Women Are FINALLY Admitting What Use They Have For Men 

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Always ask "does this woman deserves me?" never try to satisfy a woman's 'requirements,' always stay where you are and have respect your own requirements.

35 years ago my therapist’s daughter had a bumper sticker on her car that I found offensive. “If you are rich I’m single” She was probably a 5.5 SMV wise. I later heard she got pregnant and she became a single mother. Needless to say her mother was devastated by this.

"Only time a woman made a man a millionaire is if that man was a billionaire before he met her." - Royce Da 5'9

Women have the minds of children. The sooner a man realises and accepts this fact, the less stressful their lives and their dealings with women will be.

Men's friendships & romantic relationships are typically based on the (largely inate) qualities of a person : their looks, their intelligence, their empathy, etc. Women's friendships & romantic relationships are typically based on how much a person can offer to her at any point in time : comfort, financial support, housing, sexual pleasure, etc. This makes women far more shallow and selfish in their pursuit of friendships & romantic relationships alike. It's all conditional and based on HER needs. If you fail to meet her needs at any point in time, she can cut you out of her life even after years of dedication & loyalty. In my experience, women have no sense of loyalty or duty. And once you realise this, it makes perfect sense why our ancestors limited the ability of women to have political or economic power.

They dont want a men, they want a lifestyle with YOUR money

I love the irony of women allegedly mistrusting nice men, out of fear they want somehing from them, whereas virtually the ONLY reason women are dating men is for their utility (aka, what can he do for me?).

The modern woman wants a man with resources that will work hard, diligently and without question to help her achieve HER goals.

I'm now convinced that women with the hyena laugh demonstrate sociopathic tendencies. She's a box of makeup away from being Batman's nemesis Joker in drag.

Most girls today never spend time developing a personality so instead they follow the crowd. No wonder most guys find them boring

No marriage No divorce No child support No Alimony Result happy life....😎😁

Four Rules for Predicting Female Behaviour. Rule #1: Everything I want, I believe I deserve. Rule #2: What's the least amount of effort I can expend to get what I believe I deserve as quickly as possible? Rule #3: If the quickest and laziest route to achieving what I believe I deserve would require serious moral or social transgressions, then those rules don't apply to me, because of how righteously-deserving I am. Rule #4: If I am stigmatised for any moral or social transgressions in the righteous pursuit of what I believe I deserve, then what is the least amount of effort I can expend to defuse criticism, deflect blame or escape punishment? Rule #4 is how women consistently-lower the bar of any civilisation. If enough female listeners can empathise with the justification for transgression by imagining being in her position, the transgression becomes destigmatized. Women don't really feel guilt the way men do - from my experience, they can emotionally-justify anything as being anyone's fault but their own. All, non-resilient female behaviour seems to follow this pattern. Emotionally-resilient women are less predictable.

I have listened to a lot of people talk about this topic (PhD psychologists, licensed divorce attorneys, divorced guys, etc) and everyone seems to agree that a lot of women just want 2 things: 1. babies, and 2. money/resources. Notice, that they do not want a man or a relationship (just the products of a man/relationship). Once you have given her the ring, house and kids, the marriage is on a countdown clock. It will eventually end as you have provided her with everything she needs on divorce. She will move onto the next guy as you have now become boring and the love has faded.

The fun part is always the same : You look for a partner that supports you, that acts as a multiplier to make you better. But you aren´t "good enough" for them then. However, when you made it on your own and you are set for life with plenty of disposable in come then they are ok with you sending an application to become their bf... the fun part at that stage you don´t need/want them anymore. Why would you want to attach a leech/parasite to yourself after you made it through the finish line that did nothing to help get you there? Na.. at this stage it´s better to just ignore them entirely and just have some bedroom fun. Typical saying, women just wait at the finish line to find themselves a winner, but have no interest to help someone get up there and win. Yet there is no value in a parasite for a winner.

99% of women could never spot a real wealthy guy, as opposed to a guy who’s spending borrowed money on stupid luxuries and racking up massive debt.

You can either love women or understand them. You cannot do both.

Alexander’s face when watching these videos is gold.

Men have known this for a hundred years but it's cute women are so forthcoming and blunt about it now. The problem is that men don't fully understand just how immoral women are in downright stealing a guys money after they have access to it.

All of this isn’t due to feminine traits. It is all based on an over abundance of male attention. Dismissiveness and unavailability only works on attractive women who aren’t starved for attention. So doing the opposite of what they’re used to makes you stand out.

Be wealthy, but don’t flaunt it. Be attractive, but don’t rely on it. Be interesting to others, careful not to let it turn into obvious pride. Be invested in your time, but don’t be too selfish with it. Be dismissive, but don’t be rude while displaying it. There’s a way to maintain these traits, though there’s easy ways to make them conflicting with your desires to garner attention from others.

A little logic is an understatement. Too many women know they bring too little to a relationship to warrant what they receive.

Today's men must work 5 times harder than their grandfathers for women that are 20 times worse than their grandmothers

That video at the beginning is all you need to see in order to stay away from gold diggers and crazy WHAMEN, don't put your $€% in crazy, don't date crazy...value your money, sanity and wellbeing.

As for women's tendency to try to fit in, rather than having a firm set of values of their own, this is adaptive. Throughout history (and a lot of prehistory, too), women have been married off into different families that might have different values and cultures, where they would need to adapt and fit in to get along.

IG, RU-vid and tiktok have been excellent mediums for women to expose their real nature to men. Thank you ladies...and good day to you.... 👋

Based on experience I would easily swap #2 and #4, I have seen things that shocked and disgusted me deeply from women that happened because a man in their sphere was simply unavailable.

Never try to impress a woman. Work on yourself to become impressive.

Watching you cringe while she talked is one of the best "reaction video" I've seen this year.

They care about MONEY and ONLY MONEY! They only care about looks for having "relations" and a relationship to them means "someone to take care of me and pay for me", they want a good wallet, not a good man. Pay for yourself just like we do.

I feel like men and women at times are like grapes. People who get crushed and stumps on early in life ferments into fine wine. People typically never gets crushed early ferment into raisins later in age.

I'm going back a long time with this comment. But when I was 16 in highschool I walked into History class one day and there was this brunette, hot nerd with glasses look, about 100lbs with enormous ...and I was immediately in a teenage hormonal rage over her - pure lust. I knew her friend. I yanked her friend aside after class and basically told her my feelings about her hot nerd friend. Apparently her friend had a crush on me. She went back to the hot nerd girl and told her the news. Hot nerd girl wasn't into me. Hot nerd girl's friend basically shamed her into dating me because she was insulted that her hot nerd friend friend didn't also think I was hot. I proceeded to have a nearly year long relationship with the hot nerd girl. We broke up because she lost her mind and was making crazy suicide threats that I wasn't mentally mature enough to handle. She informed me when we broke up that she never really liked me and was dating me because her circle of friends thought she was an idiot if she didn't. Then I find out years later that she was constantly 'trying to get me back' for the remainder of the time I knew her. Man girls are weird

Based on my observations and experiences, women who don't follow these are the exception. In a nutshell, her guy must garner the envy of her friends. She must be able to brag about him. How he treats her is probably 7 or 8 on your list, and sometimes not even a deal breaker.

Fate often slowly and painfully wipes the snarkiness off entitled modern women's faces, eventually..

Why do women believe they are entitled to men's money that they work so hard for?

"Just be confident bro" "Just dress better"

From being highly desired and taking for granted as the one being chased by girls in my youth as a "pretty boy" to tumbleweeds in the desert as an adult, my experience was much the reverse of what is considered expected. Pretty boys are all but ignored or treated with contempt by women. Yeah the blushing is still there, but they will not engage or give off almost jealous and contemptuous vibes. Not that I care anymore as women being largely shallow annoy me more than anything, and I'm barely interested physically and emotionally, transition notwithstanding and aside from the point (definitely too pretty for most women now 😅, and not chronologically young but biologically young. Incidentally young women continued to pay attention, but not most middle-aged women who seem angry and bitterfor the most part). Even so, it was difficult feeling invisible once I became an adult and having so much genuine love to give. I've seen women say they don't like a man who looks in the mirror more than them. Afraid they'll be outdone I guess. Women have an intrinsic need to feel beautiful, and that means their partner can't be hotter than them. Money and muscles seem to majically make ugly disappear in the average womans mind. Or a bad-boy drug dealing gangster is reform material over the soft featured quiet and kind nerd. Where's the logic?

This kind of stuff always reminds me of that show Tough Love. Brilliant show. I remember how much it astounded me that these women didn't understand that deal breakers should be stuff like "he has to also want kids, he needs to share my religion, etc" not "he needs to be tall." Really exposed the shallowness of hypergamy.

Alex gives women way too much credit

A world without Men is a Highway full of Abandoned Cars with tyres unchanged .- Shakesphear.

Your content is great, man. A true intellectual.

We made the environment so easy that they no longer need to be smart about partner selection. In absence of environmental pressure, and resulting lack of need for maintaining social counterpressure women have devolved into animals. It is the biggest monkey or nothing.

It’s actually good to make videos like this it helps people remember it’s possible to have a rational discussion with different viewpoints in consideration

I'm terrible at the last point Often after dates, I realize that I should have been more indifferent. Specially if the woman was not that interesting. I understand that I should not be nice. But it is hard to fight my training

“I AM looking for a boyfriend, tee hee hee.” Oh goody. We can hardly wait.” 🙄

So basically you cannot actually like a woman and treat her right. You either train yourself to do the exact opposite to the women you actually like, or you date down enough so you really do not give a sh_t. I think that's the tough pill I'm trying to swallow now. Same thing with this ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-HuwE6H_Su24.html. But in general I think women are ruined from getting too many nice gesture from men these days. Its absolutely mind boggling

Lol, the way your face changed right at the beginning when she did that sassy noise coming out of her faceholes. 😂

Phenomenal summary, very well done.

The modern woman has a mind of a child. Until they hit the wall everything is handed to them. Affection, attention, love, sex, money simply thrown at them. The problem is they don't think it will end. People (men) will simply keep providing what they want. But alas one day they hit the wall. They realize all that affection, attention, love, sex, money are now being thrown at the latest crop of 18 year olds. And they go through withdrawals. Very sad.

thats hilarious, I was pulling the same "who crapped their pants?" face as you ar the start!

Now THAT is useful information!

#6. Tell the woman you are trying to decide between her and other women.

Treat them like they treat us, invisible. Never help, never fall for the "damsel in distress" routine. They should change their own tires, open their own doors, pay their own bills.

I read a quote somewhere saying you can either understand women or love them. Makes sense

Nice vid, Alex.

Another great vid, the only thing I'd add that without first two points* other three do not work

Also, if you're a short man, good luck being pre-selected without having to beta buxx your way to victory.

Spot Alex. Probably your best video yet. 👍

Perfect! I align well with those qualities. Especially #5.

Excellent analysis.

This is why I never show my wealth until I think they are worthy.

Good job Alexander and I enjoyed your video. My best guess is women want men to be 1. attract 2. protect 3. provide 4. a good father and 5. company. In turn, men develop themselves by 1. their health and fitness 2. skills and livelihood and 3 what is important to them. I didn't do too badly myself but took about 50 years to figure out the details.

Women actually have zero respect for nice dudes. Zero. I’m not talking about being a nice human or generally good person. I mean a nice guy

I haven't been watching this channel for about 3 years and it seems to me that Alexander Grace became more sharp in his delivery...

Hello Alexander, I have a small favor to ask you. I recently participated in a facebook discussion about an image that was going around stating that women's ability to pair bond decreases with an increase in the number of their sexual partners. I recalled seeing a video of yours talking about this study and went back to find it, but I can't find it for some reason. Could you tell me the name of this study? I know it was from Macquarie University. Does anyone know the name of the study or the name of the video where he talks about it? Thanks.

You Sir, are spot on re/#3.

Point 4 - That works in the initial stages of any courting process. Scarcity creates demand. For a long term relationship viability persistent lack of availability isn't great. If you're a guy and your gal isn't available all the time eventually you'll find somone who is, gals do this is as well (there's always fools on both sides who will chase what they can't have)

An excellent overview of modern women' hierarchy of dating mating criteria. Given this hierachy and socioeconomic and demographic realities there are really only two cohorts of males who meet requirements; mature (45+) married single divorced entrepreneurial men. As a group we tend to be financially accomplished and stable. A number of us for health reasons are reasonably fit and athletic. Pre selection is assumed if a mature male is married or divorced (90%+) of us are. Unavailable and dismissive again most mature men have been "around the block" in terms of relationship and tend not to be overly impressed by women regardless of their youth and/or attractiveness. Finally our business and personal responsibilities are pretty full so dating is definitely not a priority for us.

I have and use my 4 levels of relationships with women and ask them what level they want me to allow them to be on. Works like a charm

Lol I love how you make a such a grossed out face when you watch them clips.

Passport Brothers. Passport Brothers. The movement is growing. Thank you ladies for exposing yourselves.

I can honestly say that if I was loaded with money I would not go near that thing with a barge pole.

I briefly dated a natural beauty after college who I had a crush on in high school. She had slightly let herself go but she still needed NO makeup to look good. I took her to a concert and as we came in just as the thing was starting both men and women turned their heads. Lots of people. Never happened to me before or since.

What are some good ways to implement dismissiveness in dating?

This short clip at the beginning with that woman and her affective habit reminds me of a scene in the series "Californication" (S02E05), where Hank comes in the kitchen from Lew Ashby and in the TV runs that cooking-show with Chloe Metz. Hank sees that and say´s something.....that sometimes comes into the minds of men, if they see such intrusive women and their habits.

Of course this Kind of women are on tiktok. Normal women dont have tiktok…

Retiring in the Philippines sounds pleasant and more sociable.

7:26 dude that has happened to me, got there 3 hours later date went downhill and she was German they despise lateness.

So by definition when she moves in with you or gets your commitment she will ingerently find you less attractive because you are more available to her. Again, women give their best to new strangers to her and their worst to men who give the most.

I had a girlfriend recently and I noticed that compatilibility is huge (I am in my 20's).. But I suppose the older you get, compatibility is no longer as important... Still don't get people who choose a partner based on superficial traits... Better be alone than miserable and used.

The tactic used by ‘Chad’ as the Americans call him, is 5: Dismissive, and I’ve seen it play out very well. Girls can’t avoid it and are drawn in like a moth to flame. Tall guy finds the most attractive girl in the club, chats to her a while then simply walks away. She struggles not to follow him soon after - clearly didn’t want him to pull another girl - and she tries to talk to him. But he’s with the guys and uses them to ignore her pandering. She’s confused, can’t leave, feels silly, tries again, gets a ‘hi’ and has to walk away. Later he returns to her, he chats her up again, gets laid.

I don’t know what is freaking wrong with these women… Beyond the obvious of not looking more than skin deep, there is a real lack of fore-planning. What will we encounter in life and what skills and character will we need to get through it intact. The other huge thing for me is that I actually shy away from wealthy men. They nearly always think they can get what they want, even if they just buy it. Seems like a lot of control issues go along with that. Probably narcissism as well. Give me a humble, kind, self aware man that has a steady job and lives within his means that doesn’t look akin to Danny DeVito or Norm from Cheers and I could pull along beside him. But then, I’m from an older generation already at 48…. That’s just my thoughts anyhow….

A sense of humor is good.

5. Instead of being dismissive in a negative way you can be a bit mysterious .. that she can't really tell if you like her, approve of her, what you're all about etc.

It's great we have so many people like you advising the young men of today. When I was a little younger, Tom Leykis was the guy I listened to. He spoke through the radio and taught young men how to get more tail with little or no money. He taught men how to focus on their career and to hold onto their wallets. I used to think he was a little crass when he referred to women as human urinals for men to dump their load into. As the years have gone by, it's been proven that he was right about that. He spoke on the topic of women in general terms because generally, what he said was true. He was referred to by many of us as the Father we never had. If ever you doubted yourself as a masculine male, he would give you a verbal ass kicking to get you back into line. #LEYKIS101 #THEPROFESSOR

The masseuse Peaceful Fountains of Desire (Rachel Grant) in the James Bond movie - "Tomorrow Never Dies".

And she knows it's a unrealistic, she's laughing!

I am extremely curious what fraction of women have moved beyond these superficial attributes and on to deeper more meaningful selection traits? And if a man has failed in one of these 5 qualities is there any way to actually escape from the friend zone?

I'll do an experiment with this information.

Knowing what you know about women, how can you not be depressed?

I treat people how I want to be treated, and how I am treated by the other person. Maybe thats where I go wrong, but that is something I am proud of in my personality...... I would prefer to stay a single man than end up married to someone I don't like, and they don't like me. This has me scratching my head about the female preferences listed, (I guess you are right up to a point, but if you dismiss a girl too many times, even she will walk away from trying to gain your attention).

But they will settle for a Chad and buy him food and PS5

I’m 58 years old and I can’t believe how modern women can act like 6 year old emotionally damaged girls. It’s embarrassing.

I dunno about wanting a world where relationships are more "sophisticated". Maybe I'm hearing this wrong but I'd much like things more straightforward. "I like you, you like me, let's make something work". All these mind games, strategies, tactics and other BS is just tiring.

I tick 2, 4, 5. And if I actually get free time and increase my social circle (which I do not enjoy) I will be ticking the 3rd .

The pain written across Alexander's face when he watches the videos is priceless. 😂

and yet they all claim men are simple minded and shame us for having standarts with them.

The biggest questions are what do they offer and if is worth it ?

It’s my lucky day? How very humble of her. Besides lifting heavy things, what other self-serving things does she expect? More importantly, why should I be interested in her because I’m rich?

That woman is so obviously an actor working from a script.