts of children's toys at her place.
Im so weirded out by men calling themselves man but when they talk about women they they say ‘girl’. An example of that is the description in one of the videos we watched of this dude is ‘if your girl ever #datingtipsformen’.
Bro, to the first one, I have a multiple friends who are extremely glad that someone dated their adult moms, because now they have a father in their life.
1:30 he is right in the sense that if the child is shared custody, you may get into heartbreaking situations every now and then. Having a child that is not truly yours is not cool.
