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What's so funny about mental illness? | Ruby Wax 

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Diseases of the body garner sympathy, says comedian Ruby Wax -- except those of the brain. Why is that? With dazzling energy and humor, Wax, diagnosed a decade ago with clinical depression, urges us to put an end to the stigma of mental illness.
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@marianthichaniotaki6843
@marianthichaniotaki6843 8 лет назад
Im happy knowing that there are people like her in the world
@WorldPreSchool
@WorldPreSchool 7 лет назад
Yes
@bjscheid1
@bjscheid1 5 лет назад
She's a truth teller and an amazing soul.
@sarab5132
@sarab5132 3 года назад
She's great!
@onehotminutex
@onehotminutex 10 лет назад
"What once made you safe, makes you insane". That is very true, because with OCD you do these rituals over and over again to stay safe but it's just making you worse.
@smokinroo420
@smokinroo420 10 лет назад
toche'
@kachi2782
@kachi2782 2 года назад
What happens when you stop doing the rituals ?
@jacktaktical
@jacktaktical 2 года назад
@@kachi2782 In my expirence as someone with OCD (but this may vary per person) I often felt overly stressed and paranoid, I felt extremely unsafe, it was hard because its something I do "unconciously" at this point, I only managed to stop for 15 days before relapsing again, even if it hurts me I dont have plans to stop tbh
@kachi2782
@kachi2782 2 года назад
@@jacktaktical Thank you for your answer. I actually work with people suffering from OCD because i did suffer from it as a teenager and managed to get rid of it and it never came back. When you stopped for 15 days, did anything bad happen to you ? And i do not mean the stress, i mean does something actually happened to you ? I have treated 4700 people so far and none of them relapsed. I am not a doctor, (well, actually i am but i am a vet and ethologist) i do not charge for it and i use animals and it works every time. It takes a while and people need to spend a couple of weeks with me so it is really a Holiday thing. They are fed and sheltered and in exchange, they have to work with the animals at the rescue centers here in Switzerland throughout the whole process. I only take 10 people at a time, after a very strict selection because i do not want anyone susceptible to harm the animals, but i have been doing this for 15 years and so far it works. It is a mix of zootherapy, yoga, meditation, (i am not religious) a few exercises, both physical and mental, a strict schedule, cooking your own food, and of course taking care of the animals which is really where the magic happens. If you do not wish to give it up, then of course it won't go away, But you do have to keep in mind that it is not real and that all it takes is to want to give it up and then get the proper assistance to do so.
@mxzel
@mxzel 8 лет назад
"how come every other organ in your body can get sick and you get sympathy.. expect for the brain"
@itslinknotzelda6154
@itslinknotzelda6154 8 лет назад
because to people they think you do it on purpose because your brain is what drives thought, i suffer from high anxiety which makes you think disturbing thought you dont want to think but its nobodys fault
@sean..L
@sean..L 7 лет назад
Because the mind is not physical, and people think in terms of materiality.
@VEGETADTX
@VEGETADTX 7 лет назад
That is exactly what I've been trying to unsucessfully tell to people around me for decades. Somehow so many people STILL don't get it. Unbelievable.
@bonson9156
@bonson9156 6 лет назад
because people are monsters
@eh4235
@eh4235 6 лет назад
Because of the stigma that you have freedom of choice. Because screwed up experiences shape your personality. You have so much to be greatful for, but behold if I could raise my self, and I did for most of my life, I probably would have made different choices, even who my parents were lol. Embrace your yourself. We are all anatomically the same, our brain is what makes us unique. Plus I do belive, while some things you can't change, you can play with your mind your own way choose your own knowledge and experiences to make yourself better, for yourself. (:
@rkaiser1333
@rkaiser1333 8 лет назад
this gave me SUCH a sense of relief, the INSTANT she said "we're not equipped for the 21st century," I knew exactly where she was going with it and I was so relieved and grateful because I felt like, for the first time, there was a real, scientific , evolutionary explanation for why I am depressed and that it's not my fault. I'd heard the explanation before, but when you're in a depressive episode it's hard to remember anything that makes you feel better, so it was nice to hear that from someone who knows it too
@HnabniC
@HnabniC 7 лет назад
they shoulda given her another 10 mins you can tell she had a lot more to say i could watch her for a whole hour tho
@kattie06
@kattie06 7 лет назад
Hanbin C I saw her Frazzled show a few months ago. she's absolutely amazing, i especially loved how she answered questions from the audience at the end. shes great
@DanielleA2023
@DanielleA2023 10 лет назад
the truth, devoid of the garbage and articulated simply as it can only be done by someone with passion, intellect, insight and who has been there. AWESOME!
@SnowTricky
@SnowTricky 10 лет назад
Brilliant talk, love the "How come every other organ in your body can get sick and you get sympathy, except your brain?” quote..
@monique3885
@monique3885 10 лет назад
the points she mad were amazing.
@Oscarancasey
@Oscarancasey 12 лет назад
Absolutely incredible. From the depths of her own experience. Some heavy points in there about stigma.
@tammiewilson812
@tammiewilson812 11 лет назад
I have an extreme amount of respect for this women and her power. Seek this place within yourself laughter is healing and difficult at best when we struggle with depression. I think she is simply trying to find her self within this struggle she calls manic depression. Way to go Ruby. I understand your point and your hard statements as highly emotive and thought provoking. love it!!
@dfjulesful
@dfjulesful 8 лет назад
Aha! I knew my cats were happier than me.
@MangoVlog
@MangoVlog 9 лет назад
Run Chlamydia! Run like the wind Verruca!
@mirandabunting9841
@mirandabunting9841 11 лет назад
Ruby is a complete genius and I have so much admiration for all her work. This is an incredible TED talk. "Run Chlamydia, Run!"
@patriciasalvatore2394
@patriciasalvatore2394 6 лет назад
I think you'd be crazy if you couldn't see some humor in mental illness. Especially when that mental illness is your own. Don't even ask me about my time spent in a few psych wards. I still remember how funny things can be when you look back at yourself and everyone else there ( including the staff) with kindness and humor.
@DJoeLawless
@DJoeLawless 8 лет назад
depression = over-awareness
@sawyerrice3244
@sawyerrice3244 8 лет назад
+DJoeLawless what
@editam.32
@editam.32 8 лет назад
+DJoeLawless actually, anxiety = over-awareness
@martindegnlarsen9298
@martindegnlarsen9298 8 лет назад
I LOVE HER!!! Omg!!! She's AMAZING!!!
@helfrichraven129
@helfrichraven129 11 лет назад
She's so good.
@Brenda-uf8pk
@Brenda-uf8pk 8 лет назад
love this woman
@marypac4882
@marypac4882 4 года назад
Thank you, Ruby, for this talk! Thank you SO MUCH!!!
@MadkittenzK
@MadkittenzK 10 лет назад
i fucking love this talk im so glad i clicked on this video it needs more views
@MrFlamingpride
@MrFlamingpride 6 лет назад
God bless her. Laughing = learning. I feel this video can help other people finally understand depression.
@frazzleface753
@frazzleface753 4 года назад
Always loved Ruby.
@hemaniscool
@hemaniscool 4 года назад
Fucking love this woman
@EneMye
@EneMye 11 лет назад
Ive suffered for 10 years with mental illness. I was on the other side of the world from my home and everyone i knew when i had a nervous breakdown and was put into a mental hospital. all my "best friend" of 4 years would say to me (in between pretending i didnt exist) was that i was "telling myself" that i was depressed. and that i "wasnt trying hard enough" to feel better. it felt like id been kicked in the stomach every time he said this stuff. does anybody understand?
@annaprzygoda6247
@annaprzygoda6247 3 года назад
wonderful. Thank you!! love the humor bit!! so smart.
@syierarose5300
@syierarose5300 9 лет назад
I love her :3 She is awesome.
@Q.Q.Kachoo
@Q.Q.Kachoo 11 лет назад
In my opinion, the essential root of the stigma is is that many people have an action-->reaction mentality. "Oh, you're sad? Why, what happened? Nothing happened? Then why are you sad?" And so on. The tragedy of it is, depression isn't earned. It's placed upon you without your consent, whether through your genes or your upbringing or whatever. One of the reasons that depressives ARE depressed is because they haven't done anything to deserve feeling depressed.
@FunfindersX
@FunfindersX 2 года назад
Wow I'm so thankful for you You make complete sense
@m_a7164
@m_a7164 4 года назад
You are one of the funniest person on earth, not to forget my old time favourite Jennifer Saunders & Joanna Lumley. Dawn French rocks big time aswell! Thanks for your work and Ab Fab:)) There is no better TV serie than Absolutely Fabulous! Jen is a genious and you people working together makes the serie amd humor best I've ever seen mates!!!! :D Thanks for cheering up our every day life!
@paulplante9219
@paulplante9219 11 лет назад
This absolutely incredible. Thank you!
@candicemariebeadco
@candicemariebeadco 5 лет назад
You have inspired and encouraged me. Keep speaking the truth. #StopStigma
@HoboLyra
@HoboLyra 11 лет назад
Yeah, I live with Schizoeffective disorder- and while I know in my head things aren't real and such it still presents itself in a manner that makes it hard to deal with life some times. I have better control over this then most with my range of symptoms, but you are 100% correct that it is something to be dealt with for the rest of our lives. Doesn't matter how much I believe it's all in my head, that doesn't magically make it disappear forever.
@princeofpurple
@princeofpurple 7 лет назад
I want to be a public speaker for advocating the support of mental disorders & helping clear the stigmas associated with various ones & mental illness in general & I honestly aspire to present like her. I've always wanted to present my speeches of a serious subject in a serious manner but also incorporate comedy to it cause I'm also an aspiring comedian (Thanks Joel Hodgson!) & hopefully I will get to do that one day
@seanericanderson3666
@seanericanderson3666 10 лет назад
Wow, brilliant.
@erinchillmusic8930
@erinchillmusic8930 Год назад
Awesome talk❤. Thank you and Yes let’s please stop the stigma
@xquidditchcaptainx
@xquidditchcaptainx 12 лет назад
shes truly inspirational
@dougfitchmusic
@dougfitchmusic 6 лет назад
Funy, funny, informative, authentic.
@hugthemouse
@hugthemouse 12 лет назад
How brave to step forward with her own metal health challenges. Go Ruby! You rock.
@soniaveness7648
@soniaveness7648 4 года назад
Thankyou.x
@Jotto999
@Jotto999 12 лет назад
I didn't mind her quirky style and the message is very important. We need to start modifying ourselves as we have our environment.
@cayotelives
@cayotelives 5 лет назад
She has class
@TheOneWhoStabsWithSp
@TheOneWhoStabsWithSp 12 лет назад
Her pictures remind me of the illustrations in Roald Dahl's books.
@AbsolutelyJviral83
@AbsolutelyJviral83 12 лет назад
Excellent talk, brave woman!! Mental illness affects so many people regardless of age, fittness or wealth (even the ex heavyweight champion of the world) FRANK BRUNO!!
@Solololol
@Solololol 11 лет назад
I am SO glad you have been inside my head. You obviously spent a lot of time in there to glean so much information about how I feel and function. :/
@Pel0r
@Pel0r 12 лет назад
wow, amazing talk more and more informative than it looked like when it started.
@caro_c31
@caro_c31 10 лет назад
Thank you Ruby Wax!!!
@dinoarellano
@dinoarellano 12 лет назад
Great exposition. The only thing is that her drawing says 100, 000, 000 neurons, and it should read 100 000 000 000 neurons with 10 000 to 100 000 synapses each. As a mexican psychiatrist, it is always the stigma and the lack of understandig from the patient and their families about the aethiology of the disease, that gets on the way of really effectively dealing with a severe mental disease, like bipolar disorder she probably has.
@YTechUniverse
@YTechUniverse 12 лет назад
Point well made.
@constanzaesposito6333
@constanzaesposito6333 4 года назад
Great!
@elyariti3536
@elyariti3536 6 лет назад
She's awesome!
@monstergirl66613
@monstergirl66613 10 лет назад
She is brilliant. Love this Ted Talk
@amalofoto
@amalofoto 9 лет назад
This was AMAZING! Thank you.
@dididisun
@dididisun 11 лет назад
She was wonderful!!
@ExclusiveManual
@ExclusiveManual 12 лет назад
I love her she's absolutely hilarious.
@deliberatelies
@deliberatelies 12 лет назад
Haha even you don't exactly quote yourself! But thanks for answering my question, I now see the point you were trying to make, and personally I felt it wasn't difficult at all. :)
@maulanarzf2391
@maulanarzf2391 3 года назад
Amazing!!!
@EmilyHummingbird
@EmilyHummingbird 7 лет назад
I. Love. This. Lady. XD
@galmannmedbart
@galmannmedbart 12 лет назад
thanks
@donnag4150
@donnag4150 6 лет назад
Outstanding
@MuseCatherine
@MuseCatherine 7 лет назад
Ruby I LOVE you!!!
@Joshwaa808
@Joshwaa808 12 лет назад
She says "Your pets are happier than you are"
@Cartwrightsrule
@Cartwrightsrule 12 лет назад
Glad I'm not ill.
@nazanvisions
@nazanvisions 6 лет назад
This was so amazing! What a funny, beautiful, bright soul! Made me smile :). We're definitly not equipped for the 21st century, too right ahhh
@feelinwoozyhere
@feelinwoozyhere 7 лет назад
Kinda reminds me of Melissa McCarthy's Sean Spicer sketch.
@libanlibanliban
@libanlibanliban 12 лет назад
she's right. insanity is a human condition attempting to deal with our new found Consciousness. Some can't handle it.
@Expl0rati0n
@Expl0rati0n 12 лет назад
Watched it twice, very interesting!
@dronexmail
@dronexmail 12 лет назад
When she says "Your pets are better than you are", people should really think about that. That is not really funny if we think deeply...
@Brains-GPT
@Brains-GPT 12 лет назад
brilliant woman!
@snaggletooth5844
@snaggletooth5844 5 лет назад
I think her humor is basically a form of coping mechanism
@Thorsanbauer
@Thorsanbauer 12 лет назад
Agreed
@mastshke
@mastshke 7 лет назад
her and carrie fisher=batman and robin
@wintersgill95
@wintersgill95 12 лет назад
amazing
@jsm622
@jsm622 Год назад
brilliant
@HiAdrian
@HiAdrian 12 лет назад
1:57 Haha, my kind of humor.
@monique3885
@monique3885 10 лет назад
this was really entertaining and amazing. good job!
@nav9578
@nav9578 6 лет назад
My best
@Stonehengoo
@Stonehengoo 11 лет назад
Thank you for choosing Cate Blanchett, our most talented actress.
@thomasschoch3849
@thomasschoch3849 6 лет назад
what a gorgeous woman... i love her.
@michaelcastaneda9058
@michaelcastaneda9058 12 лет назад
Ruby Wax was candor woman
@LennyTheRed
@LennyTheRed 12 лет назад
Backdoor compliments ahoy!
@RA-rj5oo
@RA-rj5oo 5 лет назад
Inspiring...yes while we r at it...Lets stop the STIGMA
@ger6111
@ger6111 10 лет назад
Aaaaaaah, that was so short! Could have heard 2more hrs worth
@mrunalkadge54
@mrunalkadge54 5 лет назад
Oh my god!
@kamisatori
@kamisatori 8 лет назад
she's the best, Yes she is!!!
@ninjaesther
@ninjaesther 8 лет назад
i've honestly watched this so many times it makes me feel okay for not being okay
@uptowncommentaries5175
@uptowncommentaries5175 8 лет назад
You are okay no matter what people say, you were perfectly & wonderfully created :)
@CezarMS1
@CezarMS1 7 лет назад
esther_wade_ I feel ya.
@alyssavocadoo
@alyssavocadoo 7 лет назад
You aren't alone!
@Handel9000
@Handel9000 7 лет назад
😊👍
@saratf
@saratf 7 лет назад
Yes! So true!
@dasiasamedy7262
@dasiasamedy7262 8 лет назад
"how come when people have mental damage it's always an active imagination" preachhh
@ojorumiogedoh3275
@ojorumiogedoh3275 7 лет назад
Dasia Renee because they have the ability to create In their mind but the are doing it subconsciously...they aren't consious of what they are doing
@irmanv.9798
@irmanv.9798 9 лет назад
"Your pets are happier than you are."
@cwmhyfryd
@cwmhyfryd 8 лет назад
Because they live in the moment. Fact
@rolandviado
@rolandviado 8 лет назад
+Irma NV. love that quote
@Acidfunkish
@Acidfunkish 6 лет назад
100% truth. Without a doubt.
@hellooldfriend3223
@hellooldfriend3223 5 лет назад
Irma NV. 😂😂😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335
@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 4 года назад
@@cwmhyfryd Yea and because they don't have to work and eat a lot to maintain a normal weight
@hadi2397
@hadi2397 10 лет назад
I can totally relate to everything she says. Especially the,"perk up.... Because I didn't think of that."
@addjewelry
@addjewelry 6 лет назад
Orange When I was hospitalized for depression, someone who visited me said as they were leaving, “Cheer up.”
@geepersweepers3184
@geepersweepers3184 4 года назад
addjewelry- That happens literally every time I try to talk to my mother about my depression. I think she and my father secretly don’t believe in it and every time I try to talk to them about it they dismiss it as if I were talking to them about something stupid. They are either extremely ignorant or they don’t care. I just don’t know anymore.
@sari6522
@sari6522 3 года назад
Me tooooo
@EstherBrownley
@EstherBrownley 5 месяцев назад
That made me laugh so loud!
@XxCharlotteGuineaxX
@XxCharlotteGuineaxX 10 лет назад
I love how she presents this in a positive way, trying to get people to see the fun side of things rather than just stating facts. It really helps people understand, I think this would have a good impact on people who haven't experienced it.
@SarahRoss15685
@SarahRoss15685 9 лет назад
Exactly!
@KatzeARL
@KatzeARL 9 лет назад
Well, except that she wants to say there's nothing funny about mental illness while making fun of it. Uhm. Right.
@XxCharlotteGuineaxX
@XxCharlotteGuineaxX 9 лет назад
Ramm Katze She's putting it in a way that others can understand. She's not trying to say it's not funny, she's trying to say we don't have to act like it's some military secret when talking about it.
@KatzeARL
@KatzeARL 9 лет назад
Yes, it's the assumption that others won't get it unless she explains it in her very special way that rubs me the wrong way. That and the fact that I don't find her funny.
@XxCharlotteGuineaxX
@XxCharlotteGuineaxX 9 лет назад
Ramm Katze If you don't like her, why watch her? I'm assuming that if you failed to put the ideas of disliking her and not watching her videos together, she would indeed have to explain in a simple way...
@PapillonOrchid
@PapillonOrchid 8 лет назад
I've been depressed and schizoaffective for YEARS, almost my whole life, and this woman has finally, somehow, through satire and science, made me feel at peace with that. Thank you Ruby.
@henrycrabs3497
@henrycrabs3497 5 лет назад
LOL
@dokhanhngan5296
@dokhanhngan5296 4 года назад
I love you. I hope you will be okay. I love your existence. Be strong pls
@katmatally
@katmatally 10 лет назад
"All I got was a coupla phone calls tellin' me to 'perk up'. 'Cos I didn't think of that." LOL she is so right. "Just pick yourself up, dust yourself off, snap out of it!" Ruby Wax I think I love you.
@hoold01
@hoold01 9 лет назад
So intelligent, so funny, so attractive.....I think I'm in love.
@paddywanball
@paddywanball 9 лет назад
Gareth Martin good luck buddy :.[
@KylemcmahonMe
@KylemcmahonMe 8 лет назад
She is hysterically funny and this is one of my Favorite TED Talks. The stigma of Mental illness is one of today's travesties. The more we are able to talk about it, the more it chips away at the stimga.
@evacody1249
@evacody1249 8 лет назад
The media has not helped with the stigma either. We take two steps forward only to take three steps back. It's a sad world that people who deal with mental illness me being one of them have to feel ashamed. Sad part is it's not just anxiety and depression I'm dealing with. Add to it ADD, dyslexia, mild aspegers and a bit of OCD and yeah I love my life. :| I'm made to feel ashamed that I have these problems. And when i just ask for some understanding I get told off or I get my parents saying it's my problem why should they help. Even worse is when I found out I had depression my own mother tried to make the whole thing about other family members and how they have it much worse. It's funny but my grandmother is the only one who has any understanding ear.
@elsapadrons
@elsapadrons 8 лет назад
That happened so fast WHY? I want more
@258asc
@258asc 8 лет назад
Today I started reading her book "Sane New World", which is what brought me here. So far, it makes a lot of sense. Learning more will help us do better
@anilkv5891
@anilkv5891 8 лет назад
TedX policy of Time limit and she has delivered the best within the time limits Wonderful speech and presentation
@scotscub76
@scotscub76 7 лет назад
Psychiatry Capitalist Fraud I don't agree with your statement. Ruby Wax works. Many people with debilitating mental illnesses are able to work because of medication. I worked for 15 years before I became horribly ill. We need understanding and support. Mental illness doesn't care if you work or not it doesn't discriminate. and it kills people. lots of people. so if I "wake up" what's my alternative?
@annieidk1740
@annieidk1740 8 лет назад
I love this woman.
@orchidmdg
@orchidmdg 10 лет назад
She said more in 8 minutes than my psychiatrist of 14 yrs has told me. And she is totally accurate. Love her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have Bipolar, Schizoaffective Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder and have been hospitalized 12 times in 17 yrs for wanting to die because it's illegal to kill everyone else around me. This year, knock on wood, has been great for me. Only because I'm on new meds and have a new counselor and a new psychiatrist. AND, because I'm educating myself on how to get out of bed and find things to make myself smile and laugh each day. Just popping pills doesn't work. I go to a NAMI support group. Some how I need them to see this video.
@sangeethavijayakumar6003
@sangeethavijayakumar6003 6 лет назад
I wish you be happy too.god bless
@fvck_Blnk
@fvck_Blnk Год назад
how are you doing nowadays?
@dmulk1
@dmulk1 Год назад
I love her question "how come every other organ in your body can get sick and you get sympathy, except the brain?" It really illustrates how much stigma is still associated with mental illness.
@shaneD7378
@shaneD7378 Год назад
Totally agree with that I've experienced that with my own dad he still has a very old fashioned point of view when it comes to mental health
@soundseeker63
@soundseeker63 9 лет назад
"even Paris Hilton".... I LOLd at that :D A lot of very pertinent points humorously put. She's right, society's attitude towards mental illness is very backward and unhelpful and needs to change. Many of the greatest people to have lived had some kind of mental illness or disability, yet most people if you tell them that you have a mental illness, look at you with pity and back away in fear. Very sad really.
@silvanaatef8498
@silvanaatef8498 8 лет назад
what made you safe, now makes you insane. that's so harsh but it's the truth
@SuperBarytone
@SuperBarytone 10 лет назад
Often it is not the person that is sick but rather society expressing sickness.
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