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Tends to happen when they constantly justify cheating on their women. You'll never see a more paranoid man than a hitman. They always live in fear of being hunted down. Kinda like cheaters
The lesson here: Control your girlfriend's every move, practically force her to stay in your house all of the time, never let her see her friends or family, and NEVER trust her because why would you trust someone you love? Obviously. Finally, treat her like a trophy that other men are salvating to get and keep her from doing anything at all costs because she obviously has no free will or self control. What great and wonderful life lessons, this guy is definitely not unstable emotionally :)
Ironically these weird standards these chad male dudes make. Id meet perfectly just because ironically I always stay home, keep to myself, hate human interaction especially men. I love cleaning and cooking. Blah blah. In theory a “perfect” house wife. But I’d never date or be with someone like them. I feel like being with someone like that I’d want to go out just to get away from them. I dunno I just find it funny because they say something like “I woman shouldn’t do this” and I don’t do it naturally but I’m still grossed out. But if just love to argue with one. Because to their standards, they got nothing on me.
@layladavis02 Yeah it'd really weird how they think, the problem is they can't see that women are people who can CHOOSE to like stereotypical "houswife" activities or not. Even if you fit their standards, I bet they'd find something they don't like just because you don't agree with their d*mbass bullsh*t lol
@@layladavis02 same here, these douches just take all the housework, amazing dishes that you make etc. for granted, and frankly I don't need someone so dense and ungrateful in my life
I remember realizing my friend was a psycho like this with his wife. I couldn't believe it was real. When he walked away I remember looking at his wife and saying " is he being serious?" And she just nodded and said yes. They got divorced shortly after. She was a perfect wife too. He will never find anyone close to her level. She got married to another friend years later. He treats her well.
My husband told me on our wedding night he made a mistake.. so i asked him if he wanted an annulment.. he said no...hmmm. SO confusing. Pure misogyny. He married me to abuse me.
The shower thing drives me insane because they also try to teach you that if she takes a shower when she comes home it’s because she’s washing off another man! So when tf are we supposed to shower?
As an extremely hot woman who can’t do laundry my favorite thing about being extremely hot is that I cheat on my boyfriend specifically at work or while I’m taking a shit. If all men could speak womanese my life would be over 👎
Don't forget to travel as much as possible not to see new places, old friends/family or for work, but to cheat on your boyfriend, because he isn't mean to you so he deserves it i guess.......
@@grungepen ummm didnt know I couldn't speak about someone in literally not attracted to. He reminds me of my brother so I can't make jokes? Thank you RU-vid police! In glad in gay as fuck and in a relationship. So please! Keep up the good work with it Sherlock. Because you know it all!
@@sammaysam8953 are you kidding??? Is this satire?? bruh I was joking. I was going with YOUR joke. I was joking WITH you, but you're jumping to conclusions thinking I'm coming at you. Literally what the fuck did you want me to say?? You come out of fucking nowhere with this Wattpad level shit, and then when I try to make it funny even when it never was in the first place, you get mad at me 💀 that's clown behavior
Does this guy not realize that most jobs want employees to dress somewhat nice and would definitely not be cool with someone not wearing work appropriate clothes or showering? My guy wants to live in the handmaid's tale... but after editing this I obviously did tell my girlfriend she can't use her phone in the bathroom anymore. Everyone knows people always want to cheat on their partner while they're poopin.
Don’t tell him about customer service roles, that’s dozens of guys to bang. Cashier? More like dick lineup. That’s why she’s smelling reasonable after all /s 😂😂😂
yeah you're right. but even so, shouldn't she be able to literally just take care of her own body & be clean for her own sake? thats insane that he's pretty much asking her to become unkempt to go out in public just so that she feels insecure and in theory, wont be as attractive since she's unhygenic. hes sort of sacrificing her health too. its so sick & twisted to think that way
@@talloncusack Oh absolutely! The "advice" is vile and dehumanizing to begin with. I just was adding more to that from a job retention angle. No one should be forced to not take care of/clean their body because their partner is insecure.
How about this, treat your s/o like a human being and if they don’t appreciate that you can find someone who does, they clearly have some deep seated trauma to work out on their own
If someone was really looking for every possible opportunity to cheat on you then chances are they will find a way, I like how most of this advice is basically " a woman that takes pride in herself or has experienced life in any way, nuh uh , major red flag" lol
This guy was on a podcast explaining how he got played by a 19 yo girl at 30. He DEFINITELY has a chip on his shoulder, it's actually a crazy video if you guys check it out. He basically was obsessed with her, her boyfriend got out of prison, and he continued to see her at the same time as the other guy, even going as far to propose to her 😂.
So he thinks teenagers with their hormones going wild and had a boyfriend in Prison sounds like she had some hard teen years and not a lot of positive relationship experience. But the 30 year old man bases every single woman on that ONE girl. I’ve had some really rotten dates and my ex-husband of 22 years (20 of them pretty happy) had a midlife crisis in his 40’s and decided he wanted a baby (he went and got the snip on his own no pressure. Then emotionally abused me for 2 years as his way of being able to be the victim because I eventually did ask him to leave. Main reason was I couldn’t do everything I used to after a severe car accident. And I STILL would never say all men are bad or cheaters. Young people wasting their lives living by these rules is so sad. Like just go on a date and have fun activity!
@@thepubknight6144 No, that's not right. This chick is in her 40s too, he's admitted as much, and that they lied about her age previously. Also, the 19 year old the original comment was referring to is a totally different person. He is a pathetic dude all around, but some of his anger towards women is likely spawned from his screwed up "relationship" with this teenager who was a single mother at 13 and had some serious struggles with addiction, along with an 'on again/off again' thing with her baby's father (the guy in prison). That chick had some clear issues of her own, but as far as the way she treated/affected Donovan... I put a significant amount of the onus on him for not knowing better than to get involved with someone like that, let alone going back to her over and over, just cause she was hot... specifically when he was over 30years old at the time. But no, that chick was not Devin (his current partner).
"her lipstick is PERFECT..." this is somehow what broke me lol. i can't believe a woman who wears makeup would say this line with a straight face. of course her lipstick is perfect... nobody applies lipstick to NOT be perfect! even a blurred or blotted lip with a soft edge will look "perfect" because lipstick is supposed to look GOOD on you.
I’ve only seen women JOKING about going on dates to get free food and it’s all been online. I’ve never met anyone doing that and all my friends look for serious relationships when dating so idk maybe people do but no one I know!
On Charlotte Dobres channel she talks about how she knew a girl that would go on tinder dates every night to get free dinner with no plans of seeing them again 😐
I've known chicks IRL who will go on dates for the food - but, they're literally meeting men, which is the group of people murdering the most women, so, like, fair enough. If you're willing to risk your life for a free meal, by all means get that plate, girl
I'm too invested in those two. Donovan once stole from his family to propose to a craq addict. Then once he got with the currevt girl they lied about her having children. He scammed his dad and then said his dad is a coward for not talking to him and going to the police. This has kept me entertained for years.
He has the worldview of a 14 year old boy who got dumped (and cheated on) once so he starts to hate all women. The sad and dangerous thing is there are other 14 year olds that will take this seriously
Dude is so insecure he wants to hide her in an ivory tower so she cant cheat on him. I used to be like this and its sooo wrong. His insecurities will definitely chase her away.
good on you for owning up to that and fixing it!! we need way more self aware people who are willing to own up to their mistakes instead of doing what this guy does and projecting their own insecurities onto literally everybody else.
It's so awesome that you were able to grow and realize that wasn't a good mindset! It can be hard to accept when you've got a bad take so I thinks it's cool you got to a place where you recognized your view on things was skewed and get yourself right.
I feel like the "sloppy work seconds" wasn't even necessarily about cheating at work, but more about a man being mad that a woman doesn't look as perfect and put together after an 8 hour work day and like, being mad that they don't come home and reapply their shit for them.
Hey Gunnar, as someone who has been looking into “alpha male dating” thing looong before it became mainstream/redpill thing, I can tell you right now that the “womanese” thing has been around since the early 2000s. I remember going to the dating forums from that time and seeing guys talk about “womanese”. I assume this is why it is a recurring concept in all of those “dating gurus’” system of beliefs.
Just the word "Womanese" sounds like something that would've acted as a red flag. Like if i saw some shit like that on a self help video I'm trying to watch, I am DIPPING. Getting away from that as fast as I can.
The funny part is that the whole "alpha male" term involves leading other men. These red pill dudes don't seem to have any close male friends. It seems the reason they can't be friends with women is because they can't be friends with anyone.
Yeah, i follow him and took that advice, I told my gf to get her ass to the fridge and get me some water, she said she had to go to the shop, cause we're out, I'm still waiting on that water, do you guys think she actually went to get water? it was last week so I don't know what's taking her so long
I'd not go out for a year, just in case she comes back so you can chastise her . Don't worry you don't need food, and in the meantime, you wouldn't want to be afflicted by another woman.
@@stampandscrap7494 really? i was thinking of just phoning here incessantly and switching between chastising her swiftly followed up with "Im so sorry babe" and so on, girls luv that, right?
I will say I have run into one person on a dating app who only added me cause I worked in healthcare and expected me to pay for the date. (was a dinner) and not only that, I'm female, and she told me she isn't even gay, she just thinks other girls won't get angry at being used by another girl. Mind you, I don't use dating apps a whole lot, and this was the only time this happened back in Uni days.
Part of me agrees she’s an asshole grifter and part of me is like how fucking hungry do you have to be? The date is now about her application for SNAP grocery assistance and then im leaving her with an appetizer
I’m so sorry that occurred. I have to look fancy for work too and I’ve never gotten that from a date, but I do have acquaintances who have pulled that so I understand. I hope that never happens again and you deserve better!
Yup dated this girl for awhile broke up on good terms we were hanging out she tells me she’s talking to guys for food and uses tinder for free food. A month later when haven’t talked in a while got a message saying “hey can I you send me $20 for dinner, I can’t eat tonight” I knew damn well she can eat food it’s just not what she wanted. Haven’t talked to her in over a year, and she still trying it. She tried to pull it on one of my friends later on lmao
I dated a woman for nearly a year who said she would go on dates to eat food then leave... she was also a fucking psychopath who tried to stab me 6 months later though (among other things, I am an expert in ignoring red flags) so I'm pretty sure she was an outlier. She also had a public humiliation fetish, and was rampantly homophobic even though we were both bisexual. I am literally writing a story about that relationship as therapy...
"Hi, is this John? Hey, John, my name is Harold. You don't know me, but I work with your wife. I just wanted to let you know that she showed up to work today, smelling like soap. I'm so sorry you had to find out like this.
Dude someone really wronged this guy in his past lmao and now his perception of dating and women is entirely based upon one really bad experience he had
Litterally, the fact that he says basically all women cheat is so dumb but hilariously delusional. I’ve only been in one relationship BECAUSE I was never considered attractive and we broke up because he was the toxic one LMAO I would never even consider cheating as alternate
Let me tell you something young one. *Women do take advantage of men for money and food* Really try to start independently think about what gunnar disagrees with and youll find he’s defending a narrative instead of listening as a person
@@gpercreeper9413 You mean the narrative that all women are evil monsters that do nothing but lie and cheat in every interaction they ever have??? Yeah can't see why he would find a problem with that one
To be fair, I did go on Tinder dates solely to have the guys buy me alcohol. And, yes, I was a piece of shit person. However, I was also an out of control, unemployable alcoholic, so that really just shows the terrifying depths that disease will take you to rather than it being an indictment on the average woman. Also, they were just using me for sex anyway so... 🤷♀️
ummm if both of you getting your part of bargain... you aren't the bad person in the equation...either u both bad or no one is, depending on how u see it. anyway, i hope you're doing okay and aren't in that low place anymore 💖
I mean if we're going to be real here, they were taking advantage of an alcoholic woman at her lowest. If they somehow view themselves as the victims in that situation i would say they are horrible human beings. And even if this was a common occurance. Why isnt their first thought maybe we should fix the system that has all these woman being poor hungry alcoholics, vs hating them for being alcoholics who are hungry. Like fuck, if im on a date with a starving woman, i feel like my first concern would be to acquire her food
He 100% seems like the kind of black dude that doesnt date black women because theyre "too masculine" he was probably so close to becoming a passport bro until he found his snow bunny that would put up with the bs 😂
To be fair, as a middle schooler I would go roller skating every weekend and make new friends just so they’d buy me food. Couldn’t see an adult doing that though lmao edit: also wait when women say the guy should should be disrespectful to her like in the second one, you think maybe she just has a degradation kink without realising it’s a kink??
Dude I'm sure she does 🤣 cause deep down he knows his toxic attitude will not attract any women so he's stuck with the one that will stick around off camera
23:46 my sisters ex husband legit had this complaint. He got mad that my sister wore work clothes, not even sexy ones just legit dress work attire, and she would change into comfortable clothes as soon as she got home. She also worked 2 jobs and was raising 2 kids. Meanwhile his a** was still living at home with mommy. They clearly didn’t last and she ignored all of the red flags and friends concerns. She’s been divorced for a couple years now and is still in therapy bc of all the trauma he caused. And I know she kept a lot from me bc she knows I’d kick his a** so I have no idea what he did behind closed doors. The limited view I had of him tho I greatly disliked him. I also don’t trust any man who wears jeans and sneakers at all times unless he is literally in bed. It’s not normal to wake up and immediately put on pants and sneakers on a weekend morning when you’re just relaxing. Who even puts on sneakers to just stay home inside their house. He was always off.
Cat that ate the canary is similar to when you catch someone red handed. Imagine Sylvester the cat with Tweety Bird's feathers sticking out the side of his mouth. Lookin' guilty af. Idioms are a lost art :(
Going on a date just for a free meal sounds like a better story to tell instead of none of the people I went out with want to go on second dates with me. It's a different version of "well she was ugly anyways"
21:09 "Ladies, don't pretend you never texted an ex in the bathroom." She's right, I have. To tell him I had moved all my stuff out of the apartment after finding out he had cheated on me with multiple women ✌️
Uh... yeah. So, Donovan wants his wife to go to the club where there are definitely going to be more men so she won't cheat? Has he never heard of a bisexual man? Makes sense.
8:50 the message was she needs to pay attention to her husband or hes gonna get taken away by some subby "happy" guy. no straight man knows what band is gonna be playing at the "happy" club off the top of their head
These 2 give excellent advice and if you make sure you do the OPPOSITE of everything, you will be fine. Much like how George started to succeed in life by doing the exact opposite of every instinct he had (Seinfeld reference, sorry I’m old). Slowly getting used to the mustache. It’s not at the Kurtis Conner hockey dad level of mustache, but it’s still nice.
I asked a guy to meet at a place that was about $15 per person to eat and he accused me of just trying to get a meal! Lol blocked him immediately. I can certainly afford a $15 salad my guy ugh
I always split the first bill so the guy won’t think I “owe” him anything and if he really has a problem with that it may mean he’s got control issues. But first dates should just be going for ice cream or something light and fun. Sometimes dinners are to formal or long and it’s horror to sit there begging for it to be over.
@@jilliank4157 Yes exactly you’re doing what everyone I know does. No first date steak and lobster but I think these dumb Alpha podcasts and books make it sound like that’s what’s happening. But yes you were trying to take his life savings 😂
@@jilliank4157 so you think “hey let’s try this new place I’m interested in” and he sees it’s close to his house so you MUST want to sleep with him, lol. He probably got angry right at the end when he realized he wasn’t getting laid. Soooo creepy.
I think it’s funny that he’s mad that they would wanna use guys for food with no romantic connections with but he wants to have sex with them with no strings attached? Lol okay. As a woman on dating apps, I’ve had at least over TEN guys pretend to like me in order to sleep with me/get nudes, etc but they realize I don’t give up easily n give up after awhile :)
This makes me really sad because if you take a step back from it being stupid it's also rules I had when I was dating my abusive baby daddy. I was 18 he was 32 but he would set rules like this have them set in his own head and not tell me Then start screaming at me and it got worse and worse. He tried to kill me and I still stayed Excusing it. But im 2 years free now. But this shit reminds me of all of it
It upsets me that not only does a guy like this exist, but he's spreading his disgusting horrible opinion to others. What a sad existence he must live, always waiting to catch his gf cheating.
Pretending that he’s being truthful that he knows women who feign interest on dating apps to get fed (especially if they can’t feed themselves), that’s in the same vein with men feigning interest for sex. Idk if that guy knows this, but you don’t need sex to live. But you do need food to live.
He said men feign “commitment”, not interest. Which is worse
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Let's be honest though, you don't need the sort of food that you would eat on dates to stay alive. That is absolutely unnecessary if talking about something that will sustain you.
I had many female roommates, when I lived in Brooklyn,,who took much glee in their ability to get dudes to buy them dinner/ feed them, so they could save money. No interest romantically, just happy to entertain a stranger for a few hours for a fancy meal in a restaurant they can't afford otherwise. Maybe it's more common in big cities?🤷
Facts im in Chicago and my facebook is full of chicks who will openly brag about using dudes they not interested in for Free food dates , car rides and etc.
My gf actually has a friend who did the "Tinder is my meal ticket" thing for like 9 months. She wasn't broke, but the money saved on meals would regularly be used to get tattoos. She openly bragged about it too. The best part though is one of those dates was a place we were at and the guy took one look at her, grimaced, then turned around and went home. Turns out she used profile pics from high school a decade prior and gained weight since then. She admitted it was a coin flip whether they just shrug and shoot their shot anyway.
I'm halfway thru the video and I'm convinced the only reason these two are together is some messed up form of trauma bonding over some really rough relationships. Big yikey
Yeah so all of these people are selling the same exact e-book “course”. It’s a sales thing, and the “womanese” book is just one of many. All of these accounts are just salespeople funneling marks into their own personal website that sells the same crap as if they’re the author of it. In reality they’re just branding it. They’re using social media and presenting these “products” like they’re the guru behind it- none of them actually are. It’s a huge scam anyone can do, just like a thousand other ones that have to do with pickup culture and other topics as well, like money-making schemes, self help, etc
It’s a definite thing. Women just going on dates just to get a free meal. All you can do is view it like this. Take her somewhere you like to eat that you both enjoy. Use the date as a way to go out. That way even if she not feeling you. You atleast had fun. Gained experience. You won’t take it so personally.
Oh and this dude has been with her for 5 or 6 years. Constantly talks about how chicks over 23 are "leftovers" and is constantly shitting on single moms. Says chicks with a high body count are horrible to get with. Devon(his girl) is over 40 and was a single mom when he met her and according to him she has a high body count. Literally every metric he tries to teach dudes to look out for and not date girls within those metrics applies to her.
I can honestly say I've never texted an ex while in the bathroom lol Not the place I'd do it if I was going to. And God forbid she stopped by the gym on her way home from work and isn't still fresh from 10 hours ago lol
These people really are out here thinking that the rest of us, ie anyone not them, are showering before work just for them? And if I take care of my body hair before I leave the house that I've potentially done it for them. They are also the type that assume that just because THEY showered before work that they did it for OUR pleasure because that means they must be desirable to us. The entitlement is wild.
honestly why do these guys even care if their girl cheats on them, every alpha male gives me the vibes that he can't stand to be in his girl's presence anyway because women bad am i right fellas
If you believe that all of these actions (anything that isn't just servitude) are red flags then that is the *actual* red flag: because you're clearly a crappy partner (most likely due to control/paranoia) if they all lead to cheating. If your partner wants to cheat, they will. This kinda bullshit will not stop that, if anything it will just drive them to it!
why do so many of these couples,,, heterosexual specifically in this exact font seem to always view romantic relationships/encounters as PURELY transactional. It seems genuinely sad :/ like truly just a sad way to live and interact with others. Only doing something nice for someone as a means to an end to get what you want from that person. The idea of just wanting to do something for someone as a gesture to show that you like that person is completely foreign to everyone in these weird dating course bubbles.
Even if you do something genuinely nice for someone, it is still for a selfish reason. Whether you know it or not, your brains likes the dopamine released from doing "good deeds" It works on a subconscious level. You like feeling good for making others feel good and that is selfish. Also I'm so tired about hearing how it is sad that we treat it as a transaction. Everything in life is transactional, cause and affect, unless you believe in the philosophy of the wiggly world. I see you, your appearance attracts me. I talk to you, feel out your personality. I ask you on a date and we go for dinner. All these are transactions. We are exchanging time with each other or spending time. I'll always pay for dinner if I ask you out and won't expect anything in return, I would hope for another date but it doesn't always happen. Love is a transaction. One you have to understand the difference between infatuation and love. Love is commitment, exchange of unsaid woves to always be there for each other. Understanding you will have days where you hate each other. Love is a transaction. In a sense that we are again exchanging time, responsibilities, and whatever else. You are paying for it with your time, and time is money. Bringing it back to full circle. If we keep going on dates, I will eventually bring up sex. I'm either interested in only sleeping with you and thus I think that transaction I made of my time is worth the chance, or I actually want a serious relationship and sex is part of that. It all comes down to direct communication with whoever you are engaging right from the beginning.
At this point, just don't have a girlfriend. If you feel the need to follow even 1 of these, you're just gonna be miserable, nevermind with all of them.
Yo even if you do feign interest for food, it is not the same as feigning interest in commitment to get sex.... One is something you need to live, the other is something you just enjoy unless you're a female ferret. In which case, not having sex leads to an overload of hormones which can be fatal 🤷🏻 thanks Rachel Oates for the bizarre fact
*my ex was like this. He almost k1lled me with a sledgehammer.* Respect goes both way, if you always think your partner is going to cheat on you, you have issues and need help.
