10 years, now he wants marriage in a rush | Talks with Tony 

That women needs to get tf away from that man! Smh this is so upsetting. My mother, lost her life behind a no good, low down dirty, piss poor "man." When my mom met him, i saw right through him and i let her know. As years went on, things got worse and worse. They say momma knows best, but i saw this dude a mile away, and my mom wouldn't listen to anyone. Now she's gone. I wish women would stop wasting time with low lifes. Mark my words, it is not worth your life!

Being single sounds like paradise nowadays lol Hearing these stories makes me glad I am

She knew she was waisting her time. She should have let him go 9 and a half years ago.

“He is an entrepreneur.... I GUESS!” Sis is sick of this man 😂😂😂😂😂 BUT NOT SICK ENOUGH

10 years and she still talks to him. OMG

This is the stuff we women put up with when we don’t know are worth. It’s time to love yourself queen. This is why I teach women self-love.

The first 🚩 was the fact the daughter ain’t like him. Children can see things we can’t. Crazy how he wanna rush things now all the kids about to be out of the house. Hopefully this man hasn’t taken her for ALL she has...spiritually, financially, mentally, & physically 🙄

Why is she still talking to him after he called her Princess out of her name is my question!

Between what's going on out here and these shared stories, I'm thinking being peacefully unattached is a BEAUTIFUL THING. NOT ever interested in sponsoring a grown boy.🙌🏽♥

“If you ain’t left after 10 years of this bummery!” 😂😭😭

“Come on nigh, come on nigh.” TG

How does she still desire to be intimate with a person of his caliber😩

Her daughter at age 17 is absolutely right.

The bedroom action must be REAL good because I am confused 🥴🤯🤧🤧🤧

I always said that self-love needs to be a high-level educational topic like science, math, self-love.

The look you gave to the camera...I can’t🤭🤣I am happy that she said she was wrong for staying with him for so many years. When your children don’t respect your “man”, run 🏃‍♀️. That’s called discernment of the spirit. Children are special in that way...Listen to it.

This literally sounds like me and my mothers relationship. We watch Tony's videos together and she still putting up with the foolishness.

HAHAHAHA! "You got the Body. You got the Brand. You lackin' the Brains." 😂😂😂

48?! I’m already done @ 34. 😂 I don’t have the time.

I'm gonna be 38 this year. Watched my mother go through TWO 10 year relationships like this (and worse!). I got real wise real quick, and swore I would NEVER be in her shoes. And I never was. I really don't know how women can put up with all this. I'm still single as I just keep running into men like this. Learn to love yourselves ladies! Just because you don't have anybody else knocking at your door, that doesn't mean you should be entertaining any kinda piece of a man!

Sis leave this bum alone....I’m from the DMV (D.C - Maryland - VA) area too and this ain’t it.. trust me when I tell you.. you can do better....love yourself and your children enough to walk away.. And use this situation as a lesson.. God will send you the right man after you leave the wrong one alone.. peace and blessings to you ..

Daughter is smart with a good head on her shoulders. Mama, you raised your kids right. Now believe that you raised her right and believe her. She can see clearly. A man should be the one to make the children feel comfortable.

The camera didn’t freeze, that was me 😂😂😂 & it’s’ cmon nah ‘there ya go😂

Listen to your daughter. She’s quite wise!

Men like that is the EXACT reason why I only entertain and date provider, God fearing career driven men who want to become a husband and have a family. It really hurt my heart to see women wasting so many years with grown boys but I wouldn’t be able to forgive myself if I entertain the bs. So thankful for Tony videos because as a woman in her 20’s you have saved my dating life tremendously!!!!!

It’s 03:18 for me 😂🤣 it’s something about when Tony can’t hold it together & starts cracking up lmao

His behavior with the daughter is very disturbing. Why was it ok for him to cuss her out? Dear God what if he assaulted or touched her inappropriately when mom drove away mad and left her alone with him? PLEASE MY SISTER, LET HIM GO!!

When brother Tony goes “come on na”!! 😂😂😂

That ligament took me out🤣🤣🤣

Life is precious, never allow anyone who doesn't know the value of time, love and hard worked money to waste yours away, to drain you, mistreat you or take advantage of you. Please love yourself, set standards and boundaries to live by and know love and time are gifts that you decide who deserves to receive them.

I can never get enough of these talks 🥴

Self love is essential. When you love yourself, you won’t put up with men like that. Love your self and keep your standards high.

I'm here for the southern accent!

The baby had intuition that mom needed

He actually deep down hates her. He wants to destroy her. You have done such an amzing job raising your kids and running a business. Time to give yourself that same love and energy. Your just stuck. I was stuck to for 10 yrs. I understand. All i can tell ya is when you leave your gonna feel like fresh a 20 year and your shoulders gonna be so light. The world will be your oyster again

When I tell y’all Tony have me on the floor crying laughing 😂 😂😂

Tony, everyone I meet and get to share my story with, I tell them about your book, and they buy it and read it and love it. Thank you! I’m growing into a better woman just knowing more.

I hope she finds strength to walk away, she deserves so much better 💖

Mr. Gaskins, you are too funny to me. That look on your face. "I am 48". The camera didn't freeze. The camera didn't freeze! LOL 😭

Tony ! Thank God for you! I'm 36 and was dealing with a grown boy 8 years older than me because I lost my mom and dad at 12 and was looking for unconditional love in the wrong way. Several videos prove he is 44 and a grown boy, still trying to get out the situation safely 💯🙏

“Go on bout your business.” At this point, this is willing participant status.

The fact that what these women endure weighs so heavy on Tony’s heart that he wants to start a relationship university is genuinely amazing. Glory to God

The camera didn't freeze...I'm hollering 😭 She needs to leave him. She is being looked at like a 💰.

If she would read her own letter over, she answered her own question. She already knows the answer but for some reason she needs Tony to give her a push in the right direction.

@ 10:00, I really did think the camera froze! You killin me Tony, LOL! 😆

You should totally start that university on a university campus. It's ridiculous how they don't teach the things we really need to know in life.

For a minute I thought I was listening to the Tony Gaskins comedy hour with this one! 😂. Lord have mercy on her. The daughter is absolutely on point. I don’t see how this woman was able to let this hot mess last this long!

It’s so very hard for me to understand a parent/mom can even allow abuse get to this point. Now 5 months later Im PRAYING hard that she got the strength to leave. She has a dependent, low self esteem emotional tie with this man. The enemy is a lie Sis, pray/ask for strength. U and ur daughter can be a strength to each other. Our Father will be ur strength. I pray that u left this man alone and ur protecting both u and ur daughter. Will definitely keep u in my prayers. Love and blessings❤️🙏🏽

DON'T LET NO ONE BLOCK YOUR BLESSINGS !!

That child is mature beyond her years and the thing is she is saying very basic things but she is absolutely right! It’s as if she is the mother. Spit in my daughters face and I’m still writing this email? Sis come on, I hope you left this little grown boy! 🙏🏾

I do not wish to get married again as I am recently divorced, however, I watch TG’s videos because they help me understand where things went wrong in my past relationships and I provide my daughters with the knowledge from these videos. They are 16, 18, and 23, and they are learning things I wish I knew at their age.

I’m willing to be that he is already physically abusive and she have left out that part due to embarrassment and the toxic bond. He sounds very angry and frustrated. He is now bold enough to openly disrespect her children!!!It sounds like she is unaware of how horrible and conniving some (not all) men can be. Maybe she was raised sheltered. She was married for a long time. I pray her strength and renewed mind. May she wake up and protect her children!!!

This is sad. She just wasted 10 years of her best life on this man. It's obvious he's using her and he's upset that her daughter can see through his lame game. Smh

I pulled a ligament 😅🤣😂 laughin at Tony's commentary FR

I just like when Mr. Tony watches the camera like this..like seriously. The look says it all. The way I crack up at that look and deep breath.😂😂😂😂😂 Lord, continue giving this brother strength. Be blessed.

Life coach will be beneficial but she needs a therapist to tap into what happened/what’s going on in her life for her to go through this and put her kids through this with such ease .

Thank GOD!!! The daughter has more common sense than her mother.

I am in tears at the first 5 minutes of this video! He is cackling🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hahahahaha tony where is our purse. Gotsss to go!

The camera didn't freeze that was me..... LOL Be Bless

Red flags all over this one! From her daughters input, to him not wanting to work and so much more in the email. She knows the answer, she just wants to confirm it with Tony. Bless her heart🙄🤷

Man, i love how Tony can wholeheartedly say he serious about his integrity as it comes to his brand and his WIFE! Got me feeling like all men are this transparent and godly.

I love it when Tony uses the phrase " as old as methuselah" 😆 it be true!! I look at men that are in 30s trying to play games the same way lol

“A woman is on here watching relationship videos everyday but swear she don’t want marriage, etc” I FEEL ATTACKED!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m just getting myself prepared for it in case I meet the one, that’s all 👀😅

Sounds like a huge red flag to me!

Sis, would you want your daughter to be in a relationship like this? NOPE. You are so worthy of real love, and respect. This Old, Grown Boy you have been dealing with: “Gotta Go!”. As your daughter stated, you are blocking your blessing. Listen to these videos every chance you get. Let them get in your spirit, write them upon the tables of your heart. We’ve all done stupid in relationships. When you have new knowledge, you have Got To Do Better. Praying for you🙏.

This is the type of man that will take a woman's life. I know this type. Girl run.

Girl tell that grown boy bye with a quickness!

😂😂😂🤣 uncle tony now is “NIE” 🗣

The camera didn’t freeze... the camera didn’t freeze 🥶 😂😂😂🤣

😆 Nope got to go! So disrespectful to spit on someone's face and get called a b. Say bye!

"The camera didn't freeze !" 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀

Many times “if” a man like this is going to change, it will not be until he has lost you. Don’t be afraid, if he truly loves you, you can not lose him permanently. Take a break from him. The time away will let you see him at a distant, and figure out what a real man is like. You may not want him back after you get clarification.

When you read that first line again: "I am 48", with the blank stare🤣🤣🤣..But real talk, this is a sad situation that she's putting herself through. She doesn't have any kids with this man, or anything else for that matter, so what is she holding on to. She needs to find her self worth and move on. Why hold on to a man just to say you have one? She mentioned all the red 🚩🚩 that she noticed over the course of 10 years, yet she's still with him🙄. All he's doing is weighing her down because he will eventually get what he wants, and that is MARRIAGE..

Nobody call my daughter a b**** and still be standing!!! That man would have been flying out the door!

He must have a third leg, because some women get that one man that is perfect in ONE aspect in his life and ignore everything else.

I was hoping you posted another video today! I’m excited to learn the knowledge! The G.O.A.T. 🐐🐐🐐... May GOD continue to Bless you the QUEEN and your family.

Ladies, if your child tells you they don't like someone, listen to them. They are always right.

Complete and activate the 3 B's! All 3, not 1 out of 3 or 2 out of 3,, All 3! Then we will be too busy for foolishness. Thank you Tony!

All I need is ONE word from my daughter telling me about who I think is the one telling me anything negative and Issa block, delete with no explanation !!! TUH Our instincts are on point...she my boss 24/7 when it come to that!

She needs to end this relationship permanently! Also, she needs to grow up a bit...it takes two.🤦🏽‍♀️

Gone head about your life sis!

" Come on nah " ....your welcome 😊

TG’s laugh makes me laugh every time...period Pooh lol 😂

47 years worth of strength 🤣🤣🤣.

Immediately I heard that he had issues, my alert antenna really turned on. You doing good Sir Gaskins, your teachings sticks to my memory. Thank you for the grown boy vs grown man video. God bless you and yours Sir.

"Come on ni" - Tony Gaskins 😂🙌🏽

First of all, how in the world did she deal with a scrub of 10 years when he showed her exactly who he was in 6 months. At 3 years when he asked her to marry him and she said no, why did she continue on with the relationship. That goes to say a lot about her, as a grown woman. Why is it her teenage daughter has more sense than she do. I'm just saying. This goes to show the power of a soul tie. Tony, all I'm going to say to you is this, please believe me your work is not in vain. Because they may not be listening to you, but I promise you I'm all over that.

You serve so much Tony, it’s great to see you have a laugh sometimes. It’s clear your heart is in the right place and you’re not laughing at anyone’s situation. GOD Bless you!

She’s too old not to have learned this lesson, and because she hasn’t this what she had to go through to see her truth that’s beyond wild. I hope she has healed from this by now. I know that was a hard pill to swallow. I’m 22 and I know this foul play on all types of levels

I love Mr. Tony’s laugh. I love when Black/Hebrew men laugh in general.

I feel like desperation has a scent to it and men can smell it from a mile a way. Desperation can either attract or repel a man. Sis, this “grown boy” smelt the desperation and wanted to see how far or how much he could get out of you. After the first time that he disrespected you, your family, your heart, your mind, and your time, you should have checked him or gave him his walking papers. But he saw that you were going to put up with it and kept pushing to see how far he could go. 10 years later and here you are. I encourage you to put yourself first. Love yourself. Trust your intuition. Trust the red flags. Talk to someone. You knew things weren’t right because either you or your children were always questioning him and his actions. Someone once told me that, “Advice is simply second guessing yourself. You already know what you need to do. You either want someone to agree with your decisions thus far or you want someone to talk you out of the decisions that you are about to make.” “Grown boys” are attracted to desperate women because their intentions aren’t always pure. They know that they can do and/or say whatever and get away with it because the desperate woman wants to be with somebody, anybody, so badly that she would put up with anything. It’s sad because some grown boys purposely go after women like this. They will isolate, alienate, manipulate, and leave you depleted. This “grown boy” still has some growing and things he needs to work on but I don’t think that you should be the one to do it. Focus on your blessings sis (great business, your family, your life, God) and allow the right man to come into your life. It’s never too late.

Tony keep doing what God wants u 2 do.

Thank you Tony for the video. Been there and done the same thing this lady is going through. Once I really started loving myself truly and reading my bible and I walked away from the bad relationship. Healed myself, watched your videos too. My husband walked right into my life.

Kids have pure, innocent spirits so they naturally have built in " You're full of Baloney" detectors. When a child doesnt like a specific adult, dont discredit their discernment.

Sis, if you're reading this and you're with this man, my question is: Are you genuinely happy? Depending on the answer, make your next move. ❤ You have to value yourself 👑

Now that I pretty much only have one in college I have time to enjoy myself and want to get out- but didn't feel urgency about him not accepting the kids as his own. I'm done.

I hope she didn't marry him for I wouldn't want to hear that something happened to her later an he living off all her money Don't trust him

Please go on with your life. This man has nothing to lose, so therefore he wouldn’t give a second thought on making you lose everything you have. This guy was sent by the enemy to bring division in your household and relationship with your children. Trust and believe your daughter knows what she’s talking about. Plus you have to be an example for her.

c'mon na...fix it Lord..🙏🙏🙏🙏