@@jeremylee5990 so hilarious that when I click on your icon and I see the comments you recently replied to you are transphobic in every single reply that’s says a lot about your disgusting personality
FUNFaCT: I'm genderfluid and my comfortable pronouns are "he/they". And I was at my orthodontist a few weeks ago and someone from the new workers called me "he" and "son" infront of my dad. I fucking smiled the shit out of me and then my dad cOrReCtEd her and ruined it all. :'D I nearly criED.
I FUCKING HATE THAT SO MUCH AHHHHH. Im trans, and haven't come out to my parents... (or my brother) and he fricking sucks. Hes 8 and doesnt really understand anything, but he always calls me a "WOMAN" and whenever im at like tennis practice or smth and hes there, and anyone says he, (im ftm) he corrects them like "THATS A GIRLLL" and theyre all like SORRY SORRY SORRY, and I just say "I dont even care" and they're like IM STILL SO SORRYYYYY and go on and on and onnnnnn ahhhhh
@@IAmMythical dude my siblings actually suck with that, they don’t know but like you don’t have to scream “NO SHES A GIRL, ARE YOU STUPID?” In public? It’s so frustrating and mortifying.
@@lungisanthando9704 There's plenty of ABO and mpreg that isn't centered around breeding kinks, partly because breeding kinks and pregnancy kinks aren't always one and the same and there's plenty in that genre besides that but yeah, plenty of fics for gay guys with breeding kinks.
FYI it’s not just trans people who watch your videos. I am a 55 year cis woman. I came across your channel when I was trying to educate myself and I’m still watching and learning.
@@dragonkingxv if you can't give your explanation in the comment itself please don't expect others to believe you and stop watching , do you mean when Noah said "most people watching my videos are trans "?
@@forgottencorpse69 YEP. i actually was coming down here to gently give information on this exact topic LMAO. for some people, it's JUST dirty talk, in the same way that "ddlg" (caretaker/little, which is the gender neutral version) is just dirty talk, for the most part (with the exception of people who really go all in with it and have the clothes and the toys and everything. not my kink, but i refuse to shame people). for some people, it's a legit thing--plenty of trans/cis gay couples can and do engage in it, and sometimes legit do have kids as a result. (the having the kid part is not part of the kink, usually; it's just the concept and the dirty talk? and sometimes the pregnancy, but not usually the giving birth and having the kid)
Tips for showering when dysphoric: take showers in the dark, personally I turn off the lights and leave my phone flashlight on the counter so I have a little bit of light but not enough to see myself When it comes to washing your body, get a loofa or scrub brush thingy so you won’t have to touch your body
tips for bathing since you have done this might aswell have some tips for bathing when dysphoric have the mirror covered with a small towel or somthing (do the same for your shower it still helps) have bubbles so it can distract you from your body dark bath bombs also so it can distract you from your body use a loofa i cant think of anything els anymore
for me, i do it normally and n e v e r l o o k d ow n . also, if anyone is able to, you could wear a bathing suit to hide areas that give you dysphoria!
Im a young teenage trans! I came across your channel while trying to figure out ways to make myself feel more comfortable in my own skin. Since I have found your channel -- I feel good about myself, and I know that I don't need to worry about what others think about me to feel valid!! Thank you, and I hope you continue to grow as a content creator!
I have a dear friend who I met after coming out, and she has my deadname. It’s still a little awkward for me, but I just said “At least it’s spelled right!” and we laughed over it together. She’s hella supportive too. 🥰🖤 I’m a lucky dude to have awesome friends who get it.
I honestly don't know if I could have a friend with my birth name. I mean, there's an actor whose last name is my birth name and I find him really funny, but every time I hear his last name, it makes me want to shrivel up like a raisin.
9:43 everyone gives genders to people but there’s always that one thought in the back of my head going “what if they’re trans or non-binary? WHAT IF YOU’RE MISGENDERING THEM!!”
I relate to this tiktok SO MUCH, i was playing a game with my friend and i had to chose boy or girl and i swear to you, i sat there for an hour trying to chose one gender..it was so hard... 12:32
The cis ppl in my life "apologise" for misgendering me by going on a big self congratulatory rant about how they usually get it right (they don't) but it's just so hard because I still have [insert feminine feature I'm dysphoric about]
as a cis person, i literally dont even relat feminine to women cuz i have guy friends who are cis and some of their features are kinda 'feminine' but maybe thats just me
I know it’s been 5 months, but I’m non-binary and I’ll tell you that it gets better. Cis people that care more about you than socially progressive brownie points exist and you’ll find them.
I don't know how many people may get the notification for this but the advert is old so some people probably haven't seen it. It's a nostalgic moment when I see it lol. I'm 23 and that advert was common when I was like 10 or something.
9:54 I had an ad pop up right after Noah said a line & it was oddly funny & caught me off guard XD "It's difficult to be like-" "You changed the oil on your car, right?"
I came out to my cheer team and said I use they/ he pronouns and this one girl said, and I quote "wow, can cangradulations, I'm so happy for you, that's so cool" like I just told her my pronouns and she was more impressed than anyone has ever been for me in my life 😂
On the brave subject my friend said “we are only brave because you force us to be” because she’s right the only reason we’re “brave” is because of cis people and society
I love talking about periods too as a cis woman, it doesn't make me uncomfortable at all. It should be normalized half the population has then for goodness sake 😭
hey as a trans person, to help shower with the dysphoria i literally turn the lights off and have some candles in there so its not pitch black- but it helps :)
Nothing to fight JK about. Or are you suggesting she and the rest of the world aren't entitled to an opinion? Cos if you are, you are saying that no one is entitled to an opinion. And we know where that type of thinking ends up.
@@drewu213 could you please elaborate? where does that type of thinking end up? I'm very curious. and another thing I would like to add (please correct me if I've misunderstood) is you just used that very type of thinking you say is bad by saying people can't have a negative OPINION on JK rowling. so in turn you are saying people who think negatively about a transphobe aren't entitled to that opinion? and you said so yourself that everyone is entitled to their own opinion so maybe check your logic next time :)
4:37 honestly a while ago I thought about how the ONLY reason I would want to know a trans person, who is friends with me, their dead name is so that I could avoid using that name if I was writing a story, was naming a kid or something else lol
8:30 That’s like EXCATLY what happened when I came out to parents. I started by telling my mother and I (innocently) thought that it would go well, bcs my parents never showed any sigh of transphobia. BUT being a doctor, my mother started to teach me an entire lesson about operations while crying! While I’m just like “Uh… Mom… I’m 15… I won’t do anything to my body… It’s not that big of a deal ya know?” That disappointed me so much in them that they think being trans is a “bad” and “sad” thing
I've never met anyone with my birth name, but a friend of a friend has my birth name, and sometimes she'll be showing something on her phone, and I see texts from the person with my birth name and it freaks me out for like half a second
My best friend that I've known all my life has my deadname and it's alot. But like also I've known them so long is barely my name, I've never felt like my deadname was the name that fit me the most, so it's more her name than my name if that makes sense
8:51 I have a trans male friend (F2M) and while getting used to his pronouns he was like “Just correct yourself” so whenever I screwed up I’d be like “Yeah sh-……” **Hits my arm** “HE- is blah blah blah” Like bro- I didn’t make to much of a fuss, but whenever I miss gendered him I’d just hit myself and correct myself. 💀
About the period confusion thing: a couple months ago I got my period again for the first time in two years (issues w hormone blockers), and I told my mom. She literally started freaking out that I was bleeding. It took her a while before she stopped and remembered I’m a TRANS guy lmao. She said it felt like one of my cis brothers bleeding from below and she couldn’t comprehend it at first. It was weirdly nice that she forgot I was afab lol
I used to shower with underwear on and until it became too much of a hassle. Then I started showering in the dark. The only reason I stopped doing that is cause I knee surgery and had to use a chair in the shower and obviously have the lights on, so I got used to it. Now I just shower regularly lol
Okay but seriously there is so many people with my birthname everywhere I sometimes get put on absent in class because I think they're talking to someone else and why would I admit that is supposed to be my name now if I could wait for like 20 seconds to then have to anyway? It's not even a super common name or anything but at my school it is for some reason geez it is infuriating
12:15 amen! I am very privileged that T stopped mine early on. But jfc I still empathize, and am glad I can connect with other people who have uteruses and experience menses.
So I am trying to buy a binder off of amazon and I don't want my homophobic mother to find out, but it is particularly hard because I have a bigger chest size so when I go through the reviews there is a lot of contrivercy around sizes and stuff , can someone please help me 😭😭
@@jeremylee5990 Omfg, FIRST of all bold of you to assume my mother gives a shit about me. SECOND of all Noah is a male so it is a He tf. And just because I want a binder doesn't mean I want to change sexes it just means I am not comfortable with my chest. Why the fuck do you find it necessary to ruin someones day do you have nothing better to do with your life?
@@jeremylee5990 First of all, they have the right to choose. You cant come after them just because they dont feel comfortable with their current gender. In the first place, it's none of your business about what they want and how their parents would react to it. You need to stop being a homophobe/transphobe just because you dont like it. Keep it to yourself and keep it moving unless you want to make an enemy out of the entire LGBTQ community🖕
@@jeremylee5990 ok, hold tf on. What the hell?! It's like you're saying that their just mistaking how they feel. They're Not going through a phase. They're not born hating their bodies I can give you that but you cant just generally shit over them and say that how they are is just a lie.
13:52 me and my mom were having an argument abt trans people (I'm not out yet) and I said "why do you care what's in strangers pants, thats kinda pervy"
Oh my gosh I have someone in my class with my dead name and it's so awkward. And it's awful cause even beyond the fact she has my dead name she makes me uncomfortable and I don't want to seem like a jerk. She's very touchy and it makes me feel so uncomfortable and she constantly misgenders me. My teacher called me 'him' and she felt the need to stand up and go 'HIM?!?'
8:31 Exactly. If they messed up a cis person's pronouns it would be "I love her- him" but when it's a trans person "I love her-OH MY GOD I MEANT HIM IM SO SORRY" and then they disintegrate into ash.
8:18 - the amount of times I have misgendered myself is depressing ;-; I get called a girl by literally everyone because my mom won’t let me cut my hair or dress differently than a girl would and it confuses tf out of me :’)
