Amber Duncan wants her bridesmaids to wear a strapless dress to her wedding but her bride wants a more modest dress that is easy to dance in. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
She's not conservative she's actually trying to help the bridesmaids enjoy a good time I mean if they dress fell off while dancing it wouldn't be a nice experience
I thought the fiance was so cute and considerate about the cleavage thing. She just wanted to make sure the bridesmaids could enjoy the wedding as much as they would and to be honest, having a whole lot of cleavage isn't the best cuz its so annoying when you're dancing
Lesbian bride number 2 wasn't unreasonable, I think it is a fairly considerate request to want them to be able to dance without popping out of their dresses, especially since that's how they met. Very nice couple and friends.
IT3210 that’s true but why are you referring to them as that especially highlighting the lesbian part like it’s something that needs to be said either use their names or just say the second bride
Galaxy Wolf this isn’t about the dress this is about labelling and yh I’m not telling her that’s totally unacceptable and blah blah blah and clearly you didn’t read the part where I said she could just say bride 2 like my sister is attracted to girls but she doesn’t like the label
And Amber said she wants the dresses to look light and airy and beachy... what the fuck is beachy about a bright red, floor-length, shiny taffeta nightmare???
@@josephine.france5seessh!😅 thats like a tiny mistake but im sure we can all still understand what he meant,nah😉lol ...gotta admit; its funny how you corrected him though..😅you were like *"Hold up🤚🏽No,no...get it right 1st sir!"* 😜🤣🤣i know it sounds silly,but its truth,im lmao😂😂
Literally every lesbian is SUPER opinionated ESPECIALLY the ones that are more masculine. And she’s not even that masculine but she isn’t as girly as the other one you know? I’m super gay so I know what I’m talking about here
@Sarah Hindle honestly, I would wear that to a wedding. Regardless of if I had to or not, we’ll I’d probably wear it bc I have to, but I wouldn’t be mad
@@aliai1801 Honestly it depends on your relationship with your best friend. Just like I'd wear a potato sack, I know my best friend wouldn't ask me to pay something extraordinary. The way I see it, all decisions on every type of relationship are about give and take.
The fiancée is totally right!! Like they were hanging out, like this is a wedding not the club. Also it’s not fully up to the bridesmaids, like I get you want it but it’s not your wedding.
@@mimiel7938 i completely agree, although there are time you need to contain them.... You can tell someone how to dress and how not to dress. I feel that there are better ways to say "not that much cleavage." As in per say... " Not showing too much." Or " can we show a little less?" I believe that you should ask people first. To see if they agree. In conclusion, there are many ways to say things, but you can say things in much much nicer ways that some people make it out to be. It may be their wedding, but they should still consider the bridesmaids feelings when they pick out a dress. So if you disagree anybody else, you can go suck it. Thank you
My bestie is getting married and I have to wear the ugliest lime green monstrosity you've ever seen. And I'm damn happy to do it! It's about my friend who is one of the loves of my life. Her day, her choice! 😊
Pastel Suqar How would you know what an “Old Lady’s” ass crack looks like? If you wanna be a smart ass may l suggest you learn how to spell. Signed, An Old Lady
Girl weddings are hard to go trough. I would wear anything my friend choose UNLESS it makes me uncomftorable (like showing too much skin). It may be her wedding but the people there are not fucking dolls
I was kinda getting annoyed with Jessica. Like, it’s not YOUR wedding. If the brides we’re in the same page and didn’t want too much cleavage out, then she should just shut her mouth about it. I was in a wedding recently, I didn’t like the dress, but I wore it anyway bc/ that’s what my friend wanted us brides maids to wear.
Mia O'Hare who says I can just throw money around? I wore the dress for my friend. I wasn’t uncomfortable in it, I just didn’t like it. That’s what friends do? She wanted her bridesmaids in a specific dress, ITS HER WEDDING. She calls the shots. I’m there to support her, and be a friend. And I love how you just assume I throw my money away. Didn’t stop to think I had to save money for it? I’m not going to not go to my friends wedding bc/ I don’t like the dress. Some friend I’d be. In this video, Jessica wanted A LOT of cleavage showing. THE BRIDE didn’t. THATS THE POINT. What the bride wants, the bride SHOULD GET. It’s HER DAY. Anyway, it’s none of your business what I do with my money. 🤷🏻♀️
I won't show cleavage myself (too shy), but I think a deep V-neck with cleavage and secure straps is much safer & more flattering than the "breasts spilling out over the top or out the sides" look. And why oh why should anyone think all the bridesmaids will look good in the same cut/style of dress? I am a fan of the bridesmaids choosing whichever style best suits them individually, in an agreed-upon color & fabric.
@@dontakami it's better than having some looking their best and others looking terrible just because they don't understand than some things are not going to work for some bridesmaids due to their radically different body.
Jessica Rios Sometimes having everyone wearing the same dress can be too much like a 'uniform', whereas wearing the same colour and material but different dresses can guarantee everyone looks good, stylish and still match. You should go along with a theme rather than just the same thing for everyone.
@@RVNess First off it is the brides choice dresses can be altered or different body types, if someone is bustier in the group then everyone is wearing straps etc
Marcel Is she not allowed to say she’s pretty?? You shouldn’t be offended by the fact that she called her pretty. She didn’t have any intentions in making the other girls feel bad. Did she say anything ab the other girls not being beautiful? I don’t think so. If I were to say someone is beautiful it doesn’t automatically mean she’s beautiful bc she is skinny and someone else is not. Think before you type. Thank you
Marcel um I’m not even white and I’m more on the heavy side too so I’m not sure why I’m not allowed to say she’s pretty. It’s only my opinion. If u don’t like my opinion u don’t have to but just respect other people plz
Those three women will not all look good in the same dress. They'd be better off picking a palette and letting the bridesmaids choose shape-flattering dresses for them to approve.
Finally!!! Of course the best dress was on the smallest girl! It makes a huge difference when the size of the woman goes up! Strapless is not a big girl's friend! Especially dancing or bending over!!
OMG Jessica its not ur wedding. Be happy for ur friend. There was this one time where my big sister was getting married and I wore the most uncomfortable dress ever but I loved my sister so I endured for her
Sophia Winetz I had to do the same my gown was kinda sharp on the inside and out poked me whenever I moved my arm but I out on a smile and got through the day Some bridesmaids are just so selfish, real friends wouldn't be so eager for attention on her best friend's wedding
Okay I was so frustrated with the one woman because she was just being so selfish, I would wear anything at my best friends wedding if it made her happy. Because it is HER day.
You can say what you want about the boobometer but that's straight up practical thinking. Strapless dresses are not secure if you have a bra size above a DD and want to move comfortably. She's using foresight and protecting them from embarrassment
You can tell they’re all very close friends and the whole appointment felt very lighthearted and fun. I hope if I get married, we can have fun and lighthearted appointments.
I know it was kinda funny. It's like "Oh... here i am" it's music that makes you think of something ugly. I also love the part when Jessica says, "This dress is terrible, it suppresses the girls, and they aren't happy." The way she says it is priceless.
Why is Jessica obsessed with showing off the girls? It’s not her effn wedding days, it’s her BESTFRIENDS wedding day, when it becomes JESSICA’S wedding day, THEN she can wear an effn dress that lets the girls hang loose.
The first set of dresses are all unflattering... "You want all the attention on you anyway" doesn't sound like a nice relationship to me. The girl that is a MUA just assumes that her less dolled-up girlfriend doesn't care about beauty and thus not about bridesmaid's dresses. That's why she doesn't know about her fiancé's preferences. (2:40)
she doesn't seem as focused on the look of the dress than the stability, she wants the bridesmaids to be able to dance without having to adjust the top every five seconds (that's not to say she doesn't care about them being pretty, just that they also are practical)
@@gracethome6959 yeah, but that doesn't change a thing about the MUA-girl not knowing her fiancé's preferences and not even expecting her to have an opinion. The same shows in the bitchy 'I said I wanted strapless' remark towards the guy when he opted for one shoulder dresses.
I think the fiance wanting a decent dress that supports the girls breasts when they dance was sweet. She was looking out for the girls not just wanting a dress she wants them to wear. Comfort is important after all
I’ve always wondered why they don’t bring out dresses in the color scheme the brides ask for? Are they going to make the dresses they want in the desired color?
I worked in a bridal shop before. The brides pick a color and are shown dresses they can get in the desired color. They’re not always in stock esp around prom season lol
They often have lots of colours to choose from, so the shop would be overflowing if they had every dress in ever colour! They give you swatches of fabric so you can picture the dress!
Yes. In the UK they will stock one of each style. They will have all the colours available for you to look at. All dresses are available in all colours. They are all made to order. You try on the style you want in whatever size they have then they order to fit you.
Look, I don't wear dresses.. but at my sisters wedding I was a brides maid and she was worried about me and I told her "you pick it, ill wear it. Today isn't about me looking good it's about you being happy." I wore that dress with no complaints. Now I have to shop for my wedding dress before next fall and my sister said the same thing I said to her cause she is my maid of honor.
I just love how even if they disagree about alot of things they all seem very happy to be there and very good friends. It's rare to see all the girls in a group get along on the show.
