Somehow a video was suggested. I've watched several videos today entirely and parts of others. Your intelligence and voice draws me in. Not trying to simp but, you're something else. I hope the best for you and your family. Yeah I subbed too.
I think all people/groups have developed their own "phobias" of those not like themselves. Whether or not the phobia is "legitimate" or not is not really the question because I believe people's issues are "real" or legitimate to them. It's conceivable to me that members of the LGBTQ community as one unit or as individual entities have developed their own phobias about the '"straight/cis" community (damn I hate that word) as well as with each other. I think that all phobias grow their own legs become more and more complex as people experience life. I also think that some phobias lose their "seasoning" power over time with some people. I think that the IDEA of "puberty inhibitors" for children is a developed "phobia" and response from those who experienced negative behavior and that includes perceived negative behavior from the heterosexual world. It's not like the straight world has been kind to those who don't identify as what everyone in it "thought" was "normal". Perhaps some trans people liken puberty inhibitors to supplements like vitamins or performance enhancers like steroids for muscle training. (think about it, the side effects of steroids are known and yet many people still use them. ..and this may be the case with the Tran's ideas about puberty inhibitors). I am just speculating. In my opinion (and I guess it just goes with the territory of a newly recognized group) ....Trans people have their own prejudices and phobias against others just as many have against them. While some may be "responsive" to their negative experiences, some of them are just developed prejudices and it is part of the human condition and usually associated with some sort of ignorance. I think all groups have them and they will "mature" over time and I think some of this (puberty inhibitors is just one of them) is just the manifestation of that reality. I think there is a culture that comes with each group of people and despite their claims of all people being "free" to live life and pursue happiness, they also have their own issues that are similar to other people who also claim "freedom" for everybody but...later that afternoon you realize, they only meant freedom for themselves and their friends who are like them. I agree with you, I think children should be left alone when it comes to medications to enhance something that happens organically or does not happen at all especially when it is tied to selection that human beings will eventually make on their own one way or another. ....and the fact that it can affect your IQ .....yeah, I would say that is a good reason to NOT engage in that type of medication for a child. There is so much stimuli out here today from all forms of media and from every group of people that I am sure children will be equally tempted with the promotions of lifestyles from everyone. They will just "choose" on their own. just my opinion...
Oak Leaves, thank yoy for saying all AGP/AAP are not perverts. As an aside, maybe I missed this in another of your videos but- do you have dysphoria? I could not have been a stripper myself, with the dysphoria I dealt with, before.
I’ve never really struggled with dysphoria. I usually only get the euphoria end of it. But I don’t know how much of a standard case I am. When I became a stripper, I was already in such an outrageously bad place that it’s hard to put into words. Things had been done to me as a kid that really ruined my health. Mentally, I had what can most likely be described as PTSD. I was alive and I was barely hanging on. My biggest enemy was my body. My body had betrayed me. Maybe if I’d been a normal kid with a healthy body, I would have been more worthy of friendship and love and basic humane treatment. So, I absolutely hated my body, and all I knew how to do was fight with it. When I became an exotic dancer, I had to learn how to move. I learned how to listen to my body for the warning signs that I’d pushed it too hard. I learned that pain is a warning that something isn’t right, and it’s good to listen to that warning. And, over time, my body transformed. It went from being diseased and chubby and uncoordinated to being toned and graceful and healthy. I felt like I had control over it for the first time in my life. These days, I tend to look at my body as a sculpture. It’s not a stable thing. It’s clay. It’s malleable. If there’s something I don’t like about it, how do I change it? Exercise is not as “quick fix” as surgery, but it’s rather remarkable how readily sculpted the human body is. I wanted toned, muscular shoulders and arms? Well, I can have them. Work a little bit on it every day. And then I have this beautiful feeling of accomplishment, because I’m doing something transformative that’s also very healthy. I’ll never be tall. Some things, I can’t change. But I like to focus on the things I can.
@@oakleavesandonions771 thank you for the thoughtful reply. And I am sorry you had to deal with your childhood troubles. I think too many of us deal with too much as children that, given a more compassionate and open-minded society (that maybe produces better-equipped parents, families, schoolmates, etc) we could otherwise, avoid. I grew up in a verbally and emotionally abusive home in the midwest. I think that, combined w my burgeoning pining for all things feminine, which then majorly morphed into serious body-based sex/gender dysphoria in my teens, made me dissociate majorly and divorced me from many of my core elements for much of my life. I too went through RCIA, stopped practicing soon thereafter, studied philosophy and religion in college, started transitioning a few years ago, and am now learning true peace and happiness as a burgeoning left-hand-path occultist (who is starting to read a lot about Jung, and who still respects many aspects of traditional monotheistic religion). Working out does wonders. Our society is so physically ill that so many people look at nominally in-shape people and think that they are some kind of superhero. The sad part is that, this 'superhero' level of basic fitness is so attainable for so many that don't believe in themselves to achieve it. As you mentioned in one of your videos, exercise is best enjoyed when it's something that makes you feel good! And that feel-good sense spills over into an increased pleasure of other things (food, sleep, etc). I believe our society would be more civil if more people took a little bit better care of their bodies. Maybe that would then circle back to a better opportunity for better people to nurture better children.
Fellow autoandrophile. I unsubscribed to Buck a while ago because he’s just so uh…💀 not nuanced at all and it pisses me off which is not productive. I’m very glad I did now, as I know for a fact if I watched that video it would send me some dark angry place haha. I’m staying far away from it…but I’m looking forward to your thoughts and comments on it.💗Advocating for us autohets!
I never have been to a strip club und probably won’t ever be. Physical attraction fades ( gravity always wins) In addition I was quite biased against that whole (made up - as I thought) trans gender stuff. Came for „ how stripping saved my life“ thing, hoping for some juicy stuff. Stayed for an astonishing, brutal in her honesty woman between two worlds in more than one respect. You’re not rubbing the rainbow flag into my face, rather asking the quiet questions . Let me put it that way: that’s way more convincing. Makes me reconsidering some of my opinions and change some of them. Really like the long format.
