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Just a 30 something sharing my thoughts, experiences, and life

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Leaving Chicago | a new chapter in my life
1:01
9 месяцев назад
In my 30s | thoughts on life lately
5:00
9 месяцев назад
life lessons | to the person I love the most
3:12
10 месяцев назад
MY FIRST YOUTUBE VIDEO!
0:32
3 года назад
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@richlake
@richlake 12 дней назад
SOMEONE << DATE THIS WOMAN,, FIND A MAN... . HAVE A BABY,,, STAER A FAMILY and DROP THE DRAMA.... Ho my gosh,,,,, get up.. and go... have a two babies, Three, get a LIFE. mini van. LIFE
@TheChurchofBreadandCheese
@TheChurchofBreadandCheese 13 дней назад
@5:57 Iron man? on the left running and going nowhere kinda feels like my life since turning 30 tbh LOL great vid.
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 13 дней назад
They might be lagging but honestly I feel the same way haha and thanks for watching!
@tim47056
@tim47056 18 дней назад
I've been wanting to try Marvel Rivals! It looks fun! Who do you main in Overwatch?
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 17 дней назад
You should! Typically roadhog or moira!Hby?
@tim47056
@tim47056 17 дней назад
@@abbeysolute I also main Moira and Sigma. I think I'm switching to Juno next season. Who did you want to win the Super Bowl?
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 17 дней назад
​@@tim47056 Oh nice! I didn't pick a team but it was fun to watch!
@voiceofomiej7722
@voiceofomiej7722 19 дней назад
🤣
@lineinka
@lineinka 20 дней назад
i looove pho !
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 19 дней назад
Yes! It's the best!
@MrMugampi
@MrMugampi 20 дней назад
Nice update. BG3 is a huge time sink, so it's understandable that you aren't playing it much😃
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 19 дней назад
Thank you and true!
@tichneck
@tichneck 21 день назад
Hey abby can we get some thirst traps please?
@cruxlamar9681
@cruxlamar9681 26 дней назад
Have you ever touched Destiny 2?
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 26 дней назад
Yes I have!
@FlyPhoenixFly
@FlyPhoenixFly Месяц назад
You’re closer to me now!
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 29 дней назад
Yay! If I visit I’ll let you know 😊
@JLEXUS
@JLEXUS Месяц назад
Aww not Hawaii ): Vegas during the summer months always makes me have bloody nose >.<
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
I hope to visit Hawaii one day! Ah that sucks. I haven’t had that so far but I have had that in the past
@kingcarcas1349
@kingcarcas1349 Месяц назад
That's wild, i hate the heat
@user-ui3jo1um8b
@user-ui3jo1um8b Месяц назад
poor soul you forgot how to love and move without fear - that is the danger of being too comfortable for too long
@moaro4859
@moaro4859 Месяц назад
Nice video, good edits!
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
Thank you!
@dj_bae
@dj_bae Месяц назад
Hope you're staying cool in that Vegas summer heat!
@nantinee9
@nantinee9 Месяц назад
Hope you enjoy living in Las Vegas. Thanks for the update.
@jacobbos2208
@jacobbos2208 Месяц назад
good for you!! have fun enjoy the ride and we'll enjoy it with you! i hope you run into the right people that will help you on your journey and that you'll find interesting
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
Thanks! I appreciate you mentioning that and I hope so too!
@user-ui3jo1um8b
@user-ui3jo1um8b Месяц назад
i burst out laughing 😆 when she said "like...how are we all cool with that... u know 😄" the way she said it so nonchalantly
@leejinwen
@leejinwen Месяц назад
lol don't say lass vegas, its more like loss vegas
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
Thank you for correcting me!
@nriqueog
@nriqueog Месяц назад
No more excuses about not getting enough Vitamin D ! ! ! Have you researched taking Creatine to help with feeling unmotivated? I read that 2 doses of 5grams each per day help people with depression. Apparently the brain makes creatine just like the liver does and it is safe. I've been taking 5 grams a day since June and I've noticed a positive change in me. Hope you enjoy Las Vegas.
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
Right! I have not but good to know! Thank you!
@TheChurchofBreadandCheese
@TheChurchofBreadandCheese Месяц назад
118 f = 44c ...me watching from Ireland sweating and putting on spf 100 just hearing that...our summer is lile max 25c
@mrobanyaki7294
@mrobanyaki7294 Месяц назад
Whyd u choose to move to vegas? New job opportunity?
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
My parents moved here so I tagged along!
@mrobanyaki7294
@mrobanyaki7294 Месяц назад
@@abbeysolute hard to settle down and commit, if u keep moving around & changing every so often. Whether it's friendship, career, relationship, etc
@ThePathofTheSoul76
@ThePathofTheSoul76 Месяц назад
Abby, your story resonates with many who feel trapped in a cycle of overwork and unfulfilled dreams. Your courage to acknowledge your struggles and seek guidance is a testament to your strength and resilience. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Many have faced similar challenges and emerged stronger and more self-aware. Embrace the power within you to break free from limiting beliefs and pursue a life that aligns with your passions and values. Don't be afraid to fail. Failure is not the end; it's a stepping stone to growth and learning. Embrace the process, learn from your mistakes, and keep moving forward. Surround yourself with supportive individuals who uplift and inspire you. Their positive energy can fuel your motivation and help you navigate life's challenges. Prioritize your well-being. Nurture your mind and body with healthy habits, including adequate sleep, nutritious food, and regular exercise. A healthy foundation will empower you to tackle life's obstacles with greater resilience. Seek professional help if needed. A therapist can provide valuable guidance and support as you work through your challenges and develop strategies for achieving your goals. Believe in yourself and your ability to create a life that fulfills you. You have the power to overcome obstacles and pursue your dreams. Embrace the journey, learn from your experiences, and never give up on yourself. I'm rooting for you, Abby! Your strength and determination will guide you towards a brighter future.
@roachewy
@roachewy Месяц назад
this is why i became an artist, it gives me something productive and fun to do all the time :”D
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
Love that! Thanks for sharing!
@popstarchris2398
@popstarchris2398 Месяц назад
hi im thinking about moving from Tampa to Chicago just graduated college. Did you end up moving back to Chicago? or a new city
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
Hey I moved to a different city! I do miss Chicago though!
@yellowdued
@yellowdued Месяц назад
keep on truckin sista
@CarbonatedGrape
@CarbonatedGrape Месяц назад
Great video! I hope you keep on producing more content that makes you happy. 😄
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
Thanks a lot!
@andresdelcampo6733
@andresdelcampo6733 Месяц назад
Come visit New England. I live in Massachusetts
@andresdelcampo6733
@andresdelcampo6733 Месяц назад
Great video and message, new subscriber here.
@hakuchu
@hakuchu Месяц назад
it is difficult to balance reaching for your dreams and living a life true to yourself with the hellscape of end stage capitalism being very present in everyones lives. i agree with the message of the video, i just wish i had more ability to follow through with it.
@marcK599.
@marcK599. Месяц назад
There is no such thing as work life balance. Never has been in history so get used to it.
@DavidDLee
@DavidDLee Месяц назад
What does that mean? Quitting your job? Working less hours? Not pursuing promotions? It reminds me of a survey question at work about work/life balance, if I feel that work is interfering with my personal life. I always replied YES, because work is stuck to occupy the best hours of most days of the week. Maybe you can create a new business, maybe even a company, and eventually let others work for your income. But, you'll still need to work quite hard for a while and most people are not capable of doing that. Maybe you want to plan to retiring early, e.g. FIRE, but it still requires a lot of years of hard work and frugal living.
@Rob1964b
@Rob1964b Месяц назад
Excellent video. Keep up the good work.
@MillennialDiligence-sx8re
@MillennialDiligence-sx8re Месяц назад
Yep pretty much two entire generations!
@MillennialDiligence-sx8re
@MillennialDiligence-sx8re Месяц назад
I swear you are reading my mind. I deleted the TOK, and told myself it’s time to be a producer instead of a consumer. I’m focusing more on my channel and it’s going well. Love the content!
@MillennialDiligence-sx8re
@MillennialDiligence-sx8re Месяц назад
Keep going! I’m loving this content and I feel the same way.
@MillennialDiligence-sx8re
@MillennialDiligence-sx8re Месяц назад
Overthinking leads to decision paralysis. I feel like I have worked too much and never really tested myself. I’ve always just did what I was “supposed” to do. Got a degree etc. Well I’m 36 and I can no longer live in my regret. I’m planning on starting my own business, I just have to stop thinking and ACT.
@cruxlamar9681
@cruxlamar9681 Месяц назад
I just recently go out of a relationship, i cant imagine moving as much as you do. Is dating difficult because of it?
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
I'm sorry to hear that. I haven't really been dating so it has not been difficult
@cruxlamar9681
@cruxlamar9681 Месяц назад
@abbeysolute Thanks! It's getting better. Honestly I'm suprised to hear you say that tbh
@ZelenoJabko
@ZelenoJabko Месяц назад
Chinese tend to work a lot, that is true.
@cruxlamar9681
@cruxlamar9681 Месяц назад
Wild comment
@methylmercury
@methylmercury Месяц назад
Here's a thing, I've quit my job some months ago. Ever since then I've been doing nothing that made my finances grow, nothing financially profitable anyway, even though I'd love to do something amazing, I don't know what to do, what can I do? I can a thousand different phobias, it's ridiculous, moreover working almost drove me to offing myself.
@jamesmcdougal2
@jamesmcdougal2 Месяц назад
Have you read any writings by Albert Camus?
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
I have not. Any recs?
@jamesmcdougal2
@jamesmcdougal2 Месяц назад
@@abbeysolute You could start by watching vids on yt to get an overview of his philosophy. A GUIDE TO ABSURDISM: The Philosophy For Living Fully is a good one. If that interest you then you can read "The Stranger", "The Plague", or "The Myth of Sisyphus" to start.
@simiuciacia
@simiuciacia Месяц назад
@@abbeysolute "The Stranger" is the way to start, you'll know if it's for you. I believe that Absurdism is the reality of many of us
@IgnatiusReilly401
@IgnatiusReilly401 Месяц назад
Great video. I’ve been thinking about this a lot ever since I turned 30.
@nriqueog
@nriqueog Месяц назад
That fear of uncertainty is really tough to get past when heading out on your own path.
@TXGX3500
@TXGX3500 Месяц назад
What do you do for a living?
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
I work in corporate!
@TheChurchofBreadandCheese
@TheChurchofBreadandCheese Месяц назад
Doom scrolling, working overtime in my job and dating people who are only half interested in us. Why are we like this though? Great video! edit: Anyway I just ended that relationship.
@nriqueog
@nriqueog Месяц назад
You deserve better.
@TheChurchofBreadandCheese
@TheChurchofBreadandCheese Месяц назад
@@nriqueog Thank you. I have a habit of dating people who only kinda like me don't know why.
@kingcarcas1349
@kingcarcas1349 Месяц назад
Can I have the 3080
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute Месяц назад
I’m sorry it’s not for sale 🥹
@Achengz100
@Achengz100 2 месяца назад
I kinda wish I had a remote job. I could travel and explore new places without being tied down to an office location!
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 2 месяца назад
Maybe one day!
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 месяца назад
I'm in Seattle and escaped Chicago. Be safe haha Edit: They both suck. Seattle was dope in the 90's though.
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 2 месяца назад
Haha I feel like Chicago will always have a place in my heart. Wish I could have seen how Seattle was back then!
@JLEXUS
@JLEXUS 2 месяца назад
Honolulu (:
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 2 месяца назад
Oh I wish but good guess! Thank you for watching!
@nantinee9
@nantinee9 2 месяца назад
Thanks for the update. Best wishes on your move.
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 2 месяца назад
Thanks so much!
@laurabraus
@laurabraus 2 месяца назад
You mentioned the transit is pretty bad outside of the city. Does that mean outside of downtown? How far out of downtown? I was thinking of moving there, but it's just so far away, so this was informative! I would think Chicago would have also been some of the negative things you mentioned about Seattle, so it's nice to know that's not the case. Every city has its flaws I suppose
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 месяца назад
Transit outside of the city is pretty damn bad.
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 месяца назад
Meaning transit is awesome downtown (I live downtown) and gets progressively worse outside of it, and is absolutely terrible outside of Seattle proper.
@abbeysolute
@abbeysolute 2 месяца назад
I’m unfamiliar with the transit since I never taken it before but I think the transit is decent if you’re in Seattle proper. Chicago has its pros and cons but I feel that it’s different from Seattle