Wholesome Gay Memes 

That entire meme just made me so emotional

Yep

I’ve seen that one many times and I love it every single time

"Pick up OJ and bread, cuz we are out... Just like you." That was just class act, right there. 👍🏻

2:43 It's nice and good that the father is supportive. But it was not good for him to eavesdrop on what he knew was a private conversation, and it was even cringier for him to write that note. The boy deserved to come out on his own terms.

People leave 4th of July decorations up for months, why not do the same with pride? Just today, I drove past a store that had an American flag literally the size of the whole store window. You couldn’t see the inside. I’m not sure how they get around it.

That's adorable

I have a friend who has flags up with fairy lights on them all year

That's great!!! She can totally keep them up year round!

This is so wholesome... I smiled when I saw this comment

i agree, it's so romantic/poetic

Awww that's such a sweet way of putting it!

A similar thing happened with my parents. My mom is bisexual and had only dated men before she met her wife. Before said wife came out, my mom was always talking about how my “dad” was so much more sensitive and understanding than any guy she’d dated before, and that there was just something about it that was different. A few years later, they both figured it out and they recently got remarried as two women on their 20th anniversary.

@@zygoncommander1239 that’s adorable oh my goodness

thats such a beautiful way to put it

Lmao

They really cut into their own flesh. It's got the same energy as my ten year old self being pissed off about having to cut an apple, trying to stab the apple, but slipping with the knife and cutting into my finger tip. However, ten year old Raven learned not to stab apples, but I wonder if Alabama will learn not to ban marriage for anybody...

But why? I mean I know why but, why? Why would u try to stop anyone from loving who they love ????😫😭

@@ravenbeastofancient clocky doesn't cut garlic anymore clocky cut a piece of clockys finger tip off so no more garlic

Well I'm aroflux and I don't have a problem getting married because even though I've been dating her for like 4 days I already know I'm gonna marry my girlfriend

Your family sounds adorable and I am so happy for you all!!!

Awwwww

"Who's the big daddy and who's the little daddy in the relationship?"

@@ukargeo I'm Little Daddy. It's purely based on height. I'm 4'10" and he's 5'11". My kids were...5 and 3 years old when they started calling us that.

That is the cutest thing ever!!!

That is so fantastic!

My friend is genderfluid and refers to themself as Schrodinger's Gay since they're attracted to males exclusively.

@@robertkidd2832 Omg. I love that so much

That's so wholesome. Well done brother.

Good on both of you 🤌👉

tHE FEELING WAS FRIENDSHIP

OMG They're junglemates!

I mean, lionesses help each other raise kids all the time. It's the tigress that's unusual.

@@thewerewolfofwaggawagga8818 no what's unusual is the cross species relationship

Yea they don’t want to believe anything because the truth is gay

My parents have done that. I never really thought about it but recently as I’ve been questioning my sexuality i started to notice what it really ment

Omg that is wholesome! Similar for me, although I identified as cishet ally, then unlabeled cis woman and now she/they (demigirl) and lesbian/Unlabeled 🥰 You are valid and I love you, don't öet anyone tell you something different 😊

I didn’t understand I was lgbtq+ until I started to get to know people from the community and talk to them about their experiences and noticed that what I had felt since I was a child was something they experienced too. I identify as non binary and bi nowadays and finally understood why I didn’t fit in with the others that easily. Before that I felt like a hetero cis girl that’s just „not like other girls“ 😅

Addressing people who discovered they were LGBT+ after watching this channel caused more people to realize that applied to them. The Circle of Pride.

Same happened with me!! I watched Jamie for ages before realising I'm trans hahah

omg i love that so much, congrats for finding yourself!!! similar experience here, after watching a bunch of trans youtubers like jamie i realized my gender dysphoria was totally valid and that just because i look and present feminine doesn’t mean i’m cis. i now know i’m non-binary and i use she/they pronouns 💕

Your mom sounds awesome!! Please give her a hug from me in return and say that I'm grateful that people like her are out there

I love that she took the time to make sure the group was actually helping the community!

@@excessivelyfangirlingbookw3339 Will do! She is in fact an awesome mom!

@@teryel3493 me too! She's familiar with the LGB part of things since she was part of a majority queer friendgroup as a student, but since one of us is trans and we're both ace, she's done a ton of research and asked a lot of questions to us about the community as a whole so she can be supportive. She's a really great mom and she hasn't always gotten it right but she's gone out of her way to do her best and we're definitely fortunate to have her!

I had a talk with my mom yesterday about how just 100 years ago, I would have been locked up and much worse, for being the way I am, and I think she might be starting to understand why I'm making myself so visible now. I'm a gay trans guy from germany... It's not even been 100 years... but there's been so much progress all over the world since then... we still have a long way to go, but it's getting better.

You are so right

That's beautiful.

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!

good for you !!

that’s great :D

Yooo that’s awesome!!

That’s good to hear!

same, i teared up a bit because it was so wholesome :')

I cried too

Same :’j

Wholesome I love old couples

U TOO!

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Thank you

I love seeing your comment every Jammidodger video. You are awesome!

This video made my day so much better and your comment was the cherry on top, thank you and I wish you the same ! ^^

its like both the wife, the newly-discovered wife and the couple are evolving at the same time ! The perfect synergy :3

Came to say the same. It's like, it all makes sense.

Can you imagine how funny that coming out was!?

I'm a trans lesbian, too, so I can relate to that. When I came out two years ago, my mom was the first relative I told. She knew for years that I shave my body hair off and had her suspicions about me at least since I was a teenager. When you factor in step-relatives, I told my step-niece before any of the rest knew. "Malika" is gay, too, and we have plenty of common interests so I felt she was safe to tell. She had her suspicions about me being trans or gay. In a way, she was right about both.

@Non-Binary Disabled Dolphin yeah, lesbians are attracted to other women. Trans women are women. I don't seem to see what the confusion is here

So cute

@@yadiranavarro4367 Thank you hehe ^^

Omg that’s adorable 🏳️‍🌈

@@girl-in-grey Thanks hehe ^^ It's been 10 months I wrote this so now we're close to 9 years :3 Still in love ^^

Couple goals I love it 🥰

It's like OT with beardos and weirdos

Lmfao I remember when I would keep seeing those comments and be like “lol it’s funny how many people this happens to but it DEFINITELY isn’t me” ._. xD (Love from your local gender fluid/non binary panromantic asexual lol stay safe

the holy trinity djdndhd

The chosen one

same lol

You have the power of all gays combined.

Same. High five :D

I loved the responses to that ("[W]e did, guys, we got Alabama to ban the straights" and "It hurt itself in its confusion!") So damn accurate!

Yeah that is actually true

@_sweeze_ me an aroflux person who isn't against getting married 😡

@@theemofemboycatgirlw3214 as an aro-ace, I felt like I wasn't alone for once 😂

@@myra0224 you are never alone

that made me tear up too 🥺 rooting for you and your country!

@@rainthedaymusic aw thank you so much! hope wherever you are the situation is well!

Hope it goes well!!!

WHERE DO YOU LIVE I NEED THIS TO WIN

SAME SEX COUPLES MUST BE LEGAL

I screamed when I saw that

It took me a moment….. 😁

Going hard with the branding!

ahahahah ikr

also the flowers look like violets (another sapphic symbol)!!!

I am sure it was more complicated than that and took time, patience, and that it's of communication to get there, but so happy for them 💖

The version in my head featured the first one come-out-to absolutely helpless with involuntary, situationally inappropriate relief laughter, because I tend to laugh with relief and the more intense it is, the harder it is to suppress. But never fear! In my head, the hugging and patting and happy crying through the laughter made it clear all was well, so first one to-come-out wasn't in terrible, pained suspense. I'm sure Rachael is right and it was less cinematic, but our versions are cute too! :)

How do you accidentally do that?

I want to know what happened those two days

Maybe the incidents were related?😂

Did they have too many ‘magic mushrooms’?

Ah yes, only gay marriage. Perfectly balanced.

Heheheh same thing :D

literally!! mine is pink with a marble design aha

It was probably the best part of the video for me. Sometimes you get wrapped up in the memes and it can feel a little invalidating. And just havin someone remind you that its just jokes and even if you don't relate you're still you is very wholesome and great.

Red

Mine is purple. Mine are always purple. Still Bi. :)

the tower gave me pan vibes tbh

The tower isn't sapient it is a bunch of rocks Do rocks have sexualities? Where are the geologists we need to check this

@@seabassthegamer6644 as a child who once had a geology phase, yes rocks are as gay as i am.

Why wait?

The minute I get to be able to go to prides Imma give sibling hugs lol

Someone said this to me when I said I'm waiting to start my transition why wait?

Same here. For now I'm old enough to offer sibling hugs, and I can't wait until I can get back to pride to do so

I live in Alabama and I'm sad it's not happening yet

awww that’s so wholesome

I obviously don't know them but I'm genuinly so happy for them!

congratulations! how did it go?

Judging by the smiley face, it must have gone well

@@andii- Very well! She said that she would always be there for me and that she kind of knew but didn’t want to make assumptions :)

@@nellherself that’s great!!

Excellent!

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Thank you!

Aw thanks❤❤

Thanks for this!

Thank you, I needed this

replying to see the answer

Ankle, unat

@@TheMoonIsFrosted As a enby i love Ankle a lot.

@@harveycat2013 awesome :D

Hmm… I use they/it/he and I thought abt this type of stuff. Generally I know a lot of people who have thought of “nibling” for nephews/nieces and just siblings who use they/them pronouns (my uncle uses that for me a lot I said they could call me nephew but they don’t want too-) but I think generally, the person who has the nephew would be able too decide if they want to be uncle or auntie? Sometimes I think about when I become an uncle- I’d want to be called uncle because that’s my preference. But it’s very hard to decide- some people like too merge them together but hmm… when you look up on google you’ll see “pibling” standing for parents sibling which I personally think sounds… interesting… but yeah I think most the time I see non-binaries who just identify as “non-binary aunt” or “non-binary uncle” and uh- yeah hope that helps ?? Basically just make it clear that they have decided they are okay too be called aunt or uncle even though they are non-binary and it should be fine I guess ^^

I'm also LGBTQ+ in a small down... in Scotland though probably one of the most liberal countries in Europe

Ouch. Wholesome hug from a Dad.

I'm so sorry you had to go through life like this because of being yourself. I'm proud of you for sticking to your true self and finding strength in your chosen loved ones. 💖 Hope you're doing ok.

It's sad that even after seeing you go through so much to be true to yourself that they still can't accept you. But that is on them. You've gone on and made a new life for yourself and family you can love and trust. Continue to seel joy and you'll keep finding it.

@@alicecain4851 They cut me off when I changed my name, which was the first thing I did, so they never saw me on HRT, and they will never know about SRS.

Not really a moment but the book "They both die at the end" had me crying for hours, especially the ending

@@soc4709 yeah my friend read that book, one time we were out shopping and we went into a book shop and he was reading that and crying and i was reading heartstopper volume 4 and crying lmao

“I wish you all the best” had me sobbing when i finished it! And I’m gonna read “they both die in the end” now and i’m prepared to cry-

It didn’t make me cry but I was reading a period piece about 1938 (I think) Manhattan and the whole book had been all about this woman’s (hetero) romantic endeavors (good book but very straight) and then she kissed the woman her boyfriend had been cheating with and I was SHOOK in the best way possible

Wow that's a great quote!!!!

I know I'm just a random stranger on the internet but I support you and your identity and feelings of hurt by these jokes are valid. Sending love!

@@allyrose8884 I second this profession of love, validation, and support. May tomorrow bring you kinder interactions, acceptance, understanding, and inclusion!

good

Congrats on your rainbow backpack victory! It sounds like this is a difficult time in your life, and I feel for you! Just remember that one day, you will be free to build the awesome life you want and deserve, be you an ally or a member of the LGBTQUIA+ community. The people around you now may have power of many kinds over you, but one day you will have very different people populating your life, and they will love, accept, support, understand, and include you. Take care of yourself!

Well, if it's a falafel burger you could colour it with food colouring safely :)

That goes into the same category as green or purple ketchup in my head. I just can't.

Hi fellow enby and queer person!

That sounds interesting. I'm gonna have to look it up.

Yeah it blows me away why people can't understand why same sex marriage literally does nothing but allow more people to be happy

same. but i love them still.

Same

Yeah, my mum friend energy cancels out the bisexuality and I’ve got a flip case

Same it makes me smile

That's such a lovely idea. Did you get much uptake on the hugs?

@@TheLadyDelirium I'm not sure what you mean by uptake? I thought it would be hard for me, since I'm very touch-me-not due to trauma, but I actually loved it.

@@minimariaandthecrew8811 They mean, did a lot of people take you up on the offer? Did a lot of people come to you for hugs?

@@akinpaws yes they did.

This confused me as there was nothing between "straight" and "gender" lol

My advice: Protect Yourself: Say Nothing. Bide your time until you are financially independent from them. Use private browser tabs. Erase your viewing history from all media. Protect Yourself: Use DuckDuckGo or another search engine that doesn't track you. Use the web browser interface to all your social media and not the apps, so that the algorithms don't feed you suggestions that anyone with your devices can find. Protect Yourself: Lie every and any time they ask you about LGBT+ stuff. Meanwhile, plan for your future when you can be your true self. And mourn. Mourn that you don't have a family that will ever love and accept you. Mourn that your biological progenitors aren't your parents, they're your keepers. If it helps, harden your heart. If it helps, hate them for every bigoted thing they say. And when, in 4, or 8, or 10 years when you finally are free of them, build your Logical Family to replace your poisonous biological family. Then, come out to them by telling them that they never loved you, then remind them of every homophobic and transphobic thing they've done. Do it in a letter so you can't be interrupted. Then Protect Yourself: cut off all communication. And then, at long last, build your new life, your true life.

@@John_Weiss Is that what you did?

@@not_the_only_cannoli_ Fortunately, no, because I didn't come out until (a) I was 23; and (b) 8 months after I was hospitalized for psychosis caused by a major depressive episode. I met my now-husband shortly thereafter. Everyone was just relieved that I was alive, and overjoyed that I was actually happy at long last. But in my 52 years of life, I've known more than a few gay men, lesbians, and transwomen who had to cut ties with their biological family. Also: not one did my depressive mood disorder complicate my coming out to myself (because it shuts off a person's libido), during major episodes, I'd start to suffer from paranoia. That carved a groove into my mind all those years before I finally got treatment, so I've remained a tad paranoid in regards to some things, especially security and privacy. Again: Protect Yourself. Plan for the Future. Bide Your Time.

Well Spongebob is canon asexual and we stan an asexual king

Help! Get me out of Alabama!!

We stan an ace king

Just a question and curious but what's a spud?

Be patient with yourself. You are allowed to be uncertain. If you're sexuality is still out-of-focus, that's okay. Some of us know we're not cis-het-allo, but don't know anything more until some time passes and we've had more experiences in our lives. Sounds like you're one of those. So again, be patient with yourself. Be kind to yourself. _You Are Still Valid,_ even if you don't have a specific letter in the ever-growing acronym. Back in the 1990s we were trying to reclaim the word "Queer" as an umbrella-term for the entire gender-n-sexual-minorities community. Why not just use that, if you need a label, until things come into focus?

@@John_Weiss Thanks, that means a lot ♥️🏳️‍🌈

@@snow17048 Hey, that's what is wizened old gays are here for: to advise and help those younger than us.

fr tho.

u too!

Oh no. Hope you feel better

I see.... Want a hug, or a cookie, or both? In this community, we want to help people, take your time:) 🥰🤗🍪

same

Bummer! I thought Germany was a myth 😪

Yaaay I am vailid now...-

I know how this feels. You aren't alone. These videos make me happy but also sad because I am in a similar situation. My family probably won't be accepting, and I live in a country where LGBT+ don't have protections let alone marriage equality. It isn't even legal to be gay. Seeing stuff like this video can make me feel bad because I will never experience any of these things. I'll be lucky if I can get married as an elderly person like those women, but even that likely won't happen. Just want to let you know that it's okay to be sad about whatever level of lack of acceptance you experience, that you aren't alone, and that I hope you get to experience even a little bit of happiness today because you deserve.