What Your Temperament Says About You | The Lila Rose Podcast E110

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Today I sit down with Alexandre Havard, author and international speaker, to discuss the relationship between the four temperaments and virtue. We discuss the story of Jérôme Lejeune, each temperament’s virtues and vices, why the temperaments are important to learn, the temperaments different saints, how to use knowledge of your temperament to develop virtue, how your character represents who you are mores than your temperament, and much more.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Intro Sequence
00:32 Introduction
01:32 Welcome Alexander
03:30 Jérôme Lejeune
07:37 Jérôme's Mission
10:13 They Begun Silencing Jerome
11:03 Jérôme's Legacy
12:28 Jérôme and Downsyndrome
14:09 Seven Weeks Coffee
15:00 What Are the Temperaments?
16:05 "Focus on Your Strengths?"
17:21 The Discovery of Temperaments
18:53 "Choleric"
21:48 What Cholerics need to learn
25:57 How To Coach Cholerics - The Truth About Success
31:57 Nimi Skincare
32:50 "Melancholic"
35:24 What Melancholic Needs To Work On
37:49 "Sanguine"
39:49 What Lila Thinks Her Temperament Is
41:37 You Are More Your Character Than Your Temperament - The Saints
44:07 Challenge for Sanguine
44:36 "Phlegmatic"
47:21 Every Life
48:03 If Your Temperament Isn't As Obvious
49:38 Why Learning Temperaments Are Important
51:50 Stops You From Judging Yourself And Others
53:11 Rightly Developing Your Strengths
55:14 God Gives You Your Temperament
57:36 Dostoevsky
1:00:17 How To Discover Your Temperament
1:01:58 Resources for Knowing Your Temperament
1:03:29 Jérôme Lejeune's First Reaction - The Path to Sanctity
1:07:15 Christ's Temperament
1:08:50 You'll Become a Pig or a Saint
1:12:25 Where to Find Alexander's Work
1:13:48 Wrap Up

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23 июн 2024

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@EmilyW-2000 Месяц назад

I'm so excited that tomorrow is my birthday because I gave my life to Christ at age 17 on my birthday and got baptized and I made it to age 24. Thank you so much sister Lila.

@theresiaID Месяц назад

Happy birthday and congratulations, Emily! Glad to hear that you have given your life to Jesus 🥳🎂😇

@priusa8113 Месяц назад

May Allah guide you to Islam and everyone amin. Salams from jubail ❤❤

@LilaRosePodcast Месяц назад

How wonderful, happy birthday

@Sambo169 Месяц назад

Amazing! Happy Belated Birthday! You can't go wrong following Jesus Christ! Good to hear!

@debras3806 Месяц назад

@@priusa8113May Jesus bless you and guide you to Himself! Salaam from Virginia

@raphaelpali Месяц назад

Just a comment about Jerome Lejeune. He is Venerable right now in the Catholic Church. He is one man I admire a lot.

@friedawells6860 Месяц назад

Where has this advice been all my life?? I have always been turned off by the "leadership training" given in public school and corporate settings. It felt like it was just about being a leader for the sake of being a leader or for pretending to be an important person. When he brings virtue into it, being a leader and working hard so you and those around you can grow in virtue, then it all makes sense! Without virtue, "being a leader" is just vanity.

@CarolinaCoolPapa Месяц назад

I think I’m going to have to listen to this interview more than one time. The mix of practical, intellectual, and spiritual information is a lot to take in. Thank you so much for providing this content.

@Laurefin Месяц назад

I’m definitely a melancholic. I’ve been telling myself lately “more courage, less pride!” Because I’m always discouraged when thinking I will fall short of what I’m aiming at. Sometimes, timidity is just the other side of pride. My husband is definitely choleric. So we even each other out 🤷🏻‍♀️

@LilaRosePodcast Месяц назад

I love that - more courage, less pride.

@Laurefin Месяц назад

@@LilaRosePodcast Thank you for everything you do! ❤️

@MeadeSkeltonMusic Месяц назад

I'm tested equal in all . What does that mean?

@deliaceballos7145 Месяц назад

Lila, I think you just sat down with a Saint in the making! how beautiful and what a gift. I will pray for you both!

@michellemailloux2483 Месяц назад

I have heard it said that Christ had all 4 of the temperaments - but the positive traits only, not the negative and we must strive for all the positive virtues in each temperament.

@jessejames88 Месяц назад

Fantastic interview - thank you, Lila and Mr. Havard! Please consider changing the title (by-line) of the interview, as this is MUCH deeper and more powerful than the title lets on. The pro-life discussion at the beginning about Lejeune...just superb. One of the most engaging interviews I've seen in a while.

@mariac4602 Месяц назад

Wow-around minute 51 in particular such GOOD advice about how not to judge other temperaments and the mindset that leads to 'they need to be more like me'. Definitely have been guilty of that! Such a beautiful way also to accept both your biology and the grace of working toward holiness that addresses each temperament's particular challenges.

@TheDanishHomemaker Месяц назад

Im a phlegmatic-melancholic. My biggest challenge is to be bold, because I am so aware of all the ways I, and other humans, fall short. And how most things only succeed by the grace of God. And what if I don't know the will of God? Because then I will "fail". Even thou Gods will is always the best, I really struggle with acting on things, when Im not sure if what I do and what God wants is the same. I have to be sure in mu heart, because there was a time before I was aware of God - and I know from that time, that because we fall short in so many ways, we set ourself up for failure because we dont know God, and therefore dont know the truth about who we are and how we are created to act. And those failure teach us, so we are really not afraid of failure: we are afraid of humility. Of realizing that we are not perfect and we dont do things perfect, because we are not perfect. But this also motivate me to pray alot and give thanks alot, and reach out to God in all I do. Because I want his perfection to guide everything. I want his perfection to be the center of every action,because he can provide the perfection that I cant provide without him ❤ His will, not mine❤

@LilaRosePodcast Месяц назад

Beautifully said ❤

@BeneathHerMantle Месяц назад

I love that your podcasts are something that I needed, but I didn’t know that I needed to hear, until you post them! Can’t wait to listen to this God bless you and your family and your new baby girl❤️

@amarachibertilia6020 Месяц назад

I love learning about the four temperaments. Thank you for the video Lila. Also, congratulations on your new baby girl! 💗

@friedawells6860 Месяц назад

Dear editors of this podcast, Please put out a short of the part where he talks about Jerôme discovering the genetic cause of down syndrome and then being told of doctor's ntent to use his discover to kill Down's children in the womb. I think the dramatic impact of that would be huge. Cheers

@DelaG29 Месяц назад

As a melancholic I feel pride is also one of our challenges bc otherwise we become too self absorbed

@dymphnatherese2595 Месяц назад

Yes. Gratitude, charity and hope are some of the most important things to practice daily for melancholics. Be cautious of as well of criticizing spouses and children. We must confirm their ontological goodness regularly. May God bless you!

@FaithfulMel Месяц назад

I‘m a huge fan of Alex Harvard and I can’t believe that you had him on your show! I’m so excited to watch this 🤩

@LilaRosePodcast Месяц назад

He’s awesome!

@autisticcaroline2005 Месяц назад

Lila , two days ago was my birthday. I just turned 19 . I’m a young pro lifer and Christian and you are really an inspiration to me and such a beautiful person inside and out; I really love your podcast. I always learn a lot from you and you and the people on here always educate me a lot .

@LilaRosePodcast Месяц назад

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! And thank you so much for being here

@libertasinveritas3198 Месяц назад

Knowing the temperaments is actually quite useful! As a Choleric-Melancholic who doesn´t struggle much with her sons but has a Sanguine daughter, it helped me to know how to approach her.

@LilaRosePodcast Месяц назад

So glad to hear!

@Sergiosa559- Месяц назад

This was interesting. I need to watch this again. Thank you for having very good videos. I’ve been learning a lot on your podcast.

@LilaRosePodcast Месяц назад

So glad 🙏

@saraheeee Месяц назад

Incredible I was going to look for resources on how to parent my melancholic son. He is 9 and I am discouraged when I parent him. Your videos are always exactly what I need. They bless me so much

@paigekoehl7032 Месяц назад

Lila, just want to say you are stunning in your pink Barbie moment 😍 Understanding the temperaments has been so important to my personal growth in relationships and in my spiritual life. This is a great episode!!

@LilaRosePodcast Месяц назад

Aww thank you! And so glad it’s helped you!

@AnastasiaR Месяц назад

I forget which medieval theologian said this but i have read that Christ had all the temperaments or humors in perfect balance

@LilaRosePodcast Месяц назад

I’ve heard that too. It makes sense!

@karinabarros4183 2 дня назад

This helped so much with my career… thank you!

@shepherdessinthefray Месяц назад

WOW. This conversation is actually pretty freeing. Not only in loving others better, but loving myself. I grew up feeling like my temperament (melancholic) was never loved or valued. I think my environment was already trying to drive choleric into me at a young age, through activities and sports etc. I've always been asked "Are you okay?" when I'm not engaging with others/smiling (I have resting sad face, not bitch face). It's taken me this long to realize that I feel ashamed to sit down and write - it feels like I'm not "good enough" - if I'm spending more than like an hour writing or reading. I have to say I am fairly choleric now out of the inner dictator/drill-sergeant in me, but I'm trying to love the melancholic that I am.

@shepherdessinthefray Месяц назад

Took the test and I am Melancholic Phlegmatic... makes sense. Looks like the virtue to pursue is Courage. Makes sense.

@anaribeiro3927 Месяц назад

I think this theory is most useful for parents, educators in general, including teachers, seeking for the educational approach that best works for their children. The theory is less useful for adults, whose personality's been shaped by their character -- understood as the efforts we employ to control our temperament and impulses -- as well as by their temperament. Ps: It was not surprising to see the comments above came from melancholics, who are very easily attracted to anything that may caress their ego or help them to have a throughout understanding of themselves, from astrology to Hippocrates...

@francinecote994 Месяц назад

Oh what a wonderful, overwhelming interview!!! Wow ! Cet homme Monsieur Alexandre est un homme vraiment inspirant, i will share this video with my spiritual director and friends in Quebec that speaks English!!! May God bless him and you miss Rose .🙏❣️❣️

@chrisbrownlov1 Месяц назад

I took a test and I was almost split phelgmatic melancholic, but slightly more phelgmatic. My problem is action, please tell me there are others here in a similar spot and how you overcame

@Jo_Cruz Месяц назад

Saint Teresa of Ávila stated that melancholics need to trust in God's grace. Saint Therese of the baby Jesus, who was melancholic, wrote this in her manuscript: "On this night of light the third period of my life began, the most beautiful of all, the most full of the graces of Heaven… In an instant the work I I couldn't do it in 10 years, Jesus did it by being content with my goodwill which I had never lacked (...). so vividly... I felt, in a word, charity entering my heart, the need to forget myself in order to give pleasure and since then I have been happy." The charity that was infused in his heart turned to others; at first, for the souls of sinners; later, for the souls of the priests. And all of this occurred because she trusted in the action of grace and allowed God to carry out a great transformation in her soul. Teresinha did not stop being melancholic, but she ordered the inclinations of this temperament towards the conquest of Heaven, converting her aptitude for recollection into prayer for sinners, like a true apostle.

@mariago118 Месяц назад

Been thinking about buying one of his books for a few months now. Finally got it during this podcast! 😊

@Beginnerreadsthebible 26 дней назад

Wow. He died on Easter; what an amazing gift for God to give him ❤

@jessejames88 Месяц назад

Would love to hear Alex Havard's thoughts on the claim by leading Exorcist and author Fr. Chad Ripperger, PhD's statement that...regular recitation of the Rosary (Our Lady's Psalter) is a means that Heaven has given us to cultivate ALL of the virtues. His thoughts on St. Louis de Montfort's famous book, The Secret of the Rosary, would also be very interesting. Best & God bless.

@Sambo169 Месяц назад

I just now watched your show! I like this show! I subscribed! God bless you!

@irynasakharchuk7044 24 дня назад

Woooooooooow Thank you so much❤amazing

@Angel268201 Месяц назад

Really great information and interview. I’d like to learn more about the temperaments. So far, I have a mental block understanding them; but I don’t give up. So far this interview was the most enlightening, so far. Thank you

@TheGringoSalado Месяц назад

Havard is a treasure! #VirtuousLeadership

@br.patrickreilly8556 Месяц назад

What a free man!

@annettebicer7555 Месяц назад

Jerome is on his way to being a saint. A great Catholic.

@Iceland874 Месяц назад

I took French, Russian, German, and Japanese. All are easy to learn and speak except I never have any confidence speaking or singing in French. I love French 19th century music and at. It’s just a strange language to me.Good video. Thanks.

@TaylorRose91 Месяц назад

Well his test is correct! I’m phlegmatic melancholic

@laraluna9365 Месяц назад

I am the same but I need to take his test.

@AA-gu4mw Месяц назад

Same here!

@ShivMathur Месяц назад

I would love to come to your podcast show as a guest. How to contact you

@veronicab15 Месяц назад

Ok, my test results are sangvin-melancholic as well. How is it impossible? I do feel like 2 people inside of me. I do feel 2 strong pulls on me.

@sabl6381 Месяц назад

Same.

@KarinaBarros-mx9ff 2 дня назад

❤❤❤❤❤

@laraoneal7284 Месяц назад

He needs to be on with JORDAN PETERSON IF he hasn’t already.

@theCatholicInfluence Месяц назад

This reminds me of a book I read, and I think you'd very much like it, Lila. It's called the Enneagram, A Christian Perspective written by Father Richard Rohr. Oh, how'd I'd love it if you could have him on your show!