WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT LAST! (IT'S YOU) 

I think that the two main reasons why relationships don’t last is because we often ignore red flags - which is discernment needed to assess whether or not a person is worth our time & energy. We also fail to be transparent with our feelings when we’re not happy in the relationship - which will save us a lot of disappointment & confusion if only we would confront the problem by being open and honest.

*Relationships are always going to have ups and downs. When you truly love someone you hang on for the ride.*

I just don’t understand how every time I’m going through something big sister Breeny comes in and shakes me to reality I didn’t even see this and I know it’s going to be amazing. Love you sis

“A smart woman know how to love but a wise woman know WHO to love-BL♥️♥️♥️

I’m realizing I’m happier single. I’m just over the energy and effort that a relationship takes, and it’s very disappointing that today most people don’t value things like loyalty, respect, consistency. I better keep the love of my friends and family. Love your videos!

Yeah I totally agree that theres no bond or real relationships nowadays. People only want other people who agree with them and give them passes for the bad choices and behaviors they indulge in. No one wants to get deep AND do the work.

"Just because someone disagrees with you does not have to be an argument"... WHEW CHILE I have never been dragged this much in my life but this is so true!

THANK YOU LOVES FOR WATCHING! FEELS SO GOOD TO BE BACK, HOPEFULLY I'LL START PUTTING OUT 2 VIDEOS A WEEK FROM NOW ON. PLEASE REMEMBER TO LIKE, COMMENT AND SHARE

"I'm sorry you feel...." NOTHING MAKES MY BLOOD BOIL MORE. Ugh

The main reason why relationships fail is because people give up and they don't fight for each other. They give up once God starts putting people through the storm! FACTS

First people we need to build a relationship with God that God will send the person . However we do the opposite we go our ways and then want the person to change and become holy.

The editing, wow- you really stepped in looking like a SNACK snack 😍

I think that affirmations like "you don't need anyone to make you happy", or "you are enough" have been misunderstood or they've been taken to the extreme and maybe we've heard it so many times that we truly believe them.. but the truth is that we need people and people makes us happy and happier. Thanks Breeny!

You have to preserve your heart, and accountability nowadays is a rare action

Breeny you’ve absolutely done it again! Dropping gem after gem! Here’s the awesome summary I got from this video with a few of my personal interpretations sprinkled in :) I’m sure you’ll find it helpful: APOLOGIZING: - are you really sorry if you continue to do what you said you’re sorry for? - apologizing is taking accountability for your wrongs/actions and owning up to it. - avoid: “I’m sorry that you feel that way” - do not apologize for their feelings, apologize for what you did (accept responsibility for what you did that caused that person to feel that way). COMMUNICATION: - you are not always right (and even if you are, there are ways to express that w/o belittling the other person). - a disagreement should not equate to an automatic argument (learn to effectively communicate). - focus on the main issue at hand; - avoid assassinating the other person’s character (aka bringing back old/past sh*t that person did) - accept/embrace one another’s differences - avoid judging! if they knew better, they’d do better! educate don’t criticize - you are an imbecile :) you are not better than another just b/c you know something and they don’t (“I know that I know nothing” - Socrates) - learn to exercise patience, compassion, and grace. - you are not perfect :) but that’s the magic of it all. learn from one another. - avoid swapping and switching friends like Breeny swaps and switches her hairstyles :) INTIMACY: - forming deep connected bonds; seeing eye to eye; soul to soul. - build bonds -> build trust -> via actual conversations (that involve spoken words) - being antisocial is not an excuse (antisocial does not equate to being an introvert) - call your friends! connect with them and have a heart felt conversation (grow those relationships) - stop being disrespectful! avoid always making it about me, me, me! - heated conversation? that’s fine because you’re not arguing or trying to come for them (avoid irrelevancies) - avoid “you always,” “you never” when trying to communicate with another - if you have an issue, handle it then and now (do not store it and allow it to simmer!) - don’t be a coward!! do not hold grudges! stop laying those bricks and building those walls! - put your big girl/boy panties on and tackle/confront those issues head-on (communicate!) REMEMBER: • when iron sharpens iron, sparks are going to fly (b/c two strong personalities will clash, but will make one another better) • do not shy away from commitment • relationships/friendships are hard work (but that’s what makes them worthwhile) • realize and embrace your differences! opposites attract; different people will enable your growth • be humble! let go of your pride! • love is unconditional and sacrificial (it keeps no record of wrongs) • even if you have ONE good friend, you are blessed! • human beings are social by nature; no man is an island • apologize if you need to; go extend that olive branch! :) Thank you for reading!

Being antisocial can go hand in hand with social anxiety, but because most people are so addicted to their phones they claim to be antisocial when in reality we dont know how to communicate irl. Thank you sooooo much for this video. we need to notice these trends of depression stemming from social media.

Just left “I hate being single” to watch this one. I stumbled across your channel and I’m glad I did. I appreciate your words🙌🏼

One prob we women, we want to change men and raise them....you can't raise a man I my a boy...stop saying "He has potential"....start seeing him for who is a "boy" not ready for a women.

"YOU CAN'T HAVE PRIDE IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE." OMG I FELT THAT. YOU ARE REALLY AMAZING AND ALWAYS ON POINT. I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS! ❤️ ANOTHER VALUABLE AND LIFE CHANGING CONTENT HERE ON YT.

You posted this right when I needed it. It’s so hard having little to no friends who barely seem to care AND being totally single. I feel alone all the time and I’ve been trying to figure out what’s wrong.

This is what our generation needs👏🏾👏🏾

Your the realest here on RU-vid thanks for these videos you’ve helped a lot ✨

A best apologies is “CHANGE OF BEHAVIOUR” 💯 % TRUE! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience. From now on I will let it go even if I’m right to save the relationship and friendship.

I believe that you must forgive so you set yourself free and then keep away from that person so they don't hurt or abuse your trust again.. Love them from a distance xx

ENERGY LEVELS ON FLEEK! loved this video so much. Your content is bigger than we think

Oh my gosh I love the intro breeny!! 😍😭 You look like you caught the sun. Your skin is glowing. ❤️

This is one of the realist vids that i have seen. I am currently going through depression and your videos have really helped me

Ouch, this was painfully true. A real self inventory. Love this fresh perspective. Thank you Breeny!!!

That’s how I was with my cousin, I over valued her n it wasn’t until my graduation this year that I realize that she has always under valued me and I said yeah we are DONE n we don’t talk now but I feel no guilt bcuz she has NEVER apologize for making me the way she did n does and takes no accountability for it so I’m good off her n until she acknowledged that we will never b anything then what we are n u just made me feel better about my decision, thank you Breeny

The intro is giving me life 💫😩

30 minutes of breeny?!?!? LET'S DO IT

Breeny is back!!! No matter what video you post ✨ My RU-vid big sistaaaa!!! 🤗✨🤪

I love you and your knowledge. And there is so many value lessons we have to learn as even a generation. I know I have to learn to not get mad so quick at people and continue to act certain ways. We are all human but we can practice to do better!! You can’t just pray but you gotta show action

Girl, this was so powerful. Very much needed to hear this. Thank you x

I’m currently going through a breakup. The other person doesn’t take any personal accountability. ZERO! If you can’t be responsible for your own actions the relationship is doomed. It’s toxic behavior that I just can’t deal with.

THAT FEMME LUXE AD YESSS BOSS GIRL VIBES I LOVE YOUR ENERGY SM

Always learn a lot from your videos. A lot of it comes down to character. Truly looking at our characters and also the characters we allow ourselves to be around. Thanks Breeny ❤

Thank you Breeny,I needed this. I just reached out to one of my friends. I let pride come in play but I'll work on it. Thank you again.

Yassss sis. Keep dropping these diamonds.

I love the lengths of these videos! I listen to them on my way to work and they really have me thinking. Thank you for making these videos it helps a lot.

I just love the variety of your content. Btw you are glowing sis!

Loved this! So much truth & encouragement for self assessment.

I so needed this breeny session!! Thank you God for bringing this soul to this wonderful earth we need more breenys🙌

Bless you Breeny :) I've overcome the breakup in two days with you

Each one of your videos I have watched so far is PURE GOLD.

Thank you so much, you just called out all of my toxicity I didn't even realize I did...….. thank you.

Breeny, you are such a blessing! Thank you for advice, this came in a time of need. Thank you for being real and also for making me laugh ❤️

Thanks Breeny, I completely agree with your perspective on forgiveness! I believe in forgiveness if the other person takes responsibility & accountability for their behaviour, but if they cannot acknowledge it/ the hurt they've caused you and basically take you for a joke, then they don't respect or care for you and you must let go for your own sanity, or else you'll wind up in the same situation again with them & continue to put yourself in harms way! Boundaries... we need stronger boundaries! Thanks for this video!❤

No one in my life has explained it like this. And Ms. Lee always helps me see my weakness with love. You help me grow and I thank you. You have talent for explaining things.

Please do more videos on friendships. More specifically how to know when to let go of a friendship and how to let go without having resentment built up.

Thanks for sharing! You are by far one my favorite RU-vidrs and this is the reason why. Every word and advice it is given with the intention to help us individually - I appreciate that! #patience #compassion

Deff will be re watching this vid to get it imbedded in my brain!! Too real, much love breeny❤️

Wowww you really came for me in this! I was literally just upset about a guy that Im interested in, but I felt wasn’t at the same intellectual level as me and this just taught me that we learn at different paces and the carbon copy of a man doesn’t exist. Thanks girl I really needed this !

You Spoke So Many Facts & I’m In Love with this video because this is really what’s wrong with today’s society & I wish things would change & I have my faults but this video made me want to work on myself & be a better person ; it time to grow up . I love it 💚💚💚💚💚

Love love love love love! So needed this.

All ur videos are SO ON POINT ...

I just couldn't thank you enough for making these beautiful empowering contents. Thank you!

Breeny Lee, my friend and little sister (in my head), this video was Sooooo on-point! I am that person who is all ALONE because if my inability to form relationships with the people I care about and LOVE. And it really makes me Sad. I'm 57 years YOUNG now and it's been this way since I was a child.

All your videos get me so emotional

Your channel is one of the best advice channels I’ve seen..

You are such a strong dignified woman, every time I listen to you it helps me grow so much!!! Your giving me the mom/big sister talks I always crave ❤️

This is still the best Video 🥺❤️😭😭😭 Thank you so much for sharing your experience and knowledge on this topic. It's so helpful Breeny 😍❤️

I’ve always wondered what it looks where you’re parked. I really find you to really influence my life, you speak my language. I wish there was more RU-vidrs like you. I hope you never stop posting! I find your videos to be very motivational.

That thing about people valuing each other at different levels and the space in between leaving room for anger, disrespect tc. Those people haffi get cut arf. Anyway, great video!

It’s about time sis... I’ve been waiting for too long.

Preach!!!! You're so wise and this really helps a lot of people

You definitely stepped up your look book experience for us watchers

Okay Breeny! I love your intro!

Gosh your such a wise woman Crazy how I completely agree with every single thing you said

Daaamnn your pep talks are always it for me. You have so much passion in your words. ♥️ Love your channel, Breeny!!

I really hope that we knew each other in real life. I want an older sister just like you. Going through a lot right now and these videos really help!

Breeny stays coming through with the advice at that exact right dam time lol. Im shaking

I just found you out of no where.... WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW YOUR CHANNEL IS AMAZING!

I know you get comments that say you're the big sister we haven't had... but it's so true... I've been sort of binge watching your videos and the way you give the truth... it's just so helpful... TY for not just giving the truth but adding some religious/spiritual essence to it, it really takes it up another level. It shows truly, truly, how much you care which is clearly so much.

Wow I love this, you're really being real about this issue

Welcome back! Amazing message 🧡

Just found your channel on RU-vid & I love a positive person, a Sister virtual friend that speaks real, to God honest truths!! So refreshing & and I feel like I am the luckiest person right now to have found you! About to binge watch this channel & become enlightened! God bless you! 💕

I'm so antisocial lol I feel like I'm being called out 😅🙃

Her videos come at the best time 🥺❤️

Thank you 🙏🏽 Thank you 🙏🏽 and Thank you again Breeny 🙏🏽 You dropped gems and created a space for some self reflection. This will be massively helpful in the upcoming conversation I’m having with two of my friends this weekend. Sadly I can’t have a face to face conversation but I hope Skype will do. Again, I really appreciate this video.

ooh that tracks hard. Agree fully. Beautifully articulated. Love

Breeny always spitting facts 🔥🔥🔥

God bless you Breeny! Always a timely message 💕much love

Such wise words of wisdom. What a great Motavitional Speaker !

Hi, just wanted to say your videos just helped me with a massive dilemma I was struggling with and thanks to them I feel very happy with my choice so far- they reminded me of my worth, so thanks! 😊

Okay this video gained u my subscription 👌🏾 very mature self reflective video 👌🏾

I agree with you !! Self love my boundaries are much stronger now ♥️♥️♥️

This is so on point.

Ur videos are getting me thru some tough situations thank you 🙏🏾💕...

breeny this videooo is gold!

I love you breeny! wish the best for you.

Love the bit on forgiveness 👌

Breeny, this video was much needed. Very original too

Thank you for your counsel. I will listen and relisten to this video.

BREENY I L O V E THIS

You're blessed with so much wisdom honestly

aw breeny! not only was this the exact video i need at this moment but at the end you mentioned it was your birthday july 9th and that's my birthday as well!! happy belated love! i resonated with you and you spoke directly to my soul since i found the first video i watched of yours. we're all connected. much love cancer sister🖤

so true. I think we need both self love and also other people. I realized without true self love it's difficult to have good relations with others! That's why I love your messages- self love and also having good relationships with other people..all in one and one in all!

This my favorite person to listen to while I’m trucking ❤️❤️🫶🏾

Yes sis you killed the look book at the beginning ❤️❤️