Turning a Guy down 

"you're a good looking, smart man and you don't have to buy affection. you just have to shop in the right stores." gosh I love her quotes.

Loneliness is the most expensive emotion

Loneliness is so sad for our seniors.

My mom always told us: if you don’t want the man, don’t take his money. I’ll leave that right there. She knew exactly what she was doing. And poor guy. Hope he finds what he’s looking for. #gone

I would’ve loved to know his back story. It seems like he was some type of scientist. He’s educated, well spoken. I know he got laid off and couldn’t find another job. Ended up on disability. It seems so sad that he contributed so much to the world of science. Has some friends in high places. But, is struggling to the point he has to borrow $50 from a friend to lend her. The way the disabled and elderly are treated in this country is truly despicable.

The judge repeating the question has me hollering 😂😂😂😂

Plaintiff seems sweet but absolutely like someone who would impose his own mental fantasy of a relationship.

He is an attractive, educated, articulate older gentleman & she took advantage of his kindness. God knows her heart!

The judge looked so disgusted.

Anyone else catch the part where she said “he lent me…no he gave me $50.” She had it right the first time. If anything the judge should have made her pay him $50 for that slip up. I believe she asked him for the money to get to the funeral.

Her smirking with her back that’s backing is sending me…. He is a gentleman and I hope he finds a woman who will treat him well, he deserves it…

I could never imagine in my lifetime ever giving or loaning any woman money I just met out of the blue on the bus. I don't even loan family money because it can turn into a huge mess.

This defendant is working my absolute last nerve! 😬

He's lonely and gullible 😊, she's experienced user😅

She looks like a supermodel 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

This case really made me sad 😢 he seems like a nice man and she just took advantage of him. She didn't seem bothered by it 😕 money can't buy love...

Nothing more romantic than a bus ride and KFC!

Old enough to know better, foolish enough to make the same mistakes.

Her face at the end said it all.

He likes to help people when he can’t even help himself 🙄. He went into debt for a stranger. SMH.

Sad She used him. He sounds like he is a nice guy and genuinely wanted to help her.

He’s a weirdo and she’s a pro.

😞.I hate when people take advantage people, especially a kind hearted or disabled person. This makes me so sad, I feel so sorry for him, I hope he finds a great lady who's on the same page as he is.

There's a certain level of vulnerability that comes with loneliness. One can fend that off with a part-time job for sure, but especially as an older person, there's all kind of need for volunteering at libraries, schools, hospitals, fire stations, police departments, etc. I think it helps a person feel good about giving of themselves, rather than having to give to some stranger who's willing to "borrow" money you just know they have no interest in ever paying back - especially just having met them on public transportation. This ain't "the good old days". I stopped lending money to even my family over 30 years ago when my nephew asked for tuition money. I just wrote the check directly to his admissions office and called it a wash because I knew he'd never pay me back, and I figured it was a good investment. It turned out that it wasn't because he punked out on school, but that's on him. And my intentions were good, so I just had that money go up to the Heavens, which is all we can expect out of "loans". Get promissory notes, though, if you expect your money back. Peace.✌🏾🙂

in all honesty, i feel so sad for this poor man. clearly he’s lonely and seeking affection and companionship or just a simple friendship. i hope one day he can find a woman who loves him genuinely for who he is and i hope he learns to be more responsible with his money and not wasting it on other people when he barely has any for himself.

Model?!? Who? Where? She’s a user! He wanted a relationship and she knew it and she used him! YOU CANNOT BUY LOVE!!! Ever!!!

The stain on her top!!!! It's killing me 😂

Judge millian had me dying...and if they don't you have all the receipts lmfaoo

She did take it as loans. She even said it. She let it slip out and changed her words quick.

That manipulative shrew. I certainly hope the dear man finds worthwhile friends to share his days.

Two Brocken discs in her back and she’s standing just fine…? That’s a great recovery with all her head bopping.

Nothing wrong with him asking. Something wrong with her continuing to take money if she wasn't interested. Really a shame. Learning experience for him.

The plaintiff told her she looks like a supermodel. Haha

The defendant is talking like she's a supermodel. If she's that good-looking, she would not have been alone on her birthday. .

"He took her on a date to KFC" 😂😂😂

He looks like a part-time employee that works in the lawn department ...😊.😊I'm in home depot/lowes a lot.

The plaintiff seems like such a great guy. I hope he has met or will meet someone who truly loves him.

This is what is called the Perfect Storm; A nice fool meets a user. If he was trying to buy her love, then he must have been shopping in the bargain basement.......$474 and a bucket of KFC.

She wishes she looked like ANY type of model LOL

I screamed when he said he bought her a wig. 😂😂😂 Lord, please send me a wealthy sucker to buy me wigs 😂

She’ll get her karma. Maybe in the form of losing her precious settlement lmao

He said she looks like a what???? 👀 👀 Ok!! I can't stand people who takes advantage of others knowing that they have feelings for them, but don't feel the same way about them. But I also hate it when people are too naive that they can't see the forrest for the trees, to see that they are being used. And wait a minute!! I know that you did not just crack on that mans looks, because girl you have zero room to talk. What a user.

She is an user with no shame!

This one should've been on Judge Judy. I can hear her now yelling "NEXT!" 😂

I’m not sure if the defendant really understood the judge’s last comment-“oldest profession in the world”…if she did, she might have reacted differently? I guess that was the judge’s way to scratch the itch of not being able to help the plaintiff legally.

.. .He seems like a genuine loving sweet guy to me. ..

Wow! He's a great catch! Why would he attempt to purchase some ones affection?

OMG, the smirk on her face even in the first couple of minutes of him talking. That’s some “big bitch” energy that all you girl bosses are so proud of. This guy is a senior citizen working part time in the garden section of Home Depot and he felt a fellow lonely kindred spirit with her because he believed it was her birthday and she was alone. Can’t wait til she’s his age and experiencing the exact same feelings of loneliness because no one around her trusts her hustling ways and she’s left all alone

The plaintiff likes to say 'fungal infection' ALOT! 🤣

The case hasn't even started and I IMMEDIATELY got "BAPS" vibes 🤣🤣🤣

She slipped with the "he lent me, I mean he gave me $50". Kind of surprised JM didnt comment on that.

So sad how loneliness can make the best people get easily taken advantage of. She knew he was vulnerable and used him. Karma will catch up.

She's not attractive at all. He can do much better, and someone that wouldn't take advantage of him. I hope he learns a great lesson from this. Never give anyone money with the expectation of getting it back. Help those that will appreciate you help. So sad.

She can’t get a coherent sentence out of her mouth

He’s a nice man. He dodged a bullet with this one.

This was not some sugar daddy case, he was not some rich, business type guy who was going out with some blond 22 year old. This was simply an old, sad, poor and lonely man that didn't receive the same kindness that he was giving. He can easily meet women his age or slightly younger and be loved. He fell into her trap and he had no chance against her.

T'aint no way in Hell, Pops told her she looked like a Super Model.

I am still waiting for the super model to arrive

This makes me sad. She took advantage of this nice old man. 😢

He thought that was attractive and he even wanted more after she started talking? I have a hard time listening to her for a couple of minutes.

Man just admit it. You wanted some of that chocolate.

The girl behind the plaintiff laughing at Kentucky Fried Chicken.

"Like a supermodel" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣yeah right

Clearly she’s lying..she led him on, she’s a pro at what she does.

He should have helped her fillout a job application for parttime job at Home Depot or other companies=keeping his money in his pocket, she's still eligible for disability, or she would have been ghost bc she wants his money not a p/t job to pay her own way!

She’s not a nice person. She called him a liar after all the help he gave her. She’s the liar. She knew exactly what she was doing

He’s a grown ass man he knew exactly what it was. Why sue now bc it didn’t work? I’m sure there’s many more women he can sue then lol

I know she is not talking about how someone looks, looking like the mom from bobs burgers

The defendant is nothing more than a disgusting user!!! She knew exactly what she was doing and knew she was leading this man on for money and help with her so called "disability". He could do WAY better anyways shes no peach!

She knew exactly what she was doing. Oldest trick in the book. When a sugar daddy presents itself, take advantage 🤦🏽‍♀️ Karma will always turn her ugly head though

he’s a sugar zaddy 😂

I enjoy solitude. I feel sorry for these type of people, They can't be alone and happy. They're soo desperate to find love, they'll compromise everything within their soul just to have ANYBODY next to them. I just can't fully understand it. They feel they're less than a person for being alone. It's truly sad to watch these people.

Super model? LOL! he needs to clean his glasses! she clearly just took advantage of his generosity! he could have picked someone thats talks with a better vocabulary.

This lady's disability is mental illness not a back or spine issue. She's a weirdo. He seems like a sweet man that met the wrong lady at the wrong time 🤔😕💜

This seems like an experiment tbh. Past developer of medicine gone home depot worker dying to give away his money while on disability. Just odd.

Why did he not want to tell the judge why he called her his fiancé? That tickled me 😂

The plaintiff was looking for his next science project. The fact that he emailed someone talking about a black fiancé speaks volumes.

JM’s hair looks so good in this episode!!

How can the defendant say at the end "Never accept gifts from someone looking like that" like she's such a prize. She took advantage of him and that makes her a terrible person.

Defendant up there lookin like big bird... supermodel indeed😂

I wish I had a rich "friend" 😢

"Supermodel" 😵‍💫

At one point the defendant did say it was a loan but then realized what she said and changed it so I think he should have been able to get something back

I don't do kissin'. Can we assume from that what her previous job was?

I don't care too much for money, because money can't buy me love.

I'm willing to bet there was no grandpa funeral. This looks and sounds like, as Judge says, the oldest profession in the world. Not to say the old man isn't responsible for his own finances.

This man treated you to a meal on your birthday, because you were alone. Probably one of the kindest gestures someone could do for another person. Regardless whether it's a KFC or 5-star restaurant. She saw an opportunity and milked it.

I can honestly say that the whole bit where the plaintiff was pointedly ignoring JM's question by continuing to talk about the defendant's skin issue was one of the most uncomfortable exchanges I've seen on this show. I feel terribly for him but good god, dude.

She looks like a super model 😮😭😳🤓🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Just a lonely old man trying to get back in the game

“Steve, I am black but I am not your fiancé” 😂😂

He's shadier than her by calling her his BLACK fiance, taking her to KFC of all places, lying about what she is to him then repeatedly avoiding the judge's question about it, trying to buy her affection, and then saying everything was a loan (when there is zero proof of that) once he realizes he's not getting what he wants from her. He's not nice, he's shady, and knows what he's doing, and then tries to play innocent "boys scout", who helps everyone yadda yadda bullcrap. Only does things while trying to have strings attached.

The judge was digusted with the defendant she actually looked sick 🤢.

The Defendant's expression after the judge ruled said it all for me, User!

Imagine being so lonely you would endure this woman?

“In terms of her fungal infection “ he needed that to be known 😅

@17:13 mark the defendant says "never get something from a stranger looking like that." He was looking like that when you eat lunch with him at KFC, he helped you with paperwork, gave you money...girl bye 🙄 The plaintiff was clearly lonely and a fool for allowing himself to get played by her for his $$

He tried to buy his way into a relationship which is coercive by its own merit. Even if he had succeeded in doing so those relationships only last as long as the money does. I dont think its ever a good idea to strike up a long term partnership with someone whose loyalty can be bought especially when there's always someone out there thats capable of bidding higher than you.

Homeboy's earlobe game is strong.

He must've been desperate to even talk to her. Her nor her attitude is attractive 😒