When Girls Don't Respond To Texts 

1/10 is still a reasonable amount

10/10

999 of 1000

So what are your thoughts on a chick who always respond, will always hang out if you ask; but on average waits 24hrs to respond to you? (Even though she used to not wait 24hrs....)

Overwatch Philosophy either she gets a lot of texts from others so she has to get through everyone before you, or she doesn’t check her texts a lot (my ex used to never check her phone, and she was always on do not disturb) she might also just wanna handout if she’s bored and she sees you just as a friend, meaning she answers you late because your not as important to her.

I sent a silly text but I’m experimenting with girls I talk just to get a feel for how they move think and act

Don’t throw in the towel too soon u will miss a lot of opportunities if ur not persistent

i'm surprised he didnt advise that.the fact that youre even following up a text cos she didnt reply already shows neediness and women love that shit , makes them have power over you.

@@NoWokeComedy ...if we could tally up the amount of time men have wasted on dead end women we could have colonised the milky way by now...

Spin More Plates!

Excellent advice. Never invest too much into any one woman. You never know what they will do or how they feel about you. I can remember spending almost an hour chatting up one woman a couple of months ago. We exchanged numbers, agreed to a date, etc. When I reached out to her a couple of days later, she totally ignored me. Ridiculous.

xGarrettThiefx 🤣🤣🤣 We’ve all been there but not the Milky Way (yet)!

MGTOW looks better every day. Being totally honest. One night stand, FWB, LTR, marriage, it doesn't matter. There's no "winning" this game as a man. I think I've finally come to this realization. How can you have a legitimate relationship when between online dating apps and social media women have a whole football roster of guys waiting in the wings? There's no point in putting any sort of investment into these girls. My ex for instance keeps in contact with every guy she's ever slept with through Instagram lmao.

TheHvk so your insecurities about your relationships = half the world is losing

You can win at this game. I’m 39 yrs, no kids. I’ve always enjoyed the hunt/the game. It really is sad, us guys are loyal and do want a family & to take care of a girl but the system is set up against us. Just stay centered and build a strong career for yourself. I feel uneasy to say this but as long as you don’t have kids, you’ll come out on top. You’ll definitely get plenty of bruises along the way but that just creates wisdom. I’m sure I would be monk mode if I had kids and got screwed over. Even in late teens, I knew something was jacked up about this system. Stay strong guys. We have to ride this out until something changes. But in the meantime, it’s odd we have to play this game but it is fun though. By the way, it’s not women’s fault. They’re brainwashed also. They’re hurting too. But I don’t think they understand the devastation they can set in motion on a guy, so watch out.

@@MrHav1k pretty sure MGTOW doesn't mean incel and not having sex... you're just promoting being a virgin

@@donotresuscitatechannel7257 Excellent points. Thank you.

Exactly

I think it doesn’t work like that, but I wish it did

Perfectly stated. I wish all men realized this. If Leo DiCaprio or Liam Hemsworth texted these women and offered to take them out on a date, they'd jump at the opportunity. They'd respond with a 'YES' instantaneoulsy and would rearrange their entire schedules to accommodate them. Men need to stop believing these bogus excuses that women come up with.

@@joshspiker cuz being one of these men is HIGH value. Be enough high value and almost every girl will say yes just like if u were a Leonardo

In order to happen what you say, you have to be a 10 and she has to be a 7-8.

Hahahah same!!! Fuuuck me

I know right!! It doesn’t take them long to get them pist!!

How tf you get blocked after kissing?? It wasn’t the texts my guy

Just a note on this: people cut the cord quickly and over the smallest stuff. It’s almost a form of escape. Keep doing your thing and learning, trying to see maybe where to get better. But at the end of the day enjoy yourself and respect yourself. Don’t let someone’s short circuit make you feel lesser than.

​@@staysmuthamen

Looks like someone follows my man CoreyWayne

@@TheActionTourist hahahaha

@@d00di619 man this is so damn true, texting fucking kills attraction. That's why im not texting or sending her snaps as i used to before. Only wanna talk to her face to face

It's funny how we remember every fucking dating coach advice

just your average girl here, getting a sneak peak on what's inside the mind of a guy. i agree with you, completely. within the first 50 SECONDS of this video, it is glaringly obvious that Todd's only true goal is the get into a girl's pants. Not her heart, mind, or interests. (i hope he doesn't find this response, but WHAT AN ASS!!!)

Victor Serra exactly how I feel but I still remember when I used to get pangs in my heart anytime a girl would text me haha

No one says you have to stress over it. A single followup to silence is perfectly fine

This is wrong. As a guy you go after what you want and you're persistent. Your reation indicates getting butthurt easily and that you tie your self esteem to how people respond to you.

@@DreamBeatsBakery Hey, you are second person in my live who think like this. Can you send any more info or link to article/video to this approach?

@@lukasz6ferszt Bro it's my life experience

Not to mention that women have positive comments lauded at them incessantly

Lmaoo that's a bruh moment right there. It's a good thing Todd addresses it tho.

Im on read right as we speak.. (3 days and counting) thing is this chick is hot af :(

you should have suggested specific date, not ask when she will have time for you

Krzysztof Abramowicz true, but if a woman is really about it, and interested in a man, small details like that wouldn’t matter

@@MusicLover1049 for real

He is the best. Really few people get laid frequently with different girls, so it's hard, so we have to be systematic to the bone.

Bro you really sad for needing another man to tell u what to do

Try AMS he's real good!

@@justina8143 do you know what video you’re on you fucking mong

Is he a pickup artist or a dating coach?

Silence seems to trigger human wounds, for sure. Does not make someone « into you ». Especially not, in my opinion. Makes power games, codependency, but definitely not genuine interest. Both sides. Proof : you were « into » someone you chose/tried to trigger/hurt. You were not really into her when you chose to purposely make her wait for an answer, you were « protecting »/defending yourself, playing a power game, but definitely not genuinely into her.

Games! And playing on abandonment wounds , if she’s healed it won’t work 😂

@@evat2945 finally someone who gets it. It's tiring all these stupid games.

this guy is just like charisma on command. look up "can we trust charisma on command" on yt

Ik it's exhausting...

@Hurd1199 Gold No !!! Just move on to a different girl. She doesn't owe you anything and you don't owe her anything. Just move on.

No one is owed respect. Respect is earned. We can still all strive to be civil to each other, but that is a bit different than respect.

@Hurd1199 Gold I agree with Sally. Retain your dignity and move on. Finding love ( or just sex) is a numbers game. For 9 nos you'll get a yes. That's essentially what Todd teaches. Don't give up and take nothing personally.

@Hurd1199 Gold she doesn't deserve your emotions or energy, simply move ona talk to multiple women, another thing is spend as less time on the phone/texting as possible..your not trying to be her pen pal, you wanna be her lover and if shes lucky, and plays her cards right, she'll be more..if you gotta be a man about your shit, be the leader and walk to the beat of your own drum, they will follow.

Excellent advice. I hope you post more on this channel, as it's nice to hear an honest and realistic perspective from a woman.

Not really true, maybe she just doesn’t like you at all lol

ok sir understandable

Heartbroken

Not true guys

@@itsshawneee3817 Liar, We know the game women love to play.

hey man i have a question cause this relates to a situation i have been dealing with, So FWB of a few months starts replying with one word answers etc. no emotional spikes or value Q's gets her to invest and she seems annoyed by anything like almost any topic that presents itself, good i reply with the same investment but on and off try to get the ball rolling again cause man good sex is always worth some value, BUT i legit stopped talking to this person due to her being constantly negative and really not investing at all the question? Well any way to get her out of that zone and back into a normal convo etc. or should i just end it and be friends? i see this happen to many guys in relationships too so any advice would be good.

​@@erikbritz8095 Thank you for your message I appreciate it. I have been thinking about your situation and here is my take on it. First, you have to understand that women pick their partner based on basic traits which were more important back in cavemen days. She gets attracted to the men who show the best DNA to pass on to her kids. So she actively searches for them. The traits are dominance, assertiveness, determination, ambition just to name a few. So when you have had an experience with a FWB it means that at some point during your interaction you showed her those traits. BUT what happens now is tricky, so I will explain the male perspective first. When males look at women we are visually hunters and we can determine fast if we like her or not. The female perspective does not do that, she looks for the traits. And because it is very easy to fake having them she needs to see social proof that you actually do have them. This fall into the whole category why do women test men? the short answer they have to, they have to know all the time is his man faking having these traits or is he still the best suiter for me keeping me safe and bring the best DNA for my kids. So in your situation, you have invested too much into building the conversation which means you need to stay connected with her more than she needs it. That does not show her that she gets the best suiter she can get, it means that she has someone below her standard. Now we need to add another classic, why does women go for guys higher in social standing than themselves? Because they want to feel they are adding value to their life through their partner. So she is reluctant to give you the time of day because the previous experiences she has had with you over text indicates that she does not believe you can offer for value, because it is to clear now who gets most out of when you guys have sex. so she chooses not to see you anymore. You can try to change it up and significantly change how the two of you interact now moving forward and I will suggest you try because it will teach you a lot, but considered moving on too, because that will teach you to notice when you start to show needy behavior and then should consciously decide to not do them in the first place.

@@naitsirk32 okay i already knew most of what you stated(studied psychology etc. and obviously watches Game vids often) BUT that's just it i am 100% congruent with who i am i did go through a month long downward spiral where my mind was just closed i was stressed to shit and couldn't think clearly BUT the girl was fine in that time frame she abruptly cut off investment with me and in person the same happened and she was killing any momentum show value in person wether it was via sharing value or showcasing it around other people now i think she met another guy/man who came off as higher value but as we know with chodes is not the case BUT i can't reclaim her due to her not giving me the light of day to even show my value cause you see i feel it's a waste to put on an act of being high value etc. so yeah what do you think?

@@erikbritz8095 i really must jump in on this n dont mean to be sum random that thinks they got answers n i sure as hell am no expert but it's clear to me you put a lotta thought n investment into this fwb and that you like this person. However over time she sounds like shes kinda over the whole thing the hooking up and sex n all things casual. Either she's grew out of that phase where shes looking to be stretched out on the daily or it could be likely shes got some other shit in her life shes trying to deal with shes not in that frame of mind to share that side of that life with you. You gotta realise that you are not everyones centre of their universe n whatever she has going on might have nothing to do with you. She wanna type one worded answers thats on her, if it feels like youre doing all the work to keep her interested n shes not doing her fair share to keep the spark going it's time to cut her loose. When both people like each other it shouldnt take so much effort to try n keep a person around to be interested in one another. In other words if throughout this thing youve been doing the txting n calling n everything else n shes done fuck all id fuck her outta my life if it were my situation. Anyway just my thoughts.

@@nicktubara Yeah there is quite a few more details but yeah, i feel it's a mix of getting bored of the sex/me and well she reciprocates a lil bit now and again but the way she does it is in the way where everything is still fixable BUT whenever i attempt to fix it she stops me in my tracks, aka like she wants to fix everything but doesn't at the same time and thus i can't help much.

this guy didnt text me for 5 days drove me insane.

@Vinny B Sometimes not texting her for a couple days makes her forget about you or allows for someone better to talk to her. Second place is first loser, you need to come in first. If you're not alpha, you're beta at worst; useless at best.

guys what about a couple years?

@@1bosstv what happens usually is the opposite. Replying for more than two days may seem ignorant but one day is fine I think.

True

That's similar to me. That's why I'm not fond of how girls in America are cause they feel that have so much power. Foreign girls for most part when they say yes they mean it & rarely ghost

Seriously! These bitches!

Give them a phonecall instead of texting

Because you’re talking to 8s and 10s they are garbage cans. Go for 5s you can’t go wrong with them lmao

@@wiikends fr tho, I've gotten closer dating foreign exchange students than I ever have dating American women.

therealmo Exactly, I laugh whenever a guy says “let them chase you.” Sorry bud, that doesn’t happen. They may be pretty, but they are also very stupid.

Nick Maverin that only works if you have her attention

@@ghostridersinthesky21 Neither women or men should be "chasing". It doesn't work. You should show interest, and pursue, but if its not reciprocated move on to someone else - never chase. I think people saying "let them chase you" are just misinterpreting this kind of logic.

Could well be theyre either at work or out with friends. And anyway why make an effort trying to talk to them if they couldnt even give you the time of day?

@@nicktubara some girls are just way too fucking curious or just ADDICTED to the fucking instagram. so they see almost everything

Removed some bitches like that from my friend list.

They add randoms to media but can’t message u wtf some bs

SAME bro. watches all my stories but when i message, just likes it. tf

Highly underrated comment

No

Austin Starke It’s because you don’t know anything about how to get girls. Lol it’s ok

I got laid four days ago but you're right, I hadn't a clue as to what I was doing. Wait until I hone my skills

@@justice7788 getting laid is easy, just get an ugly girl. Sex with a hot girl on the other hand, is much tougher. You getting laid has no relevance.

@@justice7788 😄😆😅

Definitely thank you for this comment ! Would you appreciate a girl explaining/apaligizing for not answering though ?

That's fax. Never thought about it like this

Well yeah, especially when even fat chicks have 50 guys texting them at once.

ITSRICHTIME Relax

​@@Jocorvettegay

Pretty much, i dont even you use the phone that much when it comes to women..its only good for setting things up. My goal is to SEE the woman in person, not be her pen pal.

I'm on 90d no contact with a woman I was hanging out/having sex because she said "she doesn't wanted a relationship "NOW" and then stopped texting me (maybe I hurried things a little bit but I never made exigencies). Should I make a random call or text her before it? I just wanted us to have fun and enjoy the seacoast where I live and ask her to come. All things ended like "unfinished business"... All I can think is that she'll think it's a revenge attempt but it's not...

Disregard this message she totally ghosted my ass but I don’t give a rats ass it was for the better - remember you’re always gonna find more fish in the sea !!!

Hehe same 😂❤

Well..some of us don't have an much of an option..like me females here scares, media is my only means of communication sadly very hit or miss...an let's just say....I need to hit the range more.

If she flakes then leave it. Remember she must think you're high value.

" asked her availability and everything." instead: Text her about YOUR availability so she can chose from your options. If you are too accommodating from the start that's needy. sorry.

Onto the next

@@milanfoldi462 Overthinking mental masturbation. I see your point, but it wouldn't have made a difference. She went out with a more attractive guy since even fat girls are talking to 10 guys at once. I've seen it firsthand.

FB is for losers. Be a man and interact with girls in person. Trust me, I'm a woman and no female I know takes a guy on FB seriously. We'll tease you on it, but that's as far as its going to going. Using FB to initiate contact is a sure sign of a lack of confidence.

Its about practice Like riding a bike 😁 Today i got 3 rejections but now Im seeing what i did wrong and trying to improve Always keep your head up

Date more than one to better your option...win my friend win.

Just keep at it, and don't take it personal.

Please tell me you achieved getting laid 🙏. Did you do it?

TieMan if you were chatting for half a day it's probably more likely that you were not quick enough (ie. you texted her too much before making a move), than it being too quick. You probably texted your way into the friendzone and by the time you asked her out she was no longer interested in you or attracted to you romantically. You'd just become a texting buddy.

Modzilla, one of the worst texts to send someone you're only just starting to date in particular is a "good morning" type text. They are lame as all hell and are considered a BIG no-no, when texting girls. Along with texts like "hey", "what's up", etc. Don't expect to get responses to texts like that unless perhaps if you're married to her. Or for her to stay attracted to you, if they're the type of texts you're sending. She wants excitement, not boredom. Hence not responding to your super-boring and lame "good morning" texts, but getting mad when you don't invite her to the thing that would have actually been fun. There's nothing strange about that.

Instead of just letting her ignore you call her out on her shit put her in her place and show whose boss cuz she surely ain’t it...

To be realistic, asking her what she misses about you is kind of needy in my opinion. Once she says she misses you, asking her what she misses is kind of weird. As a guy, I personally think that you didn't need to send that. Just be like instead what have you been up to since we last spoke, try to spark the conversation. Trust me, bro, I said some fucked up shit when I face timed a girl I like and tried to impress her but looked weird after that. Now I don't message her until she says something or sends me something to initiate conversation because I am a dude with tons of options and I am a higher value guy. So if she doesn't respond to your message in over a week, I wouldn't suggest you wait too long before concluding that you need to move on bro.

Try a funny first text about something that you guys talked about during the approach.

TheAbc2500 nice !

hmm maybe fix other areas of you life my man 1.)health: go to the gym and clean up you wardrobe and hygiene 2.)Wealth: slowly build up a better income and showcase this with what you wear build this up as well example buy a decent quality shirt every two months via saving up for it. 3.)Love & relations: Get higher value friends and share fun things with them bonus share pics of this on Social media then also improve your Game and social skills massively this will work in game more then the rest the rest is supplements to your game.

Lol man don't do it. Start with a funny or an interesting opener that makes her want to reply

No, dont

Yes do, even though cold approach is alot better in general for confidence for everything. These days sliding in the dm’s works very well. Need to adapt to new ways

Dude don't stalk chicks online, you will lose. Find more success in bantering and flirting in real life. Face to face beats sliding into dm's every day of the week especially if you are an average dude

push pull go learn it practice it and come back to this vid.

Tell her she has amazing tits but replace the word tits with a strange object

I'm joking

@@chrisjfox8715 oooohhhh lol

Dzik Bagienny I was looking at the bass too!!!

Nvm just found out: Voyce - Cataleya (RnB version)

bro I can't imagine what you did wrong to get a response like that, or maybe she's just crazy.. anyways better not to deal with her bullshit and NEXT

actually I just realised it kinda sounds like some other guy (old boyfriend possibly) appeared in her lfie and your flower and attention is coming between that. if that's true she's just keeping you as her plan B. oh well....that's what happens when you take too long with women

thecolt samuel she did mention her ex hit her up and that he was seeing someone else which made her feel insecure and depressed and I told her maybe it wasn’t a good idea if he makes her feel like that and she agreed and things seemed good after that, then a week later that’s when she told me she needed space 😕just wish I knew why or that I could remain friends bc I thought things were good and they ended so abruptly 😢

I'd text her to f_ck off lol Space out ho