Why your partner makes you feel undervalued

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Feeling like you just can’t win in the world of dating? Maybe it’s NOT you. Maybe it’s your choice of partner. Here’s how to know if you’re looking at your worth through the distorted mirror of the wrong partner.
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@alanfunt4013 6 лет назад

Being in a relationship is like speaking a language. Some people just don't know how to speak that language. It's not your job to teach them, if they want to know they'll find a way to teach themselves.

@megandharmalingum8959 3 года назад

Well said👍🏻

@TheRetroWoman80 2 года назад

Great way of looking at it.

@spyroluver0951 2 года назад

I digress, you need to find the best way to communicate your needs to your partner.

@candicelee9963 6 лет назад

I think if we run into people who make us undervalued, I take the responsibility that I exposed myself to the wrong pond, NOT I take the responsibility of I am not good enough for them to value me. Really, that is the answer. Thank you, Susan.

@SusanWinter 6 лет назад

Candice Lee LOVE you statement. Absolutely. Thanks Candice.

@annieportier3584 5 лет назад

Oh my gosh so WELL SAID!! Light bulb just went on! Thank-you so much you've helped me tremendously!

@jishnikaghosh989 Год назад

@@SusanWinter what about my bf breaking up with me cause he said he felt inferior to me because I'm so stable and healed unlike him and he didn't even once tell me that I was in someway making him feel inferior and he kept it all in until one day he couldn't and broke up with me without even telling me properly until I asked him ? What about when someone you love leaves you for something you didn't even mean ?! When I literally was inspired by him to work harder but he still felt inferior to me?!

@deborahtchester686 6 лет назад

Yes, my mom always says "you're looking for the living amongst the dead". Can't look for good men where are the players are.

@louisw4390 4 года назад

Problem is that as "dead" people age, they become brilliant at impersonating the "living."

@ellesartelcontar153 2 года назад

Choose people who lift you up, and not bring you down. Dont go the wild road just because you like something about the person. There are better partners that are much more suitable to your needs and your profile. Dont satisfy for little! Be out for yourself

@franksaccomanno7337 5 лет назад

So very true Susan! When dating "strangers", we must remember there are many emotionally unstable people out there. We do not know what experiences they have had, or not have had in all types of relationships from their cradle to their present. Many people nowadays are Narcissistic as well as having BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder), which can wreak devastating havoc on a poor innocent non suspecting person who is simply looking for a compatible partner to share a wonderful life together.

@ohwow6986 2 года назад

Very true

@antoineshredz69 10 месяцев назад

Yup and that has happened to me, now my mind is fucked up, I spend everyday trying to get her to care about me, Because I drain myself in every way to make sure herr and my baby are alright

@sarahs7751 2 года назад

I married an ex. So for you all trying to get your ex back... LET ThEM GO!!! Don't get with someone who is willing to leave you. Find someone who loves you adores you and values you. Or you get back with your ex...he doesn't value you and wants to live without you. Its better to be alone than be with someone and be unloved.

@couchtater83 5 лет назад

The sad irony of the advent of social media is that people lost the social skills to maintain real life relationships. My ex was terrible but trying to date in this new environment is just as bad. Anyone else as frustrated as me?

@orgami100 5 лет назад

When We Were Young it's like a book with blank pages.. Unfortunately it gets complicated as we're getting older. .. lots of emotional baggage she's carrying. .

@CorporateQueen 5 лет назад

Why your partner makes you feel undervalued? BECAUSE THEY'RE UNDERVALUING YOU.

@EOlaCasas 6 лет назад

This needs to be at the forefront of dating advice rather than these wack dudes trying to convince women to jump through hoops to attract a man.

@monp.4903 6 лет назад

Plenty of fish out there, but need to learn where to fish. Great advice!!

@Megan6772 6 лет назад

That blue is your color honey!! You are so classy, I wish you were my aunt! Love this video, I feel like we need to realize it applies to ALL relationships, friendships, family, coworkers, etc

@SusanWinter 6 лет назад

Thanks Megan. I appreciate your note-and the comment about the color blue!

@anan-pb2zr 7 лет назад

susan there are so many things to tell you but i ll keep it short : i love every piece of advice that you re giving. you re one of a kind

@SusanWinter 7 лет назад

THANK YOU ANNA!!

@helenr6172 6 лет назад

This is amazing advice. In the past I have been in a long term (6 year relationship). The last person I dated had two girlfriends before me (he was 41) only dating them for 6 and 8 months. I did think this was strange due to his age but ignored my inner voice wondering why. I then realised that he was emotionally unavailable and was not able to be empathetic towards me. Yes, I was unknowingly fishing in the wrong pond and he is not in my caliber to have a long term relationship.

@Toody49 Год назад

Don’t feel bad. When I was younger, I got involved with an older man because I thought, being out of the loop for a while, due to health problems, it would be nice to have a first relationship with somebody who was supposedly well versed in relationships. Boy was I wrong. He was not empathetic, a bit, narcissistic, immature, and had very old fashion views that I don’t think came from religious views, or morality, but were due to a sense of not having anything and wanting something. For instance, he didn’t have a house. I have a house. I thought I was doing the right thing by fishing in the church pond. I was wrong. Years later, he finally realized, and admitted to me that he was the way he was because he didn’t know any better. He didn’t understand what it was like to be in a relationship because his parents didn’t have a good one. He followed the Bible, but to a T, Not realizing there’s a bit more flexibility to relationships, and that those norms had a cultural slant to them. He was even too old fashion for other Christians! I was even warned by one Christian to stay away from him. He and I are friends to this day, but I sure dodged a bullet.

@Vanillajdicr 8 лет назад

Damn Susan, you make me feel better every time. Good clarity!

@SusanWinter 8 лет назад

OH that's so good to hear! That's what I'm hoping for. Thanks for your kind note.

@CryptoProphet 5 лет назад

Wow, this is so right on. I just came to this realization myself. It's unbelievable to me that so many people just don't know how to love. I consider myself lucky.

@starzintheskyz4477 3 года назад

Wooow that really helped me. It's made me realize (while sitting here crying) that the guy I'm dating falls exactly into this category. He has no idea how to do a relationship. His longest was 4 yrs...mine was 7. He doesn't know how open his heart and be on that same level of what a real relationship really is. I think most guys never grow out of that Peter pan/emotionally immature stage. I'm about to just stay single forever because this is a huge problem with the male gender, not being taught in early yrs what a relationship requires and consists of. I can only hope one day I'll come across a better pond.

@maryamkim1281 6 лет назад

You are like a font of loving wisdom.

@SusanWinter 6 лет назад

Thank you for your kind words.

@kerryfoster1 6 лет назад

Yes I meet three types. People in a relationship. People who have had long term relationships and are single. People who are single and never had long term relationships. The third type I avoid like the plague! Keep up the good work Susan

@scentofmine7202 4 года назад

😒Why?26 never had a girlfriend because they always had other options and i was not a priority❄ did i do something wrong and must be avoided? Last girl i fell in love faked everything and then said ,,i was just being nice to you"😒 am i a plague?

@patriciagallegos3572 6 лет назад

I just found you after watching men giving advice about dating a man or keeping him interested. Your right, they make me feel like its my fault. Your cleat, sensible perspective is spot on! I love your thinking. My problem is my husband.

@SusanWinter 6 лет назад

Patricia Gallegos Thanks for your gracious note. I feel the same way - so many people out there are telling us we’re wrong, but never when we are right. Not just in relationships but in all areas of life. I wish you well with your partner.

@patriciagallegos3572 6 лет назад

Susan Winter we seperated (again) for about 6 weeks. He let's his job influence his attitude, time and priorities over everything else in his life. Granted he works in the public school system at a title one school. Basically he's miserable between duty and stress and bringing me the crumbs of what's leftover after a 12-14 hour day. I have dealt with this for over 3 years (mandatory overtime) and can't deal with the crap attitude anymore. He labels me as "not understanding" or "a nag" if I ask him to pitch in around the house. Your videos have given me a new vision and let me know I'm not crazy. Slow fade is exactly right. Thank you so much. I'm telling my friends about you as well

@patriciagallegos3572 6 лет назад

Oh my gosh was I wrong. There is a fable that goes: there was a man walking along the road one day and he saw a poor snake laying on the road, a very hot day. He felt sorry for the snake and he picked it up took it home and nursed it back to health. he decided they would go out for a walk one day and the snake turned around and bit him. He said why did you bite me and the snake replied: you knew I was a snake

@SusanWinter 6 лет назад

True. That's about what I say in the video about dating a player. Don't be surprised when the tiger acts like a tiger. Thanks for your story.

@patriciagallegos3572 6 лет назад

The now soon to be ex came to apartment only too steal my identity (all paper documents), hack my phone( sister has 30+ years at AT&T) his phone nothing is really mine, stole private photos and shared across like 50 apps, left them open, stole videos, etc. He was an embezzler when we seperated 2000-2005.

@shieldsdigi 7 лет назад

So true! And so easy to overlook! Thanks for the insightful, caring advice Susan. These videos have been incredibly helpful to ease the pain of my current horrible breakup. Please keep up the good work...just like bad people, there's so much bad advice out here as well.

@SusanWinter 7 лет назад

I really love what you've written, shieldsdigi. Thank you. Take a look at these 2 videos as well.They'll put your value and worth in a proper light! ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-BelMBG65zmM.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zxwffqCHiZw.html

@kevphillips02 5 лет назад

I so agree, people don’t know or own their own stuff, they don’t know what they want , they are not ready , they can’t communicate , they can’t write a profile . There are so many reasons why these people should come of dating sites and work on themselves first .

@welshlady212000 4 года назад

I wish I could sit here and like this 1000 times.

@NarnianLady 5 лет назад

I would disagree with the notion that someone who never has been in a relationship doesn't know how to be in one. Everyone needs to begin somewhere, and learning together could be a wonderful experience and lifelong journey. Rather, it is lack of compassion and lack of backbone - no manners and no principles about how to treat others. The reason I have never been married is not inability to commit, but rather the lack of a willing man! I would not mind someone who does not have a 'dating history', but someone's long history in that area would make me wary.. and I certainly would hope that he would accept the fact that I am not a divorced single mother who's had multiple sex partners, and not see it as some fault on my part.

@winkf1ma 6 лет назад

You should have like 1+ million views and subscribers. Your amazing.

@Claus1234 4 года назад

"They aren´t truely off your caliber" LOVE THIS S U S A N... :)

@tiffanyp5261 2 года назад

The most sensible I’ve heard out of all the relationship coaches I’ve watched.

@chrismais 6 лет назад

This is inspiring and radiant. Your voice and reasoned analysis is like a soft massage as you reach down onto the table with practiced delicate fingers trained to caress and draw on the intellect and desires with the souls and consciousness of your listeners clearing away the pain of confusion and lingering toxic residue and the callous embedded in the raw nerve endings. Leaving us all relaxed, aware, imbued with a frequency of self empowerment that moves us forward on our paths. Thank you for your kindness and benevolent passion for others.

@SusanWinter 6 лет назад

Wow! Thank you Christopher. What an incredible comment. I really appreciate your message.

@CorporateQueen 5 лет назад

Perfection.

@inira7418 5 лет назад

Great point of view, finally someone with new perspectives about dating. Theres a whole generation guilting themselves about relashionship failures. Theres an unbalance thing going on, I think it´s related to men loose their main paper of sustain family, so the only way they get to get their ego validated is from getting as many woman as possible. Whats goin on its crazy...

@morebacon1780 4 года назад

THANK YOU! You deserve a big hug for this.

@shelleysanders9666 3 года назад

So true about people disappearing/going hot & cold etc. these days. Esp. found with on-line dating.. ‘Fishing in the wrong pond’ may indeed be true, but if never meeting aged 50plus single men through interests,work or friends, on-line dating is all one’s left with..

@fujimotochiaki2487 2 года назад

Don't give up! Sometimes, it's not even you. The other person doesn't have the skills (or) the maturity to be in a relationship. And in so doing, they waste people's time. It's unfortunate, but keep on searching. And honestly, I will also add that it's even better to re-engage in building yourself. You're all you've got at the end of the day.

@octavianpiano694 3 года назад

Susan, watching this video made me realise I am the messed up one. Ive been through a depression and seems like I couldnt get totally over it and this reflects onto my woman. She is a big reason I am now more confident and have higher self esteem and really, she is so awesome. But we got to a point where she doesnt know how to go further with this and Ive already decided its not her job anymore to make me feel better. I want to do what it takes to make myself feel better and by that to make her feel better too and protected and loved by me. My question is: what should I start with?

@mikec3391 2 года назад

Well put . I’m experiencing that as we speak , or I should say as you spoke

@kathrynd4912 3 года назад

Not what I expected but Exactly what I Needed. Watched a few times. Amazing how simple and freeing the truth can be. Thank you Susan

@helenr6172 6 лет назад

Thank you. I though it was me when I attracted an emotionally available man who had two short (6 and 10 months) relationships before me at 41 years old. I on the other hand had a 6 year relationship in my 20s. He certainly didnt know how to be there for his partner.

@CorporateQueen 5 лет назад

I fell for an avoidant who had one disastrous marriage and then nothing beyond 6 months.

@margaritatorres8010 5 лет назад

Where can you find another pond? I’ve tried 3 different online sites and all I’m meeting are emotionally unavailable men ....they disappear/ghost me....I totally get that it’s them in terms of not wanting to respect my boundaries...I’m always clear and specific but they say they agree and then poof they ghost. Thank goodness I have faith...

@charlenemaeder8027 4 года назад

I agree. Online can be tough. I try to get guys on the phone after just a couple messages. By talking, I pick up a lot about them and it saves a lot of time.

@margaritatorres8010 4 года назад

@@charlenemaeder8027 I agree Charlene...I follow the 2 / 2 /2 rule which helps. That is a minimum of two messages onsite, then a minimum of two text messages on our cell phones, and finally a minimum of two phone conversations to ensure meeting will not be uncomfortable for anyone. this has worked like a charm. Unfortunately, people (as both sexes are guilty) misrepresent themselves OR do not have self awareness and misrepresent themselves to you (tell you what they believe you want to hear) so they can meet you and in their minds change your boundaries because "aren't they just the cuteness". That was a joke.....I feel because I stick to my boundaries, am very clear about them they ghost me because they realize they cannot "play with this one". I'm okay with this as of course it saves you heartache in the future...just tough when it happens so so much. Good luck to you as eventually we will meet a like minded person ! Stay true to who you are...that's my motto ~

@charlenemaeder8027 4 года назад

Margarita Torres Yes, good luck to you, too!

@ValorTheFirstOne 8 лет назад

nice words , in a relationship , a privacy is required , if you take other people they will always have an opinion , but they can never understand your situation coz we always think that we are right, and give the blame on the partner, for a healthy relationship learn to take the blame rather than giving blame on the partner.

@SusanWinter 8 лет назад

So true, and thanks for bringing up this point. I appreciate your watching these videos, Valor!

@Blondehairedwarrior 4 года назад

I need to find that pond 🤷🏼‍♀️

@neargrog685 7 лет назад

it sounds like you're main point is that unless the person you are dating has had experience of long term relationships you should dump them and go find someone who has. When I met my partner we both had limited experience of long term relationships and in the beginning we had many arguments. But we grew from each argument and now we are a solid couple. Isnt it better to communicate and grow, rather than cut loose and find someone who has better experience of long term relationships?

@SusanWinter 7 лет назад

The way you did it is the way it SHOULD be done. A winning relationship is created by 2 factors: both people WANT to be together and both people WORK at making the relationship better. You misinterpreted my wording as to long term experience. It's a very helpful asset, but only because the individual has a track record of knowing how to make a commitment.

@z.deutch1334 6 лет назад

I agree with Susan, it's fine if both of you are emotionally immature and are willing to grow together. But it's chaos when one partner is the mature one, always offering an olive branch to try to pacify their partner-child, while that partner-child acts out doing destructive things to the relationship. Mature minded people have a limit on their tolerance. Some people just don't have enough self awareness or even the desire to change, so in these instances, Susan is suggesting the mature minded partners find someone more stable and similar to them.

@NarnianLady 5 лет назад

@Angel Angel I would rather be concerned about someone who has been divorced multiple times. Even if they have learned of their past mistakes. I would rather share my life with someoe who has not fooled around and become 'an expert' but rather wants to learn together with me. I am sure many men look at me thinking I am not worthy of love since I have never been married / never had any children, but those were not my choices. Yes, I could have gotten into a relatinship with someone I knew from the start wouldn't suit me, and then I might be divorced and considered a 'mature' person. No thanks...

@ivysabeau 6 лет назад

She’s right

@eion-stephenson 10 месяцев назад

We all think that as an educated society, we all think with the same logic and emotions. We also think that common sense modeling is the same. These assumptions are incorrect. There are four main channels of education: family and friends, fiction and nonfiction products such as news and movies, society interactions, and education.. As we observe these 'educators', .we are shaped in how we think. However, for each of us, the order of exposure to the lesson building blocks is different, and this changes the person's mindset. It creates a path of reasoning that can be very difficult to understand.

@eion-stephenson 10 месяцев назад

We meet someone, and it will depend on circumstances as to if we connect. But in that connection, we are deciding if we want more or less time with them. This will come down to our needs.

@blueskies773 Год назад

I am so tired of this. This is my experience in dating relationships, housemates, friendships and with some coworkers. I’m sick of it. I’ll be following this to a T.

@andratartan1849 6 лет назад

Wonderful. You are the best Susan

@SusanWinter 6 лет назад

Thank you

@daizydgmailcom 4 года назад

Does this apply to being married as well? What do we married people do when our spouses have destroyed our love, trust, and self worth? How do we endure when divorce isn’t an option?

@sukanyalal 8 лет назад

I loved it and its true.. We beat ourselves all the tome and its not always about us

@SusanWinter 8 лет назад

Hi Sukanya!! How are you? So happy you had a chance to watch this video. Yes, it's not always about us! How wonderful is that to know? Thanks for your note. Wishing you well!!!

@Willow-iw4fp 6 лет назад

Thank you

@shannonberp 4 года назад

"You need to start fishing in a better pond" HAHAHAHA subscribed

@RoundSquareX 5 лет назад

Thank you Susan, you are amazing. Yes, I read one analysis somewhere on Google....he said the guys that appear to get all the girls just don't spend any time chasing, they read girls interest really well so they know immediately who not to spend any time with. ...we are good people, we just have to undo childhood trauma of thinking a neglecting person is the familiar one, and love returned shouldn't feel alien.......date not reciprocating interest, wish them well

@theundone777 4 года назад

That's weird. My friends say "girl, you're too good to put up with that. Move on". I have very supportive, confident women friends.

@lisairions8835 8 лет назад

Susan I really enjoy your Clips they're very informative and helpful and I have shared them with a few friends thank you

@SusanWinter 8 лет назад

Happy to read this, Lisa. Thank you.

@heavenawaits8010 5 лет назад

Holy cow!! I never knew there were soooo many people out there who are both insecure AND have no clue how to treat a partner in a relationship. Insane😲😲😲

@vtbhoward Год назад

I am pleased with this video overall..... It does seem that there is too much of a broad stroke for me. Almost as if anybody can take and apply this to their situation, whether or not they have healthy or toxic dating habits. But that is nothing anybody can control anyway..... Thank you.

@ori.1986 3 года назад

I love this advice, "you are just fishing in a wrong pot".

@vegansintonada4436 6 лет назад

Hi Susan! Im kinda confuse why does my bf turns cold after sex? His been like this all the time. We are in a long distance relationship and we rarely see each other. I feel awful when he is cold to me the following day after our night together. I dont understand if this is normal or not. I do feel sad though.

@TakiaVevo313 6 лет назад

Susan keep up the good work. Never stop 💜

@SusanWinter 6 лет назад

thank you Queen Kyah.

@EmmaRoseSmith 4 года назад

Oh I needed this! 😭❤️

@rowenagraber8380 3 года назад

Thank you so much for this video. I really needed to hear this right now. 🙏🏽

@suzannedixon5438 5 лет назад

Thank you for this! So true.

@fredericmoresmau4303 4 года назад

I'm hurt A lot

@Amanda-kr3ss 6 лет назад

Hi. Your good. Talking sense. I date girls and this is so true. If they messed up they will stay like that and I agree a history of a committed long relationship says a lot. Thanks darling

@chocolateicecream6995 10 месяцев назад

insane cus the very first real question I asked this person, was "do you know what a healthy relationships looks like?" and he answered no

@donnieluc6830 5 лет назад

Reminds me of the triggers installed by my mother! As a child if I told her a big kid at school had hit me, she'd say to me: "Well, what did you do to him to make him hit you?" I can laugh now, but dang!

@JESUSLIVES89 Год назад

I Love You! God Bless! 🙏 Of course I wasn't Crazy, now I get it all...and I'm this short Video you resumed everything I needed to hear 🌻 Thank you!

@sweetlilgrill1 6 лет назад

Thank you Susan❤

@Victoria-ix4vr 5 лет назад

He used to be my BF, and he treated me like gold. But now, he may be going back with this younger women 44 to his 73....I am around his age but this female is a lot closer in his neighborhood...and they are always together...and he is into her and doesn't want me to come down or anything...I am obsessed and can't get out we only talk on the phone

@panzerd5248 6 лет назад

Exactly. Thank You Susan.

@Elizabeth-mq6zc 5 лет назад

Susan, You are the best!

@lisatsybina 3 года назад

He asks me where is my boyfriend all the time or make jokes of it. Isn’t that strange?

@ratiphoenix3479 5 лет назад

This is so true!! Susan you are the best.

@eugenewalls9643 4 года назад

So glad I subscribe to your show

@SusanWinter 4 года назад

Welcome to our virtual family, Eugene! Join us on my weekly lives, where we chat different topics.

@MaaritAuraOfficial 5 лет назад

You have a great attitude! Thank you!

@kamhair101 3 года назад

Needed this 💯

@TreyDieterich 3 года назад

What if you learn not to take it personally that they're messed up and love them despite it?

@toyatoro4682 5 лет назад

Thank Susan! You're so good, thank you for building up my self esteem, that makes sense, it's the wrong pond I've been using. I'm tired of kissing frogs!

@benedictaalfonso5802 4 года назад

His and old school he just got life

@panzerd5248 6 лет назад

Preach Sister.

@KeithRobTV 4 года назад

What if you have a niche personality and don’t know where to look?

@casperinsight3524 4 года назад

Time to Expand my horizons 👌❤😎

@annaburns2865 2 года назад

So basically they can do whatever they want to us and when you tell you friends, they tell you that it’s your fault. Yeah, I’m starting to be convinced that are no real friends or family yet. And if that’s the case, then is this world even worth living in?

@saramurphy7272 4 года назад

Thank you Susan

@patrycjahall8157 Год назад

Thank you ❤️

@MiaCarter7 3 года назад

But how do you proove that you value them? If you are trying and trying and they still don't feel it, what do you do?

@fujimotochiaki2487 2 года назад

At some point, you sit back and relax. Search for newer opportunities and build yourself up as an individual. Learn to rediscover yourself, and you will get your glow and mojo back. If they don't value you, their loss. If they don't appreciate you for building them up, they are not worth your time. You deserve better.💞

@vickyvictoria7115 4 года назад

Mine is 45 years old, hasn't had a relationship for 10 years (only casual sex), and this is painful now that im 6 months into it, he wont put in any effort and basically has treated me like a free prostitute, we have amazibg chemistry but he just wont even try to do anything that resembles a relationship

@karatekid6977 5 лет назад

Right Again! GOOD JOB!

@Eudaimonia88 5 лет назад

Valuable advice. Classy!

@DarknessIsThePath 5 лет назад

What if you were together with someone that had way more experience than me about how to be in a commited relationship yet was naive in handling life defining moments and basically thought his situation would "solve itself" eventually? That gave me anxiety because as time went by I started losing my trust in him...I'm not innocent myself but my reasons paled compared to his and he ended things because he could not handle the situation he created himself in the first place

@StephanieTorba 6 лет назад

I love this woman!

@lisakesting 7 лет назад

hi Susan, thank you for your great videos. Do you have any suggestion for someone that never had a long relationship how to start one? Greet you from Germany:)

@SusanWinter 7 лет назад

Hi LK. Start by knowing what you want. Be clear about that in your online profile or in your first date meetings. Look for someone who also wants a long term relationship, . Wishing you well!

@tarashan5465 5 лет назад

Can you please make a video about “how to let a toxic partner go”? Thanks

@Goldie_na Год назад

I don’t want another pond , I want this pond 😭😂 Is it possible to just talk about it and try to fix it ? Will that even work ?

@scarlettgentile2187 4 года назад

Wow 😳 eye opener!

@bpl6445 3 года назад

This is great ❤

@xoarmybabe24 7 месяцев назад

Help us ~ What/Where are the Better Ponds?

@samsmith3982 6 лет назад

You are great wow. I love your information.

@breannalopez819 4 года назад

Why do people stay with you when they don’t like certain qualities and threaten to leave? Then change their mind?

@alwaysattractinggreatthings 5 лет назад

Thank you Susan . Wow well said . That’s very true . A light bulb 💡 just went on in my head . Lol 😄 I was dating someone younger than me and I don’t think 🤔 he’s had a lot of experience in dating . Now that makes sense. I was asking for what he hadn’t even experience or for what I wanted in a relationship 😉 wow amazing thank you 🙏🏻☺️😘❤️💕

@magau3698 Год назад

It’s safer to be alone

@mariac2472 6 лет назад

Excellent!

@adambutts2608 6 лет назад

10 years since I last dated

@nelsoncarvajal1666 4 года назад

Thank you so much Susan, right on the money, can you talk about, people that were married before and now are trying to date, and everything we do if is similar to what they had then we are wrong, for example I drink occasionally, so that is a major issue, because previous partner was a drunk.. Y hen what do you do, when you are nothing like this...?