When Women Say The Quiet Part Out Loud 

This for me ?

For all you young guys, THIS video hits on the single most important thing you'll ever decide. You must choose a woman wisely. It's the difference between life being great, and constant upheaval in your life every day. Think about that real hard.

@@keithgraham9547 Oh the regrets....

In the 4. point, I have to make some observations: 1. One of the reasons why you need more income, is people have become more superficial. Needless to say, women want to get clothes and shoes more expensive than other women (or gear which shows more of their skin or shape than other women); men want premium cars; both men and women want the latest flagship phone, and couples want to buy houses they can not afford. There is much "Living for the appearances" in modern society. Narcissism is perhaps at its highest level in history. 2. I think both men and women should have a job and bring money to table. And for a reason you may not thought about. Which is: imagine if a severe event hits one of the elements of the couple. Needless to say, the one who is not working will have more difficulty entering the job market, if needed be. 3. This is a bit too extreme, and I do not like the idea of seeing women as dishwashing machines. Every man needs to learn at least a bit about how to do it. When I finished my degree, I had to move to a place a bit far from where my mother was. And I had to learn things about cleaning a house and laundry washing, and I wish I knew about them before.

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they want weddings when they hit 30-32 yrs old and have been ran thru but do not want to be wives.

@@associatealpha1166 One even better, when they get to 50, they are looking for a retirement plan after screwing off their whole lives.

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That’s the best way to put it. They look at all the memes, videos, movies, etc and want that with a blank man.

agreed they just want a rich lifestyle just look at their pictures they dont want to survive with a guy they want to survive over a guy lmao xD

These same women are terrified to go out of their houses without completely hiding their faces under a pile of makeup.

One Wet Wipe destroys the illusion.

Well…they pretty much can be this delusional because of demographics. Men already outnumber women in the 18-35 age bracket, and this gets even more brutal when you look at the single rates in this age range - 63% of single men vs 32% of single women. So they have several orders of magnitude more social capital than men do. so they can behave this way and there’s no real social consequences.

I ALWAYS try to imagine them without make up and it's always so funny bc their confidence and ego trip comes from their clown make up 😂

Imagine having a kid with one and because they got plastic surgery the kid doesn't like her.

Of course. Their hypergamy kicks in.

100% truth

It's wild isn't it? And women say that men are the ones who only care about physical appearance.

This is facts 💯. If the guy is good looking he gets a discount. If the guy is ugly he needs to over compensate in other areas. Its basic evolutionary maths.

@@marriagecausesdivorce7540If the guy is mid, he needs to over-compensate. If the poor guy is UGLY, he is SOOL (Sh*t Out Of Luck)! Ask me how i know! LOL

Also she doesn't want any man to approach her. She wants the right man to approach her.

​@@Clark_Kent_ZA Your name is quite fitting because they don't want Clark Kent to approach them, just Superman.

You ARE going to be rejected. And it's such a played-out racket, anyway. Men can't be bothered. She is not even speaking to 99% of men in the first place.

Whamen always projecting

She wants the validation and the power to reject

You are saying what nobody else is talking about. Very important point.

And society isn't going to change in our lifetimes. Women, being more conformist to society's whims, are going to chase the best lifestyle until they hit menopause. It's insanity.

Right, my ex had all the qualities of a good woman... 20 some years later, she didn't.

Yes, but it is your job to maintain frame, keep yourself attractive, and manage the relationship so things dont slide in the first place.

sex is the glue for marriage. that women control.

Bingo.

it might be dramatic but if this keeps happening, west is doomed.

@@jurassicthunder No it isn't. There are Filipina women, get your passports ready bro, shop abroad, bring them home. There's no need to be dramatic guys, you think women hold all the cards, but actually they don't. The Filipina woman will look at the average western man like he's a king, he's the prize. Obviously not just Filipina, I say that as an example of what I see. Mate I had some distant family member who was like 70 and he brought a 20yo Filipina woman and they had a kid lol. We're men, don't fall for the trap that women hold the power, no they don't, they just want you to believe it.

@@jurassicthunder I remember reading a dramatic article from Swedish news that there's a huge rise in Swedish men marrying Thai women, that something should be done about it. I laughed so hard, suddenly they're not so welcoming and tolerant when women become afraid they're being replaced. Replace them, shop abroad.

​@@ararune3734I know that they don't. we are the backbone of society. I understand the urge to get trad wifes abroad even though I wouldn't suggest you bring them back to the west since they'll be brainwashed and on top of that we are mixing cultures, it usually doesn't work well (i.e illegal immigrants). It's like our ancestors would be so disappointed by our women and men simply bc we don't like eachother apart from everything terrible.

Immigrating here we are struck by how anti-children American women are, and how they fake what they think is masculinity. Being loud, combative, selfish, and morphing into victimhood at every opportunity is not masculine. And yes, I got a tremendous amount of shaming, ridicule, and guilt-tripping for being a stay at home slave. The kids are on full scholarships to college now and I am working full time. Everything they insisted was completely false. It was EASY to get a job and career at 35. But let's just see them land a husband like mine at 35.

That's because they've met so many women telling them what a mistake it is to make themselves dependent on a man who's not even worthy of himself much less taking care of another. So now they swing to the other extreme as they try to find a way to agency and thriving.

So it seems human population gonna crumble in this century, Right?

My comment disappeared because RU-vid does not want to hear from traditional wives and mothers.

@@fixerrr98 give or take a decade (maybe), but yes.

But let's be honest, most men will be upset as well if they got messages only from women they consider ugly. I've heard some men around me saying angrily "When I see the kind of women who like me on the dating app I currently use, I can not understand it, I deserve much better!". Even one colleague told us one day there was a girl at the gym who, according to him, did her exercises on the machine next to his just to excite him... it was all in his mind because the girl was hot and he was attracted to her. The girl was just doing her workout without looking at him. And the irony is, when an overweight girl also used the machine next to him, he did not think for once she came on purpose to excite him!

​@@il9001i understand but you have to be honest, we just want a cute girl, she doesn't have to be a supermodel. and the things we want are fixable like weight, temperament, outfit etc. unlike whamen who strictly go for genetics like 6 feet height, 6 inch stick, sharp jawline etc.

@@jurassicthunder Yes, I agree most men just want a cute girl and not the supermodel. Regarding the girls who want the 6-feet tall guy, 6 figures and so on, they are superficial girls and we tend to think that's the majority because we see it everywhere on social media but that's not true. Although I don't know for America because I don't live there but in Europe.

​@@il9001 Then why are these guys still single? You're here doing damage control for selfish reasons and it's very obvious.

@@forgottenfuryan They are still singles because they focus more on the beauty rather than the personality of the girls. And I don't get your comment about "selfish reasons", develop further.

The middle class lifestyle really doesn't exist anymore, imho. You are either struggling or not in this day and age.

all slores

​@@jerrychubb6168Are you saying that if you're not struggling, you're upper class? Asking for a friend.😂

@@djangomarine6658 struggling i.e you can quit youur job tmr and be set for life, "won the rat race"

A lot of these girls are in their 20's, don't know jack sht about life and post cringe tik tok videos. But lets give them attention.

I've never met one who got one who didn't end up either messed up in the head, horribly overweight or most commonly both. That alcohol will destroy her endocrine system, her thyroid is screwed.

You mean she's not already?

They'd do well to read Crime and Punishment. No amount of rationalization, valid or otherwise, can silence a guilty conscience. Maybe they can temporarily bury it but that's an even bigger mistake, because all that is buried is destined to grow in power before it inevitably explodes back onto the surface.

In heaven the woman meets a handsome young man or beautiful young woman who then ghosts them. Then the good lord explains that that was the fetus they aborted. Prove me wrong.

@kingtigerbooks1162 yes, but in hell.

Where in Asia do you recommend?

moving to thailand and phillipines and giving your girlfriend 500 usd per month or paying for evrything is not dating is prostitution is just cheaper then the west

Feminism happened.

Your children will be Asian though

Vietnam or Indonesia. Both better both more inexpensive.

slores will be slores !!!

When women cheat they blame the guy and say HE forced them to do it. There's almost no exception to this.

It is one thing to survive in an unjust world, but maybe we shouldn't make things worse. Working hard enough can land you a wife at 25yo. That would be ideal too, if you ask me. I don't mind the age gap you suggested.

I agree if you are past a certain age in your twenties as man. But if you were to figure out all this stuff earlier, try to get it right earlier. I am turning 29 now, so I will inevitably have to follow the strategy you suggest, but if I could turn back time, I would have done a lot of things different in my early twenties.

@@OfficialKoven And you would've realised even with all this knowledge, it doesn't work like that. We all think of turning back time with all the knowledge we gained. No need, there are countless young women abroad who will be over the moon about you, just by default you will be way higher value than most men in their countries. This isn't even new, my dad is 69, ask him, even back then, men would bring women from abroad. We are not learning the lessons of our ancestors.

As a 30 yr old man, most 20 yr old women sound like children. If for some reason you don't care about personality good luck finding one that doesn't want to experience her party years.

@@bauregard2171Hmm it's not that hard to find women who don't like to party, there are plenty of asocial women who just sleep, eat and poop. The issue is they're still unreasonable with their standards.

True. It also goes for wahmen. Remember the wise man who said: "No matter how good looking she is, there's a man out there who's fed up with her $hit!"

This right here. This is 100% of the problem. It's never enough.

I was about to comment a similar thing about height. I'm a tall guy and it definitely helps in getting attention from women, especially tall women, but it's never good enough. Women are always going to move the goalposts on you and make you jump through their hoops because it's not only about vanity and status but it's also a form of power and control.

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​@@undeadkhalid6359The visual equivalent of the following message: *_Ladies and gentlemen, this is the Captain speaking. The next sound you hear will be the bomb exploding in the cockpit. Thank you once again for choosing Southwest Airlines for your travel needs._*

Yup😂

if you can see the white above her pupils then it's game over. you're in a ride for the crazy town.

Yeah, its disturbing

Not even just since the 1960s, but even 2000.

@@Okunniger_VolkerYep.

not even 2000s it's way different than 2010s and 2020s

@jurassicthunder that's true, now that you say that 2010 feels like such a long time ago. It's so easy to go from a mediocre society to one that's absolute trash, but very hard to reverse that.

@@Okunniger_Volker2019 feels like another century now.

I'm going to assume you meant to say you're a 6'4 man.

If you engaged with those women that makes you almost as morally reprehensible.

@@Noqqin as you can imagine most of them did not tell me the truth. I would usually find out later. Women are very deceptive creatures

@@Boddah. Thank you I will edit that right away

It's called gina tingles.

I know a guy who married the first girl to do anything with him sexually and of course she is a monster. It happens to far too many good men.

There's more stigma now around welfare, and particularly single mothers on welfare, than there was 50-60 years ago. Most single mothers were either ditched by the father of their children, were widowed, or had to leave for their own safety back then, and it was less common for women to work, so people mostly accepted that they needed help. Also, the welfare was seen as being as much for the kids as it was for the woman.

I prefer a single mother out from a longlasting relationship than a single woman age 30+ years without a longlasting relationship ever. I'm a single father from a 12+ years relationship.

Damn dude, that's me, 5'7'' atheist, I'm 28 tho. And that's true, for years now already I'm wondering what's even the point of this "success" if you see the disgusting way they view the world? Exact same question I keep asking myself, what for? It's a juggling act, I don't want it, I like peace of mind.

Why do atheists have such an obsession with demons? Isnt that antithetical to your beliefs?

​@@ararune3734bruh I'm 5'7 and atheist too, about to turn 23, still young to be looking for marriage but the question of why work so hard comes to mind. and then I remember that the universe doesn't owe us an explanation or a gift for our hard work. marriage is strictly for raising an offspring while we try to understand and grow together. if I work hard I would have that option. I'll have to find that person outside of the west tho.

Not worth the squeeze. I've been thinking that for the past 15 years.

Well said and so very true .

I agree, you should give up on dating women. It makes it easier for me since there's less competition. Thanks bro 😊

@@user-og6hl6lv7p Pretty manipulative reply for a man..., "bro" 🙂

I wouldnt swallow that blackpill if I were you. Take a break to focus entirely on yourself. Progress in your career, work out, make friends and take care of your family. Then, see what you can fish. Worst case scenario you're right, but you'll probably be a much higher quality man for it.

@@SparkZ009 30 years with women from all over the world are all I had to give. But hey, more for you! Enjoy!

The lazy girl jobs are even paid better than standard jobs. HR are paid the top of the company.

@@JeremySayers38 HR personnel work very hard. Why would you think those jobs are lazy? By the way many men are in those fields.

@@EC-yl7xk What dream world do you live in? Are you a fat HR clerk? I bet you are otherwise why the weird name. Yeah men work in HR also HR work hard, the world is flat and body positivity is beautiful and women are strong and independent.

Well yes, essentially the labor market nearly doubled to absorb the female workforce post WWII, consequently, due to market forces, real inflation-adjusted incomes have contracted ever since the seventies… and that is irreversible…

Ooh... Er... Umm... Let me get back to you on this. 😁

Ha! So true!

Lol😂

Conservative women. They think the same, but keep it to themselves.

And on TikTok. They keep doing it, looking for support, from the same women that stab them on their backs in real life, because they're ruthless to each other, but also tell them that they're all 10's on social media.

fakeup

Yes, as a result of society bending to their every whim starting around 13-14.

True words of wisdom and understanding.

true

north American women are the most detached in the world on aggregate

I would add something here. You think the 1st world women to be worse, but the other 2nd and 3rd world women are not that good, they just need something from you. They are only good to you when they have a vested interest in something that she can get from you (mostly the validity to live in a foreign developed country by settling in and making it look natural to the people around her). I know from my country that most useless (used) women go abroad to find some deludable western guy to guarantee their remaining life (when they are older and uglier). I am sorry to expose the truth.

Female nature is the same all over the world. Especially if they have a smartphone in their hand

Just different problems.....I've lived 10 yrs overseas.

Funny thing is that you do better when you're not trying to impress them.

Same, I gave up trying when I hit 30 and it instantly removed a chunk of stress from my life.

untrue excuse making by distortion of facts.

@@OurSpaceshipEarth what

What about character? R-pill answers such questions well. Why do you think women leave their perfect (nice loyal stable) husbands to get savaged by scumbags like a drug dealer or convicted ex-inmate criminal?

​@@rayrwyrbecause they are adult with an child mind?

The world exists as it is, not how we wish it to be.

What if the woman is all those things? We live in a gynocentric culture that turns a blind eye to the bad behavior of women and so it only makes sense why so many would be so poorly behaved and llace superficial things higher on the list of priorities than good character.

Chicks dig dudes with SA and DV in their background

get out the (your) dark side, put your will onto the world, mold

Got to Thailand or Vietnam and get yourself a set of bespoke suits and shirts. Looks are everything. And nothing conveys status more than a bespoke fitting suit/shirts

Do you live in a city with enough young women?

I'm 6', pasty white and skinny fat and I've had a decent amount of success with women. You need to learn to vibe with women and connect emotionally with them. It's easier said than done. Honestly the best way to learn this is by finding a female friend. Just figure out how to keep her comfortable and the conversation flowing. Don't put pressure on yourself to find a way to sleep with her, the idea is to become comfortable with women as that directly translate into confidence which they are attracted to. There are women out there that can genuinely hold good friendships, don't let the demoralised weak blokes tell you otherwise.

People will give you advice on how to be more appealing to women. Don't follow this. Instead live according to virtue, have principles and boundaries, have self respect (this very much includes taking care of your body but not vain or obsessive) and let the women who value superficiality weed themselves out.

Things were easier when I was younger and it is alarming to see young men become so cynical. However since we all get there, better to start off eyes open today.

​@@loganblackwood2922I wish I wasnt so cynical about this. I generally assume that the internet shows only the extremes and thus should base myself in my reality. Only to find out, for well over the last 15 years that good quality women and men have dwindled to a depressingly low number. Its really hard to have the motivation to rummage through sewage looking for pearls in todays day and age.

@@SparkZ009 In some instances it does, but largely it's not wrong. You will meet many women who will tell you that's just biased and they're only showing you the worst, but the truth slips and they start saying the same sh*t as the women they bashed. There are so many chameleons man.

I'm 6' 3", in good shape, attractive, and successful. My ex self destructed and blew up our ten year marriage. I find myself single again. Women in the dating world are a mess. They are just not interesting. I've been carefully vetting potential dates. I find that my dating market also consists of unicorns.

@@JP-ug9oj Do you feel like within seconds, you already know what type of girl they are? There aren't that many types tbh. But you notice patterns and your tolerance is much lower, you don't feel like putting energy even into texting them back anymore, or is that just me? I could not have anyone else texting but I still wouldn't care, I just leave them on seen when they're bland

I’m 6ft and it’s not any different for me .

​@@allseeingotto2912 6ft 4 here. I reckon that height is a positive but cant carry on its own.

I'm being totally serious here, are you on the spectrum by chance? Im amazed you kept a relationship for 14years! but you have 0 charm or charisma? Either you are lying, or you under-estimate what you DO have, or not sure how to change with the times!

You have the wrong culprit. It's government that steals and destroys wealth. The rich are wealth creators. How many good jobs have you ever been offered by a poor person? Every dollar the government prints, or takes and spends on unconstitutional endeavors, is stolen wealth from you and from future generations.

BINGO! We've let the 1% divide the 48% fighting the 49% to keep us from making a coalition for the thriving of the 99%.

Any woman who expects a high-end lifestyle without ever working again once she’s married is delusional! There are very few men who can provide that-and even fewer who are willing to.

I would say looks are 90%, money is 9%, and social suavity is 1% of the equation in attracting modern women. They are barely sentient creatures. Their degrees did not confer education. They have no moral compass and no taste. Their lives revolve around food, dogs, and primal attraction to Chad. We live in the age of technological hedonism, and it will only end after we descend into the state of Venezuela of Haiti. Good luck.

People with privileges dont know they have privileges! You sound sincere, so we hate you a little less now! LOL Seriously though, women are just losing it out here, its a dumpster fire, and chicktok keeps throwing gasoline onto it!

I applaud you for at least admitting you were telling shorter men “just be yourself” and it was ultimately BS;there’s many men that think “just be yourself” is how they get women

Dude shut up. I'm really tired of all the tall dudes who say that, you can still fail on easy mode, it doesn't mean you're not playing easy mode. I had a 6'4'' friend who would literally just stand there quietly at a nightclub, he was even shy, wouldn't say much, yet women would approach him and give their numbers to him.

@@ararune3734 Talk to people like that in real life, your lucky your not in my sight. I approached hundreds of women and it gave me nothing. Put in ridiculous hours. Easy mode my a.

​@ararune3734 your friend is not a representative of ALL tall men. Quit projecting. I am 6'3. Used to go out to clubs with other friends who were 6'4, and 6'2. None of us EVER experienced what you claim happened to your friend. Save the animosity and victimhood.

@@KyleReeseCel2029 You can't even spell and that's your first language, I can already tell why you're failing.

@@TSoneonetwoIf only we literally had dating studies that show us acceptance rates by height, right? If only there was a way to verify this. Face it, you're a bunch of dudes failing despite the good cards dealt, not because the cards aren't good.

Brutal.

Here's a thought. You are not responsible for her happiness. She is not responsible for yours. Be a reasonable person. Have reasonable boundries, and the spine to enforce them. Expect some pushback at the start. However, stand your ground. Women want a strong man to lead them. Show that you are one.

Time to step aside then.....gravity will take her back down the hill...Sit down and rather enjoy the view...

@@Ace.0.0.0.But the pushback doesnt come from the woman alone, it comes from EVERYONE she cries to! I've been there and done that too!

And why do you keep going? Why didn't you throw her back to the streets 20 years ago?

The fact that this is very often the only thing they care about makes it hard for me to not despise them.

@@williamk6605 exactly. If it's a modern woman, her loyalty will last until she meets someone slightly taller or slightly better looking or more popular...

Yes because face dictates most of the attraction then height multiplies this positive or negative effect

That's what I was wondering. It sounds like "sampling" or "shopping around" like women who ride the CC tell themselves/each other.

Find women abroad. Get your passports bros, seriously this is the way. Panic will kick in, they will realise this is a losing game for them, because everywhere else the men have less to offer them. Seriously, they're not the prize. They are hitting the ceiling in the west, wheras men aren't, men can shop anywhere because we don't care about the woman's status or finances.

Perfect timing with the video. I wondered that too

Dude is still disconnected from the reality of being a sub7 male in the West. We don't have the luxury of going on multiple dates to try to choose women based on "personality," character and morals. We are just lucky to get a date with anyone who isn't morbidly obese, and when we do we just get ghosted anyway.

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While I agree with people complaining about the raw deal millennials and gen Z got in the housing and job market, and the lies we were told about college, I agree with you that 1 income is definitely doable with discipline and budget. People don't want to be rational adults anymore

Yes to the first 4. Not so sure about the last one, because it could be perceived as being weak. Women like strong leaders and sometimes leaders say no.

But what do they offer that’s what pisses me off

He plays in the biggest movies, where he is portrayed as the biggest hero. Still in real life he is a wimpy simpy😢

Ha no. 80% minimum.

Smith is the nice guy

PERFECT! You are a natural poet, Mr. Longfellow!