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Yep! He's too insecure to wear glasses and his teeth don't look very good - that's why he unsulted that guy for wearing glasses and 'smiling too much'.
Like damn, sorry we just want to see stuff clearly. Can y'all imagine just telling your date after they say to ditch your glasses, "Okay, hope you can drive then; because I can't drive anywhere without my glasses, unless you want me to commit several traffic violations."
As another person who wears glasses I can confirm that I only wear them so that I can get rejected. Definitely not because I need to see haha that’d just be weird!
@@shrimpshufflr7745if you're going to call someone else illiterate you should spell check your own reply. And I'm pretty sure they were asking which livestream, I'm sure this guy has loads and no one has time to go checking all of them.
I’ve learned that when men like him say a woman is being passive aggressive, they actually mean that shes making them uncomfortable by calling them out in their bs😅
or just being upset when they talk to him, its like he doesn't think women should show any emotion when they speak to him about, oh ya know, treating women like shit
that’s how men and incidentally right wingers argue. they say something totally uncalled for and inappropriate and when met with a very warranted upset response, u are crazy and triggered. it’s so bonkers to me that i just don’t engage anymore. it doesn’t matter what u do or say they aren’t hearing u they’re just waiting for their turn to criticize you personally and not ur argument or anything u said.
A girl i know through a chat actually answered to similar question in a similar way, and even sent the douchebag pictures. It didn't work out and she came very sad about her body. So the problem is some girls feel so insecure about their body that they think that it's actually valid question and that they deserve be treated this way. I wish it was only his fantasy, and all girls would just send such guys to hell
I've accidentally gone on a date with a few of them. I pretty much faked emergencies and bailed on them. Some are a safety risk like one of my exes that freaking stalked me.
"you're passive aggressive" "How?" "You're being passively aggressive" Dude, restating what you said in a different way does not explain how she's being passive aggressive
@@lobstersonskateboards3988 it’s because she’s serious and didn’t use the saccharine sweet voice all women are supposed to use when addressing men. Almost like talking to babies. But instead men.
"I am a male stripper!" and "I take clothes off other people" makes me wonder if this guy knows even what a stripper is. If you as a stripper start undressing random people on the place where you work, you would get fired and probably arrested for assault.
I can't believe he tore that guy on tinder to shreds, despite the fact that: he's alone in almost all of his photos (meaning he's comfortable in his own company, probably will actually talk to you instead of at you/ignore you), every photo has a different setting (meaning he either travels for work [well off financially or can budget] or he frequents the outdoors/local area rather his room/basement/bar), he's smiling in every photo (probably means he's an optimistic person, and probably a blast to hang out with) and also dog. Can't believe the most unattractive man tried to roast the most attractive man on tinder
“Take of the glasses take off the smile” do you think a girl would love a guy who look’s like hes ready to kill her? Or do you think she would go for a guy who’s nice and looks caring.
Thete is difference between being attractive in real life and being attractive in dating apps. In person personality matters but on dating apps looks are everything. The guy looks nice if you met nice in person but on dating apps there is nothing particularly striking about him for girls to accept him on a dating app. Alex's advice was quite good when it comes to getting more Tinder matches.
@@randomhuman2595 No, not really, I think you're overselling how attractive anyone thinks men like these are, I think the most love they've ever gotten is from other men with an equal amount of insecurity Mugshots aren't attractive, demanding and entitled personalities aren't attractive, you might as well stop yourself from falling into that lie if you still have the chance
the fact that even in his own scripted videos he's nervously rocking back and forth and being awkward and creepy as fuck makes me so violently uncomfortable
I love how he, even in those very obviously scripted scenarios, somehow manages to come off THAT creepy and weird. Just imagine him in those situations with real women who don't know him big oooof
@@mikochaos6310 probably because in these guy's mind any woman that reacts to this with "ew wtf stay away from me" is actually just poisoned by feminism
As someone who has dealt with and witnessed/intervened in a lot of these kinds of interactions (men leaning too close to say something right in your ear, approaching you from behind and asking for your number, moving too quickly and attempting to touch you/invade your space, etc.) I promise 9 times out of 10 this won’t be taken well. And unfortunately in one of these many instances, I was followed by a man who didn’t like that his awful and self-serving tactics didn’t work and I had to take out a self defense weapon and warn him not to follow me. Men who see these videos really do think it works and it actively puts women in very uncomfortable and potentially dangerous situations.
What type of self defense weapon was it? I’m thinking of getting one for myself but I don’t know what would be the best to buy and actually work in dissuading men from trying anything
@@humantoon I had a knife/switch blade that I held up very clearly for him to see. I also had raised my voice when I told him not to follow me, as we were in a busier part of town (at night, though, so it’s still good to be cautious) I can’t guarantee this would have worked if we weren’t within earshot of other people, but he seemed to immediately back off when I switched the blade out for him to see
@@humantoon I also carry pepper spray alongside the knife as a first resort! The knife was just what I had on hand at the time. Pepper spray will probably work better to keep someone from getting too close to you. Tasers also work well if you’re forced at close range with the assailant
this guy set the bar so low that i was pleasantly surprised the tiktok about a girl who doesn't drink didn't end in him telling guys to try and find ways to pressure a woman into drinking
I was about to comment this, he seems absolutely the type to go for the "Cmon, a small glass won't hurt I have this great wine, I promise I'm not trying to get you drunk etc" angle. I did feel a little embarrassed that his status rose in my eyes quite a bit after he did that. Still a weird creep.
I can’t believe how sheltered and entitled this man is that he can’t possibly comprehend why a girl might be uncomfortable going on a date with a stranger after dark... Just the height of male privilege 🤦♀️
I don't know if it's so much sheltered, as it is trying to make women feel stupid and/or ashamed to have a boundary... so she'll drop the boundary. It definitely is entitled, tho.
It weird to be that afraid... There are tons of well lit public places to go on dates after dark...most ppl have to work and they dont get time during the day to date... its super negative of you to push this fear mongering bullshit... most abuse happens from friends, partners and family... not all dudes are gonna attack women, its a tiny %... and gurls wonder why men guarded all the time??
@@domm5715 tiny % lmfao. You know what dudes are the type to attack women? The type trying to meet with them late at night and then don't take no for an answer
Not proud to say after a hard breakup I ended up in this pipeline of garbage and actually believed this dude for an uncomfortable amount of time before I actually healed and came to my senses. Glad I eventually ended up on the side of YT that calls ppl like this out
glad we got you back on the sane side of things! we've all been in dark places, and it can be a learning experience as long as you can look back from a distance later. hope you find a special someone soon if you haven't already~
"you wanna be persistent and not needy, show no emotions really be stoic and dont give a fuck" *texts 4 times days apart without answer the same creepy line over and over* what a BEAST
someone asked him in the comments on his tiktok and he answered, “well since you asked so nicely…” and explained something about having a stiff neck or something to that effect. he can’t bend it down i think.
@@autumneleaves It's not about him bending his neck, even if he had to hold it in front of him he wouldn't need to hold it THAT close to his face. Plus the expression he makes while reading looks like he's struggling/his head might hurt, which would be what happens when you force yourself to read without your needed glasses.
I think he's trying to keep a composed face and is very insecure about having a second chin happen if he looks down. Maybe the camera was linked to his phone so he could make sure he wasn't moving because he clearly has issues moving his body around.
I mean think about it: if they actually helped the people who watch them, then their audience would quickly get into relationships and they would stop watching him for advice because they wouldn't need him anymore. Incel influencers have to keep their audience miserable, otherwise they will lose that audience. That's their business model.
Great video, my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
Spiritual Advisor? Bro this is a scam in my opinion. If it works for you great, but Honestly there is no way to get over heartbreak. You learn to live with the pain & it diminishes over time.
I got an ad before this by that one female dating coach and the first line was “Don’t be nice to women.” Ah yes. Thank you for that advice. Ah did I’m mention that I’m gay too so I have no clue why RU-vid thinks these adds are what I want.
I would much rather go out with the guy with a genuine smile and a kind face who takes selfies with his mom than this creepy ear grabber who is chasing women down hallways...
Too bad your advice isn't helpful as the guy made a reddit post seeking help because he wasn't getting any matches on dating apps. This is why men need to ignore female dating advice as you have no clue what it takes for a man to attract women.
@@4evahodlingdoge226 i cant tell if this is a satire or not but if its not then good lord i cant believe ur a real person 😭 so what ur saying is u want a women, but doesnt listen to what a women want. and instead u listen to a man because apparently they know what women want?
@@IsaacLungu This is what happens when patriarchy has normalized the monsters it creates a la "beauty & the beast" that most wom3n were blind to all the Frankenstein m3n.
He seems slow too..like he's mentally disabled. Men have such low intelligence in general due to all the violence they encounter from the patriarchal order they are subjugated under especially starting with circumcision as babies, they are more like blindly obedient rage monsters to patriarchal drivel.
I think that the worst part about these “dating coach” tiktok pages is that they have a decent following of men who would actually do stuff like this, and as a woman, it makes me scared for my safety. Also, I think that having emotions, and actually showing those emotions is a manly thing to do. 6.9k likes. Nice.
Well if the last sentence is true then lemme ask you a question. I’ve been friends with a colleague for about 2 and a half years now, and I previously had asked her out about six months after we met (she declined). However, 2 years later we’re pretty much best friends and she knows everything about my life, including the toxic people I’ve dated and most of the details of that. I’ve basically shown her who I am. I want to wait another half a year before I make a move again (If I do choose to). However, tbh with all the toxic girls I’ve ended up dating, I’m not sure if after I opened myself up completely that she would consider me. What would you think? Again she knows how I was heartbroken by a previous girlfriend who I was in love with and had trauma from how toxic it was, and how my last girlfriend was a neglectful jackass, but also how I acted very good in those relationships, and how (at least in my and her perspective) I was a good boyfriend (she literally commented to me “man I wish I’d find a guy who’d talk so good about me behind my back”)
@@Uvuv6969 well its either she is afraid and doesn't want to hurt you like your exes or she just sees you as a friend and that's fine , know matter how amazing someone is, if they don't fall in love with you its okay . I hope you move on if she unfortunately reject you since you can't force someone to love you :)
@@Uvuv6969 I think there's nothing to worry about, I don't think your history of being open with her is something that would make her uninterested. If anything, you guys have a head start on a stable foundation of sharing/trust.
@@unicorngirl237 well yeah I mean I asked her out two years ago so it’s clear that there’s a good chance she still won’t want to go out with me, which clearly there’s nothing I can really do about that. I will say on pine apples comment that I am one of the very few people she trusts, so you’re probably right.
literally everything he criticized about that dude’s profile is what makes him attractive. I love guys who are clean shaven, have a good smile, wear glasses, etc.
@Vanta i assure u that it's definitely ain't minority. since i would be more likely to go on a date with someone who has a safe and positive vibe than someone who gets pressed over the preference of meeting up in daylight. Red flags r everywhere on this man, no woman would like that
It must be exhausting to be this hyperfocused on dating. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be in a relationship, but to make it your entire personality? Chill out dude
It’s his job! As for other men who obsess over it, it’s like starving. If you have no food it’s all you’re going to think about until you get satisfied and then you can move on
I can't stand these cringey dating coaches their so full of themselves🤢, n they couldn't get a date if they were locked in a room full of thirsty ladies !😂, great video thanks!😜💜✌️
6:12 this whole conversation makes my skin crawl 😭 she’s an actor and still seems uncomfortable. The way he breaths in her face, talking like 4 inches away and keeps rocking back and fourth like a nervous child. He just seems like he doesn’t have social skills and he’s masking it very poorly. Wtf is this body language
2:30 IMMEDIATELY a no from me as a woman. One of the single most frightening experiences I've had with a man was him approaching me from behind while I was walking and only making me aware of his presence when he was right next to me This was on a side street when it was dusky and no one else was around Genuine advice for men: Don't do that shit
@@SaintShion i feel like it’s not an ick, it’s genuinely terrifying. an ick is when a date like chews w his mouth open or wont stop showing you snowboarding vids or smth lol
I have habit of getting irritationally angry when i got startled, and im sure im not the only one. Dude have high chance to get punched in the face if he keep doing that.
Seriously, great way to put a person into fight/flight, regardless of gender. I don't think a lot of men would be comfortable with someone just _appearing_ beside them. Sure maybe you'd hear their footsteps, but if you did hear someone running up behind you (which isn't guaranteed, do not assume the other person has heard you unless they turn to look), it would still be unsettling. Especially given how the space between her and the wall was fairly tight, no matter how he did that he was going to invade her personal space. I second the advice of: just don't
It's funny, because dating coaches are supposed to know how to be charismatic and attractive, but I think this guy has perfected the art of the exact opposite. I look at him, I listen to him for a few seconds, and I get an overwhelming feeling that he's someone I don't want to have anything to do with.
“stop smiling so damn much” one of the reasons i deleted tinder was the amount of dead faced empty eyed selfies. it freaked me the fk out and makes them all look so scary god damn. like are you human? 😭
That hallway scenario was insane. Just power walk to practically chase down a lone woman and suddenly appear right next to her. Excellent advice. Will absolutely set you in good stead for a great conversation and not at all induce panic.
@@wiyebonrostro6507 sure i guess but regardless doing what he did is a good way to get pepper sprayed in the eyes. basically just don't suddenly approach women with no one around in a closed space
The guy he tore to shreds for smiling too much is literally my type. Clean shaven, glasses, dog-lover, and generally a happy person. I feel sorry for this guy who thinks that a scary looking tiktoker is going to get him a date when he literally just needs to get off dating sites and find girls elsewhere that aren't looking for the stereotypical Alpha male with facial hair, bulky bodies, and brooding personalities.
When he was doing the segment where he was asking the woman about her job I naively thought that the criticism he was going for was that most of the questions he was asking were yes or no questions rather than open ended ones that can actually start a conversation and help you get to know someone...but no, the criticism was that he didn't make a joke about being a male stripper :/
I thought that he might also give the tip that talking about yourself a little can open people up to talk about themselves because they feel less vulnerable when they know more about you but yeah no that wasn’t it either :(
also when he made the male stripper joke didn't he say he takes clothes off people? "you take money off people, I take clothes off people" or something like that? I don't think he's a very good stripper either
@@graciespaceycakes3714 He meant he takes other people's clothes off, yes, but he phrased it poorly so it sounds like he takes his own clothes off. Which is somewhat funnier, honestly.
The guy who "smiled too much" seemed sweet! My first thought was "hes cute, nice having a guy who can enjoy life" Too the constant smilers: keep spreading your happiness! ♡
It’s unbelievable how the dating and relationship advice channels have fallen off: I actually followed that side of RU-vid for a couple of years as they actually gave some good practical advices (have hobbies, develop yourself first and don’t life your life chasing girls like they were the only way to happiness etc), then Andrew Tate and friends came to the scene and now most of them got extreme with that alpha facade and starting to give dead ass advices like “oh you should be jacked and mysterious” with Thomas Shelby scenes flashed here and there, it’s almost like they’ve realized that helping people wouldn’t sell their overpriced courses
I still can't believe that these men don't realize women dont want a man they just met to suddenly grab them or sneak up on them. Like how hard is it to realize that every woman has things they like about men but number 1 is always "will not fucking murder me"
@@ralphwilsin thank u 🙏. As a certified woman; I would say to seek out those you have something in common with (like a hobby or political views idk) so they can become familiar with you. And personally, I am always attracted to people that have a nice style and carry themselves with confidence. I know it’s really basic advice but that’s what I would say without knowing anything about you personally haha
@@ralphwilsin Honestly be nice and understanding. But yeah I would def agree with the confidence part, we like men who know who they are tho without being an ass. If that makes sense. Personally I'm super attracted to eye contact, so if you find someone attractive look AT them and try to find their EYES, then a soft smile. Not too long tho, we don't want to be creepy. If it doesn't work the first time, I'd say try one or two more times. If she smiles back I'd say you can approach her. The most important part tho is to check the vibe.
I love how the newer version of 'a twinge of cringe' sounds like an old and wise woman trying to teach us about the horrible terrible horrors of this world
@@Lex_brooke Chad Chad seems to record each video's title card individually, but she's saying it differently now than she was before. Previously she was styling it in a high pitched voice.
@@Lex_brooke oh is it different in every video? i just remember there being the really high pitched 'twinge of cringe' in older videos, but maybe im wrong
8:48 I know it’s subjective, but I find this profile to be really nice and welcoming, I would definitely choose this one over the one with all the “improvements” the guy suggested
I love how many alpha male coaching bros will give you a lesson about Tinder profiles and show their example of a "good" one. Like Tinder is the only measure of success out there. Also people who are really happy in a relationship... don't have Tinder.
with one of the worst openings ever, the phrase "ruin you" used like that makes me feel like physically gagging every time I hear it. Very few things you could say that would turn me off dating or hooking up with you faster than that. 🤢
Needy would be those 4 text messages sent within minutes to hours after each other. Theyre literally spread out over a few weeks which is the difference
@@lanikinlywalker4596 Good point! Now that you mention it, needy isn’t quite the right word, so he’s right about it being persistent instead of needy. But sending the same thing over and over feels kinda stubborn and childish. It wouldn’t have been bad advice if he at least switched things up, known when to stop, and said something less weird than… whatever that was
@@axuwu6939 Who's to say he wasn't just trolling at that point. The reality is, online dating is a dumpster fire the majority of the time and men and women alike are toxic on those platforms. I know this will be anecdotal but I wasn't getting any success with dates until I followed Alex's advice. I went from 0 dates in months of trying to dates consistently every week, so for me it's hard to argue against the results
"Throw away the glasses", he says mockingly, while holding the phone about 3 inches from his face because he clearly needs glasses himself, but is too "alpha" to wear them.
Doesn’t that make his advice more valid then, if he has deficient looks but still does well? Do you really think a very handsome man is in a position to give advice to average men. Think about it… kinda funny though
I just hope that women in all of his weird scenarios is ok and is getting paid millions for letting him terribly flirt with her in the most sexist way possible.
"I'm a male stripper. I take clothes off people." ... Uh....it's been a minute since I've been in a strip club, but last I was there the strippers weren't taking clothes off OTHER people......... Did that change? Is this a covid thing?
I think he was attempting to make a "FBI: Female Boob Inspector" type of joke, except his delivery is absolutely abysmal, so it ended up sounding like he just doesn't know what a stripper is.
Craziest thing is beta male who smiles too much and has to take off glasses is more attractive than the video guy I don't even mean personality I mean just from looks alone lol
this is why i’ve always advised to young guys to never listen to the advice of a mid-30 year old “dating coach,” who’s longest relationship was probably half a year. the best type of people to learn about dating women is well… women! take advice from your friends, family, close-coworkers, etc. and literally see the difference in successfully getting more dates and longer/happier relationships when you’re not just a meat suit that only communicates with pick-up lines to hopefully get action, but a actual human with personality, hobbies, and having actual interest with your date as a person.
Women aren’t magical light beings who always give perfect advice. They’re flawed human beings with perspectives limited by their life experiences, just like men. If you want to sleep around as a straight man, the perspectives of other straight men who have slept around are going to give much more valuable insight than that of, say, a woman who married her highschool sweetheart. There’s also the fact that women are all different and have varying preferences (also according to the time in their life and period cycle). What this man does well is cast a wide net and then hone in on the subset of women who like macho, domineering men. That’s why I think that Chad Chad’s suggestion that this guy couldn’t have got positive responses from his messages are wishful thinking, unfortunately. The fact that he would turn off most women immediately won’t prevent him from sleeping around as long as he successfully triples down on the ones who are receptive.
The thing that weirded me at the most was how the girl helping him was constantly swaying on her feets, barely understandable and smiling absently like she was abnormally relaxed. He was swaying too, making it even more weird. What's up with that?!
Watcha wanna bet that's his go-to response whenever someone politely disagrees with him? "You're being nice enough, but this conversation still feels confrontational and icky. Obviously this is your fault."
@@onemore4567 I think it's more that he's so lacking in self-awareness his genuine responses are somewhat divorced from reality, but . . . I don't know. Maybe there's more overlap than we realize.
@@off6848 1. His delivery was awful, which is why so many people don't get that he was attempting a joke. 2. The joke is akin to the "I'm an FBI agent: a Female Boob Inspector," except even that is more clever. 3. The joke doesn't make sense because male strippers exist, and they are exactly the same as female strippers, except they're male. So saying, "I'm a male stripper, I strip clothes off people" sounds nonsensical and stupid.
4:33 the only times in my life I have ever said the phrase "Oh geez, now that's a question!" has been in response to conversations I'm about to walk away from because of the discomfort or disrespect I'm feeling LMAO
yeah you're right. why don't you show us how it's done@@bloodyhell47? tell me did you lose your virginity to imaginary hentai characters or a blow up doll?
cannot believe that, when describing the kind of emotional guy you don’t want to be, he said “you don’t wanna be the guy who reacts to everything” GOD FORBID YOU HAVE REACTIONS, SHE CANT KNOW THE WORLD AFFECTS YOU
IKR?? It's so weird that straight single men is the one talking about what women want and how to get women. Honestly it's hard to believe that man who hat3s women actually have a logical reason outside of "I'm bitter that women don't date me" because I never seen a gay person who resents women as much as starlight men do
This is actually something an old saying was partly referring to, it goes “Those who can do, those who can’t teach”. It’s not necessarily derogatory or meant to be negative, it’s just that a professor might be better at teaching architecture and engineering rather than building something like the Burj Khalifa skyscraper in Dubai…🤔😏😊
God I'm so obsessed with Chad Chad, she's quickly becoming one of the best commentary channels on here. I love her humor and use of sketches. I hope she takes over the entirety of RU-vid.
When I watch a video from a successful RU-vidr I like to go back to their first video and see where they came from. Usually it’s several years old and has a bunch of editing errors and they haven’t settled on a specific style of performing, which is absolutely understandable. With Chad Chad I see the same thing but she only started a year ago! She’s progressed so much in such a small span of time and is already getting millions of views! I can only fathom what she’ll be like in 5 years time, how her style-which is already incredible-will have improved and elevated her content.
i just realized i have a new crush and was feeling kinda self-conscious about my social skills but seeing this cheered me up. while also making me lose faith in humanity, but i'm trying to focus on the positives
The smiling guy with the glasses is literally my type whilst I wouldn’t even look at that dating coach for a split second. How can men be so wrong lmao
Idk how telling a women she's being passive aggressive isn't the most snowflake triggered thing to say. In those clips of him "debating" he sounds like a big baby and of course these debates are in his safe space of his youtube channel where most of the live comments support his arguments. Honestly, judging by the thumbnail titles, he just wants to look like a galaxy brain alpha telling off the triggered feminist. It's pointless to engage with that nonsense. It should had left to rot back in 2016. It's hilarious people still use unironically words like red pill, blue pill, triggered, SJWs, ect this day and age. It's so childish.
It's been like 6 years since the stupid "triggered SJW compilation get owned by facts and logic!1!!" era and I can't believe some people never grew out of it. It's so cringy and embarassing it makes me die inside
We can't get upset or we're raging bitches. We can't be level headed or we're passive aggressive. I'm starting to think that MAYBE they just don't want to hear us talk. 🤔
Nothing gets me drier than hearing someone unironically use "SJW" or "Snowflake" in the present day. Most of the time they even act exactly like the people they hate, getting "triggered" over the smallest things. It's insane. And they say us women are emotional when these men constantly look like they're about to pop a blood vessel any moment now.
This dude… every second of watching him made me so uncomfortable. He like… sways in and out of that girls personal bubble and just seems so painfully incapable of not being extremely awkward and creepy…
I love how it's like playfully just ask "you're not a secret fatty are you?" If someone asked me that I would definitely be like "I'm very obviously a open fatty" Also I love how he's scripted for her to answer that finance is just the easiest job
Asking that is just negging. It's like saying "your nose isn't that big irl, is it?" like, if you wanna find out a girl's weight, just ask for a full body pic. Many people like "thicc chicks", it's not the 90s where all the clothes were made for an alien species which didn't have the ability to gain fat. By saying "you're not a fatty, are you" you're saying "I only have sex with girls who fit a stereotype most men tailor their preferences to so I can show you off as one of the girls I scored".
@@toxihex876 I mean, people do to have "types", so I'm not going to agree that not being into fatter people is bad or whatever (as long as you keep it to yourself and don't insult people about their body type), it's just personal preference. But you can generally tell someone's build just by looking at their face, so he likely already knows the answer. If he knows the answer, you can safely assume he's not really asking to get the answer. The other thing here is that's an extraordinarily rude thing to ask, and even if there were a polite way to ask it, this ain't it, chief.
@@trianglemoebius It can be quite difficult to tell sometimes. If someone doesnt have body pics then one might assume theyre hiding something but they could also just not have any body pics (professional reasons or whatever). If shes offended and unmatches then she was either fat or she isnt someone youd vide with anyway