how to: DATE (successfully) 

Blessing y’all with a 30 min video! ♥️ make sure you hit the LIKE button and leave a comment! Excited to read your thoughts 💭

“Dust settles. Queens don’t.” -Breeny Lee, 2019

"dating is not a marriage proposal."

How many likes for this God-given gift of a woman who stays blessing us with amazing relatable content?

Ever since I started watching Breeny, I feel like I'm on such a higher level mentally. I used to think that I shouldn't have a list of things that I want in a guy and that it was ok for guys to be immature and not be on the same mental level as me but now I feel like I have such a clearer perspective on everything.. Breeny has such a nice way of putting her thoughts and wisdom into words that I am truly in awe every time. Thank you so so much for being you, Debreena. I love you so so much and I really hope to casually run into you on the streets of London one day

I watched this single, and I'm watching it again now that I like someone. I'll watch it again when I enter a relationship. I'll watch it again when I'm engaged. I'll watch it until I meet my forever date. Fingers crossed yall!!!!!

Knowing someone’s intentions are everything

My therapist ❤️

Dating is data collection. Wow, I love this!!

This hair looks so good on u

I need the “Dust Settles, Queens Don’t” T-shirts and hats!

Very good essentials. Us ladies need to not catch feelings so fast after the first date.

And then she said.. "You are the prize, you are the prize, you are the prize. You are valuable, you are worth pursuing, you are to be sought after like a man looking for gold, you are worthy, you are precious and your very presence will bring favour to your future mate. " 😫🥰💕 may my broken pieces always remember to remember this.

Everytime she opens her mouth, she opens my eyes. Thank you queen, thank you for always serving us with these relatable content and making us better .

That awkward moment when you've done everything that Breeny has spoken against 😂💔

I’m jealous of the people who personally know you! 😩 I need a strong friend in my life. Going through a break up after a 4 yr relationship now.

I was never taught how to date “successfully” coming from a single mother household I was taught that men are “bad” and we have to be independent. Being independent is important yes, but I never learned how to properly get into dating. I rushed a lot of relationships that way, and all of them ended badly.

Your videos are absolutely incredible. I was married to a police officer who was wonderful to me. He passed 7 yrs ago. He used to say you have a great life that I want to be a part of. Your energy and confidence made me fall in love w/ you. I waited to be intimate. I told him if u want a piece of this? Get your game on. Won’t be easy. Won him over and beyond. Your information is RIGHT ON!! I really really hope that woman & men who listen to these videos.. Really take ur advice. Keep making these videos they are needed!.. Keep up the great work!

Yes, before the right one finds me, I must be secure within myself. I have realized that I chose relationships because of my insecurities. I didn't understand my worth at the time. Now, I understand why it is imperative to love myself. Thank you❤

You have honestly saved me from a messy future. I love you !

LMAOOO WHY DID YOU COME FOR ME BREENY 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 shouldve watched this last week

“ This video is for women that want to be taken SERIOUSLY” 🙌👏👏👏 If you’re intention is to grow watch this girl 👌 if you DON’T this is not your channel 🙅‍♀️

you’re the best thing that happened to the youtube world,i’m telling you..i’m learning soo much with you and slowly flourishing into the woman i’m supposed to be,and i’ll never thank you enough Breeny!❤️

Sis you successfully always come when i need you ❤️❤️

Let me just say before i watch this that if you pray to god for a wonderful significant other he will give you that believe in him and my brother and his wife are a perfect example wshe prayed for 9 days and the day after she met him in the gym ... Its so beautiful how god can put two people together if only we would all believe like they did

Do NOT give up the JEWEL!

Coming to a date as an interviewee instead of the interviewer!! Yes I felt that 100%. As women we need to know our worth and can't be afraid to demand the best

"If you are boring, you are bored"😂😂😂 love you Breeny

I literally pause the video and meditate on every point you make :') keep preaching 🙏🏼

Third date: “don’t just go out to eat”!! I felt that! 🤣🤣

When she talked about food I was like yeah drag me 😂✨

SIS YOU'RE SPEAKING TRUTH!!

Thank you, Breeny. I actually stopped talking to someone because I didn't feel he had any interest in me. I did realize I need to not put so much of myself out there. It moved too fast. Nicknames and all. There are no hard feelings. I realized I want to build my confidence more and build genuine friendships.

Your honestly such a blessing! I’m a women in my early 20s trying to figure out this thing called life and your videos help me and other women think bigger and better about our selfs and for are selfs. God bless you xx

The level of wisdom flying through your lips humble me girl! This video was exactly what I needed to hear🥺❤️ God bless you for sharing! Can’t wait for more videos from you.

If a man had the MEANS to take me somewhere nice, that’s what I expect. He’s supposed to be trying to impress me. But I’m 20, and most folks my age are financially floppin so I’ll take creativity and originality over price, but I still have to feel some sort of effort.

Not only is she JAW DROPPING but she’s SMART and CLASSYYYYY. Love her.

A wise woman knows when to speak and when to keep silent. Have a level of mystery about you! Gem 💎💎💎

You're like my therapist!😏

You are the big sister I never had. This video came at the right time. I'm not dating yet but this video is extremely helpful.

You were the start of my rebirth before I even knew it. It's been monthsss since I ran across the first video I seen by you and it planted a seed a wisdom and thank you sooo much for that because ive taken that free game and applied it to my 17yr old life and I truly believe these steps are necessary for getting what I truly want in life and not just relationships. Keep blessings the gals

I agree with not breaking the bank on the first date because that’s irresponsible, but I believe that dates should be well thought out and planned with a considerable amount of effort. Park dates, ice creams dates are just too simple and don’t require much thought and I think people are worth more than that. It just shows respect for the other persons time too.

I love this girl... don’t even know how many times I show her videos a day .. Thank you 🙏

Whew I needed to hear all of this! Breeny you have been one of my biggest inspirations this year! So much so I began my own channel in the hope that I can spread wisdom like you have. You’ve helped my perspective on so many things - can’t wait for Pepp Talk Live ♥️

God is taking to me. Someone is rushing me and I need to handle it

Breeny, I’ve just gone through a breakup and watched a TON of your videos Lol let me say you are my hero! Speaking truth, encouragement, and power is a super gift that you have and I just want to say thank you for sharing it on RU-vid. More vids on vids pls 🙏🏻

Breeny is talking straight facts, also this wig and makeup looks beautiful on you

So excited for this new series

I am so happy/luck I have found this. Girl you speak to my soul and you are the realest.

Thank you SO MUCH, Breeny! I'm loving this series already. Actually, I love all your videos, they opened my mind and brought back my confidence. I have a big smile on my face after watching this. God bless you!

I'm just 6 mins into this video but omg, YES!!! This is exactly what I say to my nieces, and some of their girl friends. Dating IS about Data Collection. The more information you can acquire through dating provides you with insight into that man's mind - where he's coming from and going to, and just as important, you fine tune what it is that you require in a future marriage mate. The going on dates with guys for a free meal had me hollering though. It doesn't sit right with me at all. The 'sense of entitlement' on a first date is crazy 🤦‍♀️ and ladies, stop 👏sleep👏 with👏 the👏 man👏 dem 👏on👏 the👏 first 👏date🤦‍♀️ Ok, I stop talk.

Girl you are dropping gems in this video! 💎

YESSSSS I LOVE YOUR VIDEOOOOSSSS!!!! You are everything.

My day gets better when ı see you post Breeny!! Thank you for inspiring. 😊💕

Why haven’t I found Breeny Lee any sooner! I’m thankful that I came across this! God bless you...

Thank you for this video! So looking forward to this series, much love Breeny!

I don't know how but your videos always have the perfect timing

I love the fact shes´s so pure and honest! Thank u Brunny, you really have help me so much

breeny you uploaded this at the PERFECT time in my life, thankyou

OMG I love how honest you are and how much valuable advise you give! I am 32 and still learning!

you're AMAZINGGGG!!!! absolutely LOVED this video

Breeny! You are God sent ! This video is still valuable 2 years later ! Thanks you soo much

So much gems you always bring us Breeny! God bless you 💕 🥰

i have literally been binge watching breeny for the past 24 hours i love this girl

Finally 😭 someone who agrees with me on what dating really is🤸💜. Just subscribed to your channel but I can't get enough 😭

It’s interesting for a long time I would say I was that girl that always wrote back right away and told the guy everything but now I’ve noticed that I’ve become the complete opposite because I’ve reached that point that you talked about at the beginning of the video of just being discouraged and not excited about the prospects. I find myself responding sometimes a day later, not on purpose but because dating is the last thing on my mind. I usually have so much work to do running my own businesses that I get caught up in work and second, I’m so much more closed off now to the point that guys I date aren’t sure they really know me because I keep so much of how I feel to myself. I’m afraid that I’ve become so different that I may scare a potentially good partner for me away.

My mentor coming through with the straight factssssss. I'm not dating yet, thank you for letting me know what I should look for and what I need to handle in myself.

I didn't want for the video to end. Love you ❤️

I absolutely love your videos & wonderful wisdom Breeny, you stay dropping gems 💎💕

I love your pepp talks Breeny! Thank you for giving advices and basically being a big sister I never had

You are the reason I am so confident today! Thank you so much, Breeny. ❤️

Breeny, your videos have helped my self-care journey this year. I love love love your videos. you're amazing

i really love your channel its AMAZINGGGG seriously my fav youtuber!

Always dishing out values and inspiration... I love you Breeny

Gurrrrrrl I love you! You have an amazing mindset. You let people realise ❤

Where were you when i needed you 6 years ago😭so glad i stumbled upon your family much love from the U.S. Breeny.Love you girl!!!🙌👌💛🤗

I was literally just thinking about how overwhelming dating can be and this video pops up... I see you doing your thing God! 🗣

" Data collection " - Breeny Lee This is brilliant ! Just exactly what I believe as well. Just what you said Breeny, dating is an INTERVIEW. Can you PLEASE tell Mr. London that !? He seems like he's all about the " fun ". No, that shouldn't be the main goal.

I love you breeny you have been saving me since more than two years

these car talks are MY CHURCH SESSIONS FRRRRRRR!!! Amennnn I love these videos 💓💓

Can you do a video on long distance relationships & know the difference between someone invested in you and someone who isn’t (like...characteristics/signs) please ? Thank you, have a great day !

I love all your videos!!! You’re just soo amazing “ you over commit too fast” guilty of this one sis and it wasn’t worth it at the end Listen up ladies!!! Don’t ever go in a relationship if you’re insure! She said it loud and clear 👌🏽🙏🏽👏🏽

Keep em coming! I'm finally at a good space. And I need tonknow how to go about dating the RIGHT WAY

Breeny! This is your best one! 💚💕

Ok but the look in the thumbnail, girl! 💕

This is the talk I didn't know I needed this morning. Yas, thank you!

Love your hair! Always looking beautiful!

Thank God for giving you the insight and wisdom and Thank you Breeny for sharing!! Your videos are so necessary and is helping me navigate the dating scene and strengthen my emotional/spiritual knowledge etc . Big ups to you Breeny thanks for all you do queen!✨💗

Blessing to you Breeny! Your thoughts on this and many other topics are right, healthy information. Looking forward to see the next :)

Breeny, your advice is GOLD.

I love ur accent 😍! Keep up the good work love ❤️ ur content needs to be heard by every young woman!

Wow this is spot on! It’s like listening to my inner voice and not ignoring it this time! Thank you! ❤️

See...and I thought I was cutting people off too soon after date #2 when things looked “questionable” 😒 thank you, next 👋🏾

Needed to hear this 6 years ago...but as they say, it's never too late. Thanks Breeny.

Taking notes as we speak. Thank you Breeny! You are amazing!

Thank you so much for this Breeny. Please can you give tips on very important questions to ask on the dates especially the first to get to know people more and consider even going on the next date

This hair looks amazing one you! 😍🙌🏼✨

Ahhh I’m first?! Crazy. Love your videos Breeny. You’re truly a sister in Christ to me

Lmaooo who else was triggered when she said "he may have a whole wife and children in Nigeria" 🙋🏾

Giving me perriodddd in every video sis. These looks just get better i luvv your vids!!! Can you do your makeup when you talkkk