This Woman Is Terrifying 

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“Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will.” - Socrates

Basically all women can be very terrifying. And it isn't just men who allow women to escape accountability with their tears, but society as a whole. Sadly, there are still a lot of weak men or male feminists out there who believe all women are innocent angels.

Crying is a woman's hail mary. She knows if denying, lying, minimizing and then shifting blame doesn't work, turning on the water works usually will. They just go down the play list.

No.... She's a normal woman. All of them can do that. That's why I'm no longer moved by their tears.

Once my fiancee broke into tears during argument. I believe it was our the biggest argument so far. I sort of ignored her crying and kept explaining my point. At some point although still crying asked me "can't you see I'm crying?". An argument ended shortly after. Interestingly she hasn't cried during argument ever since.

I have daughters. I had to nip this in the bud very early. The tears don’t work on me. They tried that as small children and I would tell them “yes, your behaviour makes me want cry too. I’m very disappointed in you.” The older daughter told the younger one “don’t bother it doesn’t work”.

Got it, buddy. I had a mother who my whole life very manipulatively cried to get what she wanted, and by about age 12 or 13 I was on to her. Today, if a woman cries I treat it with the grain of salt it deserves and wait to hear what she wants. It's hilarious how, when I don't react how they expect, they sober right up!

Tears stopped working after a few years of adult relationships for me. Since then I've tried to hold women accountable and not let them off the hook when they cry, and it has led to them swapping tears for anger at "always being told I'm bad". There's no introspection.

what an excellent lesson, Alexander. Thank you. I am a grandfather, directly raising a granddaughter. I witnessed many dysfunctional behaviors from my granddaughter after she attended public school. I call it out on her. I am not afraid to hold my ground, make my argument and refuse weird behavior.

My missus used tears to manipulate me for the first two years until I twigged what was going on. Since then, tears in any women do nothing for me. "The only real tears a woman sheds are the tears she sheds alone"

"Believe All Women" destroyed in 16 minutes

My mother warned me of these girls when I started getting noticed by girls when I was around 12. She said women will always try to manipulate you with these types of tactics. She said do not put up with it the same your father won’t with me. She told me to not give one centimeter on this subject. I will not be manipulated by anyone to this day. I just tell a women trying this crap with me “grow some ovaries!” & I watch them changing immediately then get very angry 😤 They are angry that it didn’t work with me! I have been told that I am “MEAN!”. WHO-CARES! That means I am not manipulatable! Haha I had the best mother ever! She taught about all your stupid tricks women!

"What a great advantage a man can have over women, if he only knew what cold and calculating thoughts are going through her mind.... while her eyes are brimming with tears." - Esther Vilar. (The Manipulated Man, 1971.)

My ex was an extreme version of this I learned quickly not to let her get away with this sht and she would later blame me for her eyes being puffy when I wouldn't console her after her hysterical crying bouts AFTER she had committed wrongdoing against ME. Now my dear daughter has been imitating this with me and I've had to arrest it on the spot explaining that she will not be allowed to cry when SHE has done wrong. It breaks my heart but I cannot allow my child to be turned into a sociopath by imitating her psychopath mother.

My wife who I have been with for 15yrs is an absolute darling. In 15yrs I’ve only seen her cry 4x and two of those were happy tears. She is so reasonable and doesn’t manipulate me. She will charm me, but doesn’t use dirty tricks. I’m blessed, she is such a sweetheart!🤗

i'm too jaded to believe woman's tears. comes with age.

A woman’s tears are only sincere when she is alone.

I saw this for myself while over a female's classmate's apartment playing cards. She got on the phone with her man and cried hysterically. Face red, tears, nose running, the works. Inconsolable! Then she hung up, she wiped her face, smiled, and said, "that should get him," and continued to play her hand.

That technique only works about once or twice, because she’s instantly “happy” the moment she gets her way. The first time is usually actual tears and then every time afterwards is whimpering à la “crocodile tears”. “Fool me once, shame on me, fool me twice… you ain’t gonna fool me again” ~GB

I have to say it has never affected me as having a sister and knowing she played on this I learnt at a very young age women do this. Also my mom was a great inspiration to me and she saw through it and when I saw girls in my class do it I applied it through life. If what I was asking was reasonable and it made them upset then I felt it was their problem to deal with it. I was told I was callous but being true to oneself was more important. But I got upset when other males did not have the foresight and made stupid decisions based on the tears and not the point really made me cross.

I was raised by a TRULY narcissistic, bipolar & sociopathic mother and I have initial disgust & suspicion at all women crying.

My daughter has actually taught me so much about female nature. Ive learned more from my interactions with her than any other place. Luckily i dont fall for her emotional manipulation ive learned to flip it on her. Calling it out and not taking it seriously is the best way to deal with it. Of course if it is real and not just a manipulation tactic i can empathize with her.

It took me several years of marriage to realize some of this. In scenarios where im being reaosnable and shes crying, its because she needs to cry, and I need to let it happen. One of our best interactions was one where my wife was being completely irrational about something, and I called her on it, and she yelled back, "Well maybe injust feel like being irrational right now!" I replied without anger. "Okay, then." And left her alone to be irrational. She told me afterwards that my calling it what it was AND refusal to engage with it made her feel immediately better. I don't fully understand, but I know when shes being crazy its got nothing to do with me.

I was actually blind sided by this. My mum only ever cried in private, I found her crying about how hard things were a couple times because I went to the bathroom or something at the right time. Then I got out into the real world and women would use it to get their way. It worked on me in my first relationship, but it was SO confusing. Then I figured it out, it's amazing how fast it turns to anger when I stonewall them

My little Sister started out acting in this female way pretty much exactly around the age of 8. Before 8 she was a normal kid, getting around the age of 8 she started to turn into a female.

This gets many Men in trouble when Cops are called for a domestic squabble, on the occasion it was the woman's fault. Anyone remember the video bar maid that did not like Her tip? The guy was with His sister and was well inebriated His sister was helping Him walk. The Waitress ran up to Him and threw herself on the ground crying. Then two brutes that were near by beat the guy to a pulp, hospitalizing Him. The Waitress got jail time.

My ex once told me she was a great liar and would always get what she wants in two separate occasions, somehow this didn’t immediately make me worry but slowly but surely her behavior towards me and others made it clear something was very wrong and how awful she could be. Really opened my eyes to how certain girls are incredible actors and have been trained to put themselves first over everyone.

I was watching a game at the Rugby World Cup recently when the camera cut to a close up of a female in the crowd looking absolutely devastated that her team were about to be dumped out of the competition. Once she noticed she was on the big screen she changed instantly, HUGE beaming grin, ecstatic, joyful, delighted, blowing kisses, bouncing. I just laughed, another chameleon.

Alexander if that is terrifying then you should see my family, I was born in a pit of vipers. The dark triad scores are through the roof.

Her: Cries Me: Plays air violin.

I dated a woman very briefly a long time ago that started crying after her ex-boyfriend contacted me and I confronted her. She had just dumped him after meeting me, I wasn't aware that she was in a relationship - she was monkey branching. When confronted, she started crying in public. I remember a passerby visibly glaring at me. I never spoke to her again after that. If she'll do it to him, she'll do it to you.

That twinkle in her eye when she smirks after welling up is the jezebel stare.

I have always taken crying at face value. However, it seems that it can often be used as a manipulative tactic to avoid accountability, responsibility and repercussions. I wish I had known all this stuff 20 years ago. The youngsters of today have so much golden info available to them on YT. Incredible video.

I’ve been watching police body cam DUI vids lately and it’s (un)surprising how many girls go from flirty and innocent to “you’re ruining my life” alligator tears Oscar worthy performances in less than 30 seconds.

Since I saw my first video of a woman who cheated crying while saying it's the guys fault about 2 dozen years ago, IDGAF about women crying anymore. Since then I have seen so many videos of women being bad that I have lost all empathy for them, because I've realized that women are incapable of empathy in the first place - contrary to what Disney, Hollywood and the Media are trying to tell us.

I remember an anecdote with the last girl I was dating, like 10 years ago: we were having dinner, and we started a conversation with different opinions. I can't remember but it wasn't political or mem and women or anything like that, I think it was related to actors and movies. The thing is she was wrong and I showed her. Then, suddenly, she started to give me an attitude, and when I asked what was the problem, she started crying, crocodile tears, saying that she can't talk to me because I start yelling at her. I ended up apologizing. When I went back home, I started to think about it and I was like, "WTF! I neither yelled at her nor anything like that! Why the hell did I apologize??". Lol I was so pissed off alone at home 😂. Ooooh man, beta moment, I know. They manipulate you and you don't even notice. I apologized for something I didn't do, just because she was wrong and couldn't take a little L.

It really says something how people will make videos of themselves fake crying like "look at me, I can be manipulative" lol

I have seen multiple women in real life stop crying in a heart beat just like that, when I told them to stop, when they were trying to get their way. Don't let those crocodile tears fool you.

Grown women crying does not soften me. It puts me on alert. Is she trying to hide something? It is the little baby girls and toddlers who melt my heart.

Holding a position in the workplace that means I work with a large team of people, I've seen this behaviour time and time again, even from men...

Been there, learnt that lesson, got the tshirt and emotional scars to prove it. They cry with no tears and use it as a weapon which is very effective. And if you don’t instantly demonstrate massive amounts of sympathy you are the bad person. Even when they did something really bad. It’s z as nice mix of narcissism and dark traits. But it is a very good red flag to look for at the start of any relationship. First time I ever see this I would walk away. Female or male manipulation is a major red flag.

I hate it in the movies and TV shows. Woman obviously does something and nearest person tells her: "You did nothing wrong." or "It's not your fault."

They cry whenever they want to manipulate its hella funny.

I have had this used against me so much and for so long, that a woman crying without context, actually causes me to think of her as abusive. My gut reaction is to be angry. I know I used to have a different reaction.

I'm at that age and level of experience in my life where tears don't phase me out at all. In fact, too much of it will make me lose interest and/or respect.

when backed into a corner, women cry and men get angry...its hilarious and terrifying in both cases. she cries to invoke sympathy. he gets mad to threaten silence. basically, one is a toddler sobbing. one is a toddler throwing a tantrum.

Awesome subject! I’ve had my ex, my teenage daughters and even older women pull this on me! My ex used to scream bloody murder and when I would hurriedly come to see what I need to do, she would be laughing 🤨

They never mature mentally beyond teenage girl. Hence the Karen epidemic.

I learned long ago to be more scrutinizing of crying situations. I dated a narcissist who thought she was a pro and drove her crazy when I didn’t fall for this tactic of crying and gaslighting.

Babies learn that if they cry, a parent will come running. Toddlers then do it subconsciously. Boys grow out of this. Girls run with it.

The sad mid 40 woman will be fine, she is young and has so much to look forward to. She can own two cats back to back over the next 40 years before she truly drops off the perch. She can do it. Meanwhile I will own the cat food company shares.

"I've been around the world. I've seen everything, things you couldn't imagine, and this... this is the only thing I've ever seen that terrifies me." -Euron Greyjoy

I really like your take on this subject matter! In Portage ( A major rehabilitation center ) their was a saying which went " FEEL BAD AND CHANGE " -- Feeling bad is like a meter to tell us to do better for ourselves and others.

The very first instance of female manipulation I have ever witnessed was my sister using spit instead of tears to fake being sad in order to get treats to sooth her. Nobody showed it to her, she just tried it out one day. She was five...

Not anymore.. But I'm 47 and scarred.

my poor daughter, when she was little and cried i would ask "and how does crying fix it?" or tell her "let me know when your done and i'll come back".

I really appreciate this. Not allowing women to get away with manipulation while validating their emotions and giving men permission to feel theirs.

The worst thing is that 46 yo mature woman just waking up on reality. This is what this toxic society has become. And it started back at a young age with Disney and Cinderella ... Sad that it took so long for that woman to wake up from that bedtime story. Like to my standards, someone who takes this long to realize that isn't just smart. Like seriously, even to a cat it doesn't take him that long to realize that there is a problem ...

Never been happier to be a sadist

Had family friends and their 5 year old granddaughter over for lunch. Something doesn't go her way and she comes to the adults table all distressed big teary-eyed crying her lungs out. I of course switch into the concerned "Oh poor you, what is wrong how can I make it better" mode, but the grandparents knowing exactly what is up, turn it in a joking and laughing dismissive sort of way. Odd. As soon as she figures out that the manipulation is not working the red crying face turns off in a second and she starts laughing with them. That was shocking. The grandparents later explained how she started doing this whole manipulation through crying recently when she doesn't get her way. I was flabbergasted completely. I failed this test ... to a 5 year old. Now imagine a grown woman.

Great. So they're manipulative children.

I'm the oldest brother of eight sisters. Having watch them manipulate my parents against me, no I can't go for the tears. My wife was a soldier when we met. being successful in my world meant she could never appear to be a victim just to gain advantage, or the community would turn against her. In the first month of our dating, I told her point blank to never bring her problems to me if she wasn't willing to fight for herself.

I am a woman who is ashamed to cry in front of others. I've never done this technique.

That's why I don't trust the news. Neither you should.

Hate, disgust, distrust. I feel hate. I've seen this happen WAY too many times. I've overwritten my response.

I didn't expect to hear everything you said based on the title of the clip and I'm literally delighted and speechless. Great subject. Well done, Alexander!

I even broke up with a girlfriend because she was unable to apologize and started crying all the time. I lose all respect for people like that.

Terrifying? This is hilarious dude lmao. I have been immune to women's tears since the very beginning.

There's something definitely wrong with me. I rather feel indifference looking at a female cry

It used to work for me when I was of the mind that women were human beings. I have learned better over the years. The realization of it however is profoundly saddening.

I learnt this 25 years ago. I know all about this. I have no guilt reflex at all.

I don't feel anything anymore when women cry, or appear to cry. This is due to a an exgirlfriend I had some years ago. I learned from her that women can cry on queue and they use it to get what they want out of men. Now, when a woman cries, I just sit there and wait for her to realize I'm not falling for it and then BOOM! The crying instantly goes to anger which was always there in the first place.

It was a few decades ago that men felt that women needed more support and now they have to realize that they are wrong again. They will not change their beliefs again.

As a dad with two daughters, I made a conscious effort to not give a care when my daughters cried. Now that they are teenagers, I rarely see them cry.

"Limbic Resonance". No wonder concerts, and sporting events are more exciting viewed live rather than on TV.

Sometimes, I'm glad im ugly and generally repulsive to women.

woman: i'm in pain me: deal with it

The first two examples should be given something to cry about.

This behavior fits the German-Danish philosopher Johannes Nicolaus Tetens "trichotomy" of feeling, understanding, and will. Most women have mastered this trifecta of emotional display to great effect. I wonder what would happen if the Father/Husband/Boyfriend started clapping a round of applause 👏👏👏 every time their daughter/wife/girlfriend started this "acting"? 🤔😅🤣😂

It’s just accountability avoidance, like everything else they do

My daughter is too scared to cry around me...

yes, the snivel tends to have the opposite effect on me - my mother was particularly bad at it so I was never taken in. Had a knock-on effect with other femme.

When I see the water works turn off like that, it makes me feel like I'm looking at a predator, and the survival instinct kicks in.

Not my case...My mother was the disciplinarian and my dad just followed. It was a joint effort. She didn't care about my tears. LOL

I remember I was a teen when my mother and/or sister did cry. A friend was in my room and we did play some video games. He heard them cry and it did bother him and was worried. I just said it was normal that they cry sometimes, because they are woman. He just looked at me in disbelief and said his sisters and mother don't cry often and it's not normal

Is it bad that I felt nothing when those girls were crying? Not to me. I'm no longer the white knight in shining armor riding in to rescue the damsel. My armor is bent and bloody. Having to bring myself back from the brink without anyone's help, I'm now a diamond and it's going to take more than tears to break this shell. I used to be this way. I was stupid enough to treat my daughters the way you're talking about, and it's ruined them for their husbands. I treated my wife this way, and she left me bankrupt and destitute while still having to pay for her and her boyfriend's lifestyle. Never again. I'm not going to intentionally make you cry, but if what I say does, that's your problem not mine. Be an adult and handle the truth or go back to your girlfriends and wallow with them in the pigsty of delusion. FTW

To answer that question in the beginning of the video, I wouldn’t need to ask my sister because she’s done it to me before when we were kids so I wouldn’t even be surprised if other women have done that as well

"Never trust the words of a woman, for their heart is upon a wheel which is eternally spinning." -Odin

My older sister would do something bad to me (ie; hitting, teasing, stealing my things) I would point it out or try to rectify things, and she would start to cry and go into hysterics, and my dad would come in and beat me. Unfortunately, this made instinctual response be, "Oh no, girl crying, I must've done something wrong, even if I didn't no one will believe me, better do whatever it takes to stop her from crying or I am going to get punished." No, when a girl/woman flies into hysterics and starts to weep when her bad behavior gets called out, I get called "cold-hearted, unfeeling, uncaring, heart of stone." The only difference is rather than rush to try to make her feel better I just sit and watch her in silence. Of course, when I initially don't react to the hysterics a woman will start to double and triple her efforts to get me to react. And the more they freak out the more I feel less of an impulse to comfort and more puzzled and bemused as soon the "act" " or show that she is putting on becomes more apparent. And the technique isn't anything really out of the ordinary, rather than following my initial reaction to rush in and comfort, I wait for about 15 seconds and just look. I just watch her be upset for 15 seconds, I don't say anything or do anything, just watch. I've even had some girls/women open their eyes while pretending to sob and look at me to see if I am paying attention. After a while, you begin to differentiate between her really feeling bad and her just playing pretend. A great indication is that if she is just pretending her outburst will increase in intensity after those initial 15 seconds. Most likely she will assume that you didn't see or hear her and that's why you didn't jump to it trying to make her feel better. That's the "tell" (to use a poker term) whether this is real or just a game. If after 15 seconds of just looking if she starts to get a hold of herself and tries to calm herself then the sadness and hurt is real, if she ramps things ups after those 15 seconds she's playing you.

Wow! The first image details my experience with my mother and very ex-wife. Basically my entire childhood. The evil behind the manipulation is just insane and very dangerous for any man in its path. Be careful and take care everyone.

I have known my wife for 17 years, i have only seen her cry twice

When my daughter cries my only response is “why are you crying.” Don’t ignore it, don’t give into it, simply ask her to figure it out…. My daughter almost never cries.

I get concerned when my daughters start to cry. My wife just rolls her eyes.

What about the recent study that revealed when women feel regret, they don't change their behavior.

I've once sat next to a good friend of mine as she found out that her bf cheated on her. THAT was a woman genuinely crying from shattered trust and a broken heart. The crocodile tears of these unpaid actresses do nothing to me. Especially since I was raised in an environment that didn't reward being emotional. But this blatant attempt to minipulate others is still disgusting.

Perpetual childhood has been hefted upon us. Ditheryness. Innaneity. Supercilliousness. Slyness. Bereft of responsibility.

I read an article that a woman who raises her voice a few octaves that that pitch actually psychology disturbs men

Healing of the body comes naturally, healing of the mind comes with acceptance and effort.

I have to admit that I am a bit broken in this area now. My exwife was really emotionally manipulative and I used to have the normal reaction to a woman crying but after my previous marriage I just get really really angry now. I need to fix that before getting too attached to someone. I just feel like I am being gaslit again and get super angry. I need to fix this.