Why boys get REJECTED in Japan? Girls will break up with you if you do this! 

the lesson here is be yourself but not a weirdo and don't change yourself to be loved. there's bound to be someone who will like you for who you are.

That explains why those girls were acting weird around me, lol. My biggest advice to guys is to shower, I swear I smelled some of the worst BO from foreigners in Japan this year. I literally left a shop because of one dude wearing a nice suit but smelled like hot trash. I even walked by him twice to confirm. Always love yourself but have consideration for others.

definitely the skinny

シルバーヘアーの女性凄く魅力的ですね。 自然で周りを楽しくしてくれるね❤

字幕好礙事，擋到google 的翻譯了

Kill or keep is too much. I know you want views but stop saying to kill people even if its a joke. Imagine if it was about k girls...this would be banned

People personal preference are cute and all but, for the men out there and your sanity be yourself. People don't like that so be it. Turning it an object and I say object that is not you are actually enbodies your values will leave you a hollow of a person every time. Love yourself before listening to other people wants in order for them to love you.

Proactive and aggressive isn't the same. Being proactive is actually a good trait. It's not being aggressive at all but the need to take initiative or action in a certain situation. Being aggressive can be a good or bad thing but being proactive is usually or mostly positive.

I'm currently dating a japanese girl, and the only advice I can give you guys is to just be yourself. If she doesnt like you walk away. But also, always find ways to improve yourself so you can be better. Lastly be honest and sincere がんばります

The ones who would accept a narcissist obviously have never been around one.

I think the silver haired girl (whom I think is pretty cool actually, I remember her from other interview skits!) might not realise that if she picks a narcissist, she is gonna be in for a very miserable and toxic relationship. Narcissists are incapable of empathising and genuinely caring for others unless they try to manipulate them and somehow make it about themselves at the end. They are also extremely good at "throwing you a candy" whenever they sense that you are being distant in order to avoid losing you and then once they feel they got you back in then the abuse and further manipulations will continue. They generally act very hypocritically and it will always be bad when you do something, but perfectly ok for them to do the same and they will always come up with thousand reasons why.

Despite cultural differences, women look for the same things in men all around the world. This video is further proof. Same goes for us guys. The dance of masculine and feminine energy.

I also prefer the ムキムキ, both men and women hehe. Nice muscles, strong mentally and physically. So interesting how many chose narcissists. The reality of being with one is not so romantic 😩

I loved the immediate えええー when you asked about the siscon/momcon issue. Quite an understandable reaction lol.

The other thing is Japanese need to go easier on loud sneezer. Like if you struggle with allergies, it’s really hard to control how you sneeze. But you can totally control how you eat. Obviously I am biased as I sneeze very loud 😳! But I don’t want to and try not to! 😭!

In conclusion, they like healthy, strong and capable men . Got it

Glasses! You look too cute in your outfits, CathyCat! :D

It’s actually challenging for being in different countries, but I really looking forward to seeing, all the sites, being atmosphere cool for everyone

I came to the comments just to see the weaboos defend themselves to the opinions of japanese women.

Honestly, it surprised that there are girls in Japan who appreciates a muscular physique for a guy since in Asia being a muscular person has some negative connotations in it.

Hello Cathy, not your regular audience, after a long time I think your style has improved so much! I'm always worried about westerners trying the kawaii thing, very often it is just facepalm. But you really found out how to do it and it looks very organic. Can you share some procedure how you found that out?

Nobody likes a momma's boy in any culture!

I train my muscles for myself. not for girls

She wants a skinny guy with nice hair…basically she wants to be looking into a mirror when they make out 😂

i am always surprised, what makes different cultures tick. 🙂

yeah yeah yeah, silver hair girl is back...

haha, i eat loudly because i can´t breath with my nose to well and i sneeze like an elephant XD

What!!! Now I’m totally confused. I thought slurping your noodles was encouraged. The more noise you make the greater compliment to the chef?🤷🏻‍♂️ I think I’m a noisy eater when I’m really enjoying my meal. It’s an unconscious thing that I only realize well in to the meal if at all. ☹️ bummer!

In the end, none of them will get what they want anyway. I'm guessing at least 3/4 will turn into unhappy wives.

I'm the same way about loud eating and smacking, Seriously how hard is it to close your mouth and chew slowly?

all fun till u get a pasive boy is like a doja cat icon , also go to events have activities , is good looking , and there are no active boys but only ugly! haha still fun for the watchers.

A common pattern is that Japanese girls want a man who is his own person. He must be confident and ready to make decisions.

There are plenty of fish in the pond. Dont ever put a girl on pedestal, be the king my dudes

Red clothes really suits you Cathy! 💓

female: if it's her sister I just need to get along with her male: so there is a chance..... u know what I'm talking abt I'm just making a joke

My *perfect words. Young Japanese ladies a man's italligents and he must know to how surprive in the outside world. Like getting around very dangerous places in the world with a brave courageous six sence as real man to save his girlfriend from danger! An a friendly wonderful winning heart. I'm a loyal fan of babymetal absolutely 💯. Have a great fabulous wonderful day.

Given the reaction between skinny and muscular, I'm just glad ぽちゃぽちゃ wasn't an option. 🤣

watching this kind of videos makes me feel like a middle aged man with dirty intentions

Stupid question 😅😂😂😂 What will happen if they have own children...are they gonna pick whatever her child wear

Cathy, I love you videos. I'm coming to Japan for the first time next year, can't wait. The girls said they don't like noises when guys eat but I thought slurping was a compliment?

this video put into perspective how some japanese people define narcissists. it's like they're leaving the most important bit, that they're abusive af. i would never choose them, i'll take the 'embarrassing' otaku over those toxic guys every time.

Mother complex or Sister complex? Mother complex. Because they are closer to dying by age and thus have to spend less time being annoyed by their complex.

A man should embrace his masculinity and be unapologetic for it. It doesn't matter if women get "scared" or not. If ur a good man, then you have good intentions. If u were born a man, the best way to survive and thrive is by being masculine. Japan wouldn't be one of the best countries in the world if not for masculine men. If you grew up a boy with people telling around you saying that ur nature is bad, it's gonna be hard for you to live up to ur full potential and ur prone to mental illness. Trust me. I'm going through the same thing

The redpill is hard to swallow ...

See? Don't smack your lips when you're eating.

I watched so many videos from you, that I start recognizing some of those people

After middle school, daydreams are called "visions"...

I don't get the sister complex thing lmao? Does he want to sleep with her? What man is obsessed about his sister that isn't mental.

Imagina andar com uma pessoa com chuunibyou kkkkkkkkk

Well this was educational 😊❤🇹🇹💯

But but but everyone eat ramen making a lot of noise!

what about someone who is skinny and has lean muscle tho

I live in Japan for many years i never heard that siscom term

This has got to be a 4K video it's perfect picture

Ok the bes japan .....im happey ...

Ask Japanese always on my keep list

computer guys left the group.

Why ask women?

STOIC, i got this, i got this, must stay STRONG for the japanese girls.

they are too picky

Cathy's baby bump is so cute :D

Cathy Cat!

The main difference I have seen (considering I am spanish and my fiancee is japanese) is the japanese women prefer to be more passive and assertive, instead of the aggressive attitude of the spanish/european women. But it depends on the own person's character anyway. My fiancee is not the type "weak and dumb japanese girl" at all...and I don't know if that's better or worse for me🤔

筋肉💪つけよう

Boy zucks

Basically : _"don't be poor"_

Personally i would like a day dreamer boy. Oh wait, I'm a guy... Meh whatever, i still want a dreamer boy.

I'm an older man 68, looking back on life experiences the wants of Japanese woman are very similar to western woman. For the woman to act shy or powerful, the loud eater, regular answer for mother or sister. For westerners please remember family ties are stronger in Asian countries than any of the western or European countries.

@Ask Japanese Your japanese is really, really good. Where have you learned it? Since when do you live in Japan?

What young men don't understand until they get much older is that the lady is doing you a favor by breaking up with you or rejecting you. At the end of the day, she doesn't think that you can take what she dishes out. She doesn't think you will make a good prop.

Does aggressive mean the same as assertive there? Maybe it's how they say it but I doubt most women would want an aggressive man anywhere in the world. I have been around agressive friends and they even put me on edge wondering will I have to sort them out myself when they get out of hand lol, they are too unpredictable. I think it's assertive they want to be fair lol.

Interesting that two different people used the word stoic as a positive trait that they'd like in a man. For me, a stoic person doesn't show emotions, but I would prefer a partner who easily expresses himself and doesn't hide if he's happy or sad.

as a 23 year old guy i respect alot of these japanese girls. very traditional views which in my opinion is good. look at America how women treat men so terrible.

The smacking while eating is something you can control, the loud sneeze is not.

well kill list for one is i rather be a mas boy because my sister physically abused me and took advantage of me when i was young and still have ptsd from it. my ma since i was born have been my savior but each others savior when things goes bad for both of us in life and still is. plus beside it shows that i have not only respect for my ma it would also be for your ma

I'm kind of surprised that the Japanese are so familiar with the stoic way.

As a loud sneezer myself, thank you Japan. 😅

6:23 ; Are those to thumb wrestling? OK. They have a little kid with them.

Very interesting topics. Haven't been to Japan but this is good to know if i visit Japan.

fear not brothers theres always some strumpet out there that loves the pork sword

We boys just wanna play.

Haven’t watched these for a while but this video was pretty nice, interesting topic, and nice moderate answers. I liked many things about this one.

is "stoic" a thing in Japan?

The muscularity that Japanese people imagine is that they feel thin by Western standards. They think that a boxer-like body shape is muscular. Bodybuilder-like physique is out of the question.

I noticed many Japanese have bad teeth. Why is that? Is it poor dental hygiene, diet or sugary drinks? My Japanese teacher has crooked teeth too.

I hope not....😅😅😅😅

Wait what are these extreme options??! Like for one, I don’t think “pro-active” and “aggressive” are necessarily the same thing. Also my choices are a LION! 🦁 One of the fiercest creatures out there or a RABBIT! 🐇 One of the most timid and shy? Waaah! 😱😭 There must be something in the middle of these things, right? 🤔…💡‼️🦄

ミイラこん?

GET DESTROY!

thanks for the subtitles in portuguese :3

this interviewer is so fun and she can easily bring out a nice atmosphere for the interviewees (idk how to spell it)

What about fat guy🥲

Good thing I don’t have too much muscle haha

Hi

I remember hearing that some foods in Japan, for example ramen, is eaten noisily. Has that changed?

I don’t think she understands what they mean by muscular. It’s surely nothing like the pictures in the video of western body builders. They might look at them as a circus freak. Muscular to them just means athletic, like normal fit. Not someone on steroids. Also they will choose someone good looking and tall over anyone with muscles any day of the week.

Muscles are scary?? Wtf is wrong with them? Thank god i don't have to care about that opinions.

There's something about Japanese Girls that stands out from other girls. Their cuteness I guess.

i'd treat my japanese GF, show pride, listen to her wants, (have no complex), am a writer(otaku).

I would just be myself, mostly focus on myself, and improve myself, and I would eventually attract the right girl. Girls are able to sense a man who is high quality due to their intuition. Even though you have not attracted the right girl, yet, when you do what I say, random girls will get attracted to you. It happens all the time with me. I have a problem though; I usually ignore girls even though they love me.