This is natural for both women and men. I know the men are itching to defend themselves, but we are all at different stages of self worth, and standards in our lives lol. If their bar was low, the people they've dealt with in the past were doing the limbo right down there with em. Lol
@@sandrila9371 They call it "whataboutism". They literally cannot stomach the idea of accountability, even if they are completely innocent of the what's being discussed lol.
Yeh I was like "and just like that, I don't care" With her 2011 ass hair, her , "I don't watch Sailor Moon, only Death Note" ass hair, "Crawling in my skiiinnn" ass hair
These were funny to me, but a man’s reaction to rejection is actually true. As a woman, you really never know how a man is going to react to you saying no so while that alone isn’t something that’ll make me just wanna drop my panties 😂😂 anytime a man takes it well, I’m not gonna lie I do tend to be impressed, at the very least…and then just go on about my day.
Yeh, there was this girl that was talking to me and we were really into each other. Unfortunately, she had to leave the job we were working at together but we still talked on the phone. She said "Hey boo" and like a dumbass I assumed she wanted to be together, I asked and she said no because we didn't see each other nearly as much as we used to, and we're both pretty young so it was probably better we weren't locked into a relationship where texting and calling was our main way of communicating. In the moment I was confused and a bit angry but as the days went by I thought about how much I kinda rushed the whole thing in that one moment. We're still good friends rn tho and she visits where I work occasionally. Hopefully, we'll be able to meet each other more often in the future. Better to have a good friend than a very awkward negative relationship in my book.
I understand the wanting to be with a guy just cause he’s respectful I know multiple women who have respectfully turned down a guy and they’ve lost their minds, call them out of their name, spread rumors, and more. And you know all we see on the news and videos are women being killed for telling a guy no. I watched a video the other day on TikTok of a guy saying I don’t take no for an answer I’m an alpha .
@@upnorthsociety6146 I think it’s easier to say that as a man tho. Of course they are good and bad men but as women .. we have to watch out for ALL men as we don’t know. Women have to be cautious about the way they respond otherwise they could lose their life and that is normal for women at this point. Most men don’t have that fear.
@@aristotle9243 she is not talking about gen violence cuz duh men attack men and women attack women at a higher rate but historically men have exhibited a greater threat to women than the other way around any day of the week…it is a genuine fear a vast majority of women have just existing alone somewhere or even in a group…of course not all men are threats to women but too many are douche bags who take a no as some uber offense to their supposed manhood and go off on the women in anger and sometime violence We have a diff lived experience I dealt with this situation and other creepers since I developed boobs at age 12 and my mom has always warned me again men idk in general because she experienced some kind of unwanted sexual attention or touching and, I, having experienced the same thing will warn any young women and if I even see anything that hints toward that I speak up or try to perform some kind of extraction…on a daily I’ve seen grown ass men trying to come at little girls
I agree with the last dude. If the bar is so low, what are the odds that she really values me? The fear of commitment, failure, and rejection keeps the bar low. The weak rarely get what they want.
Ok if a girl is going to have sex with a guy just because he’s respectful and kind and all that or does the bare minimum. Doesn’t that say more about the girl than the guy.
No.... How tf you say shit like that when men have sex with anything that walks????? And no these girls aren't having sex with men just because they are respectful dummy they are going on more dates with them or giving them a kiss. Only ONE scenario in this entire video had ONE girl wanting to have sex with a man and you basically just conflated that to "girls" as a whole... This is why the bar is so fkcn low for men. Also because the bar is low it means that just being respectful in today's time means that you are desirable af so put two and two together.
@@jorgekeirey4550 No need to get so mad the person was obviously talking about the senario in the vid with the guy who said the girl wanted to have sex with him for being respectful that why he said "girl" not "girls" it also shows that that specific girl had low standards and was dating a bunch of men that are pricks etc (the men were no better when it came to standards probably) . Also the bar is quite low for both men and women all around the world lol, example men who are in sports have low standards and fucks any thing that walks and women in certain industries/profession "sex industry" does the same and being respectful does not makes you desirable to every one, in the case with the guy and girl from the vid yes but other wise it depend on the person.
And yeah dee your right it’s easier for guys to get a vasectomy, I watched a doctor talk about it. It’s less risky and he said since men are the reason a women gets pregnant it would be easier to just get rid of that reason directly
@@marcoervin7324 though the only one that’s guaranteed no kids like for sure is tubes tied or vasectomy. So those would be the only choices other than abstinence thats 100% guaranteed which is what they are looking for if they are looking in the directions of these two options. If in a relationship and both partners agree to no kids, doctors say the men should get it because its more affordable, safer, and wont have long term side affects unlike tubes ties. You can check out doctor Anthony youn on youtube he talks about it .
@@dewdew4047 A vasectomy has no longterm affects on a man's hormones and if you're going down the route of a vasectomy or tubal ligation then a reversal shouldn't even be in the thought process.
The spiked drink thing happens to both we ain’t gonna act like Cardi b wasn’t out her spiking drinks they had a whole movie about strippers spiking drinks and stuff.
Y'all going so hard on Bratz, but I'd rather have my wallet stolen than be raped. Of course, that doesn't mean it's ok to steal--literally no one said that in this thread. But there are levels to dis ish. Also, women are a lot more likely to be drugged than men. It COULD benefit both men and women, but it would PROBABLY benefit women more since they are at higher risk.
@@earthing3696 who knows what they did to them when they was out. I got a buddy they spiked his drink he had a reaction to it and ended up in ythe hospital after uncontrollably shitting all over the hotel room. Smh
What I don’t like about certain videos like these is that a lot of these “bars” were mentally created by your personal experiences so sometimes ppl just sound crazy “I wanted to kiss him cause he was respectful” respect yourself sis.
If a woman goes on 10 dates and 9 of them are terrible and the men are disrespectful but that last one is very respectful so she decides to date him out of the others HOW IS THAT WOMEN SETTING THE STANDARDS???? Men are setting the standards by being garbage so the few that are not garbage and just normal decent people are the ones that will be desired. Maybe you should go back to school? This is the dumbest shit I've read all day.
This video has a lot of problems first woman have low standards for some men and not others there has been a ton of guys rejected and mocked for being to nice and men have far lower standards for women that’s why there are so much simps men will let a lot bad behavior from women go if they really like them
All a girl has to do is be pretty and show up, they dont even try during texting lol, Even Dee herself has said that she hates trying to get to know women cuz they be so dry because they’re not actually used to putting in any effort.
I love watching youtube couples and anytime I read the comments I be in shock. the girl was be cooking a full course meal and cleaning the kitchen and the man refilled the ice tray and everyone lost their mind. They were like can we talk about how he fulled up the ice tray like he’s a keeper. isn’t that what your suppose to do when you run out of ice. My five year old nieces can do that. Or there was this one comment that was like I’m glad he actually helps around the house and clean, like what he’s suppose to. Its both of your house so you should both take care of it
Lmao or when people see dads out taking care of their kids without the mother in sight. Like the bare minimum of being a father is taking care of your kid
@V O y’all do this every time there’s a video directed towards men, like it makes y’all sick to y’all stomach y’all get called out on your shit. There are videos that “single” out women too. If what is in the video doesn’t apply to your character then don’t get upset about. You also have to keep in mind these are just the experiences of the people in the video. Men and women get called out for shit oh well
@Devante Randle That thinking is what continues a problem though. I can call out groups that I belong too or hear us being called out and recognize a change should happen without taking it so personal to me, delivery counts but still. All the arguing just takes the focus off the people who deserve that energy, they laying low still doing dirt while yall fight for them over the internet
Dee was preaching, I’ve always wanted women & girls to have higher standards. Even my mom is constantly meeting dead beats… like girl just drop him and do better, don’t settle for less
The bar is low for both men and women. The issue is that no one is respecting each other-respect is there, but its not as strong. We're normalizing that toxicity in a relationship is okay, especially with these supposed trends where they harm their significant other mentally, emotional, or physically. Not to mention, the extreme amount of double standards we set towards one another is unbelievable. It's what pitting men and women against each other-bad to the point we have to shame the other sex just for a singular person's actions. Not to mention, the rise that cheating and lying in a relationship is getting normalized to. Some hating it, while others are cheering it on. Both men and women have faults-no need for it to convert into an all-out war on what gender does worse.
Lol these all sound like women's bar is low.. If you're expecting fantasy because social mediums told you it happens.. look inward. Millennials and gen Z love pointing fingers
@@tariqyousaf8635 well it might not be high all the time for women but a lot of times women are just expected to a lot of stuff. You know the generic “women should cook, women should clean blah blah blah” a lot of times women are expect to just act a certain way. Don’t tell me you don’t know what I’m talking about
@@nijahvictoria7569 In general all a woman has to do is show up and be alive so…., you’re not seeing women being the ones that actually make an effort into starting a relationship so that bar is much much lower, even Dee herself has said multiple times that she has problems dating women because they be so dry with her and show no effort.
@@S6Ryujin The fact that you generalized women by those traits says more about you. Ive met some men being more dry than a fucking sahara and have one-dimensional personalities. From an experience i've witnessed women literally carrying a whole relationship by fulfilling the emotional, physical and psychological part while the male counterpart not doing anything but being aloof.
Guy starting his video with his "tiktok about his vasectomy consultation" threw me for a loop because WHY are people so comfortable on the internet lol. Spoke fax though.
No offense, but finding individual stories is easy. I know literally stories about girls having kids to get back on their ex, money deals. Girls fcking over good men, to get with other men. Specifically any guy that is seen as lower than other guys.......Honestly a real showcase of who have it easiest is based on the entirety of the society......
The bar meaning standards. For example women will get shit on for having a child out of a wedlock with a man that clearly doesn't care for her, but then people will turn around and congratulate that man for having 80 baby mamas and 30 side chicks. That's an example of having the bar low it's just standards essentially. Edit: I feel like y'all took my words way out of context. What I meant was that a man won't get the same amount of hate for having multiple kids with different women versus having a woman having babies with different Men. My point was that people do encourage shit like this especially on social media and the internet by having people boasting about how many Hoes they got or baby mamas they got and people will eat that shit up.
To add on, it means the general expectations are low. Sometimes showing basic human decency is enough to impress someone who dates men due to perhaps a majority of their experiences being negative. It's like if you compare the basic standards for adult humans and adult dogs: if a dog doesn't mess up your house, poops where it is supposed to, doesn't yell excessively inside the house, and doesn't attack people, it's a good dog and will be praised. However, if an adult human does those things, it's not really noteworthy or worthy of praise because that is just expected. (Not saying men are dogs; I am a man anyway.)
@V O other dummies I don’t know no dude congratulating dudes for being losers and quite the opposite if your a dude where I’m from you get reminded why your loser constantly
The whole posting your love live thing is a this generation thing I think. If I'm having a relationship with a woman I don't need to post our life online to prove I love her wtf.
This video could've been better, most of these examples are a bit weird and say more about the women who thought like that than men. And the rest is slick humble bragging
I didn't understand the first one, about the doctor and the cisection. He is a doctor he is supposed to check on her. Is she mad because the doctor didn't wake up her man? Why would it have some to do with both Man having a low bar?
Its not about men being too nice after getting rejected. Its about them letting go so easily. Like why isnt he so pressed about me? Does he know something I dont know? People have FOMO and the fact that he can move on so easily makes people think that they have something that will make them get someone easily. Its a wild concept
