A man who constantly surrounds himself with bikini-clad models is EXACTLY the man to forbid his own gf, fiancee or wife to wear anything too revealing. You see, he judges all other men by his own standards, and categorised women into those that can be freely objectified and HIS PROPERTY that other men can't get a chance to see too much of because it would harm HIM.
This is how I KNOW he sees women as objects. The fact that he can categorize and manipulate them however he likes without even considering their perspective? Strange.
@Nonaya Bidness That's a pretty grim view of being 56! I like to think she'll turn into Blanche from The Golden Girls and have a blast. Now THAT'S classy
Tried to find one of these shirts in the adults section but I couldn’t. Really looked everywhere too. Purposely avoided making eye contact with the kids section but I’m sure I didn’t miss anything
I'm happy to see someone mention this, that what I kept thinking about, but I forgor that it's fruit and not vegetable because in Russian it means vegetable lol
Pushovers aren't born; they're made by their parents. In my crystal ball, I can see the future power struggles between husband and mother/father in law.
She knows exactly what she wants, she said it right up top that she wants a mermaid style dress with no lace, shes literally too *AFRAID OF HIM* to assert herself
This makes me genuinely concerned for her. She's married to a rich asshole old enough to be her father who won't let her have her own opinions on how *she* should look. It screams red flags to me. He's clearly a misogynist and I sincerely hope she can leave him for a healthy relationship.
It's so annoying when ppl jump the shark with their relationship assumptions. Is he a bit of an ass? Yeah. Is he kinda a control freak? Sure. But let's not jump to "seriously guys, I'm scared for her. She may be trapped and need our help". Ffs.
@@karenamyx2205 But she is though. Obviously she is "consenting" but clearly he has way more control of her life than he should, and no, I'm not saying this ONLY because of Say Yes To The Dress. Not to mention that she is very religious, so there is a high possibility she was conditioned by her parents as well to listen to her husband and essentially live her life to please her husband. So that idealogy combined with the fact he LITERALLY DRESSES HER?? Like I can completely understand not wanting a random person to be judged based on stuff that was scripted or worrying about "cancel culture" but if you genuinely do not see how this women could potentially be being manipulated and choose to argue with the few of us who feel uncomfortable enough to say something then you need to educate yourself on manipulation tactics and abuse to better protect yourself. Also, why does is it annoying for others to show concern on the internet? If we're being honest everything that is said in this comment section is our own thoughts and feelings based on what we experienced and know about toxic relationships, so I'm curious how our opinions has any effect on you let alone rich Bang Energy CEO.
@@sfhsfjnsgbv a mermaid gown typically means body con gown to the knees/calf that frills out in a bell like shape at the bottom, resembling a mermaid tail. She wasn't looking to *literally* swim in a tank. Here's your eye roll back babes 🙄
She said she didn't know what she wanted but literally in the clip before she wants mermaid style and she hates lace. It sounds very much like she knows what she wants but she's being manipulated
Only for fans over 18 years old Aishite.Tokyo/shizumi ❤🔥 mañas no se la Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter Asi con toy y sus mañas no se la lease que escriba bien mamon hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado.por la vida dura que se vive hoy . Köz karaş: ''Taŋ kaldım'' Erinder: ''Sezimdüü'' Jılmayuu: ''Tattuuraak'' Dene: ''Muzdak'' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu gana taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. ''Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt'' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu.#垃圾 Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente 💗❤️💌💘
She knows what she wants, but he's got her trained to put her wants second and cater to his at all times. And they're not even married yet...I know not all relationships with age gaps are manipulative and toxic but BOY howdy if this isn't sending up every possible red flag of "older man is only attracted to younger women partly because he's gross/shallow but partly because he sees young women as easier to shape and control...most women his own age are less likely to put up with his bullshit". I feel so sad for her
@@applefarm6126 i mean if they’re on a tv show for millions of people to see then don’t get mad when people start making assumptions based on what’s presented
Her saying "we can't show him this one" is so unbelievably sad. Can't imagine having a fiancé that's so mean that you know he will make you feel bad about the dress you dreamed of for your WEDDING.
Seriously, a dude dating a chick half his age and being super controlling to the point where he even decides what she wears on a day to day basis? Fuck that
“well we found a dress she likes but now we need to keep the fiance from throwing a tootsie roll in the punch bowl” WHAT?? LMAOOO SOUTHERN PPL SAY THE FUNNIEST SHIT I LOVE IT
it's also crazy because none of these dresses are like particularly revealing. like even a "flirty" wedding dress is still a big ass gown that covers most of a woman's body. there really isn't all that much on display
Literally though say yes to the dress is all about empowering a woman to look the way SHE wants on her wedding day and fuck everyone else’s opinion and I respect the shit out of that
honestly i wish it was more common just in general for brides to bring very few people to dress shops, sometimes it feels like a bride on say yes to the dress will bring the entire population of san marino to find a dress
i love say yes to the dress because i like seeing people really happy and loving themselves, not because i want to see women talked down too by their families it’s so annoying
It's honestly so upsetting when she says that she doesn't know what she likes, she just looks to Jack. I know from experience that this is exactly what happens when you've been in a controlling relationship for a while, you second guess your own likes and dislikes and even when you do know what you want, the fear of it being wrong in their eyes prevents you from making any decisions :(
Yeah I really wish we lived in a world that allowed women to be single financially so we don’t get stuck marrying a dick weed like that. Like just think if we made just as much as them we would be allowed to be free and do whatever but nope this is America you got to couple up to survive. Just think how many women would up and leave their dick husbands and become themselves. He reminds me of my ex who never let me wear shorts outside of the house. Thankfully I realized and got out single 4 years and loving it. It’s a world built for couples but if you work super hard you won’t need a fuck boy gaslighting you just so you can have a bed to lay in. And also fuck sharing beds who wants that noise not me. Might of went a bit too hard commenting but man this really makes me happy that I became independent to myself I don’t need anyone I just want now. And I just feel bad for that woman I would shoot myself if I had to marry a 59 year old to be Financially stable.
If someone is doing this at your fitting, don't buy a dress. Postpone the wedding and go to couples counseling. This level of control is bordering on abuse and no one with this issue in their relationship should be going straight to marriage. If your fiance is telling you what you can and cannot wear, the relationship is not ready for marriage.
Some of the behaviours shown/hinted to in the clip are things you are taught to look out for when undergoing domestic abuse training. I'd go further than saying this is bordering on abuse and say there are clear abusive tactics here and almost definitely more going on behind closed doors. I sincerely hope someone in this woman's life has noticed this and taken the initiative to ask 'are you ok?', give her support, and be with her until she's ready to do whatever she needs to do.
“I didn’t know what I liked, what I didn’t like-“ She wanted a sexy mermaid dress with no lace… She knew what she wanted and liked. Maybe she just didn’t know it because she wasn’t being given the chance to even explore her options because of the douche in the room.
Literally this girl is so manipulated by Jack. She can't think for herself, she has to ask for Jack's ideas about her dress. He dresses her! He's so toxic, and it's so sad that she can't see it.
It's very hard to see that you are being controlled or manipulated when you are actually _in_ it. It rarely starts out that way, it usually gets worse gradually, so it can be so impossible to see once it does get bad. Or in her case, she probably has much less experience with relationships than he does. If this is even a semi-accurate representation of their relationship, I hope she can leave.
@@moyo6606 Seems she's very very religious so I sadly doubt it. I don't think she'd consider divorce an option, even if her life was in danger, but that's just an assumption based on religious folks I've seen to a similar degree.
My exact thoughts. It was sad to watch, and this was only what was shown on TV. Manipulation is a beast that affects every part of you. Hope she gets tf out of there, she deserves way better
𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖𝙙𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙨 𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙣 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 LOVEME.UNO/STORMY tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
@@swordbird Man I tried making a joke saying "Only fans for 98 midgets only, do not click if you are 98 entire midgets" and then i linked this ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-20txxUrvlFk.html but that got automatically deleted so my question is how these bots get away with it but I'm flagged for making three identical comments with a link in it.
@@swordbird "So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today." - a wise wise man
never fails to shock me when I see someone literally being abused and treated like an object by their significant other in real time, like shit like "he convinced me that I didn't know what I wanted" is the kind of stuff people tell you about AFTER the relationship has ended horribly, ya know😅
I assume they were raised in an abusive household, so abuse is their normal. That was the case for my mom, and she got me a few steps away from that abuse. She completely cut off contact with her family, went through years of counseling, and married a husband who was not physically abusive like her parents. But her husband / my father was psychologically abusive. And most of her "friends" were manipulative and verbally bullied her. It took us both until my adulthood to recognize the psychological abuse and try to get away from it, as much as we can given our limited financial resources (e.g., not being able to move away from neighbors who harass us). If all you ever experience is abuse, it becomes impossible to recognize. And so a lot of people convince themselves that they are okay with it because that's psychologically easier than identifying as a victim.
It's not that she doesn't know what she 'wants', it's that she doesn't know what HE wants. He is clearly a misogynistic control freak. The desperation in her voice while trying to figure him out is a small cry for help. She knows what she wants. She doesn't know what she is *allowed* to want, per his standards. I hope she sees this episode, realizes her worth, and takes half his money for the obvious psychic damages he causes by having the worst vibes of any room he walks into.
@@pizzabagels9156 i appreciate your existence on this planet and i hope that anytime you’re craving pizza bagels(i’m assuming that you love those as that’s literally ur name on here but if it’s like an ironic thing and you actually hate them then i apologize severely and please pretend i didn’t say pizza bagel and instead said whatever your absolute favorite food and/or drinks okay? okay.)but anytime you’re craving them i hope that when you go to the freezer there is the exact amount you want and more. I pray you never go to make some bc you’re craving it that you’re never out and god forbid that theres ever only 1-2 left in the box. you deserve the best things in the world bc i didn’t have time to rewatch this vid bc i’m trying to find like 15 clips rn for my friends edit and you just saved me from rewatching the full vid(id love to bc i love Danny but i just don’t have the time rn so you genuinely saved me some time. I appreciate your existance in this world and i’m genuinely so happy you were born and exist on the same plane of reality and in the same period of time that i do. you deserve amazing things in this life. i pray you get it Sir Mr. Ma’am sir Mrs. Pizza bagel! have a good day!!!
He's done a great job getting inside this woman's head. He's gotten her to a point where she values his opinion more than her own. What a toxic, manipulative relationship- I hope she finds a way out.
Yeah, when she said that she didn't know what she wanted after just saying that she wanted a mermaid made me feel so bad for her! He's so manipulative that she doesn't realize that she has and is allowed to have her own opinion. Honestly sounds abusive
IDK, I have never seen a woman who married a guy twice her age without the dude being rich as all hell and only interested in sex workers. She's just a prop.
He seriously is probably younger just based on averages. My parents had me fairly late at 34 and now I’m 27 and they’re about 60. Parents back then had kids at like 28 on average or something. I can’t imagine marrying someone my parents age lmao
Did anyone else think it was a red flag that the bride’s reaction to being criticized by her husband is to say that she ‘doesn’t know what she wants’. She knew exactly what she wanted, a flirty mermaid dress, in a normal healthy couple it would be like ‘we want different things’ not ‘I no longer know what _I_ want’. Especially combined with the fact that he apparently dresses her everyday, talk about controlling.
@@AmyAberrant I think it's just the makeup and clothing style making her look a bit older. Plus, doesn't help that Danny looks like a high-schooler lol
@@samanthastephenson3503 Yeah, it's an old episode, but even at the moment of filming it, I thought she was 36? Like nearing her 40's. On the same note, I thought Danny was 23 at most. XD
I just realized that the famous TikTok sound "is this say yes to the dress or say yes to the sl*t??" is from Danny; and the fact that it has more videos than the song "circus" he made specifically to go viral is insanely funny
Bang CEO, in a tailored suit so fine, Preparing for a wedding, a moment quite divine. But behind the scenes, a different tale unfolds, A man consumed by power, his control takes hold. (Pre-Chorus) He plans every detail, orchestrating the show, But his wife, a puppet, with strings he loves to throw. A marriage bound in chains, a toxic melody, Bang CEO's dominion, a love song filled with tragedy. (Chorus) Oh, Bang CEO, the master of disguise, In the public eye, but darkness in your eyes. Your wife dances to your tune, a captive in your hand, But love should be freedom, not a command. (Verse 2) She wears a smile, though her heart feels confined, A beautiful facade, but her spirit left behind. In the wedding gown, she longs to break free, From the prison of control, where her true self can't be seen. (Pre-Chorus) His demands and expectations, a weight she bears, But deep down inside, she knows she deserves better cares. In the shadows, she dreams of liberation's embrace, A life where love blossoms, with kindness and grace. (Chorus) Oh, Bang CEO, the master of disguise, In the public eye, but darkness in your eyes. Your wife dances to your tune, a captive in your hand, But love should be freedom, not a command. (Bridge) In her heart, a fire starts to ignite, A flicker of courage, breaking through the night. She sees the truth, she deserves respect, To cast off the chains, and regain self-respect. (Guitar Solo) (Chorus) Oh, Bang CEO, your power starts to fade, As your wife awakens, her spirit unafraid. No longer controlled, she takes a stand, Love should be equal, not a one-sided command. (Outro) Bang CEO, the wedding bells may ring, But the symphony of control will no longer sing. For love is a partnership, built on trust and care, Not a battlefield where dominance ensnares.
@@isabellesumby5885 lmao you think shes marrying him for love? w that age gap shes probs just as much o a republican as he is and is in it for the cash
@@tensugarcubes this was taken before bang energy launched. she is a senior director at bang. i think she genuinely loved him sadly, a lot of women date older men because they want stability that younger men don't have. but older men willing to date such women are dangerous.
Fun fact: the narrator for Say Yes to the Dress is the same guy who voices Sonic The Hedgehog in the games. Or, at least he was last I checked. His name's Roger Craig Smith.
One thing! Just one thing! Please tell IT to me: WHY tf do I have so many fans even though no RU-vidr is unprettier than I am? WORLDWIDE!!!! WHY??? Tell me, dear so
my heart breaks for this girl :( I've been in an abusive, controlling relationship with an older man who I didn't realize was manipulating me. After three years of being with him I had no sense of self, everything I did or said was based on whether or not he would approve. I hope she realizes how much she is worth & leaves his crusty ass.
𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖𝙙𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙨 𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙣 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 LOVEME.UNO/STORMY tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘
Danny, to help ya out: mermaid dress is like a very tight dress that hugs your whole body up to below your knees about your ankle, it spreads out like a mermaid’s tail
11:23 this part breaks my heart. You can see on her face that she doesn't know what to do, and the fact that he doesn't seem to pick up on that is frustrating. This is supposed to be her big day, yet her fiancee is trying to put the focus on what he wants rather than what she wants. I have seen quite a few comments mentioning how he seems more like an overprotective/controlling father, and I can't agree more.
Not overprotective. Just controlling. I don’t think he’s doing it out of love, I think he’s doing it out of malice or thoughtlessness. The rich ARE used to getting exactly what they want, when they want it.
As someone who was controlled by men most of my life, her saying "I didn't really know what I liked" was her way of simultaneously glossing over what he was doing and at the same time losing any opinion of her own because he made it clear his opinion was the only one that mattered since he shoots her down every time she expresses herself.
Agreed.. I feel really bad for her. I hope she leaves him one day; And takes their kids, they must not be happy either if that’s how he treats his wife.
Even when talking about how ‘revealing’ the dresses looked on her, he sounded more like an overprotective/misogynistic father than her literal fiancée.
I felt so bad for megan like your wedding is the most magical day of your life and her fiance is just making bad jokes and criticising her on the dress even though she looks so happy
The disney-fication of weddings is a problem. Its turned into a huge deal. Settle peeps. Nothing wrong with a nice wedding, but it's completely unreasonable what some people do. Dont throw yourself in huge debt for a wedding. Just throw a party you can afford
Honestly, the best part of this video was seeing how happy she got when she finally found that mermaid-style dress that she wanted. I’m so glad she at least got to choose the dress she wanted.
I googled when BANG CEO got married because the video looked like it was filmed in 2011 or 2012, and I was right. They got married in Fed 2012. Didn't find any info about his wife's age tho, but she said she was 26 in the video, which will make her 36 or 37 now Do whatever u want with this info Also hello, I'm a new Greg :)
I like how literally the first shot is just everyone sitting very politely and considerately, and then Mr. Bang is just seated in the middle of the couch, legs spread wide enough to bridge the strait of Gibraltar, and a look of pure hatred in his eyes.
Dude, she keeps saying, “I don’t know what I want,” but she *does.* She was clearly into a mermaid style dress with a cute, but sexy style. She doesn’t like lace and said so straightforwardly. Still, Mr. Bang made her try a lace dress and vetoed any requests she made. It’s not that she doesn’t know what she’s looking for, it’s that he refuses to let her get what she wants and she has to pretend she’ll be happy with whatever he chooses. He’s actively making jokes at her expense, belittling her, and making her doubt herself. **Note** I’m glad she ended up with the dress she wanted in the end, good for her ♡
@@nikolas7030 Ok but you need to understand that it's not always about money. Most of the time, the reason victims stay in relationships like this is because their abusers manipulate them into giving up their agency and diminishing them repeatedly a number of ways (such as gradually degrading them, as we see in the video). In a lot of cases, it's also straight up not safe for victims to just up and leave.
the way the consultant says “buUut” scratches my brain so good dude. i’m a chronic (maybe even constant) rewatcher of danny’s videos and I always say buUut with her LOL
When he called that beautiful dress "tacky and unacceptable" I lost my shit, this man is in NO POSITION to call ANYONE else's fashion choices "tacky and unacceptable." Like, do you own a mirror dude? Do you see what you post? I'd ask if he was blind but I feel like blind people have better taste.
Honestly I didn't like the 1st dress, because the top was so bedazzled and the skirt was just very plain, the contrast between both was not really for me, but it was clear she liked it but didn't want to show it because he was so opinionated
@@niyah_uwu Fair, but I feel like his words are way meaner than they need to be to the woman he supposedly loves and on a day that's supposed to be about fun and what the bride wants.
@@TheFangirlOtaku yeah, exactly. Like, he basically didn't have any other criticism than "no". he's so accustomed to her submitting to his every whim that he doesn't even feel the need to explain what he doesn't like, it's just that he doesn't like it, and of course the way he said it is just horrific.
This is hilarious how people feel such a strong second-hand anger. You think the dress is beautiful, he doesn't but because he doesn't now you have to get mad as hell defending her honor or whatever this is supposed to be and insult the guy in the process. You good, bro? Like, this isn't some criminal offence of something, lol, chill out would ya?
"I hate lace" "I absolutely love the mermaid style" "I think you might know best though - I didn't know what I liked, what I didn't like" She needs to get out of this relationship, get therapy, and find the confidence to be comfortable expressing her own self
While I 💯 percent agree with you, at 25 I was so dumb and willing to go along with everything my man said that none of this surprises me. Add lots of money on top of that and you’ve got a recipe for disaster. But yes she needs to GET OUT
Can people stop saying "get therapy," like it's somehow a cure all? It isn't. Therapy often doesn't do crap. You shouldn't have to turn to a stranger who is only listening to you because they're getting paid to. How about her friends and family be actual friends and family? Those are the people you should be able to turn to.
@@englishatheart you have a very negative view of therapy! kind of weird for you to lash out in anger over a comment that was harmless. and also, friends and family are not responsible for healing you. bizarre to have such high expectations of them.
Not only is he old enough to be her father, he's also treating her like shes his daughter. Dude is literally acting like her controlling dad. Girl, at what point is his bang bucks no longer with it...
@@ajokebygod Eh, some do. Not good ones, sure, but as someone who lives in the South of the US, I can very much vouch that there are a LOT LOT LOT of dads who are very controlling and emotionally abusive with that shit towards AFAB children. _m i s o g y n y_
I really feel like someone needs to mention that yes, Jack is wearing a suit that is both way too big for him and completely untailored, as well as wearing a style of shirt that isn't meant to be worn with a tie (I'm pretty sure you're supposed to be wearing a bowtie with that type of shirt collar). His vest is also insanely long (it should fall at around belt-buckle length) and the colour's not one I would've done- it almost looks like his shirt is untucked at the bottom. Not to mention that he just seems generally confused about what occasion he's dressed for-- it looks like he just picked out whatever was on sale and went from there. If anything, he's the least classy person at his own wedding (although I have no doubt that anyone could surmise that from his Instagram).
i think the only time i’ve seen shirts like that was in like plays? but only from the orchestra.. it’s definitely not the right shirt for this occasion (in my opinion at least)
14:57 she's not a lizard, those lines are called "interlacing artifacts", which, to save you from an elongated lecture, is an indication that the person/people who converted the video for online streaming (usually from television and home media) has no idea what they're doing, they just put the raw files into a low-end conversion software, and let it decide how it comes out
Could we get some more Say Yes to the Dress content from Danny tho? This was so much fun, he’s learning about dresses and styles while making it funny. I see some potential in him exploring different kinds of videos like this.
I love people reacting reacting to reality TV and I love Danny’s reactions. And I love Say Yes to the Dress because how much great content you can get from reacting. Also, I love Monte and Randy so, win-win
Wardrobe control was one of the most stifling abuse tactics my ex used against me. It completely tore me down and took away my sense of self and autonomy- I hurt for this woman.
It sucks that society as a whole reinforces that abuse by judging and shaming women for how they dress And some subcultures are worse than others. Like the Evangelical Fundamentalist subculture in the US.
I gotta say I'm a fan of this whole deal. The sweater, the hair, the wet pants, the poster of Danny spreading awareness that some people need inhalers. All great.
Actually, kicking him out was probably the right call. She let them know that dress was probably the one, so she was pretty decided. She was going to walk out with that dress. It wouldn't help anyone to have him tell her he didn't like it or that it was 'tacky' etc. because that would just shake her confidence on the wedding day. I mean, frankly, I think she should be saying yes to the dress and no to the man, but she's an adult and she's gonna have to make that decision herself when she gets sick of it and leaves.
@@mahohaho if that was the case it would've been discussed like in other episodes or he wouldn't have been there to begin with lol. They explained that they were kicking him out so that she got the dress she wanted without him swaying her opinion
@@bibsp3556 I mean usually Lori says that she doesn't think the husband should be there because choosing a dress is for the wife and her bridal party, not for him.
@@Crackdalf listening to her not describe how she met him or what it was like before they got engaged really tells me she’s def in it for the money (kinda disagree that they’re equally terrible tho)
I mean it's reality TV, so I think it's a bit unfair to use it against him. A lot of that was scripted to make him look like an ass (not that he isn't already one, but y'know)
As someone who works in menswear, I can safely say, his wedding suit is spectacularly tacky. Never wear a long tie with a tux, and especially don’t with a wing collar tux shirt.
it's so fucking hypocritical. Makes me sick. The way he controls her wardrobe is it's abusive and gross. It reminds me of the movie Vertigo... I won't spoil anything in case you haven't seen the movie but if you watch it you'll know the scene I'm thinking of. Ugh.
Are we not gonna talk about how Jack brought his “friend” who’s also a 20 something woman? Like he is definitely not the type of guy who sees woman as more than objects and combined with his abusive behavior towards his fiancé makes me concerned for that relationship too. He just gives me sketch vibes.
Very true, he doesn't strike me as the type of person who'd be platonic friends with a woman. More like a sleazebag who'll pretend to be friends with people he's attracted to.
@Wynn Some men are assholes who only see women as sex objects, "most" seems like a stretch though. I know a lot of good men. I am gay and dating a man who doesn't see me as a sex object (in fact, two women I dated did just see me as a play thing so... And of the two men I've dated, neither have seen me that way)
@Wynn Many do, but many could still be 1 billion men and still not be "most" since there is definitely more than 2 billion straight men. I've known a lot of great men, I've known a lot of sleazy men, but those blanket statements do more harm than good. You can't complain about misogynistic men and then be misandristic. There's shitty men, there's shitty women, there's great men, there's great women. Grouping up anyone isn't good
As someone who loves Say Yes to the Dress, it always makes me so happy when they put their foot down and prioritize the wants of the bride. I really hope she gets out of this relationship though, because she definitely deserves someone better. Their dynamic is very odd to say the least
@@thegayestgoth Oh, did Meg tell you that when you had lunch with her yesterday? No, you’re just making baseless assumptions. Bang didn’t launch until after they were married.
It's so awful that she's trapped in that kinda relationship but I'm so so glad she ended up going with the style of dress she said she wanted in the beginning and that she ended up happy with her look at least, even if the rest of her relationship is undoubtedly a nightmare
