This bride knows what she wants but her family has trouble seeing her in a wedding dress because of her young age. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
@@islandgirl5382 i think shes trying to say that getting a tattoo is also o a life long commitment and if she can decide on that , let her dedcide on the wedding & dress
I'm still bringing my family I just won't listen to their opinions at all if they want to talk about my dress then they don't have to come to the wedding PEROIDT
@@BobbieBrownie no haha these are actually the newer episodes! monte styles his hair like this, and lori grew hers out. they look incredible, dont they!!
Compromising her privacy among strangers or the general public crowd, is different than intimacy with the spouse 😂 not everyone makes a big deal out of it. But I understand where it's coming from
This bride does feel "younger" than any of the other brides ive seen on this show, even the 19s and 20s. It's her body language and reactions that make her feel much younger to the viewer and I imagine that doesn't help with familial matters either-Assuming they haven't seen that large maturity difference between her now and her when she was younger. Id think this adds to their perception of her still being that of a young woman but I'm making a lot of assumptions idk 🤷🏼♀️
To be fair, I have yet to see a 20-year-old bride start an appointment by saying “I’m so excited to be playing dress up” or “It makes me look like a grown up.” She makes herself seem really young.
This family: She's too young, she can't get married yet! My family when I turned 18: so when are you gonna get married, hurry up, your clock starts ticking
@@beafoxxylady yeah, I'm 20 now, forever single and my Grandma started introducing me to her friends' grandsons. My dad has asked some collegues of his for some advice and my sister made a profile on a dating app for me. I feel you
I've actually met Monty before, on a field trip to the CNN Center in Atlanta with my class! He was getting ready to film something, but he saw us outside and came out to say hi and took a picture with everyone. It was really sweet and he was very kind!
I love the fact that, despite the fact that her family wasn't entirely on board with her getting married so young, they were still supportive of her decisions in the end.
This family: She's too young, she can't get married yet! My family when I turned 18: so when are you gonna get married, hurry up, your clock starts ticking
@@cherylholub3100 - She’s clearly joking. Hence, the laughing emojis. She loves her son more than anything in the world. Obviously, she would want him to stay with her forever. But the statement is meant to be taken lightly, not literally.
No one is actually treating her like a child. They're just nervous about her being so young making a huge life changing decision. They're still being supportive.
Do other people act like this during other “Say Yes to the Dress” episodes? No? Because they’re treating her like a child. That’s exactly what they’re doing, and to say otherwise is just plain stupidity.
Watching these shows reminds me of the total meltdown my daughters all had in the dressing rooms when they found their perfect dresses. We took nobody but the brides and myself to their dress appointments. Didn’t want too many opinions on the dress choices to confuse their decisions, and I’m convinced that allowing them to make the choice unhindered was the best decision I made. The 5 girls knew that if they loved their dresses , and were happy that dad and I would be happy for them too.
Lori looks so proud! Monty jumps up and down! They are SO proud of her for standing up for herself. I love them for all the love they pour out onto this young woman.
God it seems like in my junior year of high school (2016-2017) when I was looking for a prom dress THAT’S ALL I COULD FIND! And I hated that style! Why is it still here 4 YEARS LATER
Dude I’m 13 and have worn more revealing (for band performance) that dress was beautiful plus she’s 19 she’s able to get married and she’s got tattoos it’s not her mothers choice
@@teddybearaf1477 im a year older and my insecure ass wouldn't dare. But literally if she likes the dress and is confident in it shes good can wear a dress. Her spouse most likely doesnt have a sexual attraction to arms like he aint gonna go killing her and taking her hands
@@M4tchazz lol true also I’m not really allowed to wear 90% of the stuff I wear but my Hispanic family doesn’t understand when I argue correctly due to them not listening to them and I only really wear it because I’m tired of being fat shamed and slut shamed for wearing jeans and a hoodie so I said FUCK IT and now I’m happy
Can we just take a moment to appreciate Lori's new hairdo I freaking love it! As a hairstylist this is a huge win! Her previous style wasn't bad but it screamed old lady and she is beautiful and vivacious. This look really compliments her
I love that Monte and Lori encourage her to stand up to her family without crossing the line of insulting her family. His words to them - that even though she's adult enough to choose her own dress and to marry, that doesn't not change the fact that she's their little girl. And to tell them that it was THEIR strong and positive influence that created the lovely young woman they were looking at? That's how you respectfully build confidence while maintaining family connectivity!
me too. she really is so endearing. If she were my friend I feel like I'd love her and stand by her until the day I die LOL. Idk she's just so lovable.
She is by far my most favorite bride out of all the other Say yes to the dress's series. Absolutely adorable and beautiful! Hope she's leading a happy life
Girl at 19 I had been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, I knew I would marry him some day and I still wouldnt have gotten married to him at 19. I want to be an adult when I get married not a child "playing dressup".
Being mature means not to marry in 19. Adults understand that love wears off and you need to come through some really hard staff to prove your relationship is strong enough. Fortunately we can cohabit without a lawyer's permission.
My husband and I got married about 2 weeks before my 20th birthday. We went to the courthouse and didn’t make a big spectacle of it. We wanted to be married, share a last name, and begin starting our lives together. We knew we were young and would have a lot of ups and downs and growing we would do, but it was still what we wanted. And there hasn’t been a single moment I regretted it:)
“I really like this one” Mom: “Ohh I do too” Monte: “What?!” “Did you hear that? We got it on film don’t worry”😂 I love that part😂 she does look very gorgeous ❤️❤️
Which isn’t saying much because she comes across as very childish - sweet but too young to be getting married. She says she feels like a woman. I sure hope so. Why would she be getting married when she’s not even used to feeling like a grown woman?!
Honestly, as long as both people are kind, are willing to compromise on things, are able to communicate, and have compatible life goals, the marriage will be successful (nobody's perfect, but listening, and being willing to work with the other person solves probably 80% of all problems). I wouldn't encourage people to marry young (as a rule, I do think waiting until you're in your 20s or 30s is better), but if you find the right person, than go for it.
@@t.matthies3049 compatibility, communication, compromise, and kindness!! So true! You should write a book ☺️ I feel like marrying young doesn't work out as much now days for two main reasons: 1)Not cross-checking values/life goals/expectations 2)Divorce is used as an option instead of a last resort. I have three children and while I don't necessarily want them to marry young, I honestly don't want them "playing the field" or "sowing their oats" or whatever the new term is for being fast/promiscuous 🤔
@yulyu That's definitely not true, the average age was 21-23, and although things were very different, you can't make simple generalizations about each time period to justify why you think a specific couple shouldn't get married young
God considered u as an adult at 20 only if u are mature enough being raised in his laws! The spouse has to able to provide financially and have a home!
My favorite one so far, her brother loves his sister and she’s definitely a mommy’s girl and her grandma is all that! Really great respectful family. I love they was supporting her. ❤️
I got married at 23 and looking back, oh my goodness I was still a baby! But at 19 I was nowhere near mature enough to get married- I still fought with my brothers over the last bowl of cornflakes! But this bride is beautiful and hopefully with a loving and supporting family behind her she will flourish in newly married life.
I was so sure that I was mature and old enough for marriage at 23 - but now at 37 I know that I still had a LOT of growing up to do! What was lovely, is that my husband and I have grown up together (even though he is 4 years older - I reckon we are and always have been about equal maturity wise 🤪🧐) we still are totally in love and we have two amazing kids age 12 & 10 that we adore! I still find it crazy that people my age can be in such different life stages! A friend I went to school with was wishing her son a happy 18th birthday today, then so many people don’t marry/ settle down until their mid thirties and they may have a newborn or toddlers at my age.
Not everybody is like that at 19. I was living on my own at 19. Paying my own bills. Doing it all on my own. Stop saying young women aren't grown just because you didn't mature as fast.
I’m 19, and couldn’t think about getting married right now. But, at this age, people have different aspirations. My cousin is my age, just had a kid & she’s engaged. And I’m at uni, trying to get my degree and a solid job before I settle down and have a kid. I just think it’s a personal choice at this point
She’s just being protective of her daughter. 19 is really young to be getting married and her mother just needs to processes that it’s not just her little girl anymore.
Her mum is concerned . Do you still feel the same things as you did when you were 10? Well her mum is concerned that in 10 years she will look back and think why didn't I wait . That's what loving your children is all about . Doesn't mean that the child appreciates it at the time though
Way to go, BIG BROTHER!👏👏👏... By the way, you were already OUT RANKED when Mom started crying😂 Lil sis looked BEAUTIFUL, and you're right, Dom will be lucky to see her walk down the isle IN THAT DRESS. Best wishes. 😘😘
Her big brother is always going to look at her as his baby sister. I wouldn’t be too hard on him - you could obviously see how much he loves her and it was probably a very real moment to him that she has grown up and is ready to be on her own.
Ikr. Just the way they were talking about/to her in general was low key rude. She's not a child anymore and they need to respect that. They've never spoken about they're older clients that way, and it was kinda bothering me how they were treating her like a child playing dress up
Emma Lucas in the beginning she said she was excited to play dress up. It was also apparent that her moms opinion really mattered to her and that she was relying on her.
I have to disagree, since it varies from person to person, but a lot of people who have recently left their parent's house for the first couple years still don't fully know how to grasp the idea of being an adult and make decisions on your own. These people tend to often rely on their parent's opinions since they should know more about being an adult and help them fully grow independent. She's just one of those cases where she still relies on her parent's a bit more than others, and the bride really does take into her mom's opinions into account. So, they were kind of stating a fact since a lot of brides also take family or friend's opinions into account of their wedding outfits, and etc. Also, this particular bride didn't seem insulted when they said that.
@Puppy and Baby Action Divorce rates are more tied to culture than age. There are plenty of cultures where the women marry young (11 to 17 years of age) and the divorce rate is extremely low.
Chichi Okolo Usually because it’s forced.And it’s a disgrace if you get a divorce, you won’t be able to marry anyone after having your virginity taken you are seen as damaged goods.So jo it’s not because they don’t want tot get divorced form a 40 year old man while your still young it’s because they can’t.
