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Breeny Lee
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Комментарии : 812   
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 4 года назад
*When they don't treat you with respect. Respect yourself and leave.*
@theelegantstylist
@theelegantstylist 4 года назад
100 per cent 👍🏽
@maddiemover5894
@maddiemover5894 4 года назад
😏
@KeiChante
@KeiChante 4 года назад
This comment just changed my life.
@gracejane5397
@gracejane5397 4 года назад
If you have a child with someone.... It becomes difficult especially if you are financilly dependent on the guy.... Its soooo hard because you dnt want your child to lack or live a worse life than you actually did
@Dark19488
@Dark19488 7 месяцев назад
​@@gracejane5397I understand. How's everything going?
@ekowkumasi1178
@ekowkumasi1178 4 года назад
"if you feel like you can't be yourself you're being controlled... that's abuse."
@tashabuffalo9028
@tashabuffalo9028 4 года назад
Ekow Kumasi Deep one for me I always felt like that with my ex, yet I would still try be with him smh 🤦🏽‍♀️
@shutit4024
@shutit4024 4 года назад
Grand Inquisitor 👀 I agree with you but that’s the case in her situation
@flower_bombb1414
@flower_bombb1414 3 года назад
That part!!
@natalieherdman9862
@natalieherdman9862 4 года назад
Imagine... she’s giving this to us for free 👏🏽
@Ducky190
@Ducky190 4 года назад
Yes 👏
@isisoconnor7816
@isisoconnor7816 4 года назад
Ikr...I love u breeny..you've made me into a better Human..MUCH LOVE💓
@Pre0115
@Pre0115 4 года назад
Yes so let’s watch all her ads!
@BLohr707
@BLohr707 4 года назад
Natalie Herdman Yes! Thank you! And yes to A. William’s. She is an amazing soul for putting this all out here! No doubt inspiring, like her video shaving her head. Much respect!🙌🏻
@ashatasaidi6481
@ashatasaidi6481 3 года назад
God bless you Breeny
@simphiwendlovu7516
@simphiwendlovu7516 4 года назад
I love this woman. Everything she utters makes me a whole different and better person.
@babyfly4652
@babyfly4652 4 года назад
Simphiwe Ndlovu honestly 💯
@KeiChante
@KeiChante 4 года назад
Omg! SAME!
@nikki0mg123
@nikki0mg123 4 года назад
Exactly. She has a good given talent of explaining things well and giving advice.
@gunesibeklerken5242
@gunesibeklerken5242 4 года назад
For me too. You are our angel Breeny.
@kabiratalaka9058
@kabiratalaka9058 4 года назад
❤️
@dvoracsordas9344
@dvoracsordas9344 4 года назад
"Repeat after me: I deserve more"
@tessa4181
@tessa4181 4 года назад
For people who stay in relationships because they’ve been in it for x years... Steve Harvey said “would you want to do another x amount of years with that person? If no, leave now and stop wasting more years”.
@lesacharna8987
@lesacharna8987 4 года назад
Ladies, pay attention closely to the type of man you are attracted to! Especially if you are suffering from childhood trauma and unhealed emotional wounds. I can relate to this video firsthand and when I took the time to actually sit and evaluate why I kept attracting men who didn't want commitment and only used me for sex, I realized that I was the common denominator! I had low self esteem/self worth and I used men and sex to feel validated. I was scared to have boundaries because I didn't want to be rejected so I accepted anything that was given to me. I guess my purpose for this comment is to urge you to do the self work, consider therapy and healing, and maybe take a break from dating for a while until you have healed and truly understand your worth. Hope this helped someone. Absolutely loved this video!
@joniajohn4716
@joniajohn4716 3 года назад
More than a help. Stay blessed
@lesacharna8987
@lesacharna8987 3 года назад
JONIA JOHN I’m so glad, praying for you ❤️
@joniajohn4716
@joniajohn4716 3 года назад
@@lesacharna8987 Amen lovely sis
@tamco92
@tamco92 4 года назад
Made my exit last Friday. Best choice I made this year. Hurts at the moment, but it'll pass. Good luck people!
@misspersonalityme6292
@misspersonalityme6292 4 года назад
Tamara Lichele I’m making my exit today
@tamco92
@tamco92 4 года назад
Misspersonality Me you got this! ❤️
@ulricka2131
@ulricka2131 4 года назад
You are the prize darling. You deserve a real man 💛
@Ruskaya789
@Ruskaya789 4 года назад
2019 is really removing toxic shit from people. Made my exit 3 weeks ago. Definitely tough at times, but I keep reminding myself that I would rather be on my own, doing my thing, being happy, living life; than be with someone who never valued me or truly loved me. They didn't deserve me and those men don't deserve you ladies. Remember we are QUEENS. No time to waste on mediocre bullshit. Better things are coming and we need to get rid of toxic people to allow the greats ones to come in. Wishing everyone the best. Proud of you all who made the tough decision to walk away and for choosing yourself.
@gracejane5397
@gracejane5397 4 года назад
Did you have a child with him?
@ekowkumasi1178
@ekowkumasi1178 4 года назад
"if that person isn't loving you correctly they don't know how to."
@MyKeturah
@MyKeturah 4 года назад
She's saving lives. Toxic relationships can and do cause s×icidal ideations sometimes. Praying that everyone who needs this channel finds it. I don't have many friends, so this is my friend in my head and I'm so broken but she reminds me that as long as I have breath, there is time to learn to love myself.
@BLohr707
@BLohr707 4 года назад
The Hood Goddess Right there with you queen! As a man relating. And don’t say your broken, whatever happen happened! Made you who you are. Perfectly imperfect like everyone else. Enjoy the journey
@MyKeturah
@MyKeturah 4 года назад
@@BLohr707 you're right. Thank you so much
@BLohr707
@BLohr707 4 года назад
Just found out This fact, us being born is around 1 and 400 Trillion! Damn!😳🤔🙌🏻
@MyKeturah
@MyKeturah 4 года назад
@@BLohr707 may as well make it beautiful huh.
@BLohr707
@BLohr707 4 года назад
The Hood Goddess Yes! And focus on that person in the mirror! Make them happy.
@rebeccajohnston1734
@rebeccajohnston1734 4 года назад
Arguing is abnormal when it’s regular ugh finally someone agrees!!
@l.obinduka6791
@l.obinduka6791 4 года назад
🙌🏾
@blckqueen6002
@blckqueen6002 4 года назад
Yes so true I was throwing up for 3 months not missing a day
@shamika8055
@shamika8055 4 года назад
If I decide I'm done done with you, it's because I've already given you a second chance or 500 chances. I don't give up easily on people. It's takes quite a while for me to finally decide I'm done with a person. So after I've tried over and over again, and they continue to let me down or don't show any change, and that they're just all words and no action, then I will have my last straw. If I continue to show you my perspective and be open minded and understanding and try to work things out, and you don't try to accommodate for our relationship consistently, then there's no point for me to keep putting myself and my energy out there. At some point it becomes about my well being and staying a healthy individual and not sacrificing myself for someone that doesn't show the same amount of effort.
@KelemKelem
@KelemKelem 4 года назад
Am similar to you.
@abia4509
@abia4509 4 года назад
I was in the same place like you and the funny thing is that he ended it.
@jey7169
@jey7169 4 года назад
Girl! This is exactly how im feeling. Word by word. I just had to end it because for the same reasons.
@ladyfay7777
@ladyfay7777 4 года назад
Yall was dealing with engergy vampires. You feel the drain. And good for yall for finally putting yourselves first. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@mounnalogue1215
@mounnalogue1215 4 года назад
We have the same sentiments. And yet people who have been a martyr of their relationships kinda disagree when I tell these to them. They say I dont love hard or I just look at love and relationships in a practical way. That this way of thinking might not be able for me to find the right one. Well they can't blame me. That despite having some trust issues I still did my best in giving my trust and, yet failed to keep it.
@la-shays4030
@la-shays4030 4 года назад
This definitely hits home. I had abandonment/daddy issues which lead to 7 years of an emotionally abusive relationship with an older man. Last month made a year since I ended the relationship and this month made 10 months of therapy. I’m still a work in progress but it definitely get better.
@cynthiaurugutia736
@cynthiaurugutia736 4 года назад
Girlie Im a at that point right now. Although I didn't spend years with him its been 10 months of situationship and he never game and still hasn't gave me a gf title. This guy is also way older than me....15yr age difference. It so hard to walk away because like you I had daddy issues. My father left me when I was young and then my step dad came in the pic but the relationship between my stepdad and I is not the very best and never has been. Maybe that's the reason I seek validation or happiness with this older guy. The idea of "what if he decides to change his mind and ask me to be his gf" when I walk away is what sets me back from taking that decision and calling it quits once and for all. This guy also mentioned to me a few days ago "what if I told you I want to a serious relationship at this point"...dont know if its a tactic to get me to sleep with him since I havent slept with him or if he's trying to play mind games to make me emotionally dependent and not walk away. Im so lost and confused at this point. :(
@ariah457
@ariah457 4 года назад
Cynthia Urugutia the way you’re feeling is the answer to your question no guy who loves and respects you would want you to feel this way! No relationships or even dating is prefect but it should never have to be this draining and confusing what is his intention? Is he just with you for the time being is what you want not falling in line with his wants? YOU are worth everything and more your time which can never be brought back is too valuable to be wasted, wishing you all the best
@ashatasaidi6481
@ashatasaidi6481 3 года назад
Good Luck Shay C. Keep strong, the clouds usually pass and warm sunny weather that will make your heart sing.... Is JUST around the corner....Much love from a sister in Kenya..
@ashatasaidi6481
@ashatasaidi6481 3 года назад
@@cynthiaurugutia736 The best thing you've done Cynthia is V A L U I N G your cookie and not giving it to him. In that way he also values it and will never throw derogatory comments your way Coz he thinks he got you cheaply. No, that will not happen to you. As for now YOU are one holding the most valuable and winning card in your hand. Signs of cracks in his shield have started showing, as he is now considering making you an official girlfriend. Stay put. Stay strong. The winner has it all....!
@ladykhustle
@ladykhustle 4 года назад
"You have normalized dysfunction" 😞 When you married and your Christian mother says to stay no matter what.....Emotional abuse is disgusting.
@ekowkumasi1178
@ekowkumasi1178 4 года назад
"broken girls have the deepest love" - r.h. sin ~ "it is virtually impossible to get love from a broken source." this is freeing... "they are incapable of loving you the way you need and deserve to be loved."
@MatildaZuria
@MatildaZuria 4 года назад
*“I’m not sitting at home crying” THAT PART!*
@degraciangubane480
@degraciangubane480 4 года назад
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@MatildaZuria
@MatildaZuria 4 года назад
De greezy 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@TheeMatriarch
@TheeMatriarch 2 года назад
@Grand Inquisitor stfu
@iman123ify
@iman123ify 4 года назад
life changing, what she said about wanting affirmation from men even though they are broken or toxic for you, sooo relatable :'(
@basicinfo2022
@basicinfo2022 4 года назад
Validation*
@14jasminedel
@14jasminedel 4 года назад
I cried because I am trying to save myself and everything you said is true. Thank you ❤️
@tessaknowles6400
@tessaknowles6400 3 года назад
"" Until your sick and tired of being sick and tired you will remain where you are"" That spoke volume💯💯
@corianderfish1999
@corianderfish1999 4 года назад
‘Only when you get sick and tired of being sick and tired will you leave the toxic relationship.’ Wow. This really hits home . 💜thank you Breeny
@spartalane13
@spartalane13 4 года назад
“At your big age” 😅😅🤣😅 but seriously I agree with you, no need for fights. A mature couple should be able to attain a standard of communication that does not resort to fighting.
@siying
@siying 4 года назад
I just had the craziest fight with my ex last night, he was insanely aggressive and manipulative, didn’t respect my boundaries when I asked him to leave. But I realised that the problem lies with me; in that my boundaries should have been placed at ‘absolutely zero contact’ instead of ‘please leave my house when I ask you to’
@uniquematthews3679
@uniquematthews3679 4 года назад
We live and we learn.. you will get through it.. it took me 3 years to heal and every second was worth it
@simone6822
@simone6822 4 года назад
Hit home for me. It took everything in me to leave after 7 years 😭... It's only been a month and I feel drained and traumatized from some of the events that took place. Time for some real emotional healing and therapy.
@BeccahJoy
@BeccahJoy 4 года назад
You are amazing, Simone. I'm proud of you! Praying that God gives you the strength you need. And the wisdom to stay gone. God loves you in the purest form. And wants to treasure your heart. ♡
@uniquematthews3679
@uniquematthews3679 4 года назад
It took me 3 years to heal.. every second was worth it. Your journey will be amazing blessings to you Queen
@simone6822
@simone6822 4 года назад
@@uniquematthews3679 I am glad you've made it through that difficult journey! 💛 Thank you for your inapiring words
@simone6822
@simone6822 4 года назад
@@BeccahJoy Thank you!💛 I took a while to see my worth. But I am grateful for the strength of God, who has been holding me up and speking to me.
@uniquematthews3679
@uniquematthews3679 4 года назад
You’re welcome I’m happy that you’ve remained strong and got through it too. The journey definitely molded me for sure.
@esraa5429
@esraa5429 4 года назад
The 11 people who disliked are guys who got rejected by Breeny 🌚
@BreenyLee
@BreenyLee 4 года назад
Esra A 😂😂😂😂
@jbreal06
@jbreal06 3 года назад
@breeny Lee do you think it's possible for the two people to get therapy and help with there internal issues and then come back together and have a healthy relationship?
@soniaushie1641
@soniaushie1641 3 года назад
They are!😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@3112sol
@3112sol 4 года назад
I highly recommend everyone to look up emotional abuse and narcissism. I was sexually abused as a kid and ended up in an emotionally abusive relationship for almost 10 years ! Listen to your gut guys!
@Sarah-zq6tp
@Sarah-zq6tp 4 года назад
me too :( do you have any reccomendations?
@Dreabee83
@Dreabee83 4 года назад
@@Sarah-zq6tp therapy was the only thing that helped me
@ladyfay7777
@ladyfay7777 4 года назад
Its plenty of videos on here on youtube. Better than therapy IMO
@3112sol
@3112sol 4 года назад
Sarah N are you still with this person ? Depending on your situation you need to find an exit plan. If you are staying at his house, but you have family/friends etc. I would pack all my stuff and then break up so I can leave in one go. I can’t do that because we own a house together. So I broke up with him. Said that I could take it anymore etc. I have tried in the past to be honest and tell him that I thought he was a narc, that was a big mistake, he tried to turn it back on me, and in the end we ended up back together. And whatever happens DO NOT take this person back ! He will NEVER change! He will make promises and twist and turn the truth ! Get a journal and write down everything. Whenever you miss him or feel bad for him READ and remind yourself why you made your decision.
@jacquelinegolden974
@jacquelinegolden974 4 года назад
"This relationship should not have gone past 'Hello'"
@thatgirl5630
@thatgirl5630 4 года назад
“It is satisfying an itch in you” bruh...my eyes literally widened, it’s so true
@mary_y2k
@mary_y2k 4 года назад
Noemi Rodriguez right. I showed my mom
@elodiedezetter9242
@elodiedezetter9242 4 года назад
'' I deserve better '' thank you.!!!
@sbusisomukhisha8624
@sbusisomukhisha8624 4 года назад
I'm at the library and I'm listening to this😥😔 it hit home sis. Even shared a tear. I should start taking myself serious.
@itme1213
@itme1213 4 года назад
PLEASE DO a video about childhood trauma
@nataliamadejska2008
@nataliamadejska2008 4 года назад
Breeny, you can't even imagine how much you've helped me. I found you 6 months ago, driving in a bus to work, literally moments after both my ex-partner of 4 years of a relationship and I decided to separate. Lost, confused, devastating but longing for a deeper connection with myself. I remember exactly you describing my pain, you showing me the pieces of paper sticking to each other and what happens, if you tear them apart. I remember your Bible quotes, God words. I was so grateful to be able to hear your wise words, to this day I am. I survived the most difficult weeks with your help. Learning how to become strong, confident, happy again, how to take care of my relationship with God. Learning how to trust and how to have faith. I just wanted to tell you that I truly love your content. Your voice is so soothing, so relaxing and I always feel so safe watching your videos. Still fighting, still trying to figure it all out. But you have taught me so many great lessons and been such an inspiration and motivation for me, for real. Thank you again from the bottom of my healing heart.
@BreenyLee
@BreenyLee 4 года назад
Na Mad - Lots of love sis ♥️🙏🏾
@JannaNiki
@JannaNiki 4 года назад
I agree, I don't think arguing is part of a healthy relationship
@tyolaa7125
@tyolaa7125 4 года назад
Yeesss talk about a childhood trauma. It's something that most of us can relate to.
@MissGlamazon
@MissGlamazon 4 года назад
Breeeeeeeena! Dont i just love you!! You changed my life. You made me realise i can still be classy, intelligent & love God. The wisdom you've impacted in my life, i never heard it anywhere else or perhaps its how you deliver it...idk All i do know is you are doing a phenomenal job & i really hope i grow up to be like you & better! Love you so much & keep doing things in your own special way. You're truly a gem from heaven ♥♥♥ [Waiting for the video...]
@niawooden650
@niawooden650 4 года назад
This helped me, I’m trying to get out of dysfunctional relationship now. You give me strength to understand I deserve better.
@faithfitness735
@faithfitness735 4 года назад
Your videos really bring awareness to issues we didnt think existed but are so important.... I feel wise after watching your videos I watch your videos almost immediately you post 💕😊
@misskankalin
@misskankalin 4 года назад
How can you always come at the perfect time? I was just being sad because of a toxic relationship but then I saw the notification
@ekowkumasi1178
@ekowkumasi1178 4 года назад
"control is witchcraft..."
@ekowkumasi1178
@ekowkumasi1178 4 года назад
control is not love.
@Coparentingwithanarcissist101
@Coparentingwithanarcissist101 4 года назад
When you are tired of being sick and you start morphing into somebody you don't recognise is time to go, you have nothing else to give to this toxic person 🚶‍♀️
@honeymilk06
@honeymilk06 4 года назад
Breeny please tell us how to recover from emotional neglect from parents, and how to be wholesome. Missed you very very much ❤️
@lolawaldorf5653
@lolawaldorf5653 4 года назад
Pink Forest oh yes!
@ssaliormoon15
@ssaliormoon15 4 года назад
Can you do a video on forgiving yourself for pass mistakes I still feel guilty about allowing people to treat me the way they did it feels really embarrassing
@fatouma1744
@fatouma1744 4 года назад
" YOU WILL NOT DIEOOOOOOooooo", even if it feels like your comin close to it and that change from feeling trapped to being free is something so sweet..only God can describe it to you.
@yawanalove2925
@yawanalove2925 4 года назад
Self-love and healthy relationships💜
@ConbiniChips
@ConbiniChips 4 года назад
I’m French in a dysfunctional relationship with Japanese husband so that part about one speakingJapanese and the other French is on point 😂
@smiles83ish
@smiles83ish 4 года назад
She’s baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaacccccckkkkkkk!!! I’m so happy! We missed you girl.
@abbie_bour
@abbie_bour 4 года назад
Self love!! Self esteem!! Self worth!! 💯❤️
@rubyelizabethhh
@rubyelizabethhh 3 года назад
I’ve been treated really badly for years by a narcissist who constantly makes everything my fault and has just dragged me down and down. I’ve been scared to rip the plaster off and leave, absolutely petrified. This video has just given me a completely different outlook, and also some hard truths to swallow. You’ve opened my eyes to things I’ve never realised previously. Growing up watching my mum and dad in dysfunctional relationship and begging her to leave him, and now she’s begging me to leave my boyfriend. Wow.. thank you..
@lovejimin7612
@lovejimin7612 4 года назад
Breeny, please do a video how childhood trauma affects us. Thank you for everything! Im trying so hard to move on and heal. Its really hard, but im getting there because of you. Love you!
@BB-xe7uz
@BB-xe7uz 4 года назад
amazing, guuuuurl.... i knew, deep down inside, i knew that "mh mh shaa, this ain't good for you" after 3 years of going back and forth hoping he would change, i fiiiiinaaaally got sick and tired of being sic and tired. i have never been so happy. i feel liberated really. I am happy, a thorn has been removed from my side. breeny you is outchea building people and building dreams. salute.
@theonlydesides
@theonlydesides 4 года назад
This is exactly where I am, and where I’ve been, in life. I’m at my happiest now knowing what I want & will not except from my partner. Unfortunately I still have friends who are in these toxic relationships but as I did, they will have to learn first hand. Thank you gorgeous for this confirmation, I must be doing something right 😊
@joy-lopes
@joy-lopes 4 года назад
A couple of months ago I was in one of those relationships (the inability to communicate, the endless fights, the crying all the time... I was there). And I found your channel at the time.. watched your videos like crazy and felt SO strong that it didn't take me long for me to break up that miserable situation. It was hard but I made it and today I'm over a month into a trip around Asia, I'm where I wanted to be, doing what I wanted to do, figuring myself out (so that I stop attracting this kind of relationship to my life), and I'm full of hope. Great things are happening and I thank you for your videos. They were, together with other factors, so important to me. THANK YOUUU SO MUCH!!! you're amazing!
@2012dannii
@2012dannii 3 года назад
Happy for you ❤
@marijkatilton3054
@marijkatilton3054 4 года назад
Thank you for this beautiful, genuine, honest video. I remember watching ur first pep talk vid in a hotel room in Boston. I think it was divine intervention that made me click on that video; changed my life and it just keeps getting better. There is no love for me on the horizon with any man right now, but I'm falling more and more in love with God, my creator and savior. Thank you for the guidance and wisdom you share with us Breeny, love you dear ❤️❤️❤️
@rayanncharlery8836
@rayanncharlery8836 4 года назад
Please this needs to be taught in school! 😩
@kekeondemand9933
@kekeondemand9933 4 года назад
I have never ever ever ever ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Heard anything or things or words or advice like yours!!! No influencer no life coach NOOOO ONE SPEAK WHAT U SPEAK!!!! You are helping me so much I wanna cry words cannot cannot cannot explain what you’re doing for me!! My gosh I’m out out words!! You are SOOOOOOOOOO SPECIALL!!!
@imexplode
@imexplode 4 года назад
What I really love about you Breeny is that you point your finger on yourself, you ultimately show us how to take responsibility for ourselves.💯 There are lots of channels out there, that focus only on how Narcissists act. You are a breath of fresh air and a wonderful role model!❤️
@dri-dri6303
@dri-dri6303 4 года назад
I agree arguing is toxic it takes a lot of energy out of you . ❤️ this vid !!
@her_majesty7_
@her_majesty7_ 4 года назад
“You are the common denominator “😭😭😭😭 my soul felt that !!!
@dolledbyruthx5064
@dolledbyruthx5064 4 года назад
Can I just say I can’t wait for baby breenys to be running around 😭😭❤️
@BeccahJoy
@BeccahJoy 4 года назад
And how powerful and confident those babies will be! Thank God.
@dolledbyruthx5064
@dolledbyruthx5064 4 года назад
Becky for real 😭😍
@queenofsuccess
@queenofsuccess 4 года назад
Amen girl I broke the generational curse of leaving a narcissist in marriage with 3 young boys. I had to do this as I’m raising kings not abusers. So had to sacrifice so they know how to be real men! Amazing video please do more. I’m I’m helping women who has gone through narcissistic abuse!🙌🏾🙌🏾
@reinaafricana6423
@reinaafricana6423 4 года назад
Oh my gosh! You are such a blessing. I did like a guy that was so awful to me people begged me not to have anything to do with him. They told me I deserve to be with someone that treated me well. I realized my feelings had to do with me seeking love from a male that was like my father. Thank God that I never went with him. I realized it years later. I looked at him day, and I realized "what the heck was I thinking". He was not a good guy for me. I pray he finds love for himself and a great woman to love him, too.
@mariamakoroma7097
@mariamakoroma7097 4 года назад
Close to a year ago I left the most toxic relationship one could find themselves in. This guy did nothing valuable for me, in fact, I was giving and all he did was take and take without any sort of remorse, he eventually got someone else pregnant and that was the end for me. I could not see myself being a step-mom to a child I dislike or even taking care of someone else's child. I was already taking care of him, I could not take care of his offspring as well. Sometimes we are s afraid to be alone, that we tolerate toxicity, I'll never put myself through that ish again.
@bkbeautii93
@bkbeautii93 4 года назад
Self awareness and childhood trauma. Thank you. I literally prayed about my relationship and then this video came up.
@brownsweetyheart
@brownsweetyheart 4 года назад
Whoa that emotional codependency and looking to men to fill that void took my breath away....it’s time for therapy for me.
@_tata2002
@_tata2002 4 года назад
This made me cry...❤️ after whitenessing my parents and understanding my sisters ways. I will not put myself through what my mom goes through. Love you B 🥺💗
@chantiera5810
@chantiera5810 3 года назад
Love this. My last relationship wasn’t abusive in anyway but we did argue a lot almost everyday. Toxic also means unsuitable for you right now and if you stay in it eventually it will be detrimental to your wellbeing. I just couldn’t see myself living like that any longer. It’s been 7 months since we went our separate ways and I have been flourishing ever since.
@kenyanahopkins8579
@kenyanahopkins8579 4 года назад
Don’t stop encouraging us sis ! 🥰 Praise The Most High for the wisdom he’s given you to help us.
@claudettebarnes5528
@claudettebarnes5528 4 года назад
Yes please, give us a child hood truama video. Thank You Breeny Lee
@rockellarose37
@rockellarose37 3 года назад
i feel like crying listening to her voice i know i deserve better but yet I'm here day after day this toxic relationship just holding me back. ill speak it and believe it. i deserve more!! thank you breeny. (I know its an old video but the advice isn't tarnished)
@taylorhenry2567
@taylorhenry2567 4 года назад
I’ve missed you glad you’re back 💗
@melnaeun9877
@melnaeun9877 4 года назад
You have no idea how much you help us. The way God puts the right words in your mouth is crazy. I love how what you say is not just comforting it actually pushes people to work towards being able to feel comforted by themselves. Your videos are very useful :) God bless you Breeny
@kathrinadunkley1197
@kathrinadunkley1197 4 года назад
I love Breeny, such a wise woman dropping gems to improve generation after generation 🙌🏾 ❤
@yoyoyo5621
@yoyoyo5621 4 года назад
I love how you get personal I think that's what really makes your content special..Not a lot of youtubers do that
@emilygarcia2614
@emilygarcia2614 4 года назад
Breeny I have watched many of your videos and I mean this with great honesty, you are one of the best things that has happened to me since the start of the year. Thank you for being such a huge comfort, encouragement and motivation. You are a beautiful person girl , keep it up. 💖
@DrinkwaterMindurbznz
@DrinkwaterMindurbznz 4 года назад
This video was so on point! I'm looking forward to the dating series.
@mollypohamba
@mollypohamba 4 года назад
You are so Intelligent, well spoken and a realist we thank you for all these gems you are dropping ❤️
@xjgd967
@xjgd967 4 года назад
hey breeny i’m so happy you said you’d bring up the topic of self awareness, i feel like it’s a video i need the most at this point please make one
@BreenyLee
@BreenyLee 4 года назад
jag - It’s out tonight! X
@money52815
@money52815 4 года назад
damn, thank you. trying to get out of a toxic relationship, had like so many break ups with him, hope this time i will be strong enough to not go back.
@ioanam.6153
@ioanam.6153 4 года назад
I am so excited for the self-awareness video! ♡
@lifewithsadiyah
@lifewithsadiyah 4 года назад
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS YOU ARE AMAZING, YOU HAVE CHANGED MY PERSPECTIVE OF LIFE, I HONESTLY LOVE YOU.
@disara9710
@disara9710 4 года назад
I am so ready for a new video! You changed my mindset, your words are gold to me! Thank you. I love you.
@kimiatothecagedbirds
@kimiatothecagedbirds 4 года назад
My god! Finally a new video ! I am so excited, the reminder is on, popcorn’s ready and let me get a notepad and a pencil 😎👌
@jahnee82895
@jahnee82895 4 года назад
This goddess has literally empowered me so much this past week. Binge watching ever since I found her and a lot of these things I already know, but it’s so nice and refreshing to be reminded of the power of a confident, self-loving, high standard woman! 💘 thank you for your energy and wisdom, queen!
@crisseiemma6978
@crisseiemma6978 4 года назад
Your amazing sis, hands down. You are young with an old soul, a massive self confidence, in awe of your beauty, selflessness and just overall concern for all of us. Your helping me so much through quarantine 🥰🥰🥰
@tabithasantos9809
@tabithasantos9809 4 года назад
AMEN! I even cried when I said "I deserve better", thank you Breeny!
@aliceromer222
@aliceromer222 4 года назад
Please make a vid on childhood trauma! I love the knowledge you have and you’re so good at articulating it. Much love for you, your videos have been opening up my eyes to my reality and even tho I’m scared I’m ready for more change. I’m so glad you exist 💗
@zahraosman3570
@zahraosman3570 4 года назад
Love you so much Breeny, you always make me realise how much I'm worth and my peace is soooo much more important than anyone else's. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ love from South Africa 😊🇿🇦
@angel.umuhoza
@angel.umuhoza 4 года назад
Breeny you really have a God given gift to be able to speak to people in a way that no other RU-vidr does. You speak to my soul and I’m so thankful for that! No matter what, keep doing what you are doing because you’re changing lives! Blessings 🙏🏽
@Pr_20
@Pr_20 4 года назад
I needed this. It is so hard as you get so comfortable however I envision my life without him and how happy I can be alone!
@SuperNina2301
@SuperNina2301 3 года назад
This is one of the most powerful videos I have seen and I’ve watched a few! So authentic and raw, new subscriber!!
@cameliaburuiana6076
@cameliaburuiana6076 4 года назад
OMG, you spoke to mee, you are so ON TIME!! I’m speechless, I got teary eyes..
@friendlyneighborhoodathies5229
@friendlyneighborhoodathies5229 3 года назад
This video dropped a bomb on my life this held so much value for me
@laurent3203
@laurent3203 4 года назад
youre changing lives out here. keep up the good work
@daniellevarner172
@daniellevarner172 2 года назад
I love you Breeny, this is feeding my spirit. God bless you for doing the work and helping others. Generational curses WILL be broken.
@876tisha
@876tisha 4 года назад
When you press like before you watch the video because you know your favorite RU-vidr influencer will always bring great content!!! 😊😊😊
@TheOne-lo4lz
@TheOne-lo4lz 2 года назад
I feel so seen and represented. I truly love this woman
@BLohr707
@BLohr707 4 года назад
Half way threw and can’t wait! So what in life hit you to want to make a change!? Everyone’s different... But I believe you have to want to change. You are truly helping people! Amazing! Thank you
@nadiag366
@nadiag366 4 года назад
Loved and needed this! It actually got me emotional. Thanks Breeny for sharing with us 💕 this one and the level up vid 🙆‍♀️ ON REPEAT! 💫
@kelleburke9803
@kelleburke9803 3 года назад
I'm going through really hard time and your heart to heart story is very similar to mine. I have been with my partner for 5 years and I'm so attached but I know I have to leave. Youve given me the courage to tell myself I need to do this. Please bring out more videos because I really need this right now I just think I may go back to them and I really don't want too but it's hard when you have created a life with that person and I feel I'm so dependent on them and I'm aware I shouldn't do this and I need to make myself happy. Your honesty the most honest person and most open person I have seen on RU-vid and I applaud you because you've made me realise Im not the only person who has or who is going through this.
@anamica2620
@anamica2620 3 года назад
i am so sick and tired of all the posts on the internet targeting how to move on, make them jealous or get them back. and all of them use mind games. I so want to get out of that mindset after 3 years of being in a super toxic relationship. thank you for your videos. you're the only one i found who targets healing.
@amandaryan3263
@amandaryan3263 3 года назад
I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app +17076225057 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ?We have 2 kids together. it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger..
@honeygold1
@honeygold1 4 года назад
Breeny Lee! I'm So happy you're back. And once again, you are giving us TRUTH.
@pomiiiful1
@pomiiiful1 4 года назад
Welcome back! Missed you sister.
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