What Women Are Doing When Their Husband Isn't Looking 

​@@ianclark9198 I agree that it is a fake skit that the couple filmed, but they are absolutely in an open relationship, and are making content based on it to raise awareness or let other people know how it works, or how great it is (in their opinion obviously). The man filming is probably the husband, and he is just pretending to be an outside partner for the video like you suggest. There are a million ways to gain clicks online which don't involve plastering your faces on the internet as the 'open relationship couple from tik tok'. Tik tok doesn't even give people any real income at all, so I would be willing to bet that their motivation is the typical oversharing of personal lives for social media, rather than fabricating their story for fame or money.

In my opinion the reason why these radicalized child like "women" feel justified in doing immoral stuff or just straight up don't care about the Morality of the situation is because as we know women are the child-bearers and thus the physically weaker half of the species since their skinn and muscles are design to be soft and elastic for when they get pregnant. This factor is what gives them an internal need to want the men to "protect and provide" for them, which is what they are design to do by nature (stronger muscles, willingness to take risks, logical and abstract thinking for "what if" situations, etc.). This is why most venusians don't think or seem to even care about Logic, Morality and the consequences of not staying inline whith either. They are naturally designed to mainly focus, care and think about the material/physical, their material needs, material desires, etc. in the here and now. This is because by extension it will lead them to focus on the material well beign of their future child, who they (women) will be naturally attached to because of their genetic, and by extension, their emotional bond. Abstract ideas like Morality, Logic, "karma" and things like philosophies bearly passes through the minds of these conditioned women, since normally it would be something left for their fathers and husbands to be in charged of and decide on and normally they, the daughters and wives, would trust their judgements and decisions on such matters; that is when they themselves don't want to take the time or responsibility of doing them themselves if they even could or want to. However now a days they base their views on what's right/Moral and wrong/immoral on what is allowed and dictated by the ruling class, making it an artificial substitute for fathers and husbands, or on what is collectively considered ok by the masses (public opinion), wich is mostly based on what is propagated by the ruling class/state through their media. There's also the fact that for women with a narcissistic and predatory mindset it makes them feel special and important having the men be screwed and seen as bad since it gives them a (false) sense of "moral" superiority just for being of the other sx without actually having done anything to earn it. The worst part is when they relish and enjoy men's suffering and going through problems to the point that they need to see them suffer and be ignored because it makes them feel even more superior for just being woman due to the narcissistic and above all predatory mentality they've been conditioned to have, especially when they themselves were the cause of said man's suffering. The worst thing about this is that women only feel justified doing immoral crap like that because they are at the moment backed and protected by the ruling class/state. The ruling class is for the moment allowing this behavior because it allows for the demoralization and de-franchizing of men becuase men are the biggest treath and competition for the state due to them being naturally design to care about things like Freedom, Morality and Independence, things the state doesn't want and can't tolerate. Once this is done the state will turn on them and there will be no men left or willing to defend them.

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He should NEVER get back with her... Less stress .. It's all about FEELINGS with them. They don't think the same as men. They see things through a different lens...

Indeed. The "I want the benefits of being single but also those of a relationship, if I feel like it" problem. Compromise? Nah, I deserve better cause I breath.

Facts. Another oxymoron is a loyal female 😂

Truth.

It's called having your cake and eating it to.

Aka no accountability

Why would one guy get all the bills? You all talk about money and relate your girls to money.. Why????

​@@andersnielsen6044 umm, because that is implicit in the social construct of marriage. The man provides and protects, the woman gives the man children and keeps the home. Now that has shifted since women entered the workplace and the sexual revolution, but even now men provide 2/3 of the income, on average (because of female hypergamy, not because of any supposed income gap.)

@mindmagicstudio7000 we've all heard the saying 'why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,' the guy in an open marriage is buying the cow but not getting any milk!!!!

@@davidjones8942 agreed with analagy. also open marriage is adultry.

@@andersnielsen6044 so what would you call it if your at home paying for the house, the car, the phones, the electric etc and she’s out having fun with another guys who DOESNT have to pay for that stuff? That’s called one guy getting everything for free and the other paying for everything and getting the scraps (if that) of what used to be his relationship.

You forgot the most important thing- anyone who slightly disagrees with a narcissistic woman is labeled a narcissist. According to my data collected from women- every man on the earth is a narcissist -_-

agreed

@@Seldomheardabout That’s the primary character defense of a narcissist: projection. They accuse you of being what they are, and doing what they are doing. Then attack you for it so they can avoid facing how little they truly think of themselves. It’s like watching a pufferfish blow itself up. It doesn’t do it because it’s feeling confident, it does it when it’s scared.

@@kellygreenii bro I’m a master of the white arts but I appreciate your input. And you are dead ass correct that projection is their go to.

@@kellygreenii and I’m not a psych buff anymore, but I always assumed that projection is a work around for someone to criticize themselves because they never learned or were traumatized from something.

They (female "friends") fear each other more than they fear the opinion of their loving partner.

The hive mind will wreck any woman.

No woman wants to see another woman happy, they will reach in with 'advice' designed to destroy it.

Had my 12 year marriage destroyed by a female friend of hers. Like everything she spoke was gospel. Ridiculous

@@gumdeo"Correctamondo maximus".

The irony is, once you focus on self-growth, no woman will be suitable for a relationship or marriage.

I hear you. At the point where if a woman is not sick of female friends and their gossip and backstabbing and everything else that is negative while spoken with smiley faces, then they are not ready for a relationship with a man. The same applies to men and bad friends but we do have more options in that regard even if we count them with one hand.

Skill issue, get good and find better women bro

@iamnorkore228 I agree completely, I also left a comment just like yours a few minutes ago, before I saw yours. "We must stay focused bro" and take time to love ourselves ❤

​@ogbmt haha what a funny comment 😂👍 glad to read that you have Riz and many dating skills. Great for you, but please don't put down others like you do, thanks 🙏

That is called “Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks”.

There are tons of men in similar situations, men who accept it are quite frankly weak.

Dont forget Patrick Swaize case.

Patrick Swayze was a Chad.

What did happen to Will Smith? He is a famous and rich actor after all.....with many options

Defend All Women

@@southholland6277 Defund all women

i am not sure about that, woman can be very hateful to each other.

​@@user-qo1us9oc7gMy wife has a few female friends. She sees them very rarely and only talks to them every now and then. She hates women. She hates men. She hates children. But she loves me and our son and that, truly, is all that matters to me.

Most even if they know the women is terrible she at most will remain silent or she'll be outed female cabal good ole girl network & networking

Me too man. Me too. Except replace "Girls trip" with Heavy-metal themed cruise and divorce with relationship-end.

Open relationship request from her means she got tired of hiding her cheating.

your fault, it should've ended as soon as she mentions "girl trip"

@@LexaRulesca I mean… it still results in the end of marriage 🤷🏻‍♂️ It’s not really a win either way.

@@Shwanson4 it is a win, most of the times you lose the woman and your self respect, this way you just pass the woman and get to keep your dignity

The ready answer is, "Let me think about it a bit". Because whatever you thought you had is GONE. Begin an asset moving plan, and interviewing all the best divorce lawyers near and keep the receipts so she can't use any of them. Moving money offshore is pretty foolproof now also. If there are kids involved YOU are their best protection. Look to custody winning Fam. court atty's too. Mine took a cash settlement and a really high taxed chalet. It did not work out well for her. I took 2 wks vacation and she never knew it. Had time to hire a good P. Investigator even.(busted) I still care for the woman, but I wasn't built with a ''reverse'' gear. My new gal seems happy tho.

@@Carmen-99I’ve met tons of people who do this. Most stories where all the same. The couple had built a life and had kids but couldn’t stay faithful to each other. So instead of splitting they just “open” the relationship. It’s a joke.

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Having been raised in the relative proximity of godless hippies I’ve encountered numerous degenerates/free thinkers. And all of them have been unfortunate. Genetic examples of humanity. Additionally, morally, bankrupt, individuals, alleged individuals, mostly group, think, automatons. Merely the spark of the divine resides with us all the outward expression is our own🍀

Excellent path to self destruction

This dumb California fashion “relationship” is a consistent train wreck, with the wreckage of families and countless hollow jaded people strewn about along its path.

The Secret Brotherhood of Man won't like that your exposing our strategies....but now that is here: men of culture, use the homie's "response" execution and you'll have a 99% chance of exposing an undercover ho, lol.

she might not care at all if you have 3 women lined up. she just wants you to keep paying the bills until she monkey branches. so... as soon as she dare mentions an open relationship you kick her to the curb immediately or if you're married you get a lawyer and start securing all your assets before handing over the divorce papers the day after she spends the night with Chad.

@@GrifterUno Uhhh, so she's a "ho" if she responds favorably to the response? It sorta feels like there's some weird mental ju-jitsu going on here. Lol So thankful I don't have to play games with my wife like that.

@@ronh1850 Yeah, I got three naive friends like you. One is homeless, the other two are single by choice after "not having to play games with their significant others" ended up badly for them. Wish you luck but I'll just play it safe, just in case, lol

@@GrifterUno Thanks for your concern. However, consider these 3 things: 1) My SO is n=1 so she has no relationship baggage/trauma at all. Zero, zilch, Nada. Other than our typical relationship squabble. 2) Although I met her in college, she's from a different culture (SE Asia) with healthy family and peer pressures. Expectations to be a lady (rough translation), and morality is a big deal. 3) She's been with me for 30 years. We've had our ups and downs, but now as fresh empty nesters it's like when we first dated which is awesome. So far, so good. There are no guarantees in life, but I think her and I have a good shot to go the distance. Some of what you're calling 'game playing' may just be differences in how men and women think and act. I'm sorry you seem to be so jaded. There really are decent women out there. Although they're rarer and get taken off the dating market fast and early, usually for good. Maybe try checking out women from different parts of the world if you're not having luck where you are.

True. But since it would be over anyway when she asks, I'd like men to say to their girlfriends, "you can sleep with the dude but only after I slept with a woman first". Really wonder what the females' reactions would be.

Yup. Its over right there when the question is popped. A lot of people dont seem to understand that relationships are all built on trust. When i go to work, my boss trusts that i do a decent job. I trust he will pay me. When i go out with a friend, i trust he is on my side when trouble for some reason comes on our path. Its vice versa for him. When i drive on the road, i trust traffic coming from opposite lane does not swirv into my lane. When someone does, that trust is gone. When i am in a marriage, or relationship, i trust sex is exclusively for me and she can expect the same. As soon as that question is popped, the trust contract is broken. And with that the relationship is over. I made the mistake once, to accept it. Because i was still deeply in love. It ended anyway soon after, but by then It f'd me up so bad, sex has never been the same since. It basically broke me. Thats close to 25 years ago. I dont want to get into details.

Risk benefit analysis leads me to conclude it's imperative to wellbeing/survival.

All men pay in some way.

But I don't want to be a genetic dead end. Does family mean nothing to y'all anymore?

@@MultiBannanaSHITTTT Of course family is important just as carrying on your genes to the next generation. Remember, your thoughts on this are only half of this plan. Modern women can not see past their nose so it is up to men to adapt. Get married and have kids if you need to, but know the risks. If I knew this when I was younger, I would never have gotten married. It wasn't even close to worth it.

@@daveunderwood6498 I still believe women from other cultures still make it worth trying. Just don’t bring them to the sick west or they become tainted too quickly. However I completely agree with you, marriage with a western woman is 9/10 not worth it.

​@daveunderwood6498 Get a prenup if you want to go the marriage and kids route. Make it perfectly fair in that it never mentions husband or wife, only spouse, so it can not be considered one-sided. The biggest help a prenup gives is not fairness in divorce, it's weeding out those with plans of cheating after marriage!!

@@davidjones8942 I've heard a half a dozen stories where prenups are not worth the paper they are written on. Maybe it depends where you live? It's worth checking out.

We shouldn't be a part of the problem. Spinning plates corrupts hearts, souls, and societies.

I agree 100% and no bachelor or Bachelorette parties

What if you’re bi? Then no friends at all?

​@@10TallDwarves don't date bi people. Disgusting. You have your opinions and other people have theirs

@@10TallDwarves Buddy, use some critical thinking and don't just repeat some generic "gotcha" phrase, because it's not really a gotcha. You want it analyzed, lets go. If someone is Bisexual, the friend would also need to be bisexual for it to be a concern. If the friend isn't bisexual, then it's no different than any other type of relationship of the same sex. Attraction cannot exist between both people involved. Even if both were bisexual and attraction does have the potential to exist, straight relationships are different from same sex relationships. They have different issues and concerns and how they function. So it's pointless to compare both and act as if they will have the same dynamics. They don't. For most people though, they are talking about straight relationships and how they function. There. Now your question to this is answered.

@@EntertheFray1you are partially right, I just disagree with the premise entirely. But hey, each person live their life how they see fit. If you are ok controlling your partners friend group and ok being controlled in same fashion… go for it. I just think it’s ridiculous to completely dismiss any relations with opposite sex. That’s not a life I would be willing to live or impose on my spouse.

I thought it would be obvious not to get into a serious relationship with women who go out constantly with their not so good girlfriends

Yes, there are a million things you can do with female friends -- dance, crafts, scrapbooking, kids activities, games, watching old movies, etc. Even if you wanted to drink... you could do that at someone else's place. It's it funny, despite all those, they want to do activities where there are other men and alcohol? That's the final sign of cheating or at least disrespect. Clubs with the girls, after work drinks with coworkers, trip with the girls to have drinks on the beach, school reunion, etc., etc. Alcohol + places where men are = cheating, loss of trust, and disrespect.

Yep especially since clubs aren't really fun places to be unless you like to be sxually assaulted. Loud music, bunch of a-holes everywhere. Creeps groping people who they don't even know. Why would any woman want to go to such place unless they are into being treated like trash is beyond me?

If they really like you, you'll have no idea or signal whatsoever that she's in a relationship.

@@animal0mother That is somewhat true, but usually not for me. I will know, because I don't rush women who I like into bed. I take time to get to know her. Usually within a matter of weeks once she feels more at ease, she will slip up and drop a hint if she has a boyfriend, or one of her friends will. Occasionally they also are upfront about it and just straight up say, "I'm going back to my boyfriends' apartment" on our first meet. This is more normal in big cities like London where I live. Or it isn't difficult at all to deduce from their social media, if their facebook status says "in a relationship" and there's lots of photos of them together. Or sometimes I will protract the 'talking' phase so long that we effectively end up "friend zoning" one another, after which I find out that she had a boyfriend the whole time. This happens because until I am given very specific and tangible reasons to trust someone, I will not. That can take a long time with some people, and with others (such as these kinds of women) we never even get there. I would call them 'acquaintances' at best, not even friends. Hanging out for drinks in a group occasionally is ok, but I don't have anywhere near enough in common with them to maintain a 1-on-1 conversation or invite them for Christmas or New Years' for instance. Those are the 50% of women that I am *positive* about having a boyfriend. Then the more ambiguous 60-80% threshold are those that hide it much better or don't even know themselves if they're in a relationship or not.

I’ve had sooo many female married friends express explicit sexual interest in me. With precise words too! I have too much integrity to consider it. It also makes me step back from our friendship. Now, if both her and her husband ask me, that’s an exciting proposition!

@@aaronsinspirationdaily4896 Most of these polyamorous / open relationships end badly. Even if both asked me and everything was 'above board', I'd still be uncomfortable doing it with most people. There are only *two* people I know currently whom I respect deeply enough as individuals and as a relationship, whom I would hypothetically consider this with, as I would think there'd be very little risk of emotional games, drama, or them breaking up because of it.

Yes, the nuclear family is currently being touted as the greatest thing by the more "conservative" folks. But the nuclear family is really just the last (and weakest) holdover from days past...when communities/tribes/extended families existed. Without wise, intelligent, and well respected elder females leading and guiding younger females, you'll just have the blind leading the blind.

I get that a lot, saying the truth is a crime now 😐

Unfortunately it's 99% of women nowadays, who don't have the capacity to override the basic instinct of hypergamy. It served us well in the previous eons, however it is not useful in the modern society.

james' friend's 2nd cousin's mother's uncle's brother-in-law's son here: thank you for your comment.

​@@OS-yg9fr Ghost of Christmases yet to come, here: marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows.

Micheal's wife? Micheal is letting you use his account. Sorry, I can't type more. It's time for my anti-cringe pills.

who is michael

If she doesn't tell her husband who she is sleeping with, then it's a lie that her marriage is open lol open marriage is basically room mates who are fvck buddies occasionally but the guy has to provide for everything and don't get any play unless he's handsome or famous.

That woman, by alledgedly being in an open relationship, but lying about it, bc she has hidden it from her spouse, is puting this guy in danger.

Only to end up old and bitter with a husband they despise or cats to help her wallow in her self-pity.

In societies where women have freedom to do what they want there will be women who are like this. But it’s the minority of women who want this. That’s not a valid excuse to not get into a relationship with a woman.

@@orangehair2518 I didn’t say not to get in a relationship. I said to not commit, that way we can split ties at a moments notice. It wouldn’t be my choice, but I’ve been fooled once already and I’m not going to take the risk again - it’s not worth it.

with feminism, women massively dropped the trait of loyalty and replaced it with lust. among other things.

women dropped the trait of loyalty and replaced it with lust.

He is on a rampage.

​@@cv6176doesn't matter since this is happening irl anyways

@@cv6176 No. Because, in my 20s, I made the mistake of dating someone like her. Women like this do exist. There is something that is profoundly broken inside of them.

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@@cv6176 Yes. There is. Only woman in my life that I was actually afraid of. Ever.

@@cv6176 You can just keep repeating “no” all you want. It doesn’t magically make me wrong. Because I’m not wrong…I have encountered (both personally and professionally) women who are this damaged…and worse. Or have you forgotten about Amber Heard?? I’ve had run ins with women far more damaged than even her.

Get a passport 😂

Fine a girl with no friends 😂

@@angelhellokitti Nope.. That's usually also a big red flag.

In my 30’s I took many trip down south all by myself, the stuff I saw and was offered made me doubt female loyalty. Now that men are sharing their stories, our collective eyes are opening. Young guys are lucky to have this information available. Women love to be loved, they are not in love with you. A better deal comes by and your are forgotten in a heartbeat. We are built differently.

My thought too.

It is because she has pair bonded with the new guy.

Exactly it’s most of the time the woman who wants that

It's because, for some psychological reason, women don't want to hold themselves to any type of Moral and Logical standards, in this case the standards of being a good and faithful girlfriend and wife. The idea of fully committing to something is almost alien and borderline horrific for them because they just want do drift in life going only on their emotions and just feeling things through like driftwood on the open sea. Having to use logic and a moral compass is like planting yourself in the dry land were you have to take responsibility for your own life through proper thought and action.

@@agm5424 💯

@@agm5424 Last sentence is brilliant. 🙂

​@agm5424 I can't imagine going through life without accountability and morals. I don't understand how anyone can respect themselves if they don't hold themselves to a standard. Maybe these type of people are just delusional and that's how they do it.

You don’t need to be embarrassed for something you didn’t do. These women don’t speak for all of us.

Yup that's why I don't trust them they can betray u in an instant as if nothing happens that's the sad reality

The absolute truth

Damn. You're gross.

That's what I keep saying but people of certain generations won't watch black and white movies. Asphalt Jungle, that's a freakin gold mine. Noir nite is big for me if there's not a game on.

@@malcolmapplet4313 Awesome to hear from a like-minded! Asphalt jungle (Sterling Hayden again) is a fantastic movie! Yeah agreed black and white might have a negative impact. Also I fear the cinema aspect ratio of about 4:3 makes black borders on modern tv that looks "old" to the unknowing.

Worse.

WESTERN EMPIRE :Warning, may contain exceptions

It's spreading, you'll see similar stories in the bigger cities in non western nations too. They portray this behavior as empowering on social media and so women everywhere are doing the same.

It really depends on where you live and who you choose to surround yourself with.

​@@canchero724 GAE Global American Empire

If she is keeping it a secret from the the husband then its not open.

What happened ?

what happened after?

@@dwwolf4636 I guess 911 call :D

Still didn't answer the question why am I not surprised smh 🤦‍♂️

So... The greeting card was yours, right? You were just pretending you didn't know what it was

Too bad you live in a free country and nobody cares what you think. I’m a vegetarian but I don’t go around espousing my morals on people as if I am the voice of god. I didn’t think liberals came to this channel.

And yes, just like this speech, the “open relationship suggestion” came from one of her female friends.

and ironically women says that men are sex maniac,look which gender is talking.

We really do not. In fact, we're quite protective over our men. She just didn't respect or love her partner.

​@@Sapanatorwrong stop lying all women are like that women you are all the same including you liars and cheaters trust no women

@@Sapanator lol...copium

@@perpetualprocrastinator sure thing, buddy

I also think it was scripted. Still a good skit, and likely from personal experience.

That's just the tip of the iceberg.