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Some girl who I was talking with said “oh you date girls and boys? Well just dont get a crush on me” without thinking my dumbass blurted out “don’t worry I’m only attracted to pretty girls” I haven’t seen that girl since
Well, unfortunately a lot of the people who unironically say that, are also the ones who believe that men and women can't have close, platonic relationships
"NOOO IT'S DIFFERENT, BI'S NOT REAL, YOU'RE JUST GAY, AND BEING GAY MEANS YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE OF THE SAME GENDER WITH NO EXCEPTIONS!!"
Are you me? I used to think I was aromatic, because I wasn’t romantically attractive to men. Turns out I’m more inclined to be sexually attractive to men (and trans men) and romantically attractive to women (and trans women).
Me, a bi girl; Dates a man: Oh so you're straight now? Dates a woman: Oh so you're gay now? no. just no. stop it. I'm still bi regardless of the gendre of the person I'm currently dating. -.-
@@amberr3662 me, also a bisexual, replying to a bisexual who replied to a comment about a comment about a bisexual reacting to two bisexuals talk about bisexuals.
Me, another bisexual, replying to a bisexual who watches a video about two bisexuals who talk about bisexuals, and whose comment has already been replied by three bisexuals
One time when I was 11 I asked my mom if she would still marry my dad if he was bisexual and she said no. When I asked why she said “Cause what if he’s thinking about men behind my back?” So I said “Well what if he’s thinking about women behind your back right now?” She just left the room.
Wait hang on, I’m questioning if I’m bi at the moment, and I’ve been trying to remember a time where I had a crush on a girl that I just ignored to kind of determine if I have liked girls all along or if it’s just a new thing. Now I realise that I did this too hahahaha
I don’t understand the weirdness surrounding dating bisexuals if you’re straight. I’m straight and my ex boyfriend literally told me in the middle of a dinner party and we were both so casual about it that we were giggling afterwards outside about the whole ordeal. We were literally sat at a table full of people eating and he turns to me and grabs my hand and says “I need to tell you something.” “Okay.” “I’m bisexual” *blink, blink* “Okay.” “Is that alright?” “LOL yes!” He later told me that the reason he told me then was because we were specifically having dinner with his really close friends and he felt safe telling me with them near. I just feel sad that he thought it’d bother me at all! We did break up but on good terms :) He was my first boyfriend and he was a good one! :D
The amount of negativity towards bisexuals from both gay people and straight people is so weird to me Like we both like women/men why tf are you mad???
To biphobes: before you open your mouth, be aware, there is a nearbi bi on standbi, and the last thing you will hear before you say goodbi, is an overly aggressive lullabi.
What me being bi means: "Look Husband at this beautiful woman!" What me being bi doesn't mean: "Goodbye Husband, I need some girl sexing now, so long, I'll be back when I'm back!"
This!! my bf sometimes struggle with the insecurity of me leaving him because I suddenly need a woman. And I’m like... dude we’ve been together 9 years. No i don’t. But yeah, I’ll agree with you when you say a woman’s attractive. 🤷🏻♀️
Ughh Ikr?! People need to understand that Bisexuals are NOT more liable to cheat than anybody else, simply because they are attracted to more than one gender. It's like if a woman in a straight relationship with a man finds another man attractive, that doesn't mean she's going to leave her husband for the other man ( I mean she could, but that's got nothing to do with sexuality- that's simply being an asshole.)
It wasn’t until my second year of high school when I realised how christian-washed my primary school was. We were not ONCE taught anything about the LGBTQ+ community which caused many people to make homophobic/transphobic comments or just be really confused about it. On my last week of year 6, my friend told our group that I was bisexual, at that very moment a teacher walked in who we knew was a VERY devoted christian (she told bible stories every single day etc.) she heard when my friend said and said - and I quote - “I don’t think that’s very appropriate right now, you are in year 6, you should not be talking about that”...We were ready to punch her in the face. After that, the people we told who were in that group began to avoid me and not talk to me - even my best friend. I felt like a horrible person and began to lose control of my feeling and block everyone out. I now have known mental health issues such as anxiety and slight depression. I think LGBTQ+ youth need more respect and we need to chill on Christian-washing schools.
I feel a lot of empathy for people like you who have had to go through things like this. I was extremely lucky to have a supportive school with an LGBTQ+ club (that consisted of about half the students and a lesbian teacher), so I don't know what it's like, but I support you 100%.
@@Conorator I agree people like Us are very lucky I mean my principal was literally a lesbian. But some people are not that lucky like us. so I think is important to realize not a lot of young lgbtq people get this treatment.
I remember seeing a headline that was like “Straight celebrities who used to be gay” and the list was just bisexual celebrities who were with opposite sex partners.
As a gay guy, I really don't get the constant hate, hostility and gate keeping towards bi people. Or even between bi people and pan people. It doesn't matter if you're gay, bi, pan, ace, aro, literally whatever it is, you're valid. You can't go around promoting pride if it's only your kind of pride, because we're all in this together. LGBT solidarity is something that should be a universal belief between us all. 🏳️🌈
As a straight person in a relationship with a bi person, I can’t ever get over just how much other straight people won’t date a bi person. Like- okay stay with your cheating straight partner who you barely have anything in common with instead of this faithful bi person who you connect with super well, just because you’re worried the bi person “would be thinking of [opposite gender]” while you’re current partner is already doing just that but with the same gender as you are
Facts as a Bisexual i understand and I hate when people say shit like that. I was on this live and me and a girl were talking about bisexuals she said were only doing it to look "cool" and said how do I know I'm Bi.. like bruh TF keep in my that she was a Lesbian and I was thinking are all Lesbians like this ( which they are not) but still tbh this made me question my sexuality even more like am I Lesbian or Straight? I guess I only have two choices now.😡😭😤
I really don't get why people don't want to date a bi person because my 2 best friends said they would never date someone who was bi because they were worried about cheating and I brought up the argument that if you were gonna cheat, you were gonna cheat, it doesn't matter what sexuality you are
I feel like us bisexuals are so disregarded. A lot of people think we aren't real. My grandma thinks I'm still in a phase. I've been in this phase for 20 years now. Everytime I get a boyfriend people are like "oh you're over that". like no.
It hurts me more when fellow LGBTQ+ people call me "straight" because I'm in an opposite sex marriage than it does when some random straight person says it.
If it's any consolation, I think you're all real and, if I weren't so gay, I'd be a bit jealous that you have double my dating options. Also, literally every non-straight sexuality has a unique prejudice to its name, so you don't have to feel alone. For instance, instead of being told I can't pick like you are, I'm told that I haven't found the right man yet or haven't had the right [censored] yet (I'm an asexual lesbian).
@@saltypork101 Makes sense. At least you can argue those straight people are just ignorant and don't understand what it's like. LGBT people should know from EXPERIENCE what it's like to be discriminated against, yet turn around and do the same thing to others.
I'm nonbinary and demiromantic, but when I was younger and found I liked boys and girls, I told my mother I was bisexual and I started dating this girl I had a crush on. I've dated primarily women and my current partner is nonbinary as well, but is physically male and when I introduced them to my parents, my mother visibly sighed and said "I'm glad you're finally straight again." I have never been so angry in my life. I don't take my partner around my parents much anymore.
Bi-erasure is such a bi-tch isn’t it? You’re not a confused gay or straight nor are you just “experimenting.” You’re just BI. I don’t get how difficult that is to understand.
I came out to my parents today, they’re supportive and everything, but still coming to grips with it. Seeing you guys having fun through the memes and validating the identity was really comforting 💖💜💙
I don’t know who needs to hear this but if you identify as bisexual and you are in love with someone of the opposite gender that does not make you any less bi! If you prefer the opposite gender then you aren’t any less bi! You are bi and amazing!
how people view bisexuals portrayed by werewolves werewolf:i’m a werewolf someone:so when you’re in human form you’re just a human and when you’re in wolf form you’re just a wolf? werewolf:no, i’m a werewolf
I think this is the first ever lgbtq video I ever watched. It’s been a year now. Back then I thought I was cishet and allo. I’ve gone through Pan, Lesbian, Genderdoe, Non-binary, and now I’m here as a Trans Bi-romantic Asexual. I’m not out yet, but I’m so happy to finally know who I am. Love everyone here! -A nameless trans boy
I came out as bi 16 years ago, and this video solidified for me the reality of a distinct bisexual culture. The energy you two have together is delightful! Shaaba makes me smile so hard.
TW : cute story I'm gay and I was telling my muslim friend(whose from another country and isnt the best at english) about different sexualities and when I said bi people can like men or women he was like "Those people are very advanced" and it was sooooo adorable 😭 Edit: loving all the bis and muslims and bi muslims in the replies😭😭😭
You two are so cute together, it puts a smile on my face even when I'm having the crappiest day. Thank you both for all the positivity you add to the world.
4:06 "Lesbian one day, and straight another." There is actually a sexuality that represents this! It is called abrosexual, and it is when your sexuality changes from day to day.
Literally just came out as bisexual so this is hilarious to me😂😂😂. My family just thinks I want to get with everyone🤦♂️😂. I’ve got the entire world to choose from so EXUSE ME if I’m a lil’ picky😂.
“being bi is like being a hufflepuff” me, a closeted bi and hufflepuff: 👁👄👁 edit: hehe not in the closet any more edit2: i feel i should tell you all that i retook the house sorting quiz and got slytherin...
I’m slytherin lmao. Still bi though. I think I’m only slytherin because of my undying god complex that I took on by being a kin to Fyodor Dostoevsky (An anime character you don’t need to know him).
The erasure is awful. As are all of the lesbians who have rejected me solely based on my sexuality. Like, there are tons of reasons to reject me. Choose one that doesn’t make you a crappy person.
That's probably because of bisexuality having a spectrum and them not knowing where you stand on it. I always thought I was straight but kept developing some type of fascination with female friends. My go to are males. I can only see myself in the future with a man, but I do be feeling things for women. I just don't pursue them for relationships because I don't want to find out mid way that it's not enough for me, nor do I want to break someone's heart.
that doesn't make someone a crappy person any more than a trans person wanting to only date another trans person, or a black person wanting to date another black person, does. god forbid someone want to date someone else in their own demographic.
Literally feel so bad for bisexual people need to grow up who cares how little or how much gay someone is... All that should matter is whether or not you reciprocate those feelings.
I am a bisexual reading comments by bisexuals reacting to a bisexual saying that they are a bisexual reacting to two bisexuals reacting to bisexual memes
Thank you! This was lovely to watch today I’ve been feeling down about how I don’t know any other bisexuals and don’t have a great opportunity I meet many ppl bc of Covid. It’s nice to feel like there is a community
Your videos are literally so heartwarming, I’ve been bingeing them for like 3 days and I just love your disposition, there’s no other way to describe it than wholesome and pleasant, thank you so much
"just cuz i m oranage doesnt mean i m part red and yellow, i m just orange" THIS IS THE BEST EXPLANATION EVER. lets make it bi too "just cuz i m purple, doesnt mean i m part pink and part blue, i m just purple"
I'm not bi, but I wanted to give all the bisexuals something to say to anyone who thinks they're any less bi when they're saying the opposite gender: No matter who you're with you'll always have bad puns and finger guns. No one can change that.
Me: im bisexual My friends: okay Me: **dates a girl** My friends: ur not bi! Ur les! Me: **dates a guy** My friends: ur not bi! Ur straight! Me: there's no winning with the straights.....
My favorite bi meme was saying when you're single "you're not bisexual, you're bi yourself" and that slapped me right across my beautifully bisexual face
im the awkward peace sign bi with the clear phone case, an ugly forced smile, and the fact that i will not sit normally no matter what surface i happen to sit on.
Your Channel is such a SafePlace! By now I am so used to Bigoted reactions on everything and just hahving this place of Acceptance and Wholesomenessity is just wonderful!
nah man this is just conforming my bisexuality, the awkward thumbs up, the tucking in the shirt, being a geeky gamer, and the clear phones case. God damn
I came out to my friend and she said the “I hope you don’t have a crush on me” line I said “don’t worry I have standards” She was legitimately offended but at least she didn’t know that she was actually my crush 😬
Oof, I'm sorry There's some people you just can't please though. They feel violated if you've ever had feelings for them, but then feel offended if you haven't. Like where's the logic there??
@@rachelleredd8803 I think they're more upset about the fact that someone is calling them ugly/not good enough for them than the fact that that someone doesn't have a crush on them.
Jamie: “two bisexuals reacting to bisexual memes” Me, casually waiting for my bus to come when it’s pitch black outside: *make that three* Edit 1: Thank you so much for 1000 likes my god that’s a lot of people. Also the bisexual count in the comments is up to 56 I think! Edit 2: guys we have entire Minecraft stack of bisexuals in case you haven’t read the replies- And 1.5k likes! Edit 3: okay so it’s getting a little confusing- if I replied to your comment twice I’m sorry. Also we got a little off track and now we are at 79 bisexuals. And if you stumbled to this comment and replied that you are bi, congratulations, you unwillingly joined a cult. You have no choice.
How often i do the finger guns:70% How often i do the awkward thumbs up:60% How often i do the peace signs:88% How often i sit in the chair the wrong way:1000000000000000% How often i sit on the floor:4500398373662628211011288228%
People : "Bisexuals are half gay and half straight" Me, being bi and non-binary : You know, I'm neither a girl or a boy, while I'm attracted by both... which means I'm always 100 % gay AND/OR 100 % straight. People : get hard headpain and leave me to my fabulous life. Edit : OMG so much likes, thank you all 💜
One of my kids is non-binary. A few years before they figured that out, they came out as bi. My silly, cis-het self just assuming that everyone is capable of identifying who they are and what they want... I'm glad your life is fabulous. 💚🌈
Fun fact: I actually accidentally came out through "I kissed a girl" when I was 14... I asked one friend of mine if we could put the song on (thecover from Glee: we were jamming out to the serie's music) and she suddenly was like "I don't really see the appeal in kissing a girl"; I paused akwardly, and so she straight up asked me "why are you being so quiet all of a sudden? Do you actually like girls?" to which I replied "I think so". She was pretty cool about it, saying "ok" and continuing to dance
@@ratboy2 Totally! At that time it was a bit daunting to be put in a spot that way (although she did completely innocently) but there i nothing better than to see that someone sees it as completely normal :-)
I needed this so much. Just a couple of other bi people making sure I know I'm not alone and theres a community that excepts, understands and relates to me. Thank you!
The finger guns or thumbs up one, I laughed so hard! I always use finger guns (but like really awkward). This video is wholesome and I absolutely love it!
@@alovelydeadfish it was true at first but they grew into different things i am a fellow bi that dates a non-binary and i got told that i'm pan several times nooooo i follow the bisexual manifesto from 1990 :D
