#1 way to never feel intimidated again : psychological liberating direction 

I remember in my freshman year of high school I was made fun of for a zip up hoodie thing I wore that day. My father noticed I was even more withdrawn than usual for a young teen that embarrassed about everything involving their folks. I told him what happened and he gave me the best advice I ever received in my entire life. His exact words were “Fuck them. If they don’t pay your bills, their opinion doesn’t matter.” It was like a light switch went off in my head and from then on any negativity, insults, whatever just bounced off because people like that were beneath my notice and not worth my time. It’s hard to talk smack if you just ignore the fools. I once had one get violent and push me but I picked up a chair and hit him with it. Was worth a 5 day suspension. Even got a high five from my dad when my mom wasn’t looking. Never had any issues after that. Don’t be afraid to march to your own tune. Ignore fools that don’t bring value to your life and never be afraid to speak your mind. It’s very liberating indeed.

I've been extremely bullied my whole life by my uncle and today is the first day I started talking shit back and I haven't told anyone but I'm scared and I know he'll try to fight me soon so wish me luck brothers

Why is this video so underrated? This was so awesome

I've never felt this understood all my life.

This is exactly what I needed to hear. I’m normally a confident person but we make it all too a common habit to see our selves through others. This video gave me insight into how life should be

I've always gotten bullied and I really relate to what you're saying about seeing from your own eyes and having lost that. I'll try to be more present and pay attention to how I feel. I think I lost my centeredness and get caught up into everyone else's eyes and I find men who always pick on me and try and pick fights or intimidate me. I'm like a homing beacon for them. But I think it's true I always find distractions from my feelings and always look for something to do, never resting. I also spent so many years lifting weights and training jiujitsu and stuff and to be honest it hasn't changed anything. I still get intimidated, only how I react has become with more anger than fear. But in the end I'm still intimidated and uncomfortable and reacting, it's just the reaction changed from being scared to being angry and wanting to fight. Which is not what I want. I don't want to get into fights with random angry men every day. I want to feel happy, safe, at peace, calm. I don't know if it's through more training that I can get that. Maybe it's a combination of training more martial arts but also more meditation and mindfulness and being honest about how I feel. I dunno.

Gotta admit from the minute u started showing the arrows, the lists of things at 10 mins 》i burst into tears... its me i feel like your talking to me. Childhood things throughout my older years, bad choices of others effect your small world and your too young to deal with it. So blocking it off and numbing it with netflix box sets or old movies, but i always need to suffocate my brain. Wish i could talk to u properly! Thanks so much. Needed the cry i think. 😭😭🇬🇧

Sir, if every therapist was like you, there would be no more "mental illness". Best of blessings to you !

This is very valuable information, but sadly enough most people have so many issues, they cannot see clearly, and with the suppressed suffering endured, they continue sinking, hoping that one day someone will save them. Here's hoping that more and more people start waking up. All the best to all 💛

The abundance mindset is the actual mindset we should face our lives with. Instead we choose to cling on to the fear mindset which we see in the surroundings. Always believe in yourselves and keep learning cuz others they are just better at hiding. And You are free You are abundant and here to give everyone and yourselves.

AT 11:59 I still don't have any proper idea of the use of this video as there is NO proper tool or insight to how not to be intimidated???

The breakdown in this video is by far the best that I’ve seen. I have shared it with my loved ones thank you

This helped me feel calm and realize that deep down I intimidate others because I’m scared of my own abilities to defend myself if they ever wanted to have an altercation. Im a fighter thats had training and spars but i haven’t been in a fight before so I have a constant fear that ill lose no matter my training. I now realize I’m just overthinking and distracting myself instead of working harder to improve my abilities. Im going to change myself for the better so i can work harder and enjoy life. Thank you!

This was going further in depth more than I was expecting.

You are magnificent. Thank you for all your valuable, insightful eye opening information. God bless your beautiful soul.

When someone tries to bully me, I am scared of myself because I know how truly beast I am & how far can I go.

This video was what I needed to realize I'm actually going through the right path. I have felt lost for so long. After suffering abuse for so many years, I finally learned how to lead a happy life. Thank you for the video.

Be true to your own nature... You really nailed it ✨

One of the best physiology video I have ever seen

I don't sub to many channels on one video. But this is one of the channels i know is golden. Thanks for explaining clearly yet in great detail. I needed this.

This man just drew my whole life in 14 minutes. This man needs more recognition. Why haven’t I herd about him? This was crazy! The best video I ever sat through. We love you and need you! ❤️💯

THIS MAKES SENSE!!! WISH I HAD WATCHED THIS BEFORE SOONER!!!

This is the exact thing we need to do. Do deal with the root cause. No tips No tricks simply tackling with inner turmoils . Thanks you so much.😍

I don't know how to thank you........ Your animation is the answer of what I've been searching anxiously for two three years.... I could never realy figure out what had gone wrong with me but, again how to thankyou, your animation jas made everything make sense

Very clear and valuable explanation, thankyou for taking the time to create 🙏🧘‍♂️

very much wisdom here. Thankyou my man.

Dropping a comment just because i saw how underrated this video is , LOOKS LIKE WE WERE MEANT TO SEE THIS TREASURE

This video is wonderful thank you! In the world we are living today, it seems that this truth is kept hidden , this is the Truth of our suffering and it have to be shared

Thank you for the Video. Now can understand my feeling more.

Watching this video while crying since I got intimidated by someone. Thank you so much for the information. It's definitely what I needed to watch. 💜

This video is literally what everyone needs, thank you so much lad! i needed this

This is exactly whats happening with me ...totally forgot how I used to be😔

Sir, thank you. This is so clearly explained.

Amazing! Never watched a detailed explanatory video that answered all my questions about the issue itself!

He explained a very extremely complicated topic in 14 minutes.... That's more then awesome!

What a great illustration!! Thank you!

This the best explanation. Thank u!

this is crazy 😳 thank you

Thank you for this video!! This is a great piece of information that can be applied to a lot of people. It was very concise and explicit in explaining how to rid the unexercised demons of our past. I agree with you 110%👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🙂

i wish i can be kind to those i feel intimidate me, they probably aren’t their best self rn

Thank you for understanding my pain

Im extremely fussy about what other males I'd want as friends, I'd happily be friends with this guy. Top advice. 1 new subscriber

I feel like i'm not good enough to have friends, i hang out with people that dislike me, it hasn't always been the case. I found therapy tough and ineffective, and costly, so i'm utterly clueless as to what to do. Also unemployed, extremely uncomfortable with my appearance, haven't ever held a proper job, extremely socially uncomfortable, i'm 30 now, there are also a handful of people who i occasionally run into who completely dislike me, yet whenever i see them i'm always polite and presentable, i find them very strange. I love to draw and paint and would like to make a career from that. I have a lot of talents, but yet i have always found working one of the biggest obstacles for me, due to my social discomfort, dislike of most people and discomfort with my looks, i cannot articulate my frustration...From Ireland, want to move to Spain.

I love you brother, thank you for helping me get free. I just found this video and subscribed.

One of the best I have seen. And it's underrated...

Bravo. Wow. Incredible work

This is a great video, thank you for making it! The visual representation of this concept really helped to stick it in my mind

Thank you, sir. Very helpful video.

Thank you for pointing out how as people we all can end up doing things to hide the facts that we are not feeling forfeited. I only came to this after having someone try to bully me into doing what they wanted by trying to frighten me into doing what they wanted me to do. I have a greater understanding and have noticed 2 issues that I have on this list that are not helping me. Many thanks, Jonathan William Fay 😊

Thank you , you calmed my temper down,

This is amazing 👏🏼 thank you

Wow.. You are brilliant. Thank you. You have open up so many blogs in my life. Wow I am so grateful. I found your channel. Thank you

I is this soo much better than any therapy i have ever had!!?? Thanks for these powerful words!

This is a very nice video and I love your voice!

Just discovered a new me. Awesome message.

I’m so glad I found you ✊🔥

wow. this was an eyeopener, this explains alot!

Wow! 3/4 of the way in, and I had to pause and comment. A LOT of great info I had never come across before. Animation was brilliant. You have a new subscriber. If you haven’t already, I would love to hear your thoughts on how to “value” the intimidator. Cheers from Downunder

Helped me alot thanks you sm

Dude thankyou for the insight awesome

When someone looks at me for more than 2.5 seconds I feel intimated and feel something is wrong with me

The secret is to be assertive.

The animation was awesome 👍

The gift of pure being.

So good. Very helpful, thank you

This is why meditation is so damn amazing because you try to strip away everything and just see your core... and with psychedelics? oh boy.

Thank you and Blessings.

Very good thanks ✨🌚

Very very good. As a recovering addict n emotional trauma it took years to get to the point of understanding all of this. I endured much suffering n only by grace did I survive. I now spend my time on a spirtual path coupled with trauma n addiction education to bring this same message to help others. I do it on a street level targeting homeless n suffering addicts. It is a long journey n much time n effort is required in healing BUT we do recover. Ur video is fantastic n the animation makes it easy n fun to understand. Great work brother

You are saving lives ❤

feel like , just having spiritual meditation philosophy class

Superb Video Man. Thank you

Wow! What a Gem! 😍

VERY well said ❗👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Thank you for using your animation to illustrate. Great logical presentation. Have a great day. Craig

Great video

Woow Great video 👏👏👏

Thank you. You are amazing ❤️

This is very realistic and helpful.

Thank you thank you thank you!!!

Excellent. Thank you.

Great video!

Truth is pure and comes any time, place, or thing Validation And respect from me Thank you

Geode video! :) Nah but seriously thank you for this, honestly kinda need it rn. Also greetings from your neighbour in the north 🇸🇪🇳🇱

Thank you!

Man this made me cry brother. I've been this way since I was bullied in elementary and jr. high school. Then I lashed out and my life went bad and still is. I pray the Lord hears you and understands me and helps me feel free one day.

To quote Joe Rogan "whaaaaaaaaaow!" Awesome work! I would definitely pay you for classes.

This is fantastic but sometimes people use distractions or stimulations unintentionally. If you don't get enough sleep, it requires you to rely on unnatural sources of energy and stimulation in order to get going. It's not a good habit and it can lead to worse habits, but it's not necessarily all that dysfunctional nor intentional. Unnatural energy leads to failure because you're ultimately not prepared for challenges that require deep natural strength.

Well this cleared up every other confusing video out there!

Thank you so much.

My mother use to hit me for no reason. So now I’m afraid of standing up for myself and just being me. Now I’m learning how to not be scared by threats and intimidation 😭

Exactly what has happened to me., But I didn t know this 26 yers back

Great self help video

Very helpful

My problem is when guys look at me and give me strong eye contact which I normally have no problem with but it’s when you know they are staring at you cause they want you to look away and I hate that. And it’s one of those situations where if you look away you feel inferior but if you keep looking at them I feel like I’m just gonna get myself into a fight.

God bless you 🙏

The only time this becomes irrelevant is when they other person is a psychopath. In that case they manipulate for pleasure not because of being disconnected.

Nice bro🔥

Great video. I came across this in search of why I'm so intimidated by ppl (shopping..driving..). I know I don't carry self confidence because I don't feel like I behave like the most- The carefree, me-me type, selfish, nosey, arrogant, or definitely not the loud, over confident types. Which has become the most of society. Is there room for me? 🤔 I may just search how to walk around with a sense of entitlement. Just curious! how ppl do it 🤯 and the WHY.😏😏 Great video again. Makes a lot of sense. And the covert part.

Im very self aware but couldnt solve this issue. This explains why when i think of a guy i start getting intimidated.