That's a shame for a person has to go through! So many people are going through this. I would been devastated!! I feel like this could be avoided after the baby is born. Every child must be tested for DNA so many men will be relieved.
they don't want women to be held accountable for their actions and if they did the government would have to pick up the slack due to the absence of the real father whom she did not bring forth
Not only has the mum messed him around, she has also put the child in an incredibly messed up and cruel situation from the lies and deceit. Imagine finding out the person you though was your father, turned out not to be, and now the dynamic between you and your supposed father has changed, whether if he meant it or not. Yet the focus of child support is to just throw money at the parent that owns the child in a sense, regardless of the emotional damage dealt by said parent
🤔🤔 Hello judge..we would like to see a part 3 to this..I'd like to see every STATE enact some legislation to make sure the mothers have to have a DNA TEST performed to make sure that the father is proven..this would cut down on a lot of men having to go through the courts..
I went through the same thing. I was 17 and the girl told her father I got her pregnant and he said I got his daughter pregnant and said I better tell my mom. So I went and told my mom and come to find out the child wasn't mines and the girl not her father called to apologize. I guess I was just supposed to get over it and move on. I only knew the child for 8 months but I was a good father and I dnt know if it was more embarrassing or just the hurt feeling
Had a similar thing happen to me. My wife and I broke up for a bit then got back together and shortly after told me she was pregnant. I questioned being the father but was made feel like a fool for questioning it. 13 yrs later I got a dna test done and found out I wasn’t the father. Totally destroyed me.
@@abdulwakeel5598 yes, had to tell her I wasn’t her father as her mother became Sick and I knew there was a chance her mother would die young. My daughter rebelled against me for a bit but eventually she realised it wasn’t me she should of been be mad at. I’m her father and that’s the way she wants it and I’m more than happy with that.
@@cain3272 sorry to hear that bro. It's sad how good guys have to go through stuff like that. I was hurt and it was only few months but I can't imagine what it's like to go through what you went through for them yrs invested
@@abdulwakeel5598 years of watching my daughter grow up and looking at her every day to see any signs of her looking like me or any of my family members. While every time I’d question her mother she made me feel a fool for even asking. My wife only had to tell me the truth and I’d of still been her father but she wouldn’t tell the truth. I believe there should be compulsory DNA tests before any father puts his name on the birth certificate.
My brother, PLZ PLZ PLZ!! Dont be fooled, oh she knew all along that wasn't ur child, and don't you doubt it, she knew. The big factor now is how you handle the issue. Be smart, be wise, do the right thang.
@@NovatheDawn it not about using u western women aren’t built for long term relationship on the balance of probabilities. The culture has us fight cuz there no trust on both sides. The court system has dishearten us on relationships with are women cuz only here are women view us as the enemy.
I’ve ALWAYS said that DNA testing should be mandatory for EVERYONE including married couples regardless and it shouldn’t be a problem when you know you haven’t been messing around and I know a few people including one married couple who found out later after they’ve had gotten attached and spent so much money and time with kids only to get hurt and I’m sure that’s a terrible feeling. I don’t understand why nobody has made it mandatory anyway
Here's a few things that should happen for a child when they are born and I think Australia does the DNA and fingerprints automatically. But yeah, fingerprints and DNA needs to be taken for every baby born. With all the children in the world that are missing these days we don't have either on them. It should be a law....
This man disgusts me first you say you don't care if ur the father and you sign acknowledgement of paternity now ur saying u don't want to pay for a child the isn't yours unbelievable men just don't want to step up
He never said he didn’t care if he was the father or not. He said that because he was so sure he was the father he didn’t need a test to prove him right. It wasn’t until the mom began making weird comments re paternity that he started questioning it. It’s also the mother’s responsibility if she knows she’s mad multiple partners around conception… would it be nice for him to be financially responsible? Yes. But should he remain obligated. No. Also it’s takes away the actual father’s opportunity to step up and be apart of the child’s life…
@@journeywithkeren he never should've signed acknowledgement of paternity PERIOD unless he took a DNA test to prove he was the father he's a loser and a deadbeat for all of the sudden not wanting to take care of the innocent boy who probably thinks this man doesn't love him anymore DISGUSTING
@@deannapalmatier i think the mother is the disgusting one , he didn’t know the truth but she knew how many mens she slept with by the time she got pregnant and she is responsable to know the facts before getting in to deceiving a men and scamming him in to be a father , she is the one who deceived not only him and his family but her son as well .
