Why Women So Clingy & Possesive

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@armanijack2927 4 года назад

When I’m nonchalant they chase. When I’ve chased they were nonchalant.

@heymisswest 4 года назад

EXACTLY!!!!

@EmpressofChrist 4 года назад

Facts

@LaGataSolar 4 года назад

Armani Jack girlllll yes that’s always how it is these dudes don’t like reciprocation it’s all BS we gotta be nonchalant about 99.8% of the time

@umsiee 4 года назад

@@luxuryqueen42 until u turn lesbian and no man to play games with

@armanijack2927 4 года назад

Cool Chicka Vlogs I am. Lol this stuff applies to both genders

@MarciaRain 4 года назад

I literally go to sleep sometimes while listening to her so I can dream about being 100% leveled up. Then I wake up acting like straight diamonds

@datingdiaries1681 4 года назад

Me too her voice puts me to sleep every time

@kennedyl7733 4 года назад

Right?? Our Subconscious goes to work!

@mimyhuney5599 4 года назад

Like the Pisces bad bitch that you are❤🔥

@tanjaaichholzer9805 4 года назад

PiscesBubblePop girl 😂😂🙉 yass same

@umsiee 4 года назад

Hahaha 😂

@islajane5155 4 года назад

My life code that keeps me sane and drives men crazy is : Easy come, Easy go, and never go back !!!!! And when a guy sees that you have a jealous side, he will use that against you.

@eleven.22_erica 4 года назад

IsLa Jane agreed

@olgachafeeva2828 4 года назад

a guy will use ANYTHING that he can against you. he will openly flirt with other women in your presence then have the nerve to call you insecure when you point it out.

@umsiee 4 года назад

That's so true...

@EmpressofChrist 4 года назад

Yup

@EmpressofChrist 4 года назад

@@olgachafeeva2828 facts. Never let a man into your vulnerabilities he will use them against you

@BOO512 4 года назад

Moral of the story is ask him for some money 💰 🤣

@nigerianfemale 4 года назад

okay, but you're so pretty !

@camiller958 4 года назад

boogie oogie I don’t even ask anymore he just offers and who am I to say no?

@EmpressofChrist 4 года назад

Yup

@EmpressofChrist 4 года назад

@@camiller958 nice!

@BOO512 4 года назад

I have no game. I’m a hopeless romantic. But I’m getting better listening to shera

@TheLove2share 4 года назад

Insecure men LOVE clingy women because it boosts their ego & makes them feel important. If they date a secure woman, they will gaslight her to lower her self-esteem until she is no longer a threat to his fragile ego.

@beautykinks6755 4 года назад

This is soo true

@maumeeD4 4 года назад

❤

@ClowneryAtItsFinest 4 года назад

Facts! I’ve experienced this both ways!

@elliedee8829 4 года назад

Damn so true.

@nicolesmith7611 4 года назад

Yes, my ex was like this. I had to constantly be around him. The guy I'm dating now, is constantly thinking about money. He has helped me with money and given it to me within @ weeks of us meeting.

@camiller958 4 года назад

As Shera says, "He should love you more than you love him."

@robt3407 4 года назад

If you have high value to offer, a lot of high value men will take you out of the market. Mind games and manipulation diminish true value.

@stephanielewis8365 4 года назад

@Andre Comer hahahahahaha....sounds like you get your A** beat all the time by MEN!! Stay off this page you BOTTOM BOY

@victoriaabsalom7362 4 года назад

@Pink Diamond lol he needs to go heal.

@obama8452 4 года назад

@Andre Comer lmfaoooo

@honkhonkler7732 2 года назад

And that's why modern women get pumped and dumped.

@camiller958 4 года назад

I also like that quote, "too glam to give a damn." I like to be so self confident that I don't worry about what he's doing or being jealous about what others have

@starrjohnson1327 4 года назад

Love this!

@lettya3993 4 года назад

I was dating someone who thought I wasn't clingy enough. He tried to make me jealous when he is around other women. He was very two faced and tried to get me to fight with other women to win his affection. This guy even told me about two of his female friends who fighting over him in the church parking lot. He wondered why I didn't call him every day.

@umsiee 4 года назад

Same and then he thought I was sleeping with my neighbor!

@umsiee 4 года назад

He used to call/message me every hour, and I kept my cool...he was manipulative to the max..!!

@NA-vt6mz 4 года назад

I’m sure he broke af

@starrjohnson1327 4 года назад

I just left one of mine because he kept asking me how I would react if I saw him with another woman. And had the nerve to call himself handsome! I left him. Got my gifts and spending money. He got no sex by the way😂

@MaraMarieBeauty 4 года назад

Yes they create the triangle

@sarahk6254 4 года назад

Girls out here with boyfriends subscribed to ten different only fans account and yet their own bf can’t even pay them $12.99 a month

@thatgirlcocoa 3 года назад

That’s a word🙌🏾

@lindah2734 3 года назад

😗😗

@c.s.1227 3 года назад

😂😂😅

@katharinaharke6907 Месяц назад

🎯🎯🎯

@cc_chi123 4 года назад

I got gamed by my last relationship on the jealousy front... he had a lot of options and loved to point it out to me. Unbeknownst to me I actually have more options than him but I had no mental game back then. Then I found Shera... and I left that man, turned my mind around, leveled up... and now he like "hey, remember me?". NOPE... no I don't actually... I'm busy. lol. Thank you queen Shera.

@Tammy_wit_a_y 2 года назад

This is me so how do I get the game mentally

@honkhonkler7732 2 года назад

Are you talking options for marriage or pump and dumps? You probably have more opportunities to be pumped and dumped but likely not for commitment.

@cc_chi123 2 года назад

@@honkhonkler7732 did you knock off work early today to comment on RU-vid videos... or just not go at all?

@ladylady7848 Год назад

@@honkhonkler7732 You are a s*** bomb, go dunk your head in the toilet 🚽

@JESUSISSAVIOR210 4 года назад

i liked it when you kept trolls. Your graceful clap backs teach us how not to be emotional.

@EmpressofChrist 4 года назад

💞

@vanessatx5819 4 года назад

While I get what it is you're trying to say, I don't like the way you phrased it. We're women. Getting emotional is not a bad thing. I hate that this world forces you to feel like you have to hide your emotions. It's fucking stupid. If everyone kept it real about how they feel, then there wouldn't be a need to play so many games with people!

@julijakeit 4 года назад

Ladies, stop being clingy! Even if you think you're ugly, level up and the right man will level up with you or you will meet the right man. Saying this from the experience. Stop nagging the man, start nagging yourself for improvement and the things will start improving!

@lilbabytears 4 года назад

True!

@faa1412 4 года назад

That's my dilemma: thinking I'm too ugly to level up. It's like "ah well, what's the point of 'leveling up' if I'm ugly anyway?" Yeah, that's a hard mental obstacle to get over.

@allentressy3289 4 года назад

@@faa1412 Please trust yourself. You've been wonderfully and fearfully made (Psalm 139:14) that's not not a man saying it but GOD. Much love to you

@travisculpepper2091 Месяц назад

Leveled my current wife up. She started all this badgering controlling blaming. I cut that off, ofcourse she complained about that. It went into this entire world of I'm cheating! Which she her and my step daughter has never went without me still obtaining my responsibility to them to provide. It's just all the extras. You would think she'd have since enough to actually listen to me give her the playbook. Yet she still doesn't comply.

@petparadise6955 4 года назад

A mans love need is uncertainty, a womans love need is certainty

@elliedee8829 4 года назад

Preach!!!

@donnamcintosh2109 4 года назад

Sometimes women are clingy because they think being that way shows care for the man. However, it only shows desperation and insecurity.

@indigoGoddess7 3 года назад

Or they were the mistress and don’t want him replacing her. I knew more than 5 women who were mistresses turned wives 🤣🤣they all look terrible, are broke, neglected by their spouses who they constantly follow, have no self esteem and plummeting health issues.

@anonamous6320 2 года назад

@@indigoGoddess7 Well those are your friends lol

@nicolesmith7611 4 года назад

I love myself so much, my new man is worried every time I go to the gym. The transition took 2 years. Its no longer a chore to look good always, I feel odd if I don't have on makeup or workout. I'm always improving myself and surroundings. Now I'm looking for a new style since losing 60pds on my level up journey.

@beautyamor9797 4 года назад

If you don't call them or call right back they get upset. So true they say you don't have to wear makeup wigs etc. Move on from insecure men Make life a living hell

@vanessatx5819 4 года назад

It's truuuuueeee. but girl MOST of these men are insecure!

@Missthatgirl634 4 года назад

Men pick up on that really quick-clingy/possessiveness is so not cute at all. Besides when a man don't want to be with you there is absolutely nothing you can do to keep him. If he doesn't leave through the front door he will go out the window.

@hunny585 4 года назад

haha funny bt true

@jennysanchez7759 3 месяца назад

🤣🤣🤣

@divinelatina4295 4 года назад

We love a queen with a manipulative cackle laugh

@MarciaRain 4 года назад

I’ve been watching you for a few months now; and even though I have a long longggggg way to go, I’m realizing my daily growth. (My physicality is up to par 100%, but Im working on the mental. We all know beauty means nothing if you’re bat shit crazy) - I like this version of myself W A Y more than the cry baby, victim wearing, insecure, suicidal pick me that I was last year. Sprankle sprankleeee ✨

@MsChmpnprzr 4 года назад

Yes, I've been watching for a little over a year. Keep growing!!

@chevypaige2445 4 года назад

Wow, that’s amazing, I’m happy for you

@proactivemimi6473 4 года назад

@Scarlet Rose 😂😂😂😂

@lezel4swarts 4 года назад

Sprinkle sprinkle indeed

@lezel4swarts 4 года назад

@King of all King’s 👑 you just trolling right

@JayBird227 4 года назад

Some “men” are drawn to clingy, I knew one who literally said he liked the crazy needy clingy type...that there says a lot about him. Also, another one I know gets joy the fact that I get jealous when he’s talks to other women because I cried and that blew my cover but I was coming from a deep heart space, now he’s using it against me...now I switched my game up telling him boy I Got nothing to be jealous about 💅🏻 that made him so damn insecure he couldn’t sleep at night .... 👀 also, a good tip when he talks about other women or try’s to make you jealous give him a taste of his own medicine and mirror that shit back, he won’t have the balls to do it again.

@EmpressofChrist 4 года назад

Facts ! Mirror that shit back

@etiquetteconnoisseur6184 4 года назад

I agree. Give it back! From now on, remember to not show your hurt feelings or jealousy. Just be confident.

@vanessatx5819 4 года назад

If he's drawn to clingy maybe he wants to feel needed

@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou 4 года назад

Every time I’ve been clingy they ran for the hills lol

@JayBird227 4 года назад

Vanessa TX he was a narcissist 🤐

@kathyalex778 2 года назад

Ladies who were missing out on hugs, emotional connection, being told that they're perfectly imperfect, and their mom and dad being physically and enthusiastically there when they were a little girl are the ones who CLING on for dear life to a boyfriend or potential. I know because I was that girl, but I'm in therapy and I've fixed that now. God and myself are the only beings I will ever have 100% there consistently for my whole life, so I don't cling to anyone. People come and go, even family isn't all that nice sometimes.

@pearlasara 4 года назад

This is an amazing video, I never show jealousy ever since way back, men don’t like overly jealous women, they actually cheat more when you are !

@juliennepujol5586 4 года назад

Wow I really needed to hear this of all days. Been struggling with some thoughts today... it literally DISGUSTS me when I have genuine feelings for the guy but notice him sniffing around other women, giving them attention, even on social media. But deep in my heart I knew I hold more power if I keep it to myself and this just confirmed it. Perfect example of why you go for the money not feelings.

@EmpressofChrist 4 года назад

Facts

@rachaelwitchey8268 4 года назад

just found my dude giving girls attention on social media LOL I'm gonna ask him for some shopping

@honkhonkler7732 2 года назад

If he's a top notch man, he has options. Outside of someone deeply religious or with some other overriding factor keeping him in line, he's going to have side chicks if he can. Supply and demand applies here. Relatively few attractive high status men, a lot of hot young women turning 18 every day.

@juliennepujol5586 2 года назад

@@honkhonkler7732 Oh honey, if supply and demand applied here, every girl would have 100+ boyfriends. You are just lucky some old white men forced monogamous thinking on the masses, so every average joe could have the chance to secure a mate. In fact, I think if high status men could at least double up, we could eliminate the worst of these males from the gene pool and that would be awesome! I don't mind sharing to benefit humanity!

@donnapoolejackofalltrades7827 4 года назад

I am bad I get clingy ,need and control . I don't want to be like that .I am use to doing stuff for myself . So now I have to start over again with this leveling up .

@vanessatx5819 4 года назад

Yes Donna !!! I believe in you!!!! ♥️

@themoonbleu627 4 года назад

you got this !

@ninawestlake5005 4 года назад

Men do not appreciate clingyness. Sometimes ignoring them is also great..just need to find balance and stay there. You'll be fine.

@lc-il6wr Месяц назад

You're bad off then ..

@M0J0_ 4 года назад

She Ra I haven’t leveled up as good as you YET! But big sis let me tell you, I look back at myself when I first started leveling up and I have come a looooonnnngggg way! I am so excited ! Thank you thank you for the game.

@derrickhandy1324 4 года назад

That's so phenomenal!!! 👍

@LuxuriousLifestyle4 4 года назад

Yess sis!! Comments like yours motivate me to keep going with my femininity channel!

@derrickhandy1324 4 года назад

@@LuxuriousLifestyle4 I'm going to check out your channel

@LuxuriousLifestyle4 4 года назад

Derrick handy Awww thank you so much! Means a lot ☺️💕

@derrickhandy1324 4 года назад

@@LuxuriousLifestyle4 I've check out your channel and watch some of your videos. You've great value that you share with your viewing audiences. So I like your content and I've subscribe to your channel

@newme7464 4 года назад

You are the sister I never had

@datingdiaries1681 4 года назад

" It is a dead give away something is the matter with you " ...BARZ lol

@umsiee 4 года назад

😂😂

@datingdiaries1681 4 года назад

" I bought you a t shirt from the dollar tree" omg Shera so funnaaay

@greyahmarie0905 4 года назад

You're clingy and possessive because u lack self love and self worth and i'm not judging we've all been there, but at what point do you stop and say where has this gotten me? SELF REFLECT ! Clinging and possession is a man repellent , love yourself enough to not even go there queens its not worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!

@lorreiaria9638 4 года назад

😻😻

@gretchengeorge5302 3 года назад

THIS. The more you put yourself first, the more you attract the kind of treatment you've been wanting all along. Had to learn this the hard way, but I learned.

@greyahmarie0905 3 года назад

@@gretchengeorge5302 happy u learned boo

@earth2nawi73 2 года назад

PERIOD! I want women to all set standards and stick by them and THRIVE period !

@honkhonkler7732 2 года назад

I'm a man. And you're half right, half wrong. Clingy behavior (if not taken too far) from a young low to no body count woman we see as wife material is actually very attractive. It shows loyalty. Clingy behavior from a desperate used up leftover in her mid 30s is indeed repellent. It shows that she thinks he's her last chance to settle down. But he doesn't want to settle down with a woman like that anyway unless he's also really desperate. If the clingy behavior repelled him (as long as it wasn't extreme), then he didn't see a future with you anyway and not being clingy wouldn't have solved that. It's rough but it is what it is. A lot of women seem to like wishcasting their own desires onto men.

@MysticButterfly22 4 года назад

Thanks SheRa for this video...if only I could go back and tell my twenty something year old self these tips and have had better self discipline with my emotions, I would have helped myself get further ahead. No reactions, only thinkin, then straight scheming ;)

@brklyn2922 4 года назад

What do you do if you are not in your 20s? If you are alive then you can level up! We have to move forward and think ahead.🌺

@MysticButterfly22 4 года назад

@@brklyn2922 you're absolutely right any woman has the ability to change her life and mindset. It's nice to be able to reflect back where you came from at one point.😉

@Liveandletlive0101 4 года назад

U look gorgeous. Inspired me to put on some make-up tomorrow. I miss it, though i've been keeping it cute throughout quarantine. I refuse to look busted even if no one sees me. No ma'am!

@breheart7510 3 года назад

I have this problem, I can’t control my emotions and I always end up looking like I’m the one with issues but not anymore! Thanks 😊 this advise better than anyone’s relationship advice.

@MaraMarieBeauty 4 года назад

She’s so pretty she reminds me of myself!! So true it shows insecurity I’ve had men many times do it intentionally. It’s taken years to realize it’s game!

@Mirror_Mirror.2233 4 года назад

SheRa: Put yourself first that's how you stay unattached. Everything is about you. 23:38 Me: Yes, self-love. Got it! SheRa continues: So, keep it about you, but use your brain to make him think it's about him. The more he thinks it's about him, the more it becomes about you... REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY. 24:10 Me: Okay, self-love + diabolical mindset. 😂 😂👌🏾👌🏾

@tere0942 3 года назад

I appreciate your time stamp.

@RosePetals888 4 года назад

Love the colour & length of your nails! I think sex can also make us clingy but objectively that's just our oxytocin talking

@AmberBrooklyn24 4 года назад

I NEEDED to hear this about two hours ago 😩 I sent my bf a long message for no reason after recently making up. I just meant it in a conversational way n I know he’s gonna take it as me arguing and take forever to text back and tell me I’m being extra 🥴 I should have kept it short and sweet. I’m def working on these emotions lol

@lischellejones 4 года назад

This video is full of GEMS

@KA-ub4rc 4 года назад

Love your look today! You look stunning and fancy 🥰

@southerngal8034 4 года назад

She’s so beautiful y’all learn so much from her it’s ridiculous lifesaver

@schnioula 4 года назад

Can you do a video on how women become more and more masculine and men become more and more feminine?

@monabrown101 2 года назад

I need this to be imprinted and ingrained in my HEADDD

@auroramothergoddess 2 года назад

Shera needs a million subscribers!! I always watch your old videos because they are timeless and you drop gems in each one and your so funny. Literally giving the game and putting us on. My life was in shambles and im so glad I found you because im changing my life around!!! You are an investment to my life

@Jennifer-di4nl 4 года назад

U look the prettiest with no wig or color, natural beauty.

@lc-il6wr Месяц назад

She's no natural beauty..

@fairydust2254 4 года назад

U so damn smart ! Less reaction more planning !

@michellemeiburg639 Год назад

I like to make them think they are controlling my emotions and then do whatever I want

@mindfullivingwithestherlak4431 4 года назад

Hello QUEEN. I finally got inspired by you to post my first RU-vid video today. I've been watching and sharing your videos and i noticed that you have been consistent in being helpful to young ladies. Thank you for being the Queen that you are ❤️💗. I'm in Nigeria.

@sunflowerglitter9233 4 года назад

I'm so grateful for you ❤️ Thank you Shera you look stunning btw. Im now starting to connect the dots of why I've over reacted in the past.

@ss-gv3tm 4 года назад

SheRaSeven1 after watching your videos I realized all my past dating mistakes,you are changing lives of women god bless you

@travelfoodielove 4 года назад

I love u you make us remember that we are the prize! My gfs and I love your lives

@dshericemo1144 4 года назад

Come on slim and trim. You look amazing 😉.Keep your eyes on your bag and it’s impossible to be clingy

@user-mn1vn3zo8v 4 года назад

Looking absolutely divine as usual! 🥰

@datingdiaries1681 4 года назад

Nothing like a good ponytail !

@veronicathesinger3102 4 года назад

Shera your real nails are very pretty! You look even the more classy than you already are with them❤️

@lisaharris8552 4 года назад

I can’t stop laughing. This is the truth. 😂😂

@vertberry9310 4 года назад

I am grateful for all the information you give. Thankyou Shera.

@Kat-qf4wb 4 года назад

Damn... this was so helpful! Thank you!!!

@Cattitude369 4 года назад

Adore this look 😍

@tonismith8209 4 года назад

Love that pony tail! Super cute 😍

@MadiMaxxx Год назад

No matter how old the videos, you drop great gems 💎😍💐

@maatbrown466 4 года назад

Beautiful as usual and those earrings are bomb 💣

@Peace-lt8bc 4 года назад

You look great! Wonderful topic 😍

@stephsteph1338 4 года назад

Looking very classy, Ashera!

@derrickhandy1324 4 года назад

Hi Shera, seeing you in that outfit I must say you look stunning absolutely stunning!!!

@alicialopez488 4 года назад

Thank u freeing me ... i really did think there was something wro g because of abuse by my mother telling me negative stuff

@themoonbleu627 4 года назад

side dude for entertainment yes!

@theangel5416 Год назад

Tips to look older: Go for a more classy appearance/ old money appearance, I would use this carefully as it can age you a little too well. Red lips, pearl earrings/ necklaces/pointed toe heels/boots/ Polka dots./ vintage handbags. In terms of makeup one of the best things you can do is arch brows on the thinner side - Brows that have very little arch or go straight across your forehead tend to make you look younger (which is why it is a preference in Asian countries) Also Polish up on your manners - say thank you and excuse me. Perhaps/aswell/ good evening - Practice until it comes off as comfortable saying these things. Make solid eye contact and laugh less. ( younger women laugh more and are more bubbily or can be easily Impressed. ) Stand up straight with your shoulders back.

@frencheleerving 4 года назад

Shera gave us a short video but so much game !!!!!

@BeautyCoop 4 года назад

How the hell i missed this

@debbyluxe 4 года назад

BeautyIsHerName!! Thats what I’m thinking 😭

@BeautyCoop 4 года назад

@@debbyluxe girl I did not see not 1 notification

@xyz-gx9oy 15 дней назад

Your hair is so pretty Shera!

@remshjgh2245 4 года назад

Love that shirt and earrings!!! You are slayinggg in this video!!!

@angelinavitaleco9640 2 года назад

Thank you for being authentic.

@liraanchu1770 4 года назад

Thank you for this video !!!

@persephoneastrology7115 4 года назад

Yes Shera! Leave the space for him to chase 😂🤗

@Candikanelane 4 года назад

Love that top. That color is everything.

@SwayWayBaby 4 года назад

I absolutely love this woman 🤣❤️

@adventurewithAngel 4 года назад

Love your mind Shera the RU-vid original!

@VERYBERRIS 3 года назад

girl i did this clingy bs again and didn't work, i need to listen to your videos more

@Sunshinestarryrose 2 года назад

You have to take into account that a lot of women are lesbians or in a relationship already. So there’s enough single heterosexual men for single hetero women.

@tiahardy3600 4 года назад

Okurr"" loving your Ponytail.. I burning up" in the Wigs.. Lol💞

@elenap2215 4 года назад

I just love you Shera!

@jazzyone1986 3 года назад

I am so glad this is not my battle. In fact I am the polar opposite I can be very unattached. I tend to attract very needy clingy men which I am trying to figure out why.