Why I stopped dating. 

The illusion of choice. Everyone thinks they have so many options so they quit at the first sign of difficulty. Then they end up alone at 35 wondering why they never got married. We should be picky but within reason. I had a very healthy relationship with some bumps, but we worked it out. I wonder is this an American problem or is this a worldwide phenomenon of everyone giving up…

No Work. Be Free of work.

@@KellyStamps Exactly!! Difficulties are meant to be a test for your relationship. If you love the person and care about the relationship, addressing difficulties mutually is vital to nurturing the relationship. No one said it’s easy, but I don’t get how else people think they will get through life if they refuse to do some inner healing. It makes me sad that our generation doesn’t get out more. I wouldn’t be surprised if this is more prominent in America. I wish it was 1995 lol

@@KellyStamps Wooow! I hear some wisdom coming through...

@@KellyStamps it's global, not just America. Birth rate is dropping globally, age of marriage raising, rate of singleness raising. All global, unfortunately.

This is so accurate

They have to change, but men don´t get it !

This is accurate

Facts I’m 49 and trust character is the issue not age

​@@--Singularity--it's not just men

Omg noooo way!!! This is too much 😭

SHE SAID WHAT SHE SAID 🤣

As someone who has been single for nearly 8 years and is approaching her thirties. I still have faith that God will ultimately connect me with my husband when the time is right. I was praying once, asking God why I wasn't having any success in the dating world, and I felt the Holy Spirit speak to me to remain patient, as the guy God was preparing for me is still not ready. I trust God's timing and His word. God never intended for us to be alone, and I trust that ultimately His love for me is greater than I can ever imagine. I also have learnt from my own experience that whenever I do take matters into my own hand, things have got a tendency to go horribly wrong 😂. So yeah, I am going to just wait on the Lord. I do intend on getting married one day, and I don't intend on ever getting divorced either, so finding the right person to settle down with is crucial. Don't get me wrong, I do have my moments of self-pity and impatience, but I find that in times like that, it's important to recognise where these thoughts are coming from and how they are serving you. The devil doesn't attack from the outside. He attacks from the inside. Be careful not to feed those thoughts, but instead focus on God's promises instead. I watched this other podcast today, and the guy made a statement that really resonated with me. God will often give you the vision, but it's faith that ultimately gets you there. We need to trust the process, irrespective of how long it takes, because only He knows the bigger picture. Sometimes, it's our own impatience and stubbornness that prolong our journey, e.g. look at Sarah and Abraham. It's a good thing that our God, irrespective of our character, still provides us with His grace, and He never goes back on His word. His grace and love for us unconditional. He is and will always be my first husband. May God continue to bless you ❤

@@danielbanic3738”Italy’s” 😭😭😭😭

Whats email dear I do plan to write you a letter though

Anime husbands 😂

😂who’s yours?

This is me for real though lol. I don't need a real man, I have Artem Wing to keep me company.

​@@ambivelent-artistI have Corazon from One Piece 🥹 We are travelling the world and fighting bad guys

For me its forest gump 🥺 if only i could find him irl 😪

That’s sad

Nah, the people that you met arent.

@@Austin6403 true

@@Austin6403Most women agree with her and I’m one of them

​@@oncode7735 OK. I'm a lesbian and I agree with her. It's not just a problem with men.

Exactly! The male population of all ages just need to work on themselves already.

I second that

😂 embarrassing is actually the only word to describe it

What state is he in? 🧍🏾‍♀️

@@KellyStamps From San Diego, but moved to New Mexico for work, still maybe interested? I could send you his socials 👀

So do it. 👍

@@LauranChilds I've tried, but can't dm her on anything, and my comment keeps getting auto-filtered out. I think I'd need to resort to her business e-mail, but usually they don't want to be contacted there.

I would meet if he was in San Diego! haha. And yes, I’m sorry about that. I made myself virtually unreachable because I got tired of all the inappropriate photos and mean spirited emails being sent to me.

That's a good point.

Yes, and this is precisely why this year I am making a concerted effort to be out among the people. I feel I have a lot to offer in a relationship, out there surely must be a guy who has the same, but we won’t find each other if we’re both at home! So I am on my social zoom in 2024 lol!

@@bmartin4549 there's only evil out there

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@west3 - that's actually a really good point.

Same here but then again ive never had any interest in humanity outside of forming communities and bonds. Even now, they dont even value you as a person. You're moreso an object they'd like to use or show off...

Looorrddd I felt this comment in my soul

Same , I just turned 29, and I've never been in a relationship. Men don't want commitment, they just want to sleep around. I've given up on finding love, and I'm just going to focus on myself and career.

sis/bro just enjoy life...

This is why nice turns turn into mean girls and pretend to be hard 🥹 but we are all lover gworls at heart

Yep. Be careful and take care of your health first, beautiful souls.❤

@@KellyStampsYep, and some of us aren’t capable of pretending to be mean because it’s not in our nature, so we REALLY get fucked over 😂

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I totally sympathize with all of you. I’m in the same shoes I was so nice. I still am at heart but I threw the book away. I still live in reality lol but for me, I realize that I have to watch people not what they say to me, they’ll tell me anything. I have to watch what they do. ❤️❤️

I'm 41 and dated a 58 year old with the same energy. I had to dead that immediately

Well why would he grow up and get his act together when he can date women in their 20s in his 40s? Think about that.

OR that would make him get his shit together even more in order for me to stay. I even told him he was immature for his age and that really caused him to rethink his life. Change is possible, people are just lazy@@iridescentraindrops

Well Of course, us guys know we can get sex without marriage(or anything serious) so of course we will prefer it like that. I’m borderline asexual but even I can easily understand that

@@iridescentraindropsI don’t think they will try to see it from the guys viewpoint. One of a guys main needs is sex and many women are willing to give it out fairly easily these days so

:(

Never too late for Coursera!!

It’s not too late to ask for a refund😂

lol I paid for Bumble and Tinder once. Waste of money. Marriage minded men are hard to come by

WORMS?? Like what dogs get? 😂

If he’s an ‘early bird’ 🤓 iykyk

@@KellyStamps lol yes girl. A message passed down from our foremothers.

I was told the same thing lol

@@KellyStamps yeah, worms are for real. You will start itching all over especially down there.

A WHOLE BABY

I got a short cut for you ladies: Just ask the guy if he is single!

Nah you gotta ask them are there any women under the impression that they are together because they will be talking to five other women but call themselves single or they will just lie about it it’s a cold world we live in

@@123pb Great, unfortunately 🫤 people lie and a lot of men will say anything for sex.

I am 50 years old and dating at any age is HARD!!!! It doesn’t get easier as you get older!!!! 😅 and as you get older the amount of men in my age group that are “available” is SLIM picking. Sorry ladies!!!!!

Henlo my child 🧎🏾‍♀️

😂😂😂

Yes a script !!!

oh my godddd

In their 50s ?? Jeez...and I thought 34 yo f boys were immature

true

The men in your age group are trying to date women 20 years younger, ask me how I know 😅

@@missede96 I already know!! Seen it too often! lol and smh!!

Even the ones that "sincerely" want you end up flaking on you.

@@serenedione Either they're not sincere, or sometimes two "good" people are simply not always compatible.

men tell you what you want to hear to get what they want from you. you may or may not be in too deep/pregnant once you realize he's stringing you along. refraining from dating is a good idea because the blame always falls on you that you picked a bad guy and must live with he consequences.

The older ones have had DECADES to practice their lies and manipulation. They are the worst!

Same here

Of course they are. They seek naïve young women to prey on. Can't understand why so many women like them much older. 🤦🏾‍♀️ It's never been my thing.

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This is exactly why I stay single.

Agreed.

The key is to a relationship is not just being romantic. You need to see your partner as your best friend. Because the honeymoon phase will end and you'll see sides of your partner that'll drive you nuts. My fiance drives me nuts but I love him. He's my buddy ❤️

And women these days are terribly classless and fatherless. Both genders need work.

Get off dating apps and go outside babe, I guarantee you if you leave those apps and log back in after 5 years you’ll see the same people 😂❤

@@missede96 Mindo, like women they have to have a knockout Barbie with a lot of money, and they still think she subhuman but beautiful women. You literally have to pay to get married with cattle and women need to understand something we need to love ourselves there’s nothing out there.

Internet isn't the problem. Me and my wife would never meet without internet. People are the problem.

The people on the apps are the same people on the streets mind you. It’s not like the apps create the humans there. The apps tend to even expose people’s intentions faster.

@mangosteena he is Christian man. What is your IG? Maybe I can connect you two

At 27 you are mature a 35 yo is not old

Yuuuuup

We must stay this way 🥲

@@KellyStamps i agree , a modest life is a peaceful life

Mm this is interesting. Thank you for the information! We can always strive to be better, but it seems there’s no perfect way to be sustainable and ethical at the same time. 😭

Legit like a tablespoon of detergent is enough for a load. Any more and it actually prevents the clothes from getting clean. Worth the rabbit hole to learn about this!

@@AvgJane19 Yeah, too much powder detergent can damage your cloths. Especially if it has whitening agents. Too much detergent in general can also cause bad “fatty” smells in your machine. Same with too much softener, especially on synthetic clothing for the softener.

@@KellyStamps indeed there isn’t😂. The sheets still are a great product because of how practical they are. And the low surfactant dosage can actually be good for people who tend to overdose detergent. Plus, nowadays clothes are usually not that dirty when you wash them, so no need to use too much detergent anyway. Love your videos by the way. Keep up the good work 👌

Vinegar solves everything

Im finally starting to realize this at 30 , just be happy for you and whoever wants to join will

😳 sorry

Give the nerdy homebodies a chance- they’re not catching bodies 🥲

😮 you lie !

Lol yes Kelly us nerdy homebodies are minding our business 😂 we don’t wanna be bothered though!

Where is webtoon husband?

@@fatemad4012Do you know what webtoon is?

Thank you!

My best friend better love sex

Sounds like romance to me…

GOOD DAY FUZZY/NATALIE

Probably breaking his back 😂

Was it different in other countries

Omg this right here😆

I'm not settling until I've lived all my fantasies

You are not old at all Gosh😭😭😭😭

haha i know das why i said in between! still full of life⛽@@asia_nzeako

THANK YOU FERNARD FOWLER I APPRECIATE YOU COMING BACK TO SUPPORT MY THEATRICS

@@KellyStamps you are smart and beautiful don't you ever forget that. You are my FAVORITE.

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I tried but I'm good~, my life is great without romance, so I don't really need it! Thanks for the suggestion tho