20 Rules Every Modern Gentleman Should Live By

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Whether you're looking for some tips on social etiquette, business etiquette, or wondering how to be a gentleman in a relationship, by following these 20 rules you will not only instantly become a gentleman, but you'll be well on your way to living a more fulfilling and successful life. Enjoy!
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@hespokestyle 2 года назад

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@Iamsujant 2 года назад

SUMMARY: 1:17 Be Authentic 1:48 Don’t Be a Troll 2:20 Live in the Moment 2:40 Bathroom Wet Wipes 2:46 Listen More,Talk Less 3:08 Good Posture 3:47 Develop Positive Routines Ad: Tiege Henley 5:34 Be Kind,Show Respect 5:58 Dress Appropriately 6:19 Cologne: Less is More 6:50 Assume People Like You 7:11 Set Goals 7:34 Read 7:44 Bring A Gift 8:17 Cultivate Meaningful Friendships 8:35 Open Doors 8:41 Take Chances 8:59 Only Worry When Necessary 9:26 Choose To Be Happy 9:47 There are No Rules

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Cheers.

@RealMenRealStyle 2 года назад

Great video!

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it

@Durandalite 2 года назад

I like the "assume everyone likes you" tip; I don't think I've heard that before but it's definitely true. Reminds me of something I try to do as much as possible which is, when you greet someone, give a smile. A full one, with your teeth. I think it's helps set a nice comfortable tone.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

There you go!

@Fellowrser 2 года назад

Out of all the men’s lifestyle channels, I can genuinely say you are my favorite !

@theadsheep 2 года назад

The fifth point importantly shouldn't be interpreted as "don't talk, listen" but as "first listen, then talk". To ensure effective and correct understanding of new information, it is vital to communicate and to try to formulate it yourself actively.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Thanks for chiming in!

@ollu4204 2 года назад

Hi Brian! Long time viewer but first time actually commenting Thank you so much for these rules. It actually made me think a second time about me and what i do on a daily basis. It might sound small but for me, this video helped alot more than people will understand. I actually wrote down the ones i felt like was something i can improve on, and considering the 20 points in this list, it was more than i wouldve liked, however now i feel like i got a headsup on where to start improving myself!

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Fantastic! I'm so glad to hear that and please don't be a stranger in the comments!

@HSelasije 2 года назад

Great advice, thank you.

@faridmahnad4985 2 года назад

Look who’s back!!! P.S.: the glass is always full. Half of it might just be air, but it is always full.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

LOL. Love it.

@outbrakeu Год назад

As always, great video Brian.

@michaelrocha738 2 года назад

Great advice, good video 👍 keep up the quality content. Love this channel

@michaelkearney7923 2 года назад

About 12 years ago I decided that if someone asked if I wanted to do something I’d never done before, I would say “Yes”. Like going to a pro hockey game. In any case, I’ve never been disappointed by the new experience.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Good way to be. Thanks for the comment.

@Javi_C 2 года назад

As always, well said! Thank you Brian!

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

My pleasure!

@vajihullahbaig7504 2 года назад

As always, loved your video. Thanks Brian! Have a nice day :)

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Thanks! You too!

@danielduggan5405 2 года назад

Always nice to see a video from you, Brian. This some very good advice. Thanks, as always.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

My pleasure!

@r.vazquez7880 2 года назад

Sage advice Brian. Many of those I learned in military service and they apply in civilian life as well. Thank you for the opportunity to comment.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Thanks for chiming in!

@matthardman-zimmerman5625 2 года назад

Hold doors for men too. Hold doors for everyone!

@nikolai3377 2 года назад

Thank you Brian! Your videos have influenced my dressing sense and my personality development as well. I feel more confident and comfortable now. Huge respect! 💙

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Fantastic! So happy to hear that!

@ronm6585 2 года назад

Great rules Brian. Thanks for sharing.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

You bet!

@adstix Год назад

I guess everything can be summed up into one word - CONSIDERATION! Consideration or empathy for others! It impacts almost everything else positively!

@hespokestyle Год назад

Indeed!

@canagil Год назад

Valuable content, cheers to you man

@hespokestyle Год назад

Appreciate the comment.

@gabrielramirez2823 2 года назад

Great video Brian! 👍

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Many thanks, Gabriel!

@DrJLF 2 года назад

Smooth transition on the video sponsor, very smooth!

@rolandbujeiro42 2 года назад

Love your channel brother. Great content 👍

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Glad you enjoy it!

@Thiago-qt3tw 2 года назад

Great Video! You and Demetrius Levi are the only lifestyle RU-vidrs that I need to follow. Please keep the excellent work!

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Wow, thank you! Appreciate the support!

@mrchaudhary.07 2 года назад

Every time I watch your video you engaged me in such a way that I feel like I'm having a live conversation with you. Please post videos most often. ❣

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

I'm so glad! That's great and I really appreciate that.

@robday3296 2 года назад

A really great list.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@Barrymorgan 2 года назад

Thanks, saved for future reference!

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Awesome!

@saizn9sr 2 года назад

I love this channel; some great advice

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

I appreciate that!

@markgonzalez9108 11 месяцев назад

Love the Video, Great Content As Well. I also get Ralph Macchio Vibes From You.

@matejkincl Год назад

Watching this video at 17 really motivates me to take action towards being a high quality man.

@BadMannerKorea Год назад

It's tough to make and keep friends as you get older. I find that I have had many acquaintances, but very few stand the test of time.

@anthonyieradi2753 2 года назад

Great advice and reminders for old-heads like me.

@jc-ux7sy 2 года назад

Rule #1， never slap someone onstage

@MZiyadF 2 года назад

Rule #2 Don't talk about my wife

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

LOL

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

@marcocastro5921 2 года назад

Excelent video, Bryan. Greetings from Costa Rica.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Hello there!

@LilMonty 2 года назад

Great advice

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Thanks!

@Larry-qz3es 2 года назад

A gentleman should be wary of his reputation daily. It can take years to build and be destroyed in a short period by his actions and words. We all have to keep conscious of the people with who we surround ourselves.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Always be vigilant. Thanks for chiming in, Larry.

@cheng1991 2 года назад

Thank you, sir. I'm 31 years old now and I can say that most of these rules are very true. About the last one, there is an old saying in China:“闻道百，以为莫己若者，我之谓也。” Which means a man knowing a lot of rules&reasons to think that nobody is better than him. But in reality, there is always something to learn, and more importantly, one need to live by those rules and make them your own , not just knowing them .

@savesnine 2 года назад

Unrealted to the video but I'm extremely jealous of your VC with the guilloche dial :) beautiful grail watch

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Thanks!

@RileyTech 2 года назад

What brand is that shirt? Love the texture.

@VictorLazarBdn 2 года назад

Hi Brian. Thanks again for this super content. Following your 9th point, I'd like to know more about the shirt you're wearing in this video, absolutely beautiful! Where does it come from ? Best Victor

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Thanks, Victor. The shirt is from our shop: hespokestyle.com/product/denim-dress-shirt/

@VictorLazarBdn 2 года назад

@@hespokestyle Thanks 🙏 Will definitely check it out.

@clintony3000 2 года назад

One thing I hate is my joints get really sore sitting in one position for a long time, so I have to shift around and often cross my arms to make my back feel better. I hate it because I know I look closed off, even when I am really engaged in the conversation.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Thanks so much for sharing!

@teenoso4069 2 года назад

A gentleman opens doors for women and men and is a gentleman to both

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Indeed

@donalisgossipboy 2 года назад

Open doors for everyone always look behind you it is the modern age after all

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Haha

@alimahdavi2276 2 года назад

Nice video Brian! Thanks for the points. However I noticed some things; in this video you look a little bit tired, speaking slowly and drained. I don't know what's happened, but definitely take care of yourself... Take a day off, stay hydrated, sleep enough. It's always a pleasure to see you! Sometimes I watch a video of yours just to watch you talk, you're that levelof charismatic. Best wishes, Brian!

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

LOL. Thanks for the comment. I deliberately delivered this video with this cadence.

@alimahdavi2276 2 года назад

@@hespokestyle Aha nice! Happy to hear that. Best wishes✌

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

@@alimahdavi2276 Are you the same dude who said I look tired in my last video? Because I definitely was in that one!

@Quanic2000 2 года назад

I'd like to elaborate on #2 Don't be a troll. Don't be a troll who uses a fake account, with a fake name, and fake profile picture. Which ties with #1 Be authentic. If you have something to say, say it, and deal with the consequences. If what you say makes you feel you need a fake account to say it so nothing can be traced back to you, you probably shouldn't have said it.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Well said. Thanks so much for chiming in!

@rafael-rossi 2 года назад

I appreciate the Tiege Hanley approach, simplifying things for those gents that are not into skincare. However, I doubt there is real quality to their products against better brands that are more backed-up by use and research. And considering taking care of your face is worth the investment, I don't really see the point in TH besides the simple and straightforward approach for those that do not know routines for skincare.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Thanks for the comment. Tiege has worked for me, which is the reason I feel comfortable promoting them.

@rafael-rossi 2 года назад

@@hespokestyle Please consider doing an update on your current skincare routine/products. I started using Aesop based on your recommendation a while back. By the way, great content, keep it up. =)

@carltrotter7622 2 года назад

700th like :)

@makistudio1592 2 года назад

👍👍👍

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Cheers.

@robbiemacgregor5800 2 года назад

I bet 3:07 caught everybody of guard

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

How so?

@robbiemacgregor5800 2 года назад

@@hespokestyle We were all definately slouched in our chairs while watching

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

@@robbiemacgregor5800 LOL

@yuvrajbirsingh3966 2 года назад

Who wants to see morning and night time routine as well as day in life? Maybe your new home tour.😉

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Good idea! We're still getting settled. Been focused on getting the studio set up.

@yuvrajbirsingh3966 2 года назад

@@hespokestyle Sir, congratulations on your growth. Thank you bear I’ve learnt a lot from your channel.

@DanielMartinez316 2 года назад

16. Open doors for other people.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Cheers.

@DanielMartinez316 2 года назад

@@hespokestyle have a good day, sir.

@CanalOtro 2 года назад

Bidets > Wet wipes

@VernonHuss 2 года назад

I wish I had acquired wisdom at less of a price.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

It's sometimes the best way to learn.

@dr.jokkrr7085 2 года назад

Third

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

@karthikrajah8680 2 года назад

first

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

PEACE!

@alexsagirov2020 2 года назад

Second

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Boom

@alexsagirov2020 2 года назад

@@hespokestyle that’s right . Thanks for comment. Have a nice day

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

@@alexsagirov2020 Same to you

@oskartheme5233 2 года назад

20 just recognizes rules are contextual.

@hespokestyle 2 года назад

Thanks for watching until the end.

@aaronsung6208 2 года назад

I broke 3 of the 20 rules just by watching this video, as a youtube troll lying on the bed on my phone all the time until my eyes hurt. I enjoy being a troll sometime because holding onto the refine confident gentlement image all the time is hard, I need somewhere to release some of my inner trollness, and i would rather do it to internet dudes instead of real life friends.