TOP SOCIAL ANXIETY HACKS: Become Socially Unstoppable

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95% of people worry too much about what other people think... These live demonstrations will show you how to get to cause of social anxiety!
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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TOP SOCIAL ANXIETY HACKS: Become Socially Unstoppable
How to overcome social anxiety! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to be confident in any social situation, how to be confident around people, how to be grounded during social interactions and how to build confidence!
Discover the best way to deal with social anxiety disorder.
#julienblanc #julienhimself #anxiety
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14 окт 2024

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@JulienHimself 2 года назад

It ALL starts with this type of deep awareness! 👉 These coaching demonstrations will provide you with a new approach to overcoming anxiety for good! 🚨 WATCH ME NEXT - The cause of social anxiety: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-V6lwwZX7nfw.html - My favorite social anxiety challenge: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-AUj6gN0o4wU.html - My full STEP-BY-STEP social skills method: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-pCZdJiGSk8g.html

@jonathanallard2128 Год назад

Fuck yeah Julien. Love what you do.

@aptrevixle269 2 года назад

Please don't stop making this content any soon, Julien. It's incredible seeing how far I have come with the help of your videos in the past half year.

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Thank you! A LOT more to come!

@rogermoore3991 Год назад

Your such a knowledgeable guy, thank you for sharing your wisdom

@raphaelaquino5936 2 года назад

as a socially awkward person, i feel the nervousness when he put them on the spot 😂

@painkillergs9834 Год назад

Same Bro, I feel like I get used to It tho' like I'm so focused that I feel I'm the on the spot and I live that and get used to being there.

@PhillDrakeEntertainment 11 месяцев назад

Same such an uneasy feeling

@aaronk3788 11 месяцев назад

But thing is you are not an socially awkward person.. that’s a self limiting ceiling you believe.

@richadambudgen7520 11 месяцев назад

Me too. 😮

@WalkenOnWater 11 месяцев назад

Bruh ! 😂

@baiihai1531 2 года назад

"if u can do it to u, you can also undo it, its in your control" thank Julien.

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

YES!!! 🙌

@COMARto 2 года назад

This is how you build the society of the future. Person by person.

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

🙏🙏

@maxmenzer8640 2 года назад

Thanks for Putting me up there Julien! Working a lot in releasing since then and already some big things have changed in my life since the Event ❤️

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Amazing to hear! Massive respect to you man, takes a lot of courage and willingness to do the work!! 🙏🙏🙏

@eugeniaespinosa5733 6 месяцев назад

I'm learning english while I try to overcome my social anxiety, Julien you're awesome!

@aadzaad 2 года назад

Anxiety is the same feeling as being excited, we give the meaning to it

@aadzaad Год назад

@@MsRocksa its normal to feel anxiety in those situations even the chances of something happening are very small. Your body is just warning you for danger. See it as something good instead of bad because things could get worse if you didnt feel any anxiety in those moments

@m3kbeatz 11 месяцев назад

@@aadzaadbut what about being alone for the rest of the life?

@Junior-yi1gz 7 месяцев назад

"You think that'll heal that that inner child that didn't feel love and connected to his father " that line hits deeply man 😔 because i know what it is.

@dk3153 11 месяцев назад

him screaming out is one courageous thing to do. i would cringe at myself but for the guy i feel proud. funny how others in comparison to your own inner voice may interpret your actions

@phillip7650 2 года назад

The look in his eyes after saying “my well being comes first!” I love this💛🔥

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

🔥🔥🔥

@JoyProductionz 2 года назад

The close-ups being able to see in the eyes is amazing. Can really feel the emotions through the eyes! Incredible camera team

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Yes, they crushed it! 🔥👊

@gocivic99 2 года назад

Great video. I felt alone in my journey after a huge life change. It''s a breath of fresh air to see others overcoming their hurdles too. I thought at first the language was abrupt and direct but I now get it. It breaks negative feed back loops and negative self talk. The quick answers bypass walls we put up. I like how he corrects posture, eye contact and verbal projection. We often don't see how broken we come off. Mental manifesting into physical. Great work brother.

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Glad this resonates with you! Never forget: WHAT'S MOST PERSONAL IS MOST UNIVERSAL!" 🙏

@hardstyle3196 2 года назад

🤔 what was your life change like?

@The.RenaissanceMan 2 года назад

I’m writing a book on social anxiety. I’m going to send you a copy when its finished. You’ve silently influenced parts of it

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Nice!

@Osca09 Год назад

I recently told a girl who really brought the best in me that I liked her and turns out she was really into me last semester but she moved on to someone else over summer break. Surprisingly I didn’t tear up and yes there was some sad emotion but I still felt it deep down. I tried to continue on and made myself believe that I was happy, I was singing songs as I was walking and being myself. That’s what I kept telling myself this past week. I’ve been following Julien’s content for some time now and did a lot of inner work to finally like myself and be ready to tell her I liked her only for her to say she moved on. This video hit hard especially when Julien asked the guy at the beginning why he was protecting himself. Idk what it was but it felt like my conscious told myself that question and instantly I fell into tears. I didn’t realize after the rejection, I kept hiding away my emotions cause I thought I was fixed and whole, yet I didn’t realize that I was far from whole and that rejection really hurt me. This video was exactly what I needed to hear to help myself realize that I had been hiding my sadness from myself. Thank you Julien, you really don’t understand how much of a difference you’ve made in my life.

@JoyProductionz 2 года назад

When the crowd goes ham when he let's go and screams out full of energy. Powerful

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Yes! 🔥👊

@taylorleeann Год назад

Wow. Your videos just popped up on my RU-vid, this is exactly what I’ve been needing. And just looking into all those peoples faces being raw, vulnerable and real…is the most comforting thing I’ve seen in years. I am actually seeing kindness and realness in people again. Love what your doing.

@JulienHimself Год назад

Glad this resonates with you! Welcome to the channel! 🙏

@coltonbuzash9821 2 года назад

I challenge that definition of insanity. For myself, insanity is doing the same thing over and over, knowing exactly what will happen, but doing it anyway. It comes from that protective child inside that is convinced I’m not good enough. It is not lying, it’s just wrong, as children (and adults) often are. Helping that inner child feel safe is the only way I’ve found to stop that inner child from being protective.

@jadedjimmy 2 года назад

All these long shots and lack of quick cuts is actually amazing-plus “Whose approval are you craving the most? YOUR OWN!!!” Damn. Giving me goosebumps

@kofrixguia2019 2 года назад

Videos like this really make me see people as they are, cause i would always see the idea of everyone else! But videos like this really show, the true emotion of a person

@CharismaMastery 2 года назад

The message of awareness cuts right to the heart of the issue. We have held these protective hiding behaviors to be necessary and useful for so long that they are typically below your threshold of awareness. The first step is bringing them to light without shame or guilt, then releasing then and replacing their manifestations in your life.

@PatchworkFarmette Год назад

I know speak up in crowds at work I step up and talk to people when I think things are wrong or can be better. The amount of courage this content has given me is amazing. I’m so happy to be shedding the people pleasing mentality and I’ve watched and tried many things. This is just core stuff here.

@ptfountainhead 2 года назад

Julian you are a blessing to good men. Setting them free because you remember what it’s was like to be a slave to your own self hate. It IS your why and it shows through like a supernova!

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Thank you! Glad this resonates! 🙏🙏

@EagleRaid2 Год назад

This is so powerful and authentic, me and so many others need this kind of theraphy so badly. Why is this not a standard thing applied by society as treatment???

@ynotwallace 2 года назад

Hope you’re doing alright man, it’s not easy taking in that much emotion from people and offering perspective/ insight.

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Working like CRAZY with the brand growing as fast as it is, but loving it! 🔥👊

@Bonky-wonky Год назад

If only they would see themselves how I (and probably most others watching this) see them, brave people who have the balls to drop the mask of toughness/coolness and show their real self in front of a crowd and probably millions of youtube viewers.

@ranc1977 2 года назад

I see accepting social anxiety - where we are then forced to wiggle our way through life. When we accept anxiety as part of life, instead of fawning, self censorship - we will introduce new strategies, allowing ourselves to zoom out and see big picture when we are zoomed in, we'll try out Viking scream and strategies that we usually label as evil and wrong, sick or not allowed in toxic situations. Yeah, I see being afraid of being "weak" as toxic shame - it is motor inside that keeps social anxiety ongoing. Then trying not to show being vulnerable - which does not work in real life. And external factor - where abusers hypnotize us into subservience and being shy and closed. If we accept social anxiety we will allow ourselves to try out new strategies and that will make difference when we handle difficult people and difficult situations.

@millysmanifestations 11 месяцев назад

this shows us that we’re really all just the same at the end of the day ❤️ all just people who are afraid and hurt in some way

@szymonlebek9040 2 года назад

Thank you for this event, Julien. Im very grateful for having experienced it live!

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Thank you for making it out in person! 🙌

@tiagobjesus Год назад

I feel an overwhelming anxiety that came with my thirties, sometimes i shake in some situations and i look back at my twenties and remeber the guy that played the guitar and sang in front of 200+ people and didnt get slightly triggered by it. I dont comprehend it at all.

@PatchworkFarmette Год назад

This stuff is always so amazing. I walk around and sometimes just have these big epiphanies now from asking myself inner questions. Great stuff Julien

@drums34 2 года назад

I got so much respect for you man you're changing the world at your scale and I can't be more thankfull for that.

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Thank you! 🙏🙏🙏

@colinbeirouty4798 2 года назад

Julien is on an unmitigated rampage with these videos, keep it up!

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

🔥🔥🔥

@BenOnuMuDiyorum 2 года назад

What I've found right now is that we all had decided to be weak with the aim of making someone else happy. Which means we are not weak actually, we feel relatively weak, and carry it with us to everywhere. We decide in advance that we are weak, why, because of one relationship we had with someone. Let's go with my example, me and my older brother. Even though he is not powerfull than me, actually weaker cause he was more scared to be hurt, I accepted his pressure and oppression. I said ok, I'm not gonna create any confliction, I'm not gonna push you by being me and experience your humiliations, ok I'm weak I can't get trough you, let's be happy togetter and continue our relationship. That's important because it shows that we (you) feel relatively weak. We are not weak. We have decided to act weak in one situation and carried to everywhere. In every occasion it's up to us to act powerful or weak.

@Kayledon777 2 года назад

also, it is a lot easier to be authentic in front of a crowd that is there for authenticity. if I am in front of another person, they may not be expecting that level authenticity, or it may intimidate or scare them

@msc8382 Год назад

The point being is that TO YOU specifically, it shouldn't matter. It just means they're dealing with their own demons making your character you present seem unrelated to your inner world (to them). That's not a reason to be in anxiety (for you), its a reason not to respect the other people right off the bat. Lack of respect does not mean you disapprove of them. It just means they haven't shown they're capable of understanding your values. Its their own issue if they're intimidated or scared, and if you're aware of this, then you can take leadership in their stead. Wouldn't you say that if you can enact on yourself that makes the interaction authentic enough to do it, worthwhile? Either you're worth fighting for, and therefore, anyone else you accept in your interactions... or you're not, in that case.. time to let go of the past. Can't help the unwilling overcome their problems. And even if they're willing, I doubt they speak from the same motives because if they did, you'd be able to connect with them authentically. Its in-authenticity that's the self defense mechanism, not the reverse. Its called dissociation in psychology.

@healingingrace 2 года назад

Another great video. I could feel the energy of those people that went in-front through the screen and imagined myself there. It’s so powerful but even more when you have that support from Julien and just his presence locking eyes and being there present fully is what I believe gives a little sense of safety and that everything will be okay. Inner child work definitely hurts and having someone there is so helpful. Thank you for your work, you have changed my life COMPLETELY and I’m slowing healing 🙏🏼

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

🙏🙏🙏

@MarswaggerOG 2 года назад

Love ya bro!!..really like the consistency, lots of stuff to learn man

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Thank you! 🙏

@mghfuny1483 2 года назад

Man, I've never felt so relaxed.. Thank you julien

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Glad to hear that! You're welcome!

@NewVoiceSound 11 месяцев назад

The camera man and the editor did a great job awesome

@prod_by_walker808 6 месяцев назад

That fluctuation thing at the end is 100 percent me. Thats nuts. So much to unravel now

@TheNck1985 2 года назад

Thanks for doing this. I am feeling a lot better. "Self-acceptance" is the main issue most of 'nice' guys are dealing with. Now, I know how to fix it :)

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Glad this was so helpful! You're welcome!

@iGotQuestionsToo 2 года назад

Damn I have been using this method of talking to people for a while. GREAT F***ING POST

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Let me know your top takeaway once done watching the video! 😉

@PhillDrakeEntertainment 11 месяцев назад

I like to see these presentations it's like a therapy, very good job Julien

@huxleyginsberg13 2 года назад

Excellent video. Hard to find this type of content anywhere else.

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Thanks! Glad this resonates!

@Jordy_NL 2 года назад

Wow this is so resonant. Thank you all for being so honest, thank you Julien for this content.

@Poopdog312 8 месяцев назад

this is exactly what I needed

@pallavidubey9630 2 года назад

💜 you are really a wonderful blessing from god in my life !💜🙌

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

🙏🙏🙏

@anupnepali2965 2 года назад

Sir You are doing awesome work for other people , I really wanna meet you before i die

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Thank you! Apply here for private coaching if you'd like to talk to me directly: application.julienhimself.com 😉

@pratham3537 2 года назад

" Insanity is doing same shit over and over again and expecting shit to change" - Vaas

@bigbrother1986 2 года назад

All bros just need a hug

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

I wish it were that simple… 🙏

@johnrockdwaynson7484 2 года назад

But isn't it that simple? ;) A hug for all the exiled parts in you

@bigbrother1986 2 года назад

@@JulienHimself it's a start

@marytheraspberry3145 Год назад

There's also the other side, people that had loving and nurturing parents, but once they started going to school they got bullied, or once they met their cousins they got bullied. Basically, they felt at ease at home, but weak outside.

@almila1368 Год назад

Yes exactly, school has a huge impact on childhood. We spend more time at school after all.

@spontaneousbootay Год назад

Its crazy how much each person glows after they let go.

@proggigs 2 года назад

Was great seeing you fellas in seattle - long time supporter. Hope I can catch a spot in your mentor program before end of the year!

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Yes! Thanks for making it out to the Seattle event! 🔥👊

@thechingochingo9956 2 года назад

More stuff about improving humour man, I can't seem to think of jokes fast sometimes especially with girls, and no im not nervous or anything it's just my mind goes blank when it comes to joking

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Deep inner work and LETTING GO is what will actually solve this... You don't need more "humor tips and tricks", you need to learn how to NOT be stifled!

@baiihai1531 2 года назад

Dude doesn't watching video

@shawtv1733 2 года назад

Love your videos!!! I want to come to your event whenever it is close .

@Iamkingjay_ 11 месяцев назад

This is powerful 👏🏿👏🏿

@themachismomatrix5236 7 месяцев назад

We need a brother or a friend like Julien.

@ApproachingAuthenticity 2 года назад

Frankfurt, I made friends with some of these people! These events are such a great opportunity for finding your "tribe"

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Nice! Yes these are AMAZING events for networking as well! 👉 www.selfhelpfreetour.com

@blossomyguri_ Год назад

Second guy was just ✨majestic✨ how can he think like that and Dayummm girl too

@Cuspofrevolution Месяц назад

Its interesting how a lot of what we carry now is linked to a specific time or event in childhood. Have yet to pinpoint mine but its linked to the anger of my father who incidently is a severe worrier, and my mother with undiagnosed mental illness for all my childhood wasnt a person i could relate or get close too as there was a language barrier and also she wasnt fully there. Since my mother went on medication though it took many years of convincing am i able to communicate with her better. And my father whose traits i have including anger i can start to understand more as i learn the source of mine,

@faulerhund2725 2 года назад

Uff that hit hard, he is getting better and better.

@ze2004 Год назад

actually this is a really good therapy

@Bigdogiswolfing 2 года назад

Juliens face when that French guy randomly started yelling "my wellbeing becomes first" 😂 he was like holy shit what just happened

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

He crushed it! MASSIVE respect to him! 🙌

@Bigdogiswolfing 2 года назад

@@JulienHimself agreed!! That guy definitely had something about him.

@MonkMode 2 года назад

Good stuff as always 👽

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Thanks! Let me know your top takeaway from the video once done watching! 👊

@starseedian Год назад

Everytime I'm feeling shrinked into a box and anxious when I’m in college I think “What is some weird random shit I could do right now to break the _I want to appear cool_ mentality. And usually I just do something random like a very passionate squat with a scream or a very silly body shake while I look very serious. It cracks me up inside. And gets other people shocked like (wtf did I just witnessed ?!) Love that. Feels like I cracked the code and these people are just NPC's to my existence. Who tf cares.

@spontaneousbootay Год назад

Hmm. People arent npcs, have some respect.

@starseedian Год назад

@@spontaneousbootay Said an NPC once

@OfficialKoven 2 года назад

You, your content and the work you do are a blessing. Do you have any pointers, be it videos, books or other content showing the way of letting go? What would I search for if I want to dive deeper into this?

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Glad my content resonates so deeply with you! In terms of letting go, I'd suggest starting with my online course Transformation Mastery: www.julienhimself.com/8p

@TVelodrome Год назад

1:58 you can see it in the eyes that's actually crasy.

@imaginary-unit 2 года назад

Insane how even his complexion changed; phenomenal.

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

🔥🔥🔥

@Johnnyboybravo 2 года назад

I was told that I don't carry myself like a married man (I'm not married or a girlfriend) I look like a serious guy, but come across very goofy/childish, and don't communicate well. I tend to just listen and hardly talk back. If I talk back, people tend to have a hard time following. I do have a hard time focusing and make responses.

@yessirrr5182 Год назад

Don't worry, I know how you feel

@marydesmond2102 Год назад

The default mode is love

@taspatspro 11 месяцев назад

these are addicting to watch

@ricklubbers7761 2 года назад

The ending of this video is me in the last month and i'm fully consious about it.

@zinzin7075 2 года назад

This was amazing thank you :) you understand…I do too! It all feels so cool

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Glad this resonates with you!

@dawitgonfa6013 2 года назад

thanks broo that's was really cool..

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

You're welcome! Glad you enjoyed it!

@bennoreuter4393 2 года назад

6:22 He looks like a greek god. If he didn't have fear, he would be unstoppable.

@Theblazedgoddess 11 месяцев назад

I would honestly probably just start crying if you asked me that on the stage lol.

@jorenvanlaer2927 2 года назад

I cried because of the start

@Within_tranquility Год назад

❤🎉 love your content! Strait gold.

@JulienHimself Год назад

Thank you!!

@Christian-qu5ye 2 года назад

Thank you

@cptpowerpuff 2 года назад

Algorithm. (Great as always)

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Yes! Thank you!

@pabloreina8134 2 года назад

Awesome.

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Glad this was impactful!

@lifeskillsongs2510 2 года назад

I think authenticity includes holding dominant frame. Otherwise, you're in someone else's frame. IMO, these students - though I admire their courage - their behaviors suggest to me that their frame will be tested out in the real world. And *that* is when the strength or weakness...or perhaps *legitimacy* of their authenticity will be revealed. Thought experiment (& only that, I would NEVER do this, never ever ever lol 😆) : if you genuinely & sincerely believe Russia is justified - & you go out wearing a Russian Pride shirt in a blue state city. What a test of authenticity, right?

@Vestu 2 года назад

I don't think it needs to be dominant. As in somehow over someone else's frame, but you have to be conscious that your frame is yours and the other guy's frame is his and you can confidently keep your own frame and there's no need to get into the other guy's frame to make him like you and accept you because you have problems liking and accepting yourself fully.

@Soundeagle3456 2 года назад

by dominant what you actually mean is having control in oneself always in the sense that in any situation you will be 10/10, but it won't be forced it will be experienced, with newer and more novel experiences, the 10/10 will come naturally, but you have to get yourself in those experiences.

@OwenCookSelfHelp 2 года назад

The close ups are super epic 😎 👌 -Owen

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Thanks man!

@FaridZaioua Год назад

I wish that i can come to your houres and Try to fight my fear

@Kayledon777 2 года назад

what if someone wants to open up like this but not on camera?

@THEterminallance999 11 месяцев назад

What do you have too pay to get into events like this?

@TheoSlaps 2 года назад

I have a "lil" problem with social anxiety but with my parents when i want to ask them smth, i try overcome this over time but i still have it idk

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

Work to be done then! Have you tried my fear/anxiety FREE meditation yet? 👉 bit.ly/2JIkFJU

@dunkerspot 2 года назад

Holy shit, that one hit hard 🤯

@Junior-yi1gz 7 месяцев назад

To the man with the red shirt 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤️‍🔥🫶 To the standing man 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤️‍🔥🫶 Life's hard.

@MisticWays 2 года назад

Wondering in what country this was recorded... maybe here I'll be accepted..

@JulienHimself 2 года назад

This was recorded in Germany… But people are people. I’ve done live events in over 40 countries, and the issues people have beneath the surface are always the same.