@@afrintayeba2981 Yes. Even girls who have rejected me in the past tried to send me choosing signals. They can't ignore the glow up, so level up. Once you level up, now you're seen as high value and now you'll also have more options
Block them out of your social media so they can't watch, if you're serious about letting them go it is essential to start your healing process 💙 peace for your soul
don't block, block is showing emotional weakness. not blocking is showing strength, because you don't need to block them to NOT LOOK at them. Not blocking is the strongest position guys. Be kings
i think he is speaking from a dumpee perspective guys. As a dumper, you have the responsability to re-open the door that YOU closed by reaching out to them. Dumpees should never reach out first. Dumpers should
But how will he ever reach out to me if I don’t first? He’ll forget about me if I’m not calling. I’ll never be in his mind and other females will always look better to him. How do I get him back by no contact? If he says he don’t want me and I give him no contact then I’m giving him what he wants: rid of me. I just don’t understand.
I’ve experienced this firsthand many times in my life. I’ve been the one crying for hours trying to understand why I wasn’t good enough. As I learned to mend my own broken heart, I unknowingly was also learning to love myself more. More relationships came as did more lessons. I say this to say that what he is saying in this video is absolutely true no matter what they always come back when they see you’ve elevated.
Coach you’re right the last almost 4 months was thee worst.. I worked on ME and it taught me strength and patience.. I listen and followed you during my whole breakup journey.. Yesterday we spent the whole day together and it was amazing.. he told me he missed me and he’s even more attractive to me now then he was before..
I was the one that ended things because I realized they didn’t actually like/want to be with me fr. The amount of times I’ve communicated and didn’t see any changes, eventually I got tired. When I ended things they didn’t even react just said “ok” and that was it. Haven’t heard from them in months. It hurt but it’s gotten easier over time. I don’t want to attract them back.
Literally a week into this and it does hurt to be a phenomenal woman and that person not value it, BUT God has been holding me and reassuring me of my PURPOSE. Just focused on that from now on. If the husband comes, he comes. If not, I lived out my purpose and adventured the world.
I did the same !!!! it's been a rollercoaster of a ride !!! But the lite is coming!!! They don't have anything to offer!!!we are better off!!! Can't take the abuse again!!! We can't save anybody else !!! We need to save ourselves !!! Sorry for the long message!!! I may not know you but I love you !!!! God bless you!¡!!!!! And everybody here!!!!
He is right, wait it out and they will seek another victim. Sad tho. I really wish people would seek out therapy before jumping into another relationship.
Don't even want them back after everything they put you through that's what you better remember especially if you've been with that person for some years they're not going to change my suggestion is LEAVE THEM RIGHT WHERE THEY'RE AT, MOVE ON AND DONT WANT THEM BACK!
No, dont start dating just anyone just to get hurt. Find someone who would actually be compatible and trustworthy (you can know that through people that are close to him) and if they're trying to cut you off, try your best to not let that happen
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get her back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Dave, we share the same story after 5 years. Let me share this with you. Good news. Regardless of the reason for the breakup.... The only way you can RESHAPE gold is when it's on extreme heat. Emotional is the extreme heat that you and I are going through right now!! Now it's entirely a matter of choice what we decided to do with this heat.. Are we gonna drink, drugs, to numb the pain of that heat? Or are we gonna reshape our golden self into becoming the best versions of ourselves physically mentally spiritually and financially? Remember bro, we are privileged that we have this pain/heat right now as it's a golden opportunity to reshape ourselves. Push bro. We can do this. Let's become the best versions of ourselves and well, possibly make them regret that decision and sir. That's a life victory. You're gold Dave.
the sad thing is, if a woman does ALL OF THE THINGS YOU SAY TO DO FOR A WOMAN, ONCE SHE DOES ALL OF THOSE THINGS, SHE WONT WANT HIM BACK AFTER SHE DOES ALL OF THOSE THINGS
The thing is once you fall in love for the first time it does hurt when you’re doing everything they ask to change to and you do but it’s still not enough 😔
That's exactly what i do. They don't always come back or it can take months but i already moved and found someone else better. Once it's over... i just want to party. You can meet new people so seek for positive vibes.
TARA - LEE ANGELES. thank you Tara. Butt they didn’t come back. It’s been a while. And yet I seen him proudly with his ex gf ! I think he used me to get her jealous !
@@nancybogart3899 it just means you weren't meant to be. Don't worry sweetie God will find you the right one. Upgrade your standards you definitely deserve better. Matthew Hussey is fire. Watch his videos and you will understand you never been the pb 😉
He knows that i DON'T NEED him or anyone and he was ONLY in my life cuz i WANTED him in it but now I dont!!! You know why!?!?! Cuz the NEXT one is BETTER than the LAST one!!!
space and then? work, understood together life is hard and also funny, when a person end the life together it is a world decision for me! they don't know your worth
I did show he was always messaging every month due to our circumstances but I never replied only 8 months since he heard from me we are back together now 14 years together married with children so second chance do work just not for everyone he never cheated on me
Wanting your ex back is: You go to the fridge to get milk and find its gone bad. So you put it back in the fridge and say "tomorrow it will be fresh." There isca reason WHY you broke up. You can glue back a china dish. You can but it will always have that crack. For me: bye Felicia. Bye bye bye 👋
But if both people do this... No relationship would survive😩 If you did them wrong and they broke up with you, you should chase them if they were good to you...especially if you made them feel unloved
There is no way i could go back to that. Being treated like garbage. Think of all the horrible things they have said and done to you. Do you want to go through all that again? You are best blocking and going no contact. Take up a new hobby or do something with your time. You don't want to be just sitting thinking of them all the time. Because they are not thinking about you. Really focus on yourself and with a bit of work and patience. You will be back to yourself in no time and dating someone better who cares about you. Do not take them back!!!
My EX came back wanting another chance. When he broke up with me. But this time I’m gone. And that’s what scared him! He couldn’t believe I had moved on.
6 month of no contact…posting nothing in social media nothing means nothing..she reached two time and msged me just for attention I didn’t respond but it hurts a lot I loved her a lot and can’t move on can’t..feeling so weak day by day but I want her to come and have a control over her…any advice coach I’m messaging to you alot please respond me???
Thanks Brother, you have the wisdom.to understand the situation,,i give all the glory to God , by his Amazing grace,i handle evrything,, truly God is good all the time!❤❤❤
I know now that I deserve the best from me too . I deserve the truth from myself. I deserve the same love, guidance & insightful advice I’d give my very most loved ppl.
Dus this and as the breakup was amicable we wanted different things but the heart wants what the heart wants been going into one year we are in a good space were not together but we are communicating better then when we were together we had some deep conversations we are just enjoying each other's company he's a good person but he had come bk but we're just getting to know each other again without the couple's title I feel in my heart it's what I want to do God is guiding me
4 years afo wife filed for divorce. 2 years took time to heal. Now shes coming back, but my heart has respecr and affection for her no more love. Tofay i feel how it feels when you no longer love someone. Wow
I started the no contact yesterday. It’s been 5 days since he broke up with me, I don’t want anyone else 😢 it’s so hard not to text him!!! But it is working because yesterday he said I’m going to send u money because I know you don’t have any and he did!! And I haven’t said anything back to him, and then today he was apologized for hurting me but never said nothing about getting back together!!! How long should I ignore him? And doesn’t it sound like he will come back to me??!!
We’re talking and she said about getting back together but she knows how much I truly care and I feels like she’s looking to take as long as possible and even though she says she’s interested still it doesn’t feel like it I think for a bit I’ll not talk to her and see how it goes because even when we talk it takes her at least 8 hrs to respond when it used to be instant
Ive done all these consistently for a year and a half and he hasn't come back yet and im giving up hope. We were together for 9 years, married for the last 4 years we were together. We've been divorced since January 2022 and just so lost still 😢
