how to: OVERCOME NEGATIVE PATTERNS 

Dear Alexa that part hit me hard !

Check out the 4 Agreements Book. Its a game changer. There are 4 of them. Its a simple way to remember never take anything personally.

@@1love847 please send a link, is that a book? Sounds interesting

Christinah Blaai 4 agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

that book is amazing

Ella Sarol DEEP

Whew girl I needed this. Forgiveness is so tough.

I'm James Inman and I approve this comment 👍

Suzanne Doke that’s why I made sure to state “with exceptions”

I did not hear it like that. There are exceptions and she mentions that. But the majority of stable people, yes they do come from stable homes. Most people in unstable homes do not take the more narrow path of becoming better. Don’t live your life in offense. She even gave you her story of her home life which was anything but stable, now look at this woman. She has changed MY life through her growth. This woman is fulfilling her purpose in this life and will be at the right hand of God. Will you?

Unstable people come from unstable homes. And the other way around is generally true too but there are exeptions ofcourse.

She said there are exceptions

That's why she said with exceptions.

Lovely

I do that daily..... I thought it was a mental condition...

😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤that is truly beautiful!!

Oh wow...that just might work!!!

I’m starting this.

Absolutely love this

The brain works in positives. May I suggest "Healthy, wise, kind men are my portion." Or whatever you do want to speak life into :)

Grace Lewis I was just about to comment this too! Peace and love my sisters ✌🏼

@@gracelewis6071 spot on, totally agree on this. We create our own perception and perception is reality

Lorraine Natasha LOUD AND CLEAR

Venus Chappie right?? damn.

Yes me too. Until I had a child with a highly narcissistic individual. Now I’m so done with people.

Abena C don’t stop your shine for ANYONE! Narcs can’t be helped unless they want to be. We will be the best we can be for our babies! ✌🏾❤️

I felt that !!!!

4_10October same🤣😭😭😭

¿Qué parte del remix de "Don Don" te gusto más? 🤔 ➡️ What part of the "Don Don" remix did you like most?

sorry I don't understand what this means?

nick smith 😂😂😂

nick smith lol basically I feel attacked because it’s a direct message to my life... lol hope that helps

@@muralmica aah ok got you, I understand now it directly resonates with your life

i just cried laughing at this!

She's your mum. She may not be your "Mother" but if she takes care of you and actually cares for you, that can be a better situation than being with the mother. It's how your treated rather than the title that is important

@@Belihoney I don't think she cares. There's more to this story, in the same way, there are two sides to the coin. It's larger than a "simple" divorce. Just because someone is family, doesn't mean they have the "best" intentions for you. The statement "actually cares for you", yes she does fulfill her parenting duties, but her dharma (the eternal and inherent nature of reality, regarded in Hinduism as a cosmic law underlying right behavior and social order) duties ... never did. Children are not a distraction from more important work. They are the most important work.

Forgive her! And if you are religious, pray for her. I am in the same situation and I can guarantee she needs it as much as you do. I hope you and your mom can one day come together in love, peace, and kindness. 🙏❤️

Rachel Nicole I have Mommy issues and I feel like that hits harder.

@@ItsKimmyAlexandra same

Dear Alexa what is Dady iseus / mommy iseus ?

All kinds of damn issues, who else? Say IIII

It’s weird but a good dad can make dealing with men as a romantic prospect tricky. I had a wonderful father figure but he passed away in my late teens. We were family and he took good care of me, but he was also just a wonderful gentleman. Very smart, kind, funny, well-mannered and debonair...all my girlfriends from school adored him. We also shared intellectual compatibility and enjoyed each other’s company. We were best friends. I think after his passing I assumed it was IMPOSSIBLE to meet a boyfriend or husband with all or some of his great qualities. So I really lowered the bar in who I dated. I married an unsuitable man and the marriage failed for obvious reasons. I get it now. If you are accustomed to being treated lovingly and respectfully, provided with a stable peaceful home, and enjoying good rapport... it’s NOT spoiled or unrealistic to require similar treatment from a life partner. I don’t expect a second dad, but I can’t accept inconsistency or abusive treatment from my husband.

Sending love and blessings your way💜

You probably need the alone time, to focus on yourself and heal to avoid repetition. If you need a husband he ll show up at the right time. Goodluck healing Sis....

Me too. I am about to accept that living single and alone is my destiny

I wish you greatness, you are loved, God is always there for you 🖤

I can totally relate to what you experienced in life..God Bless and keep you!! 😌🙌🏾🙏🏾

YourGirlSudanny - Thank you ♥️

Amen sis,u ain't alone

Ebony R. B. - sending love ♥️

Zuri Reynolds Thanks for this

Oh yeah me too

Totally agree thank you Breeny

Yaya B - Start with acceptance. Sending virtual hugs 🤗

@@BreenyLee Thank you sis! I appreciate you and the videos you make.

that’s right😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏

Julia J 💋♥️

That's exactly who they are "Haters"!!

Kathryn Dowling what do u mean by that?

Ooooo yeeesss!!

Kathryn Dowling no I don't know what that means "she's got a side to her". I'm not a native speaker you know

Kathryn Dowling which side are you talking about, I am curious ?

@Kathryn Dowling please elaborate