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Why Does He Only Pay Attention When I Get Mad?
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@lizwiens671 10 месяцев назад

I spent years angry and frustrated. I finally realized my husband wasn’t a mind reader. And not everything is worth getting into. It’s that simple.

@babyloobibovski2947 10 месяцев назад

Wow you’re a rare, wise one

@calisworldcalisworld2152 10 месяцев назад

I kindly shared with my husband , what I needed, and all he ever said was: It's ALWAYS ABOUT YOU!! He is now my ex-husband. He didn't care about my feelings at all. My life is much better and peaceful.

@starlingswallow 10 месяцев назад

I think most wives are terrified of being labeled a "Nag". It's like the worst thing.😢 My ex weaponized this. Any time I would attempt to calmly bring up my emotions or issues in our marriage, I was called a nag. Or that my timing was off. But it was _never_ a good time. I slowly became smaller and smaller, quieter and quieter, until I was an emotionless robot mommy-maid. This was hell on earth, and you add his constant rage, laughing at the idea of counseling, him being completely fine with how things were~ I left. It was _the best_ decision I've ever made! I'm remarried and my spouse and I have the safest, most open communication EVER. It's beautiful and so damn easy, like breathing! Sometimes it's who you're with, as well as your childhood programming. Learn to say no, learn to have boundaries, discover your self worth enough to do these things. You are worth it! Anytime you feel you need to stuff your feelings to keep everything safe....it's not safe. ❤

@angeronalove5799 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for such an eloquent post. I had the same experience. I did everything I possibly could to please him. I asked for specific words that would be a better approach and used them. It didn't matter. The goalposts always moved. I was always wrong, and he always blew up into a rage no matter how delicate and kindly and gentle and honoring I tried to make my words. A nightmare. I'm happy you found a great relationship that nurtures both of you.

@dabd8175 10 месяцев назад

Females are crazy 😂

@FrankS111 10 месяцев назад

Were you ever content? Did you ever feel satisfied with the status quo? My guess is not…many modern women cannot. That is why men are checking out of dating and marriage. Men want peace and modern women are never happy thus cannot offer that. Always something to do, something to fix, something to improve, something imperfect.

@sundown6748 10 месяцев назад

Hahaha frank stay out the incel websites. Geez the groupthink is insane

@user-do6vc2js7o 10 месяцев назад

Wish I had your courage

@KasunGamage 10 месяцев назад

As a man, as far as I know, men shouldn't be involved in a (serious)relationship if they are not financially and mentally ready yet. Don't waste somebody's time. If you want to hang out and live some sort of free life,just stay single. It's far more peaceful for you as a man and woman out there..

@carrino15 10 месяцев назад

But men more than women want free cheap sex time with as low effort as possible and they trick lonely women hoping to turn causal into serious relationship

@KingSensitive 3 месяца назад

I disagree, men and woman should date, love, and make mistakes so they can grow, it's the nature of things. It would be cool if everyone could wait till they are mentally ready but not only would most people not want to wait most people wouldn't know when was the right time as well.

@LucyL 4 месяца назад

He’s using “reactive abuse” tactics + gaslighting to confuse and shut her up. He doesn’t respond until his wife reaches the boiling point, then tells her “Look at how angry you’re getting”, making her the bad guy. He cannot communicate like an adult, which is all she is asking for. I’ve lived this nightmare x36 yrs and finally woke up. Dealing with the “quiet covert” narcissist isn’t like counseling couples with normal marital issues. They are pure evil, whether man or woman and don’t want to change. They will slowing destroy you and laugh while doing it. Make a plan to get out.

@vivianworden2706 10 месяцев назад

John took an attitude with her list. Walking the dog. That's a must. Exercise is a must too, but people are putting themselves last so often they think excercise is a lavish luxury. Meal prep...meal prep will save money, your health and sanity. She probably freaks out when these don't get done is because she doesn't want a week where her family is consuming fast food and the dog is acting up. Which adds to the chaos. Your life is a garden that believe it or not needs to be tended to.

@kikiisabeast2575 9 месяцев назад

Yes, but then when things don't always go your way, you'll he anxious.. you can't control everything, just because you didn't meal prep doesn't mean you have to eat McDonald's everyday, yes the dog has to be walked but it doesn't have to be at the same time everyday. Chill and breathe the world won't end if your routine has to change.

@vivianworden2706 9 месяцев назад

@@kikiisabeast2575 of course. We are all adding our two cents here.

@name9601 7 месяцев назад

@@kikiisabeast2575 say that with mcnugget dog sh*t on your floor

@user-uk5te2ms9v 9 месяцев назад

"I chose service instead of being right" - Dr John I really love that alot. Thank you so much for sharing.

@Misbehavedcollection 8 месяцев назад

She is speaking for the majority of married women who truly want the marriage to work, but men are delicate and sensitive when receiving any communication from their partner (him having a hard shield). This is good content as i can relate. My issue is that my husband tunes out and gets annoyed if i want to bring up a topic or share an emotion that affected me or us. Luckily he doesnt rage he just leaves but at the same time it feels as though he dissmisses me.

@anthill1510 5 месяцев назад

Yes. It feels like he dismisses you because he does. This is not a partnership you are in. The stronger the partiachy in a culture, the more men have a god-complex and a god is not to be questioned or critized. He has servants that cater to his needs and are invisible otherwise. You ran into a less severe form of that, but that`s where the mindset comes from. Get a man from another culture. (I don`t mean another country, I mean another community that has less sexist values.)

@stevendavis5095 2 месяца назад

@@anthill1510you single huh? lol

@sarahrodriguez7101 10 месяцев назад

When he said “when it came down to it, you weren’t there for me” I’m almost 100% that’s the problem. It’s not one instance either. I’m sure it’s a constant cycle of her not feeling safe with him bc of a cycle that keeps happening. Does he get defensive when she tells him her feelings? Does he get passive aggressive when he’s having a bad day? Does he say he’s going to change something about himself and continually not follow through on it? 👈empty promises. Does he pick a fight when she’s at her most vulnerable? Ext… I don’t think one problem from years ago that never got resolved is the only issue. Usually you don’t get to that place of anger until you feel like your being stomped on over and over again. Everyone deals with it differently, some people withdrawal and shut down, while others get angry.

@Jaxmusicgal23 10 месяцев назад

This is my life in a nutshell with my hubby and he is mad I dont trust him and I am tired of the relationship and have no romantic feelings for him… I feel this so much. I so desperately want to love and serve each other and look out for one another but I end up doing it and being not poured back into by spouse until I am so empty I am crying or angry. Then he does to essentially “fill me up” so he can go back to neglecting us all and not doing anything unless asked like another kid in the house. Its hard and I am tired homeschooling 4 kids trying to figure out where this is all going

@sarahrodriguez7101 10 месяцев назад

@@Jaxmusicgal23 r u seeing a therapist, sounds like you need too. You can not change him and that is really hard to except. However, you can set boundaries down. Boundaries are there to protect you, not to hurt him. If he is not fulfilling your expectations in the marriage then do not fill his expectations. If your cup is running on empty, you cannot give yourself to others if there is nothing to give. Whatever energy you have needs to go to your children. Regardless of your situation, you need to set boundaries down. You will need a therapist because when you start setting boundaries down with someone, it starts to get really ugly on their end. Behaviors that you’ve never witnessed before may even show itself from your spouse. But something has to change, this is not healthy for you or your children.

@PepeCoinMania 10 месяцев назад

Find a pet they are perfect slaves

@trishcuster3343 2 месяца назад

Exactly! True story 100%

@cryingbball 10 месяцев назад

I’ve been watching Dr. John’s callers alot and I’m learning alot cause i’m pretty sure im the dude in this story and I need to work on this ASAP

@FrankS111 10 месяцев назад

If your wife is constantly telling you she “needs” things then she’s no different than my 4 year old toddler.

@cryingbball 10 месяцев назад

@@FrankS111 whuh? Do you even have a wife Frank?

@FrankS111 10 месяцев назад

@@cryingbball yup, been together 10 years with 3 boys. Someone who complains about everything is no different than a needy child who cannot self regulate their emotions. Men should only take about 5%-10% of John’s advice as it’s solely geared towards removing accountability from women.

@flashthecorgi2053 10 месяцев назад

@@FrankS111complaining is different than staying your needs. Dr. John isn’t saying to complain to the husband, he’s saying she needs to state what she needs for the marriage to work and vice versa. Delony’s been married 21 years and he said they start the day off with What do you need today and how can I love you better? … so far it seems to work for them! Don’t you think it’s better for her to state her needs than the husband have to guess and read her mind? All counselors will tell you to state your needs to your husband and wife so that the marriage stays strong.

@FrankS111 10 месяцев назад

@@flashthecorgi2053 does it? He’s said numerous times that his wife has thought of leaving or their “marriage was on the brink”. I cannot imagine being told daily that something new is “needed”. Everyone has needs but it’s up to us to fulfill most of those needs. Like i said I don’t think he provides good advice as most men would hate this.

@glendasexton5716 10 месяцев назад

POWER is a perfect word Dr John. This does happen in a lot of relationships. When left unaddressed it will cause a pile up.

@ChatteNoireBlanche 10 месяцев назад

This happened to me, I would say something, and would be ignore. Until I said the same thing screaming, only then was taken seriously. This only happened with specific type of men, who were unable to solve conflics by civil communication, they needed a "fight".

@dk1828 10 месяцев назад

Mad respect Dr. D! Love how you get straight to the root of things. That’s skills. 🙌

@scroogeswife570 10 месяцев назад

Keep it simple. Not everything is an issue and when it is an issue, state the issue and keep it short. It's not worth it to build up a list of everything instead work to build each up with love, and sometimes we just need to shut up.

@pmeehan_3 10 месяцев назад

As an adult now that grew up in a home where we had to walk on eggshells due to not one but both parents were emotionally immature there should be a state or federal level mandatory testing for both people that want to marry. There should also be mandatory therapy for each person separately for at least a year b4 getting married. If you plan on staying with this person "till death do us part" being kids living like this is literally hell on earth.

@oc2538 10 месяцев назад

What if you have expressed the resentment or anger and their response is "get over it, you are immature and it isn't my problem but you and my mothers?" I definitely agree, holding onto past wrongs is a power play. Its "you did this to me, you are in the wrong" it shuts everyone down. Its pointless.

@BarelyNoticedADD 10 месяцев назад

Power is a hell of a drug.

@oncetwice5942 10 месяцев назад

I can imagine the frustration she is going through right now.

@Hswamp2008 10 месяцев назад

Having an every day ritual of discussing things or laughing together helps prevent things from boiling over. Even 5 minutes after everyone else goes to bed, sit together and laugh over something on the internet or look at news stories. Use the time to discuss children or family members, good and bad, changes youd like to make, things you are grateful for. Its not always easy to bring up stuff in the moment when kids are around, and obviously not all news stories are kid friendly. An every day ritual of talking to one another alone is a practical tool to use to bring stuff up, to calmly explain feelings of anger, asking for help with things, and to ask for forgiveness..and at a minimum to laugh together every day.

@kristinaolson77 10 месяцев назад

Oh damn! This was good!

@kcourtney6826 10 месяцев назад

Communication is important in any relationship but we have to go in with the right expectations, you can express how something makes you feel but you can't control how the other person reacts. If we think the person doesn't express enough remorse or doesn't see things the same way as you do this can lead to frustration and anger. When I communicate with my spouse I make it a point to tell them once I communicate my feelings I'm not bringing it up again, then the ball is in their court and their actions will tell me everything I need to know. Repeating the same argument diminishes the validity and just makes it seem as if your a nag.

@MikeIsCannonFodder 10 месяцев назад

I think it'd be really interesting for John to interview Ryder Carroll, the guy who came up with the idea of bullet journals. They could have an interesting chat about journaling, specifically for ADHD, and being more intentional in life.

@tashajoykin5192 10 месяцев назад

Yes, I’d love that!🎉

@megalopolis2015 10 месяцев назад

This gal is eluding a lot. Dr. John is only now able to help her break through just a little, but she needs to do a lot of introspection so that she can tackle her anger. I'm not convinced that she ever married her "significant other", which means this couple is holding back in some way from one another. She might need to go to counseling with him so they can work out a better communication style, building trust, and going all in on the relationship.

@dabd8175 10 месяцев назад

I agree 👍. Just another broken female 😂

@megalopolis2015 10 месяцев назад

@@dabd8175 This world's broken. At least this woman is wanting to do something about it.

@ericworley4361 2 месяца назад

Hes simultaneously telling her that she is choosing to not move beyond the issue in an unhealthy or unproductive way, and that If he's never properly acknowledged or apologized for it then she can't possibly have gotten over it yet.

@lisalister8002 10 месяцев назад

Men who don't listen... are not worthy of you!

@FrankS111 10 месяцев назад

Men who don’t listen are actual men. Treating women like children with no accountability for their actions or emotions. It’s toxic to society and culture.

@anthill1510 5 месяцев назад

He is trying to get her to let her husband treat her however. Telling her she wants power when she is trying to get heard. Yes, she wants power over her own life, as she should, not power over her husband. Just push everythig down and don`t hold your husband accountable. Great advice.

@demon-mk2jm 6 месяцев назад

I had an ex that I could only get my needs met if I started yelling. Sink sat sinking for months, bf please do this, sink finally collapsed and I had to yell to get it fixed. Same with car, same with lights, same with plumbing, and I thought it was really weird.

@vickimerritt2832 9 месяцев назад

what? he moves his dad in, and disappears? She is not the problem.

@NEESHA02118 7 месяцев назад

Y am I just finding this video 🔥

@kellymorehouse4561 4 месяца назад

It was more important to my spouse to be seen as the victim and I as the villain to the point people believe it's OK to berate me and he allows it. The latest was my pastor's wife blowing me out of the water while my pastor and my spouse sit there and said nothing. I've been told she was justified and that she feels she already apologized which is miraculous because I haven't heard a word from her. These people believe he needs to be defended. It's been going on for years but I have a rent a friend who has been helping me to see my worth. I must leave but I'm 71 and not in the best of health.

@JustinCase780 10 месяцев назад

Some people are just annoying. This is a perfect example.

@SnowFoxParty 10 месяцев назад

This was my ex fiancé to a T. Notice how i said Ex fiancé 😂

@Jujubees225 10 месяцев назад

Reason why he doesn’t care about your feelings is because she doesnt care about his.

@nicolab2075 10 месяцев назад

That way, nobody would ever care about anyone...

@reneeladouceur 8 месяцев назад

I'm Canadian, and I have never met a Canadian who pronounces about ''aboot.'' It's a stereotype. We do say eh a lot, though. 🙂

@CaToRi- 10 месяцев назад

How the guy leave his father practically living alone with his wife/partner? That’s a 🚩🚩🚩That’s like throwing a grenade and running away. He still a daddy/mamas boy. That’s why he couldn’t stand by his wife. The wife also has issues (like everybody) but the husband is pushing her buttons.

@Jenskem 10 месяцев назад

^ not true

@Misbehavedcollection 8 месяцев назад

Giving the key to "our" kingdom is basically wife being the peaseant. 😅

@Ja50nkAt 10 месяцев назад

Never getting married.

@dillondittemore1102 10 месяцев назад

Lmao.

@michaelh2282 10 месяцев назад

I got stressed out just listening to her long run-on question. I can't imagine how exhausted her husband must be around her.

@name9601 7 месяцев назад

mirror rehearsals surely, she came prepared had the full essay bullet point list ready

@KiaraLemmone 4 месяца назад

I am sure she was nervous and wanted to get her points in. I doubt that is how she is at home every day. Kind of not fair saying that about her.

@kekejefferson9219 10 месяцев назад

He doesn't respect you, he doesn't love you. It's funny to him that your mad.

@Chet_24 10 месяцев назад

Average person has 5.5 more hours of free time than people in the 1950's. Saying you dont have enough time is bs.

@stolen3moon 10 месяцев назад

if you have kids, you can't just go and do whatever. I barely have time to shower with my one year old. if I just leave her in the room, she'll just do something dangerous or stupid

@Mrs.LadeyBug 10 месяцев назад

@@stolen3moon It can be overwhelming if you’re a first time mom and don’t have support from others. One way to get a quick shower in with an active baby (other than when they’re asleep, which is ideal) is to bring the car seat or an immovable sit-in toy like an exersaucer into the bathroom so you can watch baby the whole time. It feels like this season is forever, especially if sleep deprived, but it’s not. Hang in there!

@greenAbbot 10 месяцев назад

Well, not everyone is the average person. But I agree that the conversation they need to have is so crucial that they need to make it a priority over whatever else is taking up time.

@linapesz313 10 месяцев назад

We listened to the same conversation and you did not get that....the true problem is that she does not trust her husband he would stand up for her....and that ge let her down probably multiple times and she does not feel safe with him....or you just listened first 5min of the conversation and decided to write this comment

@2okaycola 10 месяцев назад

@@Mrs.LadeyBugso true! The packnplay is a 🛟 in our house

@liveinms9949 10 месяцев назад

Its a man/woman right brain/let brain thing

@iPervy 10 месяцев назад

Highstrung folks always stressful

@Sihkster 10 месяцев назад

Women and there emotions is a constant struggle in a marriage

@nicolab2075 10 месяцев назад

Then marry a man 🙄

@pear_jules4013 10 месяцев назад

She didn’t get along with her father-in-law and she clearly doesn’t get along with her husband. Who’s at fault here?

@richardv9648 10 месяцев назад

she. She alone.

@dabd8175 10 месяцев назад

I officially have more than a thousand comments on this channel. Thank you dr. John for everything you've done for me! Females don't forget to submit to men!

@megalopolis2015 10 месяцев назад

I go by what the Bible says, not random dudes with fragile egos. Human beings are to submit to God. If you ultimately refuse to do that, then you've got far greater problems than what women will or will not do for you.

@Emptytopfloor 10 месяцев назад

Males got to do it first 😂 Pathetic males, can’t even lead!

@pear_jules4013 10 месяцев назад

@megalopolis he’s a troller. Just ignore him.

@megalopolis2015 10 месяцев назад

@@pear_jules4013 Okay. :0)

@invadazim7364 10 месяцев назад

Go touch some grass friend

@ajones8008 10 месяцев назад

@12:02 John admit he simps sometimes just to make himself feel better.

@MattCasters 10 месяцев назад

He wasn't really talking about himself. It's a trick he used to call HER whiney and controlling.

@drkimap5784 10 месяцев назад

Hahahah journaling is woowoo? Omg please stop denigrating self help and healthy mental exercises

@Dcmaddog12 10 месяцев назад

95% of women lol

@kodiekulp 10 месяцев назад

John, you seem like a really good dude but I can't support Dave Ramsey or anyone that would continue to work for that dude . I would suggest everyone to read about controversies with Dave Ramsey and you tell me if you would want to work for that man. John, blink 5 times if you need me to pull you out of there.

@candyluna2929 10 месяцев назад

WTF 😅

@isaacwojo3273 10 месяцев назад

What controversies? Genuine question

@bigkieppo 10 месяцев назад

I want to know too

@kodiekulp 10 месяцев назад

Dave Ramsey y'all, look it up. Look up Ramsey work.meeting during covid. Dave Ramsey is also a Christian Evangelical. Christian Evangelicals are trying to push America towards Christian nationalism and I would never support anyone who supports that, like Dave Ramsey I hate that John works for such a nasty person but I'm sure the money was worth it though 😂 Unless John is an utter capitalist and just doesn't care 😂 He seems like someone who cares genuinely and I would love to hear him talk about his boss someday openly and honestly and how he squares it with himself. I don't think I could square it with myself , working for the Ramsey network. And if you love evangelicalism, you're going to love the Christian nationalism these religious fruitcakes want to do here in this country. I will continue to maintain the wall between church and state as people like Dave Ramsey continue to degrade it. I hope y'all have a lovely day! 😀

@brewsandbass5572 10 месяцев назад

This woman is nuts. I wouldn't want to come home.

@FrankS111 10 месяцев назад

Bingo! His advice is terrible saying she needs to tell him all the time her “needs”. That’s what children do

@FrankS111 10 месяцев назад

John is 100% wrong. Men do not dream of women constantly telling them what they “need” and “want” … that is what children do. Men dream of love and peace. If you bring peace to your man’s life, then he will be happy. If you bring chaos, stress, and constant unhappiness then there will be problems. It’s fine to voice what you need from time to time so it’s important to pick… but if it is constant then you are no different than a child who cannot regulate their emotions.

@SonicCloudLink 10 месяцев назад

Have you ever tried to pick a restaurant with a female, and she keeps rejecting all of your suggestions? Yes I want a woman that can decide what she wants and tell me, instead of expecting me to figure out what she wants, when she doesn’t even know herself.

@stolen3moon 10 месяцев назад

no.. because you won't have peace if she is frustrated and just blows over at some point. healthy conversations are needed

@kms_488 10 месяцев назад

So in other words you’re dreaming of a wife that stays quiet, bottles up her thoughts and feelings so communication deteriorates and you end up with a shell of a wife who you’ve made feel worthless just so you don’t have to listen and deal with stress and unhappiness (that you’ve now played a big part of creating with your lack of empathy and love for your wife)

@FrankS111 10 месяцев назад

@@stolen3moon what is funny is if a husband constantly told his wife “I need you to do X” she would divorce him within a year. He would be called whiny and needy. Well men are waking up to this misandrist society and it’s wonderful. My wife and I will be teaching our 3 sons to be strong men and not get steamrolled by feminism like I see in 80%+ of the comments in this god awful comments section

@stolen3moon 10 месяцев назад

@@FrankS111 not really. I have an introvert husband and I really wish he would tell me more of what he needs, so I can actually do something about it, before it blows out into a big thing, because I can't read minds. I mean the dude pretend to not be hungry every time there was soup. I was confused. And we almost fought about the friggin soup. then when he told me after some time that he just doesn't like some vegetables, I was over the moon happy because it was an easy fix for me and he was happy. And also note the difference between "hey, can you next time please not put a broccoli in soup. I don't like it." and just getting angry about it, demanding something, if not even insulting her. I mean women generally won't get angry about the first one pretty much ever if she cares at all about you

@djpuplex 10 месяцев назад

Calling a super simp like Delony is gonna yield Terrible advice. This guy needs to tell her to stop or he'll leave. Men secretly dream of women telling them what to do is the opposite of what men dream of. Men dream of a woman that will listen to reason.

@briskettacos 10 месяцев назад

You assume the man is always sensible and right. I'm sure you're a blast to be married to.

@djpuplex 10 месяцев назад

@@briskettacos Men are more rational and women are more emotional. Everyone knows this. The man can be wrong but at least his assumptions are based in thoughts not emotions.

@daughterofpalestine7130 10 месяцев назад

No, not everyone knows this. Calling Delony a super simp ☠️ go watch a stupid podcast like fresh n fit. Fits your alley a bit more.

@djpuplex 10 месяцев назад

@@daughterofpalestine7130 I don't watch fresh and fit. Better bachelor is more reasonable fresh and fit do have all the statistics and the key points but the just parrot them from other sources. A yes Delony is a massive simp with a curve towards believing the woman and demonizing the man. Just watch his videos objectively.

@SkylerAdriel 10 месяцев назад

I would assume you are not in a successful relationship otherwise you would know that relationships do not work without communication. It doesn't have to be negative communication, especially if you are always communicating, but you need it. If that sounds terrible to you, maybe a relationship is not something that you actually want from someone.