This almost same thing happened a few years ago in Galveston TX...Guy had to pay for a child that was not his biological because he found out after the child was over 5 years old. Judge said the child only know him as the father so he was stuck paying child support. Guys be carful who you laying down with and having babies with.
Right I feel if the parents are not married at least before the child was conceived and when having the child automatically a paternity test should be done if someone signs the birth certificate before the child leaves the hospital just like they make sure the child has its first shot screening test When I had my daughter I couldn’t even give her his last name until he showed his ID now you can your boyfriends last name even if he didn’t sign the birth certificate. The system is setting these men up for failure
This is insane there should be more laws protecting men in these situations. My hubby found out one of his “daughters” was not his and paid child support all throughout. Some of these women should be held accountable for lying and men shouldn’t have to pay support for a child that’s not biologically his.
My ex had had a vasectomy and this hoe that he'd worked with put his name down on the child support paperwork so they put him on child support. Mind you he'd been married to his current wife and had never had sex with this heifer they made him start paying without him ever being brought to court. He went to recovery services and took all of his paperwork from his Dr saying he couldn't father any children they said they didn't care and he ended up paying for 18 years. It seems like the courts don't care as long as they have someone on the hook paying
As a man, why can’t he be smart and use logic? All the men who get done wrong in court are either not smart or emotional/feminine. If men thought logically, he wouldn’t have been in this situation. It’s his fault.
they should have DNA testing for every newborn child because let's be honest some women really don't know and they are hoping, guessing, wishing that he's the father.
@@Sar-ahG I used to agree but because of the inherit risk men have in raising someone else's child. Also making the man ask is hard because most women aren't doing it without breaking up or a court order. Also it's not fair for a man to have to ask because he shouldn't have to decide what's more important, their relationship, or finding out if the child is theirs.
@@felipeamaral8061 I see where you're coming from but you can always do a test even without telling your girl... I would want one if there was a possibility of more than one father but it shouldn't be Sam's decision --They would probably build a big database with all the info they collects on every person -- I don't trust that
I wonder why when the woman found out he wasn’t the dad why she didn’t go drop the child support. To me that’s completely dirty and for these states to hold the man accountable when you know for sure he isn’t the dad
She did but the judge determined that he had a moral obligation to continue to pay medical support..the child support was dropped and the mom had no say in the judge not dropping the medical support order
Title 4-D. A judge's retirement is based upon the reimbursed child support to the state. Judges are financially incentivized to place and keep men on child support regardless of paternity.
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I need the entire episode together waiting for the next part was driving me crazy 😂 great content…Bless 🙏🏾 him for sharing his story it had to be a hard thing to do …I can tell he still 💕 the child
Pat on the back to judge Vonda for what she's doing for good people, fathers who work hard and their kids. I see that she's breaking these into episodes Part 1 2 3 Etc but she can get the views and more power to her, she deserves it. I don't mind. Have some tolerance. Judge has earned it.
This happened to me minus the cold support. I didn’t find out the child wasn’t mine until the the child was 3. I never signed anything so I was never obligated to pay support. I learned of this law when the BM tried to pursue for back support but was denied because I didn’t signed anything. Plus I had partial guardianship at the beginning. Changed my life forever
Court decisions definitely contribute to the toxicity of some relationships. I don’t think he or any person should be forced to take care of a child that is not biologically theirs. The gall of these judges.
Since the Judge wants to hold up the AOP for him to be morally responsible to pay support, she should pay the support then. That seems crooked As Hell! 😳
She's gonna sit there and act like she doesn't know what title 4-D is, And why he was forced to continue to pay for a child that wasn't his. Every penny paid in child support is reimbursed to the state. That money is part of a judge's retirement
Because he signed wouldn't that make him the legal parent and responsible financially even if biological father is known and present. I'm from Louisiana that is how our system works
I know a girl whos fiancé signed the birth certificate when CLEARLY the child wasn't his, they proved it wasn't his child, but he is still financially responsible because in west Virginia, they refuse to "bastardise" (or however its spelled) children.
The thing about women like this is she’ll NEVER mention this man to her child when referring to his father. B/c when referring to him she’s going to be speaking about the man that knocked her up, not the man that stepped up.
Texas child support is frustrating to me. I have an open case in Utah and my sons father moved to Texas. So Utah sent an order to Texas to have him pay. We'll they though why don't we just open up our own case and took double support out on him I tried for 2 years to stop it and nothing. Now I'm getting absolutely nothing because of there mistake.
This is just content but she knows it was absolutely legal. A judge can assign paternity even if there is no DNA and No AOP signed. If you are named and don't show up for the hearing they can assign paternity. And they only way to TRY and change it is by filing privately with an attorney.
I know in Wisconsin, if the father is asked in court does he want a DNA test (KNOWING they are the father), they get stuck with an unnecessary fee, like $600. But to just SAY, "Yes, I'm the father", to avoid the $600, causes them to pay all this unnecessary money. This sgit ain't fair for the fathers. But that one fee would've saved plenty heartache... I feel for any man that has gone thru, and is going thru this...💖🙏
Idc what any judge says I wouldn't pay a dime to someone else's that don't got nothing to do with me especially when the judge says it's a moral decision, not a legal one.
I would advise any man to try and pay up to the time when ur kids turn 18 all at once or ASAP! Because every trip to court is even more money or even a courtship with being put in jail
i am wondering what will happen in years to come, will our children understand what the word "FAMILY" means? Are we losing the family values? i feel disappointed to our generation, the path we have taken and even intentionally decide to bring innocent children in the same mixed and confused path. I love it that a country like USA has a structure in the legal system, that makes sure these innocent kids are taken care of. I am watching and learning from you judge, with a hope that i will be able to contribute to my society in terms of making sense to what we have lost as a society and generation.
This right here!!! Is the moden woman tap out card! Strong independent so called woman!! This is there out ticket! Bless all my solid woman you know who you are😘😊💝
You could take her to peoples court and sue her personally! I paid medical until he was 21. However, he is my child and I didn’t sue her at all. I couldn’t ask for a better kid. It wasn’t his fault.
I whole heartedly believe that there should be an automatic paternity test questionnaire when filling the paperwork for the man and it should be included in the hospital bill and no signing of the paperwork until DNA results are done. Also if a woman chooses to keep the baby and the man don’t want to be part of the child’s life, have him sign over his rights bc most time those be the ones end up killing the mama and baby. And if she doesn’t want to keep the baby and she knows he would want to have it then she could not tell him about the procedure or have the baby and sign over her rights to the father(if she’s against abortion but don’t want the child).
My only question is - - - was the child still called Myron Jr or little Myron? Or just dropped the Jr or little, sad situation for all three Mom Myron and the child!!!
I would cuss both her, the judge, and the state until my last breath, and forget about forgiveness, there would never be any chance of that, I'd cuss them to both Satan and St. Peter at judgement and damn the consequences.
This is wrong on so many levels! As a women the right thing to do was just give him the child support back to him once she received it , since it couldn’t be dropped!
I would have sued the judge personally. He followed the letter of the law and the judge made an independent decision. The judge was well within her jurisdiction to order the mother to provide the information on the biological father to the court. Then the court could have actually pursued the biological father and granted a default order of child support or a mandatory DNA test for him instead. This guy should really sue that judge .
I I don't believe that you can't get jailed for not paying child support my daughter's ex-boyfriend has two kids with her he hasn't paid child support for 9 years now and they haven't put him in jail he don't even pay taxes so he gets away with everything and I don't think it's fair
I know someone who did the signing of paternity though he knew he wasn't the father. The baby was the result of a rape. The woman and him met had met just before it, they were in the service together and had fallen in love. When the baby was born the family, because they didn't know him at all, convinced her to put father unknown on the birth certificate. Turns out he was a good guy and understood. A year later they married, and he signed the certificate. As far as I am concerned, he is an angel sent from heaven. He is my grandson-in-law, and we all love him to pieces. The child looks just like him and their second child looks just like mom. They have been married almost 11 years.
He should have appealed the decision. And took it back to court. A judge can't morally choice to make any man the father that is not biological his. There is no such law. His lawyer if not should have appealed the decision and the biological mother should been ordered to repay any and all money that was spent on the child. Cause in theory if he was the father the court would had him pay arrears for the 5 years. This system needs to reformed.
The mother was despicable knowing there was more than 1 possibility. But men have to start doing their due diligence. It’s a sweet notion that you were certain but you were not in a committed relationship during conception and although commitment is no guarantee it would’ve been more understandable. Also if men want these laws to change they need to fight to change them. You can start by submitting potential legislation for review. You fight to not pay, start fighting to help change the laws
The issue is that the mom knew that she was messing with multiple guys. In those scenarios, where a pregnancy occurs, most women don't offer up the info that the father could potentially be other guys. They seem to just pick the guy that they'd prefer it to be.
Guys, get a DNA test on your kids before u sign that birth certificate especially if it was a 1 night stand, short relationship, if it was FWB, any time you are having doubts
Because she knows she is not required to. For the medical support only order the child was probably on Medicaid if so the money went directly to the state.
This ain't uncommon to happen .. They are thinking about what best for the child not the grown ups and I'm sorry I don't care about the grown ppl just the kids.. Is that child being taken care of point blank!!
Wow this is so crazy. ...see in New York Brooklyn where I from. They just want proof of DNA the biological father or mom has to pay child support through court you go to family court. And then they go to court. They do the child support. Also they do this bck care if they missed years. Then from bb to 21 years old you pay child support. Either parent. And no one whi not the biological father they don't pay for anything. In New York where I live. Yea this is so insane and evil and disturbing and disrespectful and disgusting and horrible and twisted and sick and malicious and spiteful and very corrupt 😢 and it's not right 😢 I don't understand the logic behind it 😢. A man or lady shouldn't pay for anything of a child that not there's. They should be mire strict about it all. Like only if the people are biological father and mom. Then yea. Pay. But I don't agree with this ... I feel bad for ppl like this situations. And please ppl be smart and make sure you are very careful. And it's innocent children in the middle of this and innocent men in the middle of this situations. So be careful. Be cautious.
This platform is so needed I think that judge’s decision was ludicrous! Where was the mother’s morals when she didn’t know which man fathered her child! And did the young man change his name from Junior 🤔
Why couldn't they drag the biological father to court? She was so fast to name him. Name the real daddy. It really makes me mad that there is a man out there who never paid a dime for this whether he knew about him or not. I'm mad at the mom for not going hard for her kid and dragging that man to court. Instead she did the dishonorable not moral thing of pursuing a man she knew wasn't the father and had other kids. This is messy. I'm glad they removed the money support and only made him pay the health insurance but still not right.
Since he was already paying that’s why tx cs made him continue. Tx CS is a my husband did a paternity test and they had a week and half error and slapped my husband as the father instead of retesting. He gave up rights and never had to pay a dime as he never paid. Now to this day still dealing with the mother that even lost her rights still obsessed with my husband
ask for a DNA test plain and simple don't sign nothing at the hospital best to know that it is your child then to find out it's not ! Just Sayin 🤔 I give kudos to this man ! Who stepped up when the other didn't and I also put blame on the mother also She's Not Innocent she knew exactly what she was doing when she was messing around with you different men !
