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And the other way around too (men and women). Seeing the dysfunction and manipulation in someone thats trying to make you jealous just devalues that person.
Every single girl that I’ve been have acted like they are absolutely In love and acted extremely attached but on any given chance they would try to make me jealous and disrespect the relationship in any way they could and the next minute act completely In love and wanting complete attention. I’m starting to realize it’s a waste of time and I could of been a million miles ahead in life if I wasn’t wasting so much time and energy on these love entrapments.
amen, although not all women are like this, i've been with a girl who didn't make me jealous, what a breath of fresh air, really makes you wonder why you gave up your sovereignty
Ignore women, focus exclusively on your own life, if they want to be part of your life they can shut the fuck up and get on board, otherwise they can get lost. This is the thing every man must realize, the earlier in life he does the better off he's going to be later. The man that doesn't get this until age 50 is going to be childless collecting anime figurines. You'll lose the woman anyway. They're disrespecting you and manipulating you by shit testing you and playing games, you let them get away with pulling it the first time they'll do it again, this is why you get one warning to not do it and then you do it a second time anyway you get dumped.
It’s the behavior of borderline girls and narcissists. Constant roller coaster ride. The highs are like heroin, the lows are depressing as fuck. And this happens every day. Sometimes multiple times per day. It’s because this is all they know how to connect. They do love you, but they’re so afraid of abandonment that they have to constantly play games and do crazy shit to prove to themselves that you do love them. But it’s constant. It never changes, it never goes away. They’ll drive you fucking mad. It’s up to you if that’s the kind of relationship you want.
Ended six years relationship, due to this stupid jealous act. She's always doing it and won't stop. Me I don't have time to put her in place all the time. So I left, I won't settle with someone who enjoys playing with my emotions. That's like giving your life with someone who don't mind playing with it.
Possessiveness, manipulative, how much do you care, how committed, how weak you are, and can she do better, and can you do better. Women are trying to maximize. On some fundamental level, I suspect only men feel true real love. For women there's a "is this the best I can do" mindset. It's why the whitest shit I ever heard was invented, "neging" which is equally manipulative and scummy. You should be able to have a real conversation. When either of two things breaks down, trust or communication, the relationship's over. It's dead in the water. You're both wasting each other's time after that part. Also respect, I don't even want respect, I wanted to be loved and understood, but I NEED respect when dating women, solely because they have to respect you. A woman disrespecting you is a prelude to dumping you and cheating on you. The more a woman starts pulling that shit you need to begin looking for options. And she is going to notice you keeping your options more and more open and that's all you need to do (usually) to get her to shut the fuck up, now she knows, he can do better, and I better not ever disrespect him or try toying with him ever again. It's so much worse with teenagers and young 20 somethings though. I haven't tried it yet but I heard older women also still sometimes do that which is breathtakingly immature to me. Not ever again having to date a teenager or a 22 yo is by far the best part about being over 30. I simply don't need to pretend to tolerate women's horseshit anywhere but at work.
Fuck maintain frame. You're not a robot, it's going to hurt if she purposefully tries to make you jealous. If a girl is doing this, put her ass on check. Alert her you don't tolerate bullshit disrespect and you're willing to walk.
A couple of other reasons are they want you to feel insecure as part of a power struggle, and they want to demonstrate their desirability and status to you.
Yes it's good to not be reactive, if you can. But in a real relationship, people should be able to share their vulnerabilities, concerns, values and make compromises, not just stuff their emotions and pretend not to care. Insecurity isn't the only reason you might not want a partner who interacts in certain ways with others,
The bottom line is that there is no good reason for a mature woman to be doing it at all, that is manipulative fuckbird status and those are the women you ghost and ignore. I don't know why these women do not understand this, I positively guarantee you millions of times the last 4 years did manipulative retarded white women get fucked, dumped, and blocked, and were never spoken to again by men they are now calling "narcissists" because these women are too stupid to understand: if I am a man over 30 (especially a white American we been dealing with this shit since before 9/11, see also toxic woman, modern woman, karen, don't ever try and pull this shit on a grown American man), a rich man, a man with a great career or great background, a really attractive tall guy etc, you are not putting up with manipulative games. Seriously I bet you all these dumb ass, bum ass women, many of whom are in their 30s, have kids from another man, are fat, smoke cigarettes, been ran through, are disrespectul and uncouth, or otherwise are just nowhere near as great a catch as they think, then go out and "manifest" an even worse personality with even worse entitlement they think is making them "confident" but in fact makes their character and personality even worse, and they show up on this date to a guy that is giving them a chance. Yes, if he is a good looking paralegal with his shit together and he's on a date with you even though you have a kid and a bunch of tattoos, he's giving YOU a chance not the other way around. And these grown ass, bum ass girlchildren up there immediately begin playing disrespectful and manipulative games. Guess what, *no man in America* that's over 30, looks good, works on himself is ever putting up with that shit he's dumping you and blocking you and ignoring you immediately. It's not narcissism--it's called self worth, you retards. Over and over again. They'll find a guy they KNOW has options and proceed to pull this stunt anyway, on a guy who is at a point he can choose and is looking for a serious relationship, and you act like some teenage fuckbird. No dude, just hard no. Any time you see a woman pulling stuff like this earlier on to the relationship she's telling you up front what kind of manipulative, two faced, disloyal, deceitful, immature, disrespectful raggedy ass old lady she's going to be if you are dumb enough to marry her or let her make off with your seed and trap you. I don't even care if it is immaturity or inesecurity, if you want me to stay, I need to know you can be a mother and a wife, I need to know you are able to respect me and I can respect you and we can have open and honest communication to resolve problems. I need to know how you fight, and how you resolve those fights. I am looking at things longterm look, when I get together with a woman I'm literally already mentally picturing you with your first grey hairs. Like when you think I am mentally undressing you, what I'm actually doing is visualizing what you sound like on the phone in 20 years when either I ask how OUR kids are doing, or hopefully I still consider you a friend of mine and how YOUR kids are and did your husband get the roof fixed etc. I am simply not about to be wastingn my fucking time on you and the last years of my youth on some dumb young disrespectful fuckbird and frankly if you had any damn sense at all as a woman you'd stop wasting your time as well.
Honestly it's so fucking stupid why girls do this, especially when she has a crush on you, it only ruins a relationship or shows that she isn't loyal to anyone, and also when they play hard to get, I had this happen to me by a girl which I never dated, she had a bf yet she was crying chasing after me I honestly didn't give a damn about her, I should have just pumped and dump to get back at her.
Three reasons 1. If they're dating, she's trying to see how needy he is cause if he's not by not reacting emotionally, then it shows masculinity and he leads the relationship instead of her. Women basically love to know their man can potentially live without her and put himself first, but the problem is that it can backfire if he leaves her or flirt with other girls too which is not a healthy relationship. 2. If they're dating, she's trying to make him consider taking things further by asking her to be his girlfriend. Basically trying to see how much he cares by using competitors. 3. It's a form of punishment for something you did or not do
After I stopped pursuing a girl at work, she's starting to try make me jealous. I was with a customer, as I looked to my left, she looked at me and quickly looked away, and shouted this other guys name, even though previously she never did this. And obnoxiously laughing, I just ignored it lol Reason I stopped pursuing is bc she is flakey, and I'm not gonna go out of my way for that tbh. Previously, she came up to me after we hadn't spoken for a couple days, asking why? Eventhough she left my msg on read 🤣 But it's very obvious, I've started talking to another girl. Tbh I'm more of an introvert so I tend to me more reserved, but self aware. So the jealousy stuff isn't really something that bothers me, silence is the best thing to do.
I have followed a hard rule to not pursue, flirt with, say yes to, ask out, or get involved with or hook up with in any way shape or form, female coworkers, as part of my personal code. Partly because it's completely unprofessional, but with the metoo bullshit you can seethe other reasons. Also I realized the problem is women are not used to being told no like we are, so they may well flip out. Like I don't know if me changing my mind or saying I'm not interested will cause he to be ruthlessly jealous, covetous, ANGRY like hell, start crying, or maybe she'll start obsessing over me who the fuck knows how do I know that. So it's simply not worth the hassle of dipping your pen in company ink. With metoo's bullshit the problem is you not only need only an accusation, but also, because of the fact you can report OTHER people's interactions it allows jealous bitter ass third parties to make frivolous and false allegations. Ergo the best thign to do is avoid and ignore women entirely if you care about your job. It won't help when these same butthurt bitter people are in positions of power especially over other women, and because of the way things are like *I* can't personally do anything, women are often subtler in harassment anyway, so it puts it to a position where I get in trouble not just for asking women out, but I also get in trouble for GETTING asked out, AND I can get in trouble for getting asked out by someone else. Because it causes supreme asshurt to some jealous bitter shrew that works there.
My girlfriend and I recently broke up because she sited that she needed to find herself because she had been depressed due to the loss of a family member. I agreed to give her some space but my actions were the opposite. I was calling her constantly, showing up at her place begging her to see me and it got me no where. Eventually I told her that I didn't care anymore and she immediately responded. I ignored her for a bit and she posted a video with another guy (while blurring his face) on snapchat to make me jealous. I want to go crazy but I've elected to not dignify this action with a response. I still want her back but I don't want anymore games!!!
A girl I e been talking to, brought some random dude who likes her to a kickback while I was there. She was flirting with him and playing. I just acted like I didn’t care, and wasn’t even looking their direction. (Deep down that shit lowkey had me heated but I ain’t show it🤣🤣)
I have never seen a woman do that shit even once in my whole life who was ever worth keeping, I am assuming you had to be drunk or didn't have a sense of self worth or something. That's a relationship ender right there.
This makes me feel so much better but at the same time confuses me more Edit 1 month later: Whelp turns out she wasn’t trying to get me jealous even though what I do was always near her like it was my schedule she called me a creep and a stalker and for 2 weeks the girl avoided me then I got that Steve Rodgers haircut and now she can’t lay her eyes off me so I’m not going back to the chick but just a heads up
Why don't we all just stay single,alot less stress and always keep woman at arms length because none of them can be trusted,they lie,cheat,use and abuse proper devious.
But wouldn't that be an emotional reaction by leaving? 🤷 Don't that mean you reacted and she got what she wanted....a reaction Cause it depends on how far it went
Yeah, it seems wildly insecure, and then overcompensating by trying to make your man insecure. Jealousy is naturally going to happen in any relationship. When I see someone intentionally trying to trigger me, all I see is immaturity, toxicity, and probably unaddressed mental health issues. It makes me feel like the woman is untrustworthy, skanky, and not worth my time.
This hits hard ...my ex (asian girl, only white guy shed dated) became a real b*tch to me one night cause I wouldn't give her 30min extra for dinner or not dinner at all, but I couldn't cause I was working n 1hr an half for dinner was to long for my break...so she didn't say anything after that she was going to dinner with another white guy from her gym , I saw later on Her insta Storys... I reacted bad n she broke up with me .... I hate that these "test" are normal ? Like sometimes it just feels disgusting
Naaaah, if you were dating her and she went out with another guy to dinner then she for the streets. As a man and just as a human being you should never tolerate that kind of disrespect. Never let yourself be treated like that period.
Just laughing it off makes it most likely worse - imo you should always be able to directly call bullshit when any form of disrespect comes up. Of course in a stoic and cool headed manner.
I'm all messed up about this, because my mom bailed when I was four and then giggled and called me sensitive in my 30s when I tried to have an open conversation about it. When I was seven my dad married an OCPD Mommy Dearest type. Screaming almost every day of the week, and always brooding when not screaming. It was insane. So I am massively triggered by any woman who is a piece of ish. I like honesty, but not cruelty. I'm tough as hell, but I don't play those type of games without consent.
Tries make me jealous I tell her to get out of my life. Simple as that. I'd rather be with someone who genuinely cares about me and respects me, or be alone.
My girlfriend keeps on texting and hanging out with other guys behind my back and she sometimes compare them to me. And she gets mad at me easily like I don't know what to do.
Dude that ain’t your girl. My mind is blown reading some of these comments. Your girl should absolutely never under any circumstances hang out with a guy behind your back. You have to set boundaries and if she can’t respect them then you’re better off cutting your losses. I know it can be pretty hard to in the moment but your future self will thank you.
@bigoofinthechat5496 your were right man. My girlfriend well now ex broke up with me about almost 5 months ago before I left to the army I just got done with Osut. And found out my ex was screwing other guys before we broke up. Anyways thank you man
Are you sure about not being emotional? I've heard a lot of people suggests naming what it is you're feeling and discussing it with your partner openly and honestly, thoughts?
Sorry. I will dislike this video cuz being "logical" and "non-reactive" is not really a good advice since is too ambiguous and it could mean a lot of things. Hell, you can even be completely passive like a zombie in front of her and you would be fulfilling those requirements and advices youre giving here, and I dont think a complete passive stance is the answer here. So this was not a good advice.
Fuck all these people who are telling me what to do,they made me overthink even i am in the right path, i will be myself and make them decisions i see better , that’s how to be masculine and lead in the relationship.
I was at a bar I go to from time to time to see a bartender I have a crush on with my brother, every time she engaged in conversation with us she pretty much only talked to and made extended eye contact with him. What are the possible meanings of such an encounter...? I have been running it through my head for a while and have some ideas. Thoughts?
This guy was making me jealous what i did was to be even more better than me so that he would ask me where i got tvis that from. And he did and I was smiling he would look at me so aggressive too lol 😂 because i can afford it so mater what. 🤔
@@zaviera_7547 No I didn’t even know I was doing it at first he just liked what I wore I was just being myself. He’s just jealous I’m British that’s why all thses years I stayed quite.
I followed a random girl on IG, she had IG private. The next day I met and went home with a girl from a bar. Sex went really well, we started talking a bit afterwards. She asked me for my whatsapp. Some days later the first girl (the girl with private IG) accepted my IG request. This girl and the girl I met happened to know and follow eachother. When the girl I had sex with realised I was following her friend she sent me a photo of another dude on IG DM and said is an accident (both messages were sent at the same exact time and we are able to delete photos that we dont want to send, so it was a lame excuse she made). She wanted to make me jealous by sending me a photo of another dude.
