All I can say is I'm 40+ and Tony Gaskins hasn't been wrong yet! Young ladies if you listen to his advice, you WILL avoid alot of unnecessary pain, heartbreak and trauma!!!
That isn’t always true. And shouldn’t be considered a rule. RC Blake’s told his now wife, to leave. As well as Tony Gaskens wife left and they both came back to fight for their wives. People are human and are flawed. It is wise to listen and observe for true intent. A man who loves you should leave, if he is getting hurt or abused by you. Sometimes it is self love to leave. Or fear, they may not be ready to hold your heart. No one is perfect,
I've watched multiple life changing events happen to my ex and still no change in his behavior. I think God loves me more than I love myself. I would take that fool back if he was even half regretful! Trying very hard to work on that. And my ex has no clue how I feel bc I'm faking it till I stop feeling for him. Tony's channel has helped me understand I need to work on me before anything else
Ladies don’t be fooled by unrealistic expectations. A man that is motivated to better himself for you is a good man. He will make mistakes, and learn from them. Every good man will. If you don’t want that then you don’t want a man you want a God.
I had a guy who I was talking with ghost me, and randomly came back a few months later asking to take me out for drinks to explain. I told him I don’t drink, sent him a legendary TG quote, and then blocked him . He was 24 and I was 29 so idk why I even gave him the time of day.
My parents told me that never go back to your past lover. Especially, if they cheat on you and other reasons too. I agree with this 100 percent. Also, now that I am older and wiser it is best to wait patiently on God to send you the man he chose for you. In the meantime work on you until the time comes with prayer. Then this man will find his/her mate. The majority of the men and women do not change nor have a relationship with God. The past is your past for a reason. It is called "Life's Lessons", for a better and wiser person which IS YOU...
You're correct but those are not the only ones. They are the main ones but depending on the person and when they say no compromising there are other factors too. Every relationship, situation and person is different.
I really appreciate Tony making these videos for us. He literally does these videos while making moves, and living life. He doesn’t have to but chooses to, and it helps so many people, myself included. Much appreciated and God Bless ❤
This is the truth…someone from my past from 3 years ago came looking for me. I accepted their apology then blocked them. Everything you said is correct! Blessings!
Thank you for this confirmation The first 10 minutes was what I needed to be assured Def took him 60 days to fix that ego and accountability Still going day by day Building our mental bond before getting back physical Only time will tell
CHANGED BEHAVIOR. I DON'T WANT HIM BACK BECAUSE ANYBODY WHO LEAVES MEANT TO LEAVE && DOESN'T WANT ME . IM ALMOST 40 YEARS OLD IM DONE WITH THE BULLSHIT🤞👌.
Don't waste any more of your precious time with someone who made the decision to leave. If he wanted to be there in the first place he would. You deserve better. He will NEVER respect u if u take him back. Close that door permanently.
That may be your story but don't give that advice to other people when you don't know their whole story. A man could leave bc he doesn't feel he makes enough money yet or needs to heal first to be ready for a committed relationship. Some miss their husband bc of this type of advice. Don't listen ladies. Follow your gut.
I broke up with a man because he didn't believe what the bible says. He said I was wrong and that he love me and would never leave. I just couldn't take the stress of being unequally yoked. Ugh.
It took me until my 30s for all of this to sink in . If you would have sat me down and made me watch this in my 20s I would have listened and then disregarded. Sometimes you have to be in the right place in your life to listen to Tony. I used to listen to him while driving past my ex’s house.
Six months? Like I'll take him back because by that time I've found a real man that appreciates my honesty, maturity & matches my efforts in the relationship as well as actually values me
Yep most times, they come back playing games. Prayer is very important during this time. Trusting your intuition. The hot and cold behavior and all. It’s best to Let It BURN! In my Usher voice. Great video!
It’s good to know there are still good men out there but that is probably less then 1% now of the male population. 98% of the men are lost, hurting little boys that’s making life horrible for these women and I see it, we all see it. Generational curses need to be broken. This is very refreshing 🙏
If y’all start listening to god other that these comments and these other perspectives then you wouldn’t have to question anything. God has the last say just cause someone else went through it don’t mean you are. Just cause that couple god a divorce don’t mean you are people listen to god talk and ask him.
@@tannekag.811absolutely 9 times out of ten God will want you to do the exact opposite of what everyone else says to do. Use discernment, stay in prayer. 🙏
THAT'S TRUE, MY EX-HUSBAND SAID THAT I BOY BYE DIVORCE LAWYERS SETTLE IT ALL. THANK GOD I HAD THE STRENGTH TO LEAVE, I ASKED GOD TO GIVE ME THE STRENGTH AND HE DID. NEVER LET A MAN DISRESPECT YOU, BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND. WAS IT EASY NO DID GOD HELP ME WALK IT OUT YESSS. WHAT I LEARNED, WAIT ON GOD TO SEND YOU A HUSBAND OR WIFE AND LET GOD PUT IT TOGETHER.
You're the best! You've literally broken this down in so many ways and so many times and it's always 💯 Thank you and may God continue blessing you and your family 🙏🏽
Blessings to you TG.. I know my EX husband was coming back out of pride and ego as hie stated “let’s get back together and shock the world”😭😭😭.. and I was saying “ you getting read my to be shocked that we’re NOT”.. boy bye, have a nice life .. deuces
I am over this struggle love stuff. How about men get it right the first time and not drag women through the trenches in order to love. I understand not everyone perfect, but not everyone is going to get more than one chance either.
My man of 14 years decided to come back. As bad as it hurt, like therapy sessions hurt, I know I have a chemistry with my husband.Therefore gave it one last shot. We will see. At least I knew I wasn’t getting what I wanted or deserved…..
I'm about to do the same thing after leaving my husband for a year. He kept begging me back for the past year but I decided to wait until I was ready. Hopefully he's changed from a grown boy to a grown man. If not then I'm out fully this time! ✌️
This message is much needed and right on time. I do want my ex back. It wasn't even any bad breakup and our connection was strong. I feel like he may not have been ready to be that vulnerable. I really feel like he may have not been ready that he actually met the real deal. I'm kind of on the fence too. I want him back but it DEFINITELY has to be because of heart that he comes back.
Thank you, maybe I should give a little more grace. People can not change over night but the only thing is this consistently thing that’s a challenge cuz he will revert every now and then.
Knew that TG would being the wisdom on this subject. Hes trying to come back after 5 months to the day. he apologized, he seems more humble and honest. He's trying but i still don't know 😕 don't wanna play the fool either. Need more time to see if he's for real and need to pray for wisdom 🙏🏽 I will walk away if something ain't right 💯
This is what I m afraid of, although my heart(even though it's shattered) and soul long for my husband to be restored to our family, I don't know how I'd get past questioning everything he does... I absolutely do not want him anywhere around us at this point if ego has anything to do with it.
Hate that I cheated honestly. I let my insecurities/ mind / temptations get the best of me.. it’s been a battle between me God & the enemy but I’m not giving up I just have to hold it down & just Go hard for him to show me my true self… I really really want to change not just for the world or to find love but for myself so I can be a great man for me & my kids / wife… We still talk she’s half way across the world but man I love that girl… we both hurt we both love.. & I really believe Gods going to give me everything I had again… to yall it may look week on either end but the truth is. We can’t leave each other alone. I’m kicking a dead horse but just know. God is real and it is possible to change you just have to walk with God and don’t let the world trick you… The enemy works overtime.
Also a lot of these marriages didn’t last year’s just because they had to fight and put in work with god help. Even if they did have problems you definitely didn’t know about them keep your business in your household not anyone else
Great insights in this video!!! Also Tony, I LOVE the idea of a Retreat Center/House. Brilliant idea! I was thinking of this for you and boom you just mentioned it! 🙌🏻🙏🏻
Yes! It happened to me and he came back on 8/29/22 I think it was fir his heart but his ego is so damn big! He has now moved on to another woman abd he just told he yesterday that she reminds him on me she just like me. He said as he described her “she’s black n beautiful, she’s THICK & nice & she just like you!” I said why you on the phone with me if you have a woman and why you asking me for money.
Please block him, everything he described was just based on your apparence and not even who you are at the core… like oh she reminds me of you because she’s thoughtful or has good patience or something. This guy is not serious and any guy whose serious about you wouldn’t ruin the chance of being with you and they most definitely won’t be entertaining someone else. Let alone speaking to you at the same time he’s not serious please continue to look forward and not backwards.
Block and Delete Him 😂 Calling you to tell you he found a Female that's almost your duplicate 😂 and it's only 1 you, a Twin can't even be you, umm the nerve of some men, I wouldn't let him have contact or keep door's open for him, cause soon as he mess up with her, he'll be expecting for you to let him right back in, I pray you be moved on and New man and bust his bubble of thinking he's the only man in your life and you can't find nobody, that's what they believe 😂
He came back with humility and saying he even started therapy and doing everything right at first and we got back together and he still ended up breaking up with me later saying he won’t have time for a relationship and has to work on himself and money to be able to buy a house and a month later I find out he was in a relationship and then I find out through his rebound that they met exactly a month after our break up and that they began dating within two weeks of just “knowing” each other and apparently that that wasn’t even their intention it was unplanned but that they just fell so hard for each other…. Like bro you’re a rebound but I just let her have her delusion and thanked her for telling me the truth and wished them the best and never looked back…. No matter what they say tbh, just do not take them back, do not look back even if it seems they’ve changed cause they’ll show again they haven’t, ik some situations actually go good but many times it won’t be the case so safe yourself Better safe than sorry and better alone than in bad company
Wow! So i just brushed him off thinking it was all a game. 😢 the text specifically said "My biggest mistake is leaving the one who truly loves me" long story short i broke up with him back n November because i felt he was losing focus on getting his kids back and he didn't have time to put into our relationship. He's a good guy, but umm, I'm just seeing how things play out. Thanks for this video
Thank you Sir for helping ❤ when we going through these difficulties and complications of love life... Life does have a formula but you really make sense on your videos nothing can beat truth and prayer to our creator 🙏🏼❤God bless you🙏🏼💯🇿🇦
These men think we’re naive, foolish, and desperate. And the reason they think such things is because they’ve probably experienced a lot of women in the past who are.
your video "please understand this about men" has me laughing and at peace! thank you i also didn't like to shower and just turned the water on 😅 as well as my other siblings hahha more common then not then 😅😅 Thank you Sr for the insight
