WHY WON'T THE NARCISSIST TREAT YOU BETTER? 

Yes, especially if they haven’t got their way with someone else, and they are looking for a scapegoat to take out their anger on.

They actually hate themselves. They need to “shame dump” so they don’t have to carry that around

True and I now basically ignore them. I’m too busy for them.

Wishing you happiness and freedom in your life post Narc 💪💖

Good luck stay strong

Yes, it's like you met my sibling and heard her cruel accusations and mocking behind closed doors.

Write it on the white board- I'm curious how she will take that. You deserve better

That kind of silent treatment is insidious torture. A stranger passing you on the street saying "Hello!," can bring you more joy.Sounds like cruelty. Document it and get a divorce.

Hope you got out and never look back!

Ok i think you don’t listen to behinds explanation!! It’s real nonsense you wrote, that’s my opinion!! Listen again!!! 😅

Right. But that is not their goal. They do not think in the long term, but if they did, they have not one shred of interest in maintaining a relationship that isn’t either perpetually perfectly euphoric (which is impossible) OR serving them in a way that harms the other (such as providing them with a scapegoat and/or punching bag). Treating people properly does not result in what they want, so they have no reason to do it.

@@LookingBehindtheMirror thanks I’m still getting over the gaslighting from this woman! Just astounding just how crazy making they are. I still project normal reactions onto her that a normal emotionally healthy and sentimental person would have. She was trying to angle at me to have a baby with her within 10 months of silent treatments and the odd tantrum the last one was very bad and I had to walk away. It just puzzles me that if I was soo much in the frame to be a father then why discard me soo brutally and not reconcile only stonewall. I suppose it’s so I give in but if she’d showed me some maturity and ability to empathise with my concerns I might have complied. That is what she said to me though “why isn’t it like things were in the beginning”. She blamed me for her feeling less euphoric and i tried to reason with her that over time you gain greater understanding and acceptance of someone and it isn’t quite the same rush but she couldn’t accept that. It was weird hearing this from a 35 year old woman you’d think she’d have more emotional understanding but that’s probably me projecting those qualities that she clearly doesn’t have.

​@@ianarnit's really terrible that they are allowed to reproduce, nothing can stop them. The poor children are destroyed by these retards. I speak from experience. They want to feel important, to avoid work, to have someone to rule over. No love. Just anger and neglect. The neglect is a relief compared with the anger.

He read you and saw your intentions; nsrcs don't extend any energy

OMG, yes. They fabricate crap.

Why would you expect more from an evil spirit that lives inside of the narcissist?

My ex narc broke up with me a day before my fathers funeral and had zero remorse.

@@phil692 I was naive that she being an RN would have more understanding about how serious my condition was , with blood in urine , and blood tests showing significant abnormalities , it was not like I was just having emotional trauma from her , it was overt physical complications that she saw from her eyes , but she left me alone in that condition . Even a naive person like me realized after how she treated me when I needed compassion , and after a few texts from her , that were again more about how stressed she was , I did not respond to her last text and that seems like what she wanted , so she can soothe herself that it was me who dumped her rather than she having to feel any remote guilt for leaving me alone at the worst possible time . Travelking/flying alone to see specialists from coast to coast in extreme pain , not even knowing if I will be able to make it to the appointment due to delayed flights and missed connections kept me in a constant state of extreme vulnerability , is what opened my naive eyes. Later on I realized that my American Airlines account had her number for flight alerts , that means she knew that I was traveling in that painful state , but even that did not make her want to check on me if I needed help to travel . She knew that if my symptoms get worse I would have to see someone out of state !

@@phil692 these people are pure evil

They won't be there if your sick!

Thank you!! It is pretty exciting. Thanks for watching!

Yes.

I did!! Thanks. Maybe I should have said something in my video. Haha. It is pretty exciting. Thanks for watching!

I love this for y’all ❤️

You can never really predict what will or what will not prompt them to physically leave. They might never leave or they might leave tomorrow. It really has nothing to do with you.

That’s what I do and they get mad at first but they are essentially weak people. If they say “I’m never talking to you again!!!” And do it- you hit paydirt!

That really depends on exactly what you mean. If you spend every minute ignoring her and working on music, that’s one thing. But even then, if you’re doing that, it says a lot about how you feel about the relationship, which probably has some deep roots to look at. If you just like music and she is trying to take away something you love, will it matter if it makes her happy if it’s going to make you miserable? And it won’t probably won’t solve anything anyway.