#1 CONFIDENCE HACK: Become Who You're Afraid To Be

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95% of people are HIDING their confidence... This live demonstration will teach you how to stop being shy and insecure!
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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#1 CONFIDENCE HACK: Become Who You're Afraid To Be
How to be more confident and how to stop being insecure!
In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to be confident in any social situation, how to be confident around people and how to be grounded during social interactions...
Discover how to stop being shy and awkward using these confidence hacks!
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@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

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@putchristfirst4610 10 месяцев назад

When I first saw your videos, I had already been through all the stages you talk about and emotions and everything, I just want sure if I was confident enough to be real with people about it and tell them how it is without much anyone else who I found FULLY understood it. Then I found your videos on I think sunday, due to being so stressed and broken down at home due to not knowing if id ever be ready to express what I believed was true for everyone, thinking I'd be shut down due to peer pressure by some people who deep down know its true but listen to the voices out of fear and habit, and some who forgot its true due to being in the competetive anger stage like I think you said most people are in. But thanks to you being REAL, it caused and is causing TREMENDOUS change in the world as your probably know. Just wanted to say this to give you more encouragement, evidence, and stability, to keep doing what your doing. Its the secret societal code, running most of us who have the same intellectual build, just with different strengths and purposes. It seems yours is to BREAK THE FAKE. Keep moving forward bro, keep moving forward.

@putchristfirst4610 10 месяцев назад

I also like how you dont edit your videos because if you do, to me at least, its saying: "That part is shameful and noone should show this part of them". And as we know, its only shameful if you shame yourself for it!

@Timelessheart2135 4 месяца назад

Yeah. This is it.. such huge conflict.. bad day on purpose- confusion on purpose, changing career - having you in a week and inspiring to accumulate something to make it there, not straightaway, when it is lighter and expansive, I’ll be there.. some things to be done till then.. onto them ❤

@strive4impact 10 месяцев назад

Top reminder takeaway in this moment: "Be willing to lose the wrong people."

@BlackWolf6420 10 месяцев назад

Same here ❤

@2000krzysztof 10 месяцев назад

I get how she feels. I love what you do as well, I think out of all the advice I've seen online yours is the one that resonates the most with me.

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Thank you so much! I'm glad it resonates with you so deeply! 🙏

@carlosmoreno3016 10 месяцев назад

Same

@patmanpatmanson 7 месяцев назад

Right. That resonates different and I do personal development since April 2018 and it changed and saved my life ❤

@vicentemorales2533 10 месяцев назад

As soon as she started speaking into that camera during the live recording, it was like another person has stepped in, thats her shadow her true potential being actualized, it was so impressive and so hard to believe. She is that person, shes that potential, but shes holding back, a lot of us are holding ourselves back, great moment, a wake up call, amazing content, have a great day julian, have a great day everybody, and be your true selves

@jordynbrown5549 10 месяцев назад

I hope she knows her moments have also brought tears to others eyes, including mine. She did great ❤ Thank you both

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Yes, she crushed it! Glad this resonated with you!

@asmrelief4914 10 месяцев назад

Same here tysm

@highdesertbiker 10 месяцев назад

she's so sweet I feel the EXACT same way, i literally want to cry and do cry many of your videos thank you so much

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

You're so welcome! Glad my content is helpful and impactful for you! 🙏

@highdesertbiker 10 месяцев назад

@@JulienHimself bro you just made my day replying to this. There is so much good content in this video, it might be my favorite that you have made. It's just good vibes and positive people. It really makes me happy...like it shines a light. I've been struggling with really bad depression lately and you are like a beacon of hope. ty again

@CloudminS2 10 месяцев назад

can't stop watching Julien's videos

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

🙌

@mnuzair7549 2 месяца назад

Same here bro

@motivationforall1397 10 месяцев назад

I am literally crying... I am kind of her.... I have no words... But what you are doing is just amazing... I get anxiety and panic attacks... I am kind of people pleaser girl.. I have social anxiety... But today RU-vid recommended me your video and until now I have watched alot of your videos... I was trying so much but I was unable to overcome of it.. today I took a big decision of my life.. that I am going to come out of my comfort zone... And do what is holding me back from not doing it... Thanks Julien...

@CertifiedFreshMemes 10 месяцев назад

It's crazy. I'm binge watching your videos and somehow it feels like I've been on the stage too. From the tension at the start up to the moment of relief in the final stages. Your seminars evoke the whole range of emotions start to finish. There's so much to learn here it's incredible. And it's not just dropping bombs of knowledge. It's an experience for the participants (and viewers even)

@josephludwig1126 5 месяцев назад

I have NO social media, I love my solitude, no desire to gain that attention from so many, my happiness and success are NOT determined by others

@lunarae8037 10 месяцев назад

I’m in human services twenty years now and driving home between appointments I just lost it. I’m burnt out and have to find better. The go go go is too much. I’ve given to others as part of the healing journey. Found your videos yesterday and ready to figure it all out step by step. Thanks for the amazing journey we are about to go on.

@K4leidos 10 месяцев назад

You already know you can do it brother

@MeBerserk 10 месяцев назад

The amount of times I get tears in my eyes watching people here step over boundaries.... I need more water. It's beautiful man 😀

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Thank you! Glad this resonates with you!

@hollyandstelladoodle8748 20 дней назад

This woman is so relatable. She seems like she’s on the cusp of reaching such a powerful place and is BURSTING with unrealized excitement!! Go, lady, go!!!!

@healingingrace 10 месяцев назад

Thank you Julien ❤️ - You continue to normalize things and feelings. You’re one of the reasons why I decided to work on myself and become a coach. These live demonstrations are so valuable and helpful and I cannot thank you enough for the impact you’re making on the world and the comfort I get when I watch your videos specially because you’re authentic and REAL. “It’s okay” has become one of my daily mantras that I tell myself after you mentioned it in one of your videos I think. I know it sounds weird but this simple sentence changed the way I talk to myself and how I treat myself. You’re amazing, much love 🙏🏻

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

That's amazing to hear! You're so welcome! 🙏

@babi9784 10 месяцев назад

She is so authentic

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Yes, MASSIVE respect to her! 🙌

@trenpn8909 10 месяцев назад

As a fellow musician who also excels at fixing others, even though I kinda lost myself along the way and now I'm the one who needs fixing, I find you really inspiring, Julien.

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Glad my content resonates so deeply with you! 🙏

@aktv5507 10 месяцев назад

This is interesting. I to have been a musician with some degree of "success". The other day I was talking with a friend about what I love about being on stage. I love that I can steal people's pain, sadness and loneliness for the duration of the show. If you do it right it's like we life the weight of the world off peoples shoulders. I too love helping people and thanks to Julian and Owen who I was blessed to have stumbled into on line many years ago, the self work and letting go of destructive coping and poor self beliefs has changed my world considerably. Still a daily practice but worth every second. If you have a band. Share the name so I can check it out.

@Ayman-quran-edits 10 месяцев назад

She is so beautiful in her real skin 😊

@smokingcrab2290 9 месяцев назад

People need folks like Julian who make our basic needs and basic behaviors feel normal and understood in a society where it's so hard to be yourself and feel okay with the endless list of insecurities the world tells you to have.

@superanxietychick7035 10 месяцев назад

That's exactly how I felt when I first started my channel talking about my struggles with anxiety. It took me maybe 10 videos to stop squirming, but I pushed through. Julien your shadow questions have meant the World to me. I even made a video just answering them then and there, tough as nails but I did it. Thank you!!!

@ghala4845 10 месяцев назад

I really don’t understand shadow questions like i know that a part of me believe I’m not good enough i know where did that believe come from but what do i next what do i do with these answers please can you help me

@superanxietychick7035 10 месяцев назад

@@ghala4845 what helped for me was answering these questions, with follow up questions and then seeing that those beliefs are MY projections and not based in reality at all

@alexandrenedellec7116 9 месяцев назад

@@ghala4845i am a little late but shadow question highligh what you despise or admire in Someone else. Usually it is a repressed part of yourself that you amire in other.

@WhatTheDrell 10 месяцев назад

She definitely helped me with my struggles of getting back out there to date & not having the finesse, rizz . It's not authentic if it's not me. Thank you both!

@mrSam3ooo 10 месяцев назад

"It's not authentic if it's not me" is a good sentence, kinda needed to hear that today

@andreapaulina113 10 месяцев назад

I found your channel at the right time, I still got a long way to go but everyday I'm learning so much from you. You encourage me so much to embrace the real me, accepting and getting to know parts of me I need to heal. Thank you so much.

@rayhaan544 10 месяцев назад

I really love how she found herself through step-by-step realization. I like how we keep learning through experience since new experience always cover new experiences to come to a definitive answer. Juline really depicted what it means to a human in this world of trial and error. Amazing work as always Juline!

@rmilesjr9594 10 месяцев назад

Awe.. everyone wants a friend, being alone is scary I know but self value and the rest will follow.. stay strong, head up, and your energy will show.. keep it up everyone!!!

@aoor3688 10 месяцев назад

I just saw your videos yesterday and it feels like I have found what I have been lookong for my whole life. I already love everything your doing and I hope to be on that stage in the near future. Much love

@shane8680 10 месяцев назад

Great video. I notice that I end up trying to please everyone and in doing so, sacrifice my own wellbeing. I also end up being liked by almost everyone but not really loved. I’ve been afraid to put my heart on my sleeve and be authentic for all my life it seems. This really helped. I love the lessons in this video and thanks Julien for inspiring so many!

@Gloriaglo0502 10 месяцев назад

He is soo amazing. First few mintues of the video i am like oh the slogan 'just do it". by nike make sense now. When he talks about action, trigger, release, repeat. We all need a friend or family member like Julien. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@skatetg 2 месяца назад

I’ve been binge watching your channel. Ready to change my life and shine as my true self

@isthisarice 10 месяцев назад

Wow, this was mind opening. The lesson after the breakthrough was a speech the whole world needs to hear. Thank you Julien❤

@rewinder2008 10 месяцев назад

I must be honest this was inspiring, and it's really inspiring to see that the girl finally found the courage to take action.

@vipinsaini257 10 месяцев назад

I just discovered ur channel 2 days ago...and I couldn't help it but watch your videos...they are extremely helpful and u shatter a lot of doubtful thoughts in my mind... The quote u said "it may hurt to be rejected for being yourself but it may suck a lot more to be someone else"..❤

@HyjKlm 10 месяцев назад

Thank You for existing

@koh123453 10 месяцев назад

I’m going to a show this month where I’m going to meet some of my longtime heroes. People who I’ve been a fan of and inspired by for over a decade and I’m incredibly nervous to actually meet them. These videos are really helping me to build a tool set to keep myself genuine and to help myself through this anxiety I’m having leading up to it. I want them to meet me, not some polite “good good good” front I put on. Thank you Julien. You’re helping me break a lot of internal self harm habits I have.

@mamabemoreunicorn 10 месяцев назад

This resonated so much I cried at her happiness at making that post. I am in a similar place. Subscribed!

@yaellesahbel3157 10 месяцев назад

Now I can't unsee his hair! 😂 Great moment, that woman was shining after doing that story!❤

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

😂 - Yes, she crushed it! Massive respect to her!

@mohamedds4226 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for this man, though I've already made peace with myself, and a lot of what you say I stand for, but watching your videos gives me some amazing relief. I have become addicted to you're live demonstrations, now I'm learning from you how to bring this change to others..Thanks a lot ❤

@handrailsoares 10 месяцев назад

New to your channel and your content has already made me understand so much about how to let go of “negative emotion” and the “cool front” vs authenticity which has been life changing. You are the best self help channel BY FAR. Thank you for doing what you are doing! I have a lot of work to do

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Thank you so much! And welcome to the channel! 🙌

@dom.your.demons 6 месяцев назад

She’s a total natural!!

@yungprodigybeast1047 5 месяцев назад

The moment the reel started, it felt so so authentic, i found myself smiling and feeling her energy. I will be authentic i will own myself, my energy

@grunntalll 10 месяцев назад

Another banger dude. The ending message also really hit the nail man, drawing from your own past cravings. G-G-G- G-UNIT!

@natashamaher 10 месяцев назад

Julian, I experience you as a wise soul who models what he speaks.... your excellent, cheeky challenges are so powerful to watch. A truly unique person, you are.. I love your video's..🎉

@Involent 8 месяцев назад

It makes me feel so good that I understood everything she said when she was recording her story. 😁

@shayla19 10 месяцев назад

Love this!! Both your energy is so beautiful

@stathis301 Месяц назад

Thank you so much. Since I started watching your videos, something slowly is changing in me. It's been only a few days, it's already slowly created a process of finding myself. ❤❤❤❤

@Oxerus 10 месяцев назад

Love these videos! They’re always inspirational.

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Thank you! 🙏

@wahajahmed6898 10 месяцев назад

New insights, New resonates, & New Experiences, ALWAYS. Thank you Julian !!! Thank you Julian !!! Thank you Julian !!! --- Wahaj

@dauphinuk 22 дня назад

I love her honesty. ❤

@maydac.5077 10 месяцев назад

New subscriber. I love all the advice you give. Coming from someone who never felt was enough but has grown and still continues to grow these videos are very helpful and I will share this channel with anyone who seems like they need help. Thanks for making people feel alive!

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

You're so welcome! And welcome to the channel! 🙌

@awe4923 10 месяцев назад

Ganz viel Liebe für sie❤❤❤

@laurabenedek42 10 месяцев назад

I ❤her energy!

@summerrayne9350 10 месяцев назад

I would love to start a group with her. I can totally see where she’s going. And I think that sharing her experience going to be very helpful for other people we can all help each other.

@timmieturner8973 10 месяцев назад

Yea that video she mentioned I watched it today it cracked me open but got sad.

@Alebib 10 месяцев назад

Wow, phenomenal insights about attachment to validation! Genius 👏

@conforzo 10 месяцев назад

Would be interesting to hear Julians thoughts on how the different countries he visists differ in what people have issues with. We are all humans of course, but I think maybe different cultures have some different things.

@VV-xw3te 10 месяцев назад

You should only care about your own culture. Other cultures can cope with themselves in their ways.

@michaelburton1970 8 месяцев назад

This was a joy to watch

@strive4impact 10 месяцев назад

I love so much that you do this with her and help her do this concretely. So. Dang. Good.

@strive4impact 10 месяцев назад

She literally hid behind the easel right before you helped her do this. I love this.

@elcheaposontheloose 10 месяцев назад

i love your videos man. i see that there is light and you explain it so easily. thank you

@florencefallon5990 5 месяцев назад

Hi Jenny! So inspring. You are awesome!!

@joshuamikaeli 10 месяцев назад

I LOVE YOU JULIEN ❤

@KN510 Месяц назад

I dont know what she said on her story, but she sounded confident! 🥰

@MitchJanssen1 10 месяцев назад

I think Julien is improving at what he does, very nice.

@julagu8862 10 месяцев назад

Great value content❤ thanks

@_kora_7 10 месяцев назад

thank you so much for these videos,you have no idea how much you're helping me and other people

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

You are so welcome! Glad they’re helpful! 🙏

@magda2435 10 месяцев назад

Great content!❤

@arpitdayalmusic 10 месяцев назад

She is so brave

@beatsf-ub5qm 10 месяцев назад

Great video. So glad that i found this gem.

@EstNineteen90 6 месяцев назад

This was beautiful

@mpipod 10 месяцев назад

This is so authentic and real its insane! helps so much! cheers Julien!

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Glad it helps! And yes, authenticity is all! 🙏

@doggyblues 9 месяцев назад

Very helpful info. Ty.

@sukoon9755 10 месяцев назад

Thank you Julien❤

@karamsamra7571 10 месяцев назад

Another great video I need not give up man

@renukasahoo3022 10 месяцев назад

Through your videos, am getting to know that am not alone... and it makes everything seem a bit more bearable and gives hope...

@kaysianrain9203 5 месяцев назад

She's freaking adorable, I love her willingness to show her vulnerability and freedom to express her emotions in front of people. People laugh with her because they can see and feel exactly how they would feel in her shoes because she presents it openly, which makes others connect with her. I just realised I find this attractive

@tarynbrynne 10 месяцев назад

I would love if you ever did a show in Idaho! I would definitely come. Your seminars have helped me to be able to breath.

@noname0641 10 месяцев назад

I just discovered this channel and oh wow, another person who really gets it. I feel like once you've been through enough pain you really can't stay in that depressed mindset, you will eventually realize, on some deep level, that the prison you're in is something you can just let go of. So many depressed/anxious people don't want to hear this, but it's true. Glad to see my people, very inspirational and insightful. Edit after searching up that scandal thing: oh, ok. still valid tho lol

@had5431 10 месяцев назад

what scandal thing

@devika_25 10 месяцев назад

I am thankful 💜

@amaranth0552 10 месяцев назад

It s so weird like i am cheering her to do the video but deep down i know i would freeze doing that. Kudos to her and Julien 🔥🙏

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Thanks! 🔥👊

@SM-po5iu 10 месяцев назад

I love you Julien. You're a real master. The work you are successfully doing is next to impossible. ❤❤❤. Words are not enough to thank your work.

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Thank you so much!! 🙏

@billyboy10011001 10 месяцев назад

Hey Julien, thank you for this content. It warmed my heart in so many different ways. I truly hope that you come to Austria someday. We have good beer here.

@AnaAguirre219 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for this content, you are truly a magical being ✨

@gayathris2108 2 месяца назад

Her Face Glow and her body language shifted from small fearful to that of confident bright strong Woman. ;) .

@awe4923 10 месяцев назад

I understand her completely, love to my German sister❤ Du bist so sympathisch und super, alles beste!

@TheAstrologyVitamin 10 месяцев назад

I'm sorry, I did your natal chart lol you are super cool and have similarities to me and resonates. Your energy is me that I only show around friends but not always to the world. Hahaha Your videos are amazing thank you for this gift. ❤❤❤ I wish you love and abundance.

@dominikagibalova6356 9 месяцев назад

Amazing!

@alanwattsvietsub 10 месяцев назад

The moment she done the recording and everyone clap... I felt that joy too... Really love your work. I feel the same... wanting to help ppl with these topic but i am also working on myself, like only half way through. Need more action, Create a youtube channel already, but still delaying on my first outdoor vlogging >.

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

You’re welcome! You got this! 💪

@WolfyLex4H 10 месяцев назад

as someone wanting to be a psychologist and really beliving I can, or a youtuber xP having fun doing what I like and also helping people with their stuff

@yourguitarlesson6163 10 месяцев назад

She was amazing 🫶🏽

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Yes! It takes a lot of courage and willingness to do the work... Massive respect to her! 🙌

@brofreeho3411 10 месяцев назад

I like your videos. Good work

@M.JosiahMusau 10 месяцев назад

Thanks man you really help me❤

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

Glad to hear it! You are so welcome! 🙏

@mushkys9987 10 месяцев назад

I rushed to like this video when you said some people will choose to leave you bc even if you had one follower that would be me not from pity just bc your authenticity excitese and makes me laugh and believe in me. The work id is hard and it takes baby steps to make a progress but it is the best and l can not thank you for that🙏🏻🔥

@JulienHimself 10 месяцев назад

🙏🙏🙏

@smokingcrab2290 9 месяцев назад

I believe I'm "not good enough" because of my inadequacies and failures to live up to my own expectations and the expectations our society deems as worthy of "being good enough". I'm 5'8". I'm not model hot. I'm not a jacked alpha male. I'm not ugly or wimpy but I'm not anywhere near the top of the food chain. And I fear I am judged for being simply who I am. I've been rejected a ton. I've been treated like I'm not good enough. I try to connect with others but many times they don't want to connect with me, because they probably feel I'm not good enough to connect with... I could go on, bit as I'm writing.. I'm thinking "how egotistical is it of me to reject *myself* ?" I mean I was made as another being in this world just like everyone else and I have a place to fit into this world just as everyone else does so why on earth should I not accept me and the role I have to play in humanity? I think it's because I put too much pressure on myself to fit into the mold and be something everyone else wants. But then what do I want? I want love. I want beauty. I want to make love. I want adventure. I want good feelings and pure awesome thoughts and connections. I want nature. I think I want the simple things. Anyway thanks for coming to my TED talk

@robertbormann9606 10 месяцев назад

I love how she killed that story and the way you’re 100% honest with giving direction. Do you think it would be best to actually write down my options jobwise if I struggle with finding my way and being myself in jobs? I’m only 21 but I also have no idea how I’m going to make a living which is frightening for me. I just want to be independent and free

@spontaneousbootay Месяц назад

Banger

@pureluke9 9 месяцев назад

moree more more! good content!

@akashsagar1888 9 месяцев назад

Ur amazing 💖 a huge love & respect from India.

@prospectr17 10 месяцев назад

Julian has a great ‘Heroes Journey’ story. He's a modern manifestation of mythology. We all are in our heads too much and rarely as the Hero. What does life look like if you are an authentic and genuine hero to yourself?

@Erika_Kelly_Apparel 10 месяцев назад

Hey girl, you impacted me ;)

@TheSachinRK 10 месяцев назад

Very very very good 👍

@satishsangwan007 4 месяца назад

I don't know what she said... but she was really amazing

@Fer-De-Lance 10 месяцев назад

Thanks.

@Shindai 10 месяцев назад

There are people for whom "I don't know" is where they stop? What makes a person so uncurious? I LOVE hitting an "I don't know," it guides what I need to learn next and going down rabbitholes is fun. I don't think it's a good rule to never say I don't know. Own it, and then use it to guide you. It encourages conversation and exploration, bonding, it's fun to learn shit people don't think about (ever wonder why drink cans are that shape? I did, that's why I know now, and in a weird engineering way it's super cool!) I think the rule is to own it if you don't know something but don't let that be the end of the trail. Let curiosity lead you to the good shit :3

@meagancrowley5197 10 месяцев назад

I am the same with fun things especially. Some curiosity comes up? "I dont know about wombats, BUT I'LL GOOGLE IT". Then spend a lot of time learning about wombats and its very fun for me. That Is my usual move. But I know people who stop at "I dont know" and then its like I have kept running and they have stopped "playing" with me on the topic. And it makes me sad. Its worse with emotional deep things "I dont know!" I might say when someone asks me "what do you want" or something like that, and I guess I am waiting for them to say "well lets 'google it'"(or the self help equivalent) instead of "okay well its fine if you dont know, lets move on". I die inside when that happens. I didnt ask to have the query stopped. I just said the part I had, and expected them to play the game but then to me when they dont play, it signals that they did not really want to know what I wanted, they were only asking out of formality. Because when I really want to know something, I do not stop seeking answers. But I know not everyone is this way...anyway, I can play on my own 😑 tho its slightly more depresso.