TikTok Gym Bro Got Cheated On And Now Hates Women… 

Facts

Hyperbole I’m sure.

He's not wrong LOL

@@Squidwardsclarinet69I’m assuming you met half of the population to say that

​@@Squidwardsclarinet69 he is though.

Was about to post this exact comment. These people need to do some serious introspection as to why they attract/are attracted to bad people. Or to understand what’s wrong with themselves. Either way, they need to take accountability for these failed relationships.

I tell my friends who are having frequent bad luck with relationships to try getting to know someone they usually wouldn't go for. Gotta try to notice the patterns.

He is being a bit crazy but he to are knowledge was cheated on. Now how he’s acting is an overly attached but maybe he has some past problems saying he is the common denominator for cheating?

I mean most girls i’ve dated were toxic and manipulative but that’s because it’s what i attracted. this dude is LOST

Taylor Swift fans gotta hear this

She cheated. No?

​@CatotheE yeah but 2 to 3 months is usually when a person's true colors shine. You shouldn't be that invested in the relationship yet.

@@kayleewilliams1232 Not if you date with intention. It baffles me how many people want to put this on the guy. If he was cheated on, she’s the bad one. I think red pill and manosphere bro’s have broken people. You can disagree with this guy and recognize that he was poorly treated. He’s the victim in that relationship. Just say that he shouldn’t use it to judge women broadly.

@@CatotheE cheating is bad. Obsessing over a dead relationship that the other person did a terrible thing to you after like 6 months is bad too. not every story has to have a hero.

@@LegoGoblin Not really. You can say he should move on, but that’s not a moral failing. The moral failing is with the wife. A lot of these guys are no better than the redpill people you mock. Can women Ever get criticism? She cheated. She’s the bad guy and he’s right to be upset about it.

What? Can you explain?

i don’t get it

@kstoneburgh8600 I meant, Sure it's cringe now but it's better the guy let's out all these feeling of Heartbreak now- even on such a public platform- because we don't allow guys, typically masculine ones at that, to be able to feel such emotions like Heartbreak without criticism. If he lets it out now- it's better than him keeping it in and basically turning into a red pill/ black pill type months later I had this mentality assuming this had been a long and very deep relationship. And then it was mentioned that he and the supposed girl were only together for two months, and that just makes it hard to take him seriously now. Like how deep could this relationship have been in two months to warrant such an extreme reaction.

OH I thought you meant ur bf

@@-N0V4-musta been a good lay

Same types to seethe over women saying “all men are trash”

I don't put much stock in anyone. That uses blanket statements. They are never true, so they lose their credibility immediately.​@@htm5814

Both genders are all trash I’m waiting for the next release

Same with the inverse

yeah. honestly, if anyone says “all __ are the same” then there’s a problem 🙂

That's honestly makes so much sense. Misogynistic content absolutely THRIVES in the gym bro space

Hurt people hurt people he obviously was in a abusive relationship with a emotional dependent type. Where's his friends gone. Guess why. Guess who isolated him. Then left. He's broken sure but y'all shouldn't be laughing at that. When he's gone I hope y'all are proud of bullying him.

Gym bro is a generalization of men btw nice sexist comment.

@@Ave_Satana666wtf

@@Ave_Satana666 This is the reason why men don't speak about their emotions.

Had a “fwb” for ONE day and broke it off bc he was a pos who took pics of me and he posted like this guy for at least a week until I told him to knock it off and blocked him. No idea if he still posts that shit but some people are crazy

​@@BoatsBigDaywhy's he a POS for taking pictures of you? Y'all slept together 😂 did he rage post them after y'all ended things or something which why it's bad now?

@@sharpsrain8302 because he didn’t ask for my consent and tried to lie to me about it. He was also clearly going to send them to his friends behind my back

​@@sharpsrain8302you don't take intimate pictures of somebody without their permission. Sleeping with someone is not giving the permission to take intimate pictures of you

@@jr5557 😂🤡so he somehow snuck pictures of her while she was naked in front of him use ur brain dumbA she whored around and doesn't wanna accept her wrong doing he had her consent doll they were the only ppl present -(well maybe the commenter might be "learning" about herself still 😂😂😂

Does it matter if she cheated on him? Why the victim blaming.

@@CatotheEits one thing to be (rightfully, regardless of length of relationship) upset about getting cheated on. its another thing to say that all women are cheaters because you got cheated on. you dont have to bash on women because you got played.

@@womankisserjermaluvr I agree, but my issue is that a lot of people here are basically defending the cheater.

@@CatotheE stop misusing therapy terms, defending the cheater isnt victim blaming, blaming the victim is

@@KavsLockedOut It’s definitely victim blaming.

Ironically they’re the sensitive snowflakes that they hate. Bunch of whiners lmao

​@@parisolivarious2 sides of the same coin😂

@@sharpsrain8302 found one!

Werd

sorta agree, although i think gunner missed that he said “2nonths ago” not “the 2 months we had”, idk personally how long they were together but from what it sounds like he’s not saying they were together fr two months, rather they ended two months ago.

still not how you react @@Wish-es it could have been a years long relationship and it would still be weird.

unfriend him

@@mikeblazin5400 will do! 😍🙈

​@@mikeblazin5400will do! 😍🙈

Hugs 🫂

@@aniota1648 ew weirdo

Thats how you end up on Forensic Files 😅

As someone who cheated on my ex with her best friend and we dated for a year plus I messed with her sister a few months after she dumped me over it I can't really fault him for him being deeply hurt but then he just goes unhinged and generalizes all women and goes full rage mode on his ex Btw I was friends with this ex for years and though she expressed how much it hurt her and how she can never get close to me because of it she never did what that guy did

​@@Chuck_ELwhy are you admitting to being a terrible person?

@@Chuck_EL What you did was so much worse... What the fuck?

@@bobobsen why do you respond like this? They're clearly not endorsing their behaviour, they're obviously saying that what they did in the past was completely wrong. I mean he's effectively saying "I know how much that can hurt because I saw firsthand how badly my actions affected my ex when I cheated on her", so he clearly feels remorse for his actions. I don't think being a terrible person in the past makes you a necessarily makes you a terrible person in the present. It does a lot of the time (most, I'd say), but generally in those situations it's the people that refuse to even acknowledge that they ever did (or do) anything wrong in the first place. That is clearly not @thepubknight6144, though.. he knows what he did, and he knows it was wrong. I can't know for certain that they don't cheat anymore, be it seems like they wouldn't. Idk, I guess all I'm saying is that we all start at a difference place in life. Some of us had good parents, some of us didn't. Some of us started out as relatively decent people, and some of us didn't. All we can do is try to be a better person than we were yesterday. The guy you're responding to appears to be doing that, so I don't think they're a bad person at all (at least not based on this one comment, anyway). I've noticed a trend over the past few years of deciding that anyone who has ever done anything bad is irredeemable and permanently a bad person. That's not how people work, at all. I mean even if we ignore the reality that good people often do bad things and bad people often do good things, people change over time! If we want people to reflect on their mistakes, realize they're wrong, and change/grow into a better person, we need to give them the grace to be wrong! I'm not saying anyone is obligated to forgive someone else (nobody is obligated to forgive anyone), but for the people that are genuinely trying to be better people.. we need to encourage them, not attack them. It's the people that throw temper tantrums and double down and say "I'm not wrong, YOU'RE wrong!" over and over that are the problem. (that's normally a political rant about how tf we're ever going to integrate right-wingers back into American society, but it applies nicely here too lol)

very weird and bad to diagnose people on the internet please don’t

@@mtlewis973 I'm a very weird and bad guy

​@@MastaBroshiXFuck yeah 😈💸🗿

@@mtlewis973 If the dude doesn't want to be judged he shouldn't blast his misogynistic bullshit all over social media...

@@ajeenius7437 what? No, that's nonsense. He can be wrong for doing what he's doing, and someone trying to diagnose someone on the internet is wrong for what _they're_ doing. They're different levels of wrongness, but they're both still absolutely wrong. It's embarrassing that I need to explain this to you. Literally stuff we learned in Kindergarten...

1000%

I have Borderline Personality Disorder and I agree. I've moved in with people after knowing them mere weeks. The black and white "all girls are the same." Having unaliving thoughts when someone breaks up with you. Moping for a prolonged time. His impulsive behavior is to exercise too much.. I could go on and on, you know?

Was gonna say, this sounds like the girl I dated with BPD. Wonderful (albeit patently insane) woman. She's on meds now, got a little bb girl and doing great from what I can tell :) edit: the other girl with BPD that I dated ended accusing the baby daddy of a bunch of heinous stuff, murdering her baby as to prevent him from getting custody, putting the body in her trunk, and fleeing the cops. She had a lot of other problems, it wasn't just BPD. Dodged a bullet there 😬 (shut up, yes I know I had/have terrible taste in women, I'm a little nuts myself. I'm working on it!)

@@idontwantahandlethoughon another comment you chastised someone for saying he went into a depression. in this comment you are diagnosing him. you're in so many of the comments. i don't like you.

That’s what I thought too, also contrasting his positive content with his negative content fits BPD with intense emotional experiences, I bet he really deeply means it with those clips about wishing everyone well & hoping others can be happy. He likely feels those emotions at times just as strongly as his anger & his fear of abandonment at others. Hopefully he gets the help he needs cause nobody deserves to feel the instability that BPD comes with & we’re capable of loving passionately & being loved when we sort some things out

Pattern recognition doesn’t exist right?

Cultures don’t exist or influence us either? Your comment one big hypocritical generalization. How can you even say this? Why don’t you go move to the hood then? Wouldn’t want to generalize your perceptions about the area right? It’s just a good deal where’s the downsides?

@@uncertaintytoworldpeace3650 It absolutely does, and it can be helpful.. it's just NOTORIOUSLY faulty, and thus we need to be careful not to apply these patterns too widely. The human brain is really, really, _exceptionally_ bad at estimating statistics, and that's all "pattern recognition" really is at the end of the day. Our brains were simply not built for such mathematics, and that's why we need to look at the _data_ to show us that many of "patterns" we see aren't actually real. TL;DR - your brain is designed to make quick decisions based on incomplete information in order to keep you alive. It is not designed to uncover universal truths or statistical trends.

​@@idontwantahandlethough😂🤡😂wrong brother we wouldn't exist if we couldn't recognize patterns stop giving excuses for the majority who are genuinely stupid the issue doesn't lie in pattern recognition it's the application of it ie patterns exist but ignoring the other factors/the rest of the data eventually leads to you framing ppl or situations to broadly, incorrectly close but no cigar

@@sharpsrain8302humans are so unintelligent i can’t you are a living example of why shampoo has instructions

The other side of the cheater?

​@@CatotheE why are you in all the comments insisting that his behaviour is okay because he got cheated on 😭

@@bolshevikapologist9957 Why are you people defending the cheater, bolshevikapologist9957?😭😂

Aint no pne defending the cheater. But you can be crazy and get cheated on. We dont need a murderer too​@@CatotheE

I think it's like i love you i love you more banter

I remember me and my ex of four years broke up (I dumped her) and I have hardly spoken on her in a negative light and she did some foul shit , yet I didn't claim it's "all women" or "women are bad" phase

She cheated tho

He didn't become a psycho cause of the breakup. That was already his personality and now he's just letting it all out there.

@alex-dm3sn oh yeah for sure. I'm sure there were red flags before but this is it all bubbling over

Same here. This dude is such a clown. I wish I hadn't wasted years on my last relationship, it's one of the worst parts.

Well now I feel bad 😔

I think it might be more something along the lines that she was his first "hot girl", now I don't know how to put it without sounding too misogynistic - but she was like a fantasy girl to him and somehow managed to date her. Every guy has to go through it, you get the girl you never thought you could even dream up the chance of being with - screw up and she bails, and then deal with the emotional aftermath of blowing your chance.

@@Chromeize I can understand this, but this guy would be considered attractive with hot women because he has the standard gym bro body and his face isn’t bad either, so I find it a little hard to believe what you wrote is the case for him. I think something else is going on. Maybe he’s a ride or die kinda guy and falls hard for who ever he’s currently with, but this time he got cheated on, and it majorly effected him.

well said. It's a hard lesson to learn, but an important one! (btw I'm proud of you bro 🤗)

True. Men are almost always at fault. Blame yourself. Not the woman that cheated on you.😤

​@CatotheE not you again 😭

@@bolshevikapologist9957 You’re back? Lol.

I'm 99% sure he didn't mean real fight, but that nauseating "I love you more" "no I love YOU more" "no I love _YOU_ more" nonsense 😂

Damn, even six months would be too early to me! But two months?? Holy....

@@DwynTwo Fr. I need to really get to know a person in every aspect before I can fully commit (I’d be loyal, but I need a lot of time to develop trust and safety with a person before I get physically and emotionally invested) let alone say “I love you”. That takes way more than 2 months. I personally think it takes years to truly fall in love with someone.

Yeah I think I took like 9 months. 2 months would've freaked me out.

But she cheated on him tho? Like me personally I wouldn't care but I can see where he is coming from

@@senatorarmstrong2100 understandable to get upset about someone cheating, but when your in your mid 20's and so upset after a 2 month relationship that you feel its ok to send ur ex a text talking and sh and wanting to off yourself, he obviously has deeper issues beside this breakup and can dangerous for other is he doesn't get help. Cheating doesnt excuse his behaviour imo no one should act like this tbh

​@@senatorarmstrong2100 so? He's a psychopath. They dated for two months, as adults, and he's been throwing fits and raging for 6months. He's in the wrong regardless of what she did

that paired with all the "intense" love on his end after only 2 months is scary as a woman. that's love bombing for sure and if i were dating someone like that, i'd leave as well

True. My ex boyfriend used to threaten to kill himself whenever I did something he didn't like. I would do anything he asked just so that I didn't upset him. I finally had to cut him off completely after lots of therapy because my health took a nosedive. If anyone does something like that in a relationship, leave.

The gym can absolutely be a form of self harm. From personal experience, pushing yourself beyond your physical limits on a regular basis can fulfill the same effects of self harm. And its very very common for the "classic gym-bro type" to be lifting as a form of mental health managment. This all makes for an extremely toxic community. But that's all to say, I wouldn't be even remotely surprised if both things were true. 1) he actually is suicidal 2) as a misogynistic gym douche, he used that fact as a form of manipulation

Dude exact fucking same, made me fall for her shit ended after 2 years because she was running around. And I mean yeah ofc that shit messed my self esteem up even to this day but I absolutely love my saint of a current girlfriend and trust her completely. I can't fucking imagine blowing my entire worldview up so much over a 2 month relationship

"Hating women because one broke your little fragile heart makes you look soft" There is nothing wrong with being soft, and nothing wrong with being a more emotional dude. I just feel like it's important to say that because we don't need any more guys thinking it's somehow "not manly" to have feelings. It's both manly and human, obviously (because men have feelings and are ostensibly human). _However..._ there is *absolutely* something wrong with acting like that guy is acting. If he was saying this stuff in therapy while working through his anger and warped beliefs, that would be super amazing. But he's not, he's infecting others with his toxic nonsense :/

Maybe if you’re into hookup culture or don’t date with intention. Yes. Getting cheated on here still makes him the victim. Even after two months.

@@CatotheE no bro, 2 months in middle school is a serious relationship. If it's not long enough for a season change, it's not enough to go mental like how he's going.

@@slashismyhommie8182 By go mental, you mean be upset about getting cheated on. Why do you people feel the need to defend cheaters?

Tell me you're a cheater without telling me you're a cheater.

@@CatotheE The dude is crying way too much. He's lucky he only wasted 2 months on her. It's insulting to have him dramatize something so minor.

They are calling him a red flags for turning this into a women hating bs after two months Don't get me wrong if the guy was not doing this i would genuinely feel for him it would still show that he has issues but🤷🤷

As someone that turned into an absolute psychopath for a long time over being cheated on, so much of the rage stems from investing time, effort, hopes, opportunity costs, building your life around a person and so on - based on lies. Like your life is reduced to a prop in someone else's lame ass movie. Every memory feels invalidated. 2 months? He should count his blessings. It's definitely a red flag, and that probably goes for me as well despite having years invested in my own relationship.

I think somewhere they have the thought that they will somehow get hot. And it'll be the revenge they wanted against their ex Partner. Because nothing is healthier than driving your own health and fitness around what somebody else might be wanting.

aye, just wanted to say that you're a dope, valid, worthwhile human being :) I've been pretty depressed too lately. We'll get through this eventually 🤗

@@idontwantahandlethough We got this! Thank you for the wholesome and sweet comment.

Did she cheated again?

Jesus loves you

"Men be fighting demons but the demons are just unaddressed depression/PTSD/compulsory heterosexuality and they need THERAPY" is what came to mind.

I wish more men would go to therapy. I've been going for a decade now and it's one of THE BEST decisions I've ever made. Sometimes there are weeks (or months, hopefully someday years!) where I don't really even need it, but even then it's still nice to have someone to talk to that you know won't (can't) tell anyone. Or even just to say "I feel good this week" and they can say "Hell yeah, you did that dude! That was YOU!". Idk, I guess it's just nice to have someone who you know will always be in your corner, so to speak. Brains need to be taken care of too, after all! What's the point of having a rockin' bod if your brain is a toxic hellscape? Highly recommend it :)

Different people different problems i find it silly but🤷🤷 I think if the guy was talking about his problems without turning this into a women aint shit bullshit i would defitely simpatize with him

I love you! 🥰 I hate you, we're through! 😤 Ok, there ya go bud. I just rekt your heart, no need to thank me :)