Understand this ONE thing and you'll get what you want in life. 

You can't solve a problem with the same mind that created it... What a powerful quote!

For me the hardest part is to have confidence to believe in myself, even if nobody believe, and to disconnect from my past and opinions of others

Your bait is your beauty your hook is your wisdom. To think of the distractions in your mind as clouds that will part is brilliance and so helpful. Thank you.

Have you ever felt like your brain is working against you? That's because it oftentimes is. The mammalian brain's function is your survival, that's why it's the wrong tool to use when your objective is success, fulfillment or happiness. Understanding how your brain works can help you become a little bit more strategic on how to go about getting what you REALLY want in life. Bear with me as I try to explain a concept that I find very difficult to articulate. Comment below if you what you understood from this video :) Check out my latest video on CONFIDENCE: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-q-5cx1_C3D4.html :)

Not only are you doing well in life, but you are also helping us people. Thank you

The fact that you are only two years older than me and yet this articulate, successful and vise makes me want to work on myself so much more. What a lovely being you are ❤️

Facing your fears, and embracing failure builds confidence!

This saved/changed my daily life for sooo much better. I actually started doing this a few weeks back. If my thoughts go to saying you are not beautiful enough I kinda dodge that thought or slap it a way and say the opposite outloud. I do this with everything that says to me that I'm not good enough. And it has changed my attitude towards myself and others for the better and made me more confident in myself, made me feel better overall and given me a boost in my skills because I believe in me.

Hello from Sweden! I'm glad that I stumbled into this high quality content tonight, so that I was reminded of my plan to start meditate more often again. Fear of ... many things - the pandemic, Russia, climate change, inflation, energy crisis, losing my old parents - has resulted in a lost connection to the higher self. Thanks to you, I will NOW, directly after writing this, blow away the dust from my meditation stool and try to reconnect much enough to start making a plan of my own, aiming for peace of mind and a new, refreshing situation in the near future. I wish you all the best!

I absolutely love your spiritual content. It’s very obvious that this is what you were put on earth to do. Teach. Business was the gateway but you’re a natural healer and I can’t wait to see more content ❤

I did not expect this video to be that incredibly powerful, to be totally honest. You are stunning of course, but the message in this video is something every human should hear.

You are not only pretty but also clever. You are an absolute inspiration to us all! xoxo

I am so glad I came across your channel. I am a mom of 3 beautiful girls. 2 are adults and my little one is 10. This year I have been teaching and focusing 🧘🏽‍♀️ my girls to find there Identity in Christ and to know them self. I think this message will give them a bit more clarification because sometimes when important information comes from mom not always do they want to take it, even though they know mom knows best if you understand what I mean 😊. I like your message every one battles with the mind and quieting the mind and being in-tuned with it will definitely help to know ones true self.

This is the exact teachings that all religions has been focusing on including Islam.. I am muslim and I will speak about my own interpretation for getting in touch with the GOD ( source energy). The daily five prayers in Islam that have been imposed by God are called " Salaah" which linguistically means "connection".. God is asking us everyday to pray (connect) with him if we want to be happier, succeed, fullfilled..etc. I just wanted to relate what you have said to what I know.. Thank you for great video and for sharing such valuable information for all humanity.

This video just popped into my recommendations and it is phenomenal. I've always suggested two approaches to people, who want to change their inner world. The first one is to change their self talk and their overall belief system and the second is to reconnect with your true self, the quiet observer behind all thoughts and emotions. When the both approaches are combined one truly becomes unshakable.

You speak about the mind and higher self. This is all Eastern thought and practice. Almost half of my life I was devoted Christian but the next half of my life I started reading about Buddhism and Eastern mysticism. And then years down the line, I reflect and look back and realize how much I didn't develop when I was a devoted Christian.

tatiana, i started watching you when quarentine first started. since then, i’ve been hooked. you are the sister i never had. you inspire, you teach, you give love, but no bs. you speak truth, wisdom & grace. you are such a beautiful soul. i feel eternally blessed to have found you. you gave me hope. you gave my life meaning as i followed in your footsteps… i hope when i am as successful as you that i can meet you & somehow give back to you the way you have given to me. i truly don’t think i would be here if it wasn’t for you. i have genuine love and eternal gratitude towards you. i can never thank you enough. thank you for sharing yourself and changing lives. i love you tatiana 🌷

I’ve heard all this info hundreds of times but the more conscious I become the teachings just hit different. I’ve been struggling to let go of what’s in store of the unknown and trying to only feel the good emotions and resisting what I’m meant to feel, so thank you for the reminder. Great vid!

The pain we carry is the love we withhold from self, day after day. Cogitate that 💚

Wow! This was one of the most down to earth and practical application of some very complex laws and principles! LOVE that so many are hearing this for their own inner liberation! Thanks for making this video 🙏🏼❤️

Meditating is not only stay still and close your eyes. You can meditate by taking a walk or contemplate nature or even listening to your favorite music. wherever makes you feel calm and peaceful.

It's true from what I've learned about my younger self, I was much more confident, trusting, warm and affectionate. Over the years, I've experienced so many things that gave me insecurities at home and outside of it. It was so bad that I had trouble sleeping as a kid. I carried a lot of these things into adulthood.

i struggle so much with this habit because of school and stress but every time i watch a youtube video about it i feel like i need to meditate because its the key to a fulfilled life

Thank you for reminding me about the importance of connecting with the source of Life, what truly connects all humans. Through meditation we can achieve this state of mind where we just feel consciousness, and we see that all the problems that we had have a different perspective, you realize that the biggest thing in life is the Source of Energy, God or Source of Life.✨

Thanks Tatiana for your message… it was meant to find me. I am going through a very traumatic experience with miscarriage at the moment. Losing the baby has put me in a constant state of fear (of it happening again) and just pure sadness, and your video reminded me in my most vulnerable moment that I will be okay no matter what.. and the ego is what’s causing the fear. Needed to hear that, thank you for this.❤

This is so true! I love how you describe meditation as becoming part of source. Ekhart Tolle also has a great way of describing humans. He says we’re like a ray of sunshine and source energy is the sun. We are part of it but not the complete source. Anywho, thanks for all the knowledge and inspiration. ❤

agree 100%, just stumbled on your channel, great content. be intentional, be curious and detact from outcomes and controling what you can't control. accept reality for what it is and eliminate what doesn't serve you. LET GO

The hardest thing for me is to have confidence

I have recently found the law of attraction. I see where what you say is connected to law of attraction. I look forward to hearing what else you have to say.

Never meditate, I think there are a lot of things I can learn from you, thank you very much, good luck to you!!

Thank you, Tatiana. This comes in a perfect time of my life. Calm the mind. So many times, we can forget that the solution is within ourselves.

Thank you for this Tatiana! I’ve been realizing lately that I’ve been replaying a tape from my past and it’s been limiting. It helped hearing your words about circumventing that “tape” altogether. Much ❤🙏🏼☦️

I first found you for selling on Amazon and have gotten so much more from your videos. You are a gift! Thank you!

I'm glad you mentioned ego death. Alot of people don't realise this, but ego death is probably if not the best things that can happen to your mind. It not only helps open it further but it also deconditions it from prejudice. Before clicking on this video, I said to myself " Oh just another attractive previlege white female on a social platform who is going to get clicks because of her looks and prob wouldn't provide any further value to me/what I already know", but then I realised I was speaking from a point of bitterness caused by my ego rejecting the thought of a woman giving me tips on conditioning my mind and worse still an attractive woman whom according to my assumptions would have had it easy in life. That you just read was me 2 mins before I clicked this video and as someone who tries to spread positive thinking and encourages safe enviroments/society, that was pretty shameful of me. Clicking the video was a big step of many already taken in my ego death process. It is not usually instant and you will experience moments of rebellion when your ego would want to prove itself but I urge you to always challenge it. Thanks for this video, no information is valueless even hearing it 1000 times cause reminder is like practice, it sticks due to repitition. Because of the primary advantage of willingness to accept failure as a stage in growth and be open for correction and enlightenment, Ego death will open doors to places your ego wouldn't.

I noticed a lot of people these days are gravitating more to “watching the bad thoughts pass until they run their course” rather than blocking them out altogether… Back then it was all about “blocking out those bad thoughts” but I guess they realized later on that “what you resist, persists…” Getting away from bad thoughts isn’t the way in life, it’s learning to “handle” them and work in harmony with them rather than avoid them completely…

Love it I started watching you when I was selling things on Amazon and I too am on my spiritual journey and I love hearing you talk about these things 😊

Thank you Ms. James for your video and message. I simply want to first share my perspective before making a comment about the message: I think this program is not an inconsequential matter, for it bares the truth of our character and actions. Our environment helps structure how we perceive our reality, others, and the truth. We all are a product of our upbringing, but the freedom of choice comes in when we have the freedom to change or decide to change based on all we know to be true or can be the truth as a consequence so that less pain is presented in the world. Therefore, the truth, which is rooted in faith, religion, and perception, must be the basis of the free choice in order to make the best decision and for free will to have a lasting impact. Truth is important because it determines how we view the world and how it manifests and so shapes a person's development in life. And I believe that truth is founded in responsibility, the notion that a person's actions, words, and life matter but have fundamental and real consequences, and so by taking stock of our identity and influence we can learn and grow forthrightly. Leonardo Da Vinci said wisdom is the daughter of experience, and so we learn by experiencing life or the 'programs'. Life can be filled with suffering, despair, and darkness but there are lessons to be learned in everything and nothing teaches as effective and impactful as knowledge obtained from humility. There is just one truth, reality, and it may hurt because it exposes your flaws. This is the offensive aspect of truth and reality, which is hurtful and occasionally has a very strong impact. You are not everything you wish to be, but by carrying out a meaningful purpose responsibly, a person may conquer the darkness, and in a way, that is the higher self. Aristotle once said: "Infinity is the lack of limitations" (which is one definition of evil). A person should only accept responsibility within their limits since going beyond them might create nihilism and the breakdown of their mental and physical stability. So our mind is a conscious reality with certain limits and desires. I agree we have an animal brain but most importantly we have a human conscience a remarkable brain that has the capacity for self-control, growth, inventiveness, and emotional intelligence. And so I also agree with looking inwards into our consciences and testing our actions, thoughts, and ideas by thinking rationally and intuitively. My main concern is not how can I disassociate from my perceived reality but how can I contribute regardless of what magnitude so that the moment is not dreadful or infected with malevolence. Life happens, we all know the saying, there is a random element to life and the only way to overcome these limits is a meaningful pursuit in life, something that even if threatened by death the desire for accomplishment or revelation is greater than the fear of death or failure when a person is fully engage in life. And I had the question what if your life is a tragedy, then all I can say is carry your pain and responsibility even if you can barely stand doing something that you find meaningful, because love, happiness, and wealth always came with a cost, so in the end, if you fall you know you at least you gave it all. The most important duty in life is to dimmish suffering and pain or to support principles and pursue a meaningful truth that uplift, save, and unite people. And a quote as it were, what life teaches me is "Even if life keeps dealing you bad cards, play your hand as well as you can without malevolence and with the truth, responsibility and empathy so that in the end, if you truly had a difficult life, you at least, in the end, can have a noble death." We are all limited, finite beings but the ideals we leave behind are infinite and can last forever. And that is the higher person for me, not the actions of mortally but the strive to uphold immortal/ existential virtue founded in religion, beliefs, and the moral teachings of history. Thank you for your time. Please stay safe and take care.

The way you explain your self is so relatable. I feel like ever since I left America and moved to a more isolated area in the world these uploads almost come naturally I could never explain it like you though. The city life has such a energy that can be so overwhelming at times and not allow you to be completely in tune with your body, at least for me. Meditating has come so much more natural because I can actually hear my own thoughts with out so much distraction that used to get me out touch with alot of things going on in my life. Almost like in a sedative yet anxious state. Most are just making money to support this false sense of Security and Convenience yet no one really knows what it's like to live anymore.

There is only one freedom, and that’s from choice-less awareness. That is the ultimate key to open the innermost mystery of your being.

“Be a 10/10 and get anything you want in life.”

It's not just that we didn't connect with our true selves, but more specifically we socialize one another to suppress it. Most collectively held notions of maturity are superficial, and really just comprise pressure to abandon the whole of ourselves. Recognizing this means we can choose instead to honor the natural expression of ourselves and one another.

Dear Tatiana Thank you so much, this was amazing and I’m going to try it, I’m trying to reset my mind after years of an abusive marriage and finally divorce, what you explained really resonates with me and makes sense, it’s true that therapy helps but most of the work has to be done by ourselves in the end, on a daily basis, it’s been two and a half years since my separation, I have done forgiveness for myself so that my soul can be at peace and I really feel so much more empowered to take control of my life. Thank you again, I will certainly try it. God’s blessings.🙏🌹

I enjoy what you're saying, but at the same time I'm enjoying the way you're looking, truly astonishing woman

well I've done this ,my collage life wasnt going great,social anxiety and stuff .....but its simple just change the way u view the world like in a more positve way ,express gratitude ,change your inner world to change your reality as the universe is within u and have a positive attitude

You have nailed it. I have all these same thoughts in my head. It’s beautiful to see you so eloquently explaining them. This is the key to life. Congratulations

Thank you for the video Tatiana! You inspire me to live as who i truly am. Recently, I´ve noticed few shocking facts about myself and people in my life while i was meditating. I´m shocked and felt bad not knowing those things for a long time but i noticed that i was just programmed so many negativities and was trapped in it. I decided to live my own life instead of pleasing people to love me.

Great video! The Creator has blessed you with much intelligence and wisdom, which you wisely developed. Impressive!

Love this & how you explain it! One of my biggest anxieties has been work related, stepping into the Entrepenuership world were there’s so many options & opportunities is amazing but being a curious soul at heart has always led me to confusion. Def will try meditating more often

Great video! You have a new follower after this :) Explained beautifully and simply for ppl to understand. Thank you! I look forward to going through your channel :) x

recently I started reading book - the power of now, I can't express in words how much I am thank ful to God... . truly based on same idea of video

Truth is a limitation. To say that anything is true indicates there is untruth. But in a greater understanding there is neither truth nor untruth; there is only the isness of ongoing, evolving life. Love your perspective even without all the makeup. smile

The people who achieve the most in life do things in spite of fear. Fear will never go away if you are pushing past your comfort zone. It *will* make things easier if you keep doing things in spite of fear, but it will never go away, and if it does go away, it's because you've retracted from your higher potential. Don't focus on fear, focus on winning and doing your best (ie- compete against yourself).

Truly mind blowing perspective, and thanks for making such a fantastic video that clarifies what one needs to do, to be Oneself. You are Amazing. 👌❤✌

Thank you first and foremost for this sensational and informative video content . It came on time for me personally as i have been struggling for almost 5 years from resistance and denial . I came across this by chance and i highly believe miss Tatiana that i need to hear it daily because it contains the secret of how i should change my mind and live adequately . I need to find myself from inside . But i didn't understand one idea of fear, how can i disassociate with this feeling and not letting it overcome me?

This reminds me I really need to create the habit of meditating again. Thanks! ❤

If there's a video I watch all the time it is this one! I watched when you posted and I keep coming back

The example of taking a cup of water (at 10:53) from the huge ocean , we are that cup - was great. Thumbs up.

💙 the disconnection since childhood is correct .Source energy ,pure energy is love and you are right it takes lot of time sometimes to fix Thank you for the input .

My goodness this is so enlightening, and you are a most beautiful being, inside and out.

Masha Allah, your way of teaching is quite good. I'm completely fulfilled by these beautiful and splendid words. Have a huge respect for you from Pakistan.

It's called wisdom.

It is the hardest for me to find some peace, I am very withdrawn, I have no concentration and I have a lot of nervousness. For example, when I'm drawing something, I quickly get nervous and I don't continue to draw. There is too much depression and anxiety in me, I want to be successful in the future, I study, work, study... I'm trying to start my own business, but here I am, I'm confused about what to start, I'm nervous and depression again... Maybe I should relax somehow or maybe find a girlfriend, but if I found a girlfriend, I would probably waste a lot of time studying and creating, I don't know...

i don't know how i stumbled upon this video, but it's an absolute mater piece, this is amazing content. thank you.

hey, in the background of your video theres a figure of a tiger made of glass. Love that. Theres so much information in your Video it was really hard for me to get through!! From experience I can say that sticking to your goals over some years brings you the desired results, even in personal growth. To get to free choise I think is going to take sometimes more than a couple of years. Most inspiring for me is your comparison with the ocean and the cup filled with water out of the ocean. As I understand you is that every living beeing is filled with energy out of this source and even every plant and organism ist a part of this circle. So when it comes to meditation, beeing silent and at the same time present than I understand better now how there is energy.

You are helping heal people one video at a time. Thank you so much

I prefer the interstand or overstand rather than understand, understand was part of the programming that we have all been subjected too. Your video has so much truth and merit to it, once people begin to realized the programming they will be able to free themselves of the matrix's bubble that we have allowed to imprison our minds to the conditioning process. Peace,Joy and Love has been stolen from humanity. Once Humanity figure this out as whole humanity can no longer be enslaved!

Thank you so much,this sharing is very helpful for me, so much love to you and appreciation for this passionate work .💗💗💗💗

This is true, the mind is not ours, who understand this they can create their own life.

thank you tatiana, i came across your video at a right moment in my life . much love and god bless

I feel anger and hatred from things that happened in the past, feels unresolved to, I feel it is causing me to suffer in different ways today. Could you make a video on how to overcome anger and hate? Thx.

You are a guru. Thank you for showing me the light

My ego mind says success or self destruct. Your ego is a tyrant! The lizard brain will get in the way of success. The lizard brain can paralize you. The ego wants to be fed with what it thinks it's lacking. Interesting this channel got suggested to me. I am big into these kind of discussions. Btw, the way you are "laying it out" is exceptional. Very well said!👏👏👏

0:30 Omfg she’s talking about the Reticular Activation System. She’s a genius

Tatiana, thank you for showing me the way to an explored world within me.

Wow, Great to find you. And I now manifest in my life a woman that looks like you and most importantly, thinks and lives on the vibrational frequency you do.

Hello Tatiana I really love how conscious you are, you always surprise me how much more you grown and morph to this beautiful butterfly. The mind take on the order in which it thinks so I do my best to keep them positive and i definately surround myself with like minded people. You are inspiring and i love you for that your husband is blessed.... lets continue to make heaven here on earth

Thank you for giving,not just me but the whole world a view of what it takes to be human.

….this video is worth ‘gold’, the gold of the soul ❤, I guess truth can find us if we let it.😊

what you are saying is true. and there are layers like past lives subconsciously that work like filters also. If you read Mahabharata, that is what is portrayed there.

Thats the first video that i see from you, very good informations, keep up the grate work

Good advice. Let yourself feel whatever it is that comes without judgment and love and hold yourself - just like your best friend would if they were there.

Hello Tatiana 👋🏽 I came across your video somehow and wanted to check you out and I gotta say your wisdom and empowering message really got my attention. You definitely earned my respect as a subscriber and a “Like” for this video. I’m definitely going to checkout your other videos on your channel 👍🏽😊☺😉

Please do a video on how this relates to relationships. It's a struggle when one is in their higher mind and has the ability to detach and respond with mindfulness and multiple perspectives while the other is triggered into automatic negative thoughts and reactions that are fully associated to perceptions and emotions that are often not based on what's really going on.

You're inspiring. I especially liked the parts of the video where you used the laying down and staring at the clouds example as how meditation is suppose to feel. I also liked the "peeling the layers of the onion" example. I started thinking, if we peeled back all the layers of the onion we'd have no onion. We'd begin back to not even learning how to speak English lol. No life. Hahaha. But that example helped me really hone in on the attributes of myself I'd like to keep as a contributing member of society in this world. One day I'm gonna wife a beautiful chika like you. Beauty and Brains. Your intelligence is so refreshing! Thank you for the video!

Like your philosophy. Works for me. A key point in prosperity is a proper political structure. For instance, in Norway there are no billionaires. National resources like oil, have profits distributed across the population. Everyone makes decent incomes, even convenience story workers, who can own a house with their incomes. As opposed to the US, where a worker at 7/11 can barely afford rent in most places. My recent visit to Norway was a huge eyeopener. When people are provided with an economy that works for them, instead of a false economy based on debt, they are happy. They also get free health care and education. Yet those programmed that US capitalism is the best system cannot even see this. They can't see it. Even now I anticipate objections as to why the US is so much better than Norway. Which will be superfluous at best.

Thank you. You get into the core of the subject in a clear way. Your diction and tone of your voice is impressive as well.

Genuinity is something we dont really get nowadays, this content is genuine, its heartspoken words ❤️

I've definitely been operating by "trauma-guided autopilot" so to speak. Recently I've started to work on this to be conscious about it and take back control.

One practical advice really changed my life. I share it on my channel ^^

This works very WELL for me. This is GENIUS! You are a GENIUS! This is a very important subject actually to talk about. I don't know if you listen to Abraham Hicks she's talking about the same attitude I love IT! Sending you love from Morocco and btw I appracciate so much your videos.

I think that’s the key Really When you meditate you need to be an observer. So many people try to dissect their thoughts and that just leads to nowhere Good video. Well stayed. Ty

This is exactly what i needed to hear. Thank you so much for this phenomenal video! 👍❤️

I can’t believe something so insightful came from someone so young.

This is so beautiful thanks for sharing! 🙏 Im definitely in that path I 100% feel you when you said about feeling oneness or In touch with your higher self, my life is completely transforming. Thank you universe, thank you past, thank you present, thank you future!🍃🧡

Thanks Taitiana James, wonderful briefing tecknics of describing interpretations, feelings and expressions.I like your English talents and readiness. Very useful!

So succinct, such clarity of vision; an Earth Mother of the highest order !!! 🙂

This video was truly enlightening. Thank you so much for compressing such complex laws and principles in such a short video. May God Bless You. 🙏❤

This might explain the panic attacks I suffer. Overactive fear response to situations that in the past have caused pain, both emotional and physical.

I've been an advanced student of DrJoe Dispenza teaching since 2017. This is a part of what he teaches, but way more advanced. If people realized how powerful you truly are this realm would be much different.

Hi Tatiana, It's an eye-opening lesson for everyone. If we know, how to handle our minds positively, remaining all outcomes are a success only. Yeah, medication is the perfect tool to control our mind day to day life.