Terinni and Jenaya have been best friends since college, but can the stress of a joint bridal appointment be enough to tear this friendship apart? Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
Everyone is saying there friendship is toxic but like... they've been friends for like 16 years. You can't really assume their friendship in an eight minute video.
@@misspriss2482 i think thats not what they mean, they mean like- you cant just judge a friendship just because their being toxic for 8 minutes. Maybe their really wholesome when off camera?
No really when you’ve been friends with someone for 16 years.... the relationship has formed into something greater. They trash talk and tease each other. Y’all fed into this too much in my opinion. Cause at the end of the day they still there for each other and they still best friends. Just cause y’all wouldn’t do it with your friend don’t mean it’s toxic. Y’all don’t know them. Pur
What I was expecting: “this is my dress!” “No it’s mine!” What it actually was: “you should have this dress you’re an amazing friend” “no you should have it I just want you to be happy” And I love that they are going to be best friends forever and they deserve it
Actually Janaya did not give up her dress for Terrini. Not even close. She told her when she finds "another dress", then she'll say yes to her dress knowing the consultant had just told her Terrini had ALREADY said yes to the dress privately in the dressing room. Sorry but Jeneya was being very selfish. She only "seemingly" "gave up" the dress bc she didn't want to look bad in front of everyone. Even if they both found a different dress in the end, her initial intention was to get what she wanted at the expense of a friend.
@@GameChanger597 someone else posted a link where apparently, both friends chose different dresses. i personally don't think that an 8-min edited video can define them as people or their friendship but you're free to believe what you want. they both gave up the dress though and Janaya doesn't have to be as selfish as it seems in the video.
@@nidhi2693 I hope you're right, but honestly, I think it's stupid that they didn't both just wear the dress of their dreams. They have such different shapes that the dress literally looked like a different dress on both of them anyway.
Then there's me lol My 2 classmates fought over a salad, and since they were far away and food was in front of me I took it for myself. I was starving without lunch in my defense 🧟♀️
To be honest I thought Jenaya looked absolutely stunning in that dress... however I really want Terrini to wear that one because Jenaya seemed to have confidence in every single dress she tried on, while Terrini only felt that way about the one.
The dress was actually very beautiful on Terrani. They just needed to fit it properly to her first. Janaya was taller and longer wasted so the sample dress fit her better, but once they sized it to Terrini, it would have been just as beautiful on her.
Yea but it's not about confidence. It needs to be what they wnat and love. It needs to be THE dress . Not a runner up but THEEE dress. Also fits their wedding
It fit the girl with the black hair better, it fix the other girl to, but not like it did the one who give up on it. That dress was made for her it's even was made for her i woulda get it to
I thought that dress looked stunning on Terrini. I think her countenance was down in front of the others because she knew how much her friend loved it too. I'm glad they both chose other dresses
Am I the only one that thinks they should just order two of the same dress since they both love it so much? For some reason they feel it's a no-no, but the weddings are 3 months apart anyway. I'm curious to know what they did in the end.
I don't get why Jenaya got so many hates... I mean yes Terreni is more mature and kind but both of them have a hard time. In the end Jenaya still decided not to say yes because she don't want Terrani to be upset.
There's nothing toxic about their friendship. If anything, it's a pure friendship. They love one another so much that they won't allow material items and pettiness to endanger it. God bless them.
@SLYMMSAVAGE29 they mentioned that in the video and the other friends said that when the one friend sent the pic of the dress she has also picked the dress before she even saw the photo.
SLYMMSAVAGE29 you don’t have to capitalize the “pretty” word in it and mentioned it for the dark friend. We all know and can tell she is as pretty as her friend without having someone to tell us.
Terinni is just an amazing friend! She’s a true friend!!! She reminds me of myself, I used to always give everything I love to my friends!!! I pray that I meet a true friend like Terinni in my life!!
I like how it says the appointment "turns ugly" when in reality it's two friends trying very hard to care for each other's feelings because they love the dress but they love each other more. I love their friendship.
I can see why this friendship lasted so long this is definitely a good friendship, like they encourage each other to care about themselves and they obviously have similar taste but at the same time they’re selfless and want each other to have the best.
i get the feeling terrini has been doing that her whole life. i think her mother is hurt by her sense of over-accommodation. if they had not said anything, she would have sat there and let jenea have her way.
Why did she decide to dress shop the same day as her friend when they KNOW they like the same things? It was a recipe for disaster. Her wedding isn't until four months further than her friend, she could stand to wait a few days later to then do dress shopping where she is the star and has full pick of the dresses. That also allows each woman to feel like they're in the spotlight on that day. Nothing feels less special than spending the day competing with a friend over wedding dresses.
@@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley I didn't think they thought it would be that hard though. And also they said the while point of going together was to make sure they didn't get the same dress. But yeah, watching how awkward it was, they should have done it separately
Well Janeya still got her bitch way, because she ended up getting the dress and Terinni had to choose a different one. Honestly neither of them should have taken it.
@@gracehowell. some brides consider it bad cuse it means you're copy or you want to puve something or just to show respect to echather plus social ideas don't help it just make it worse Ef you can ignore what would day say and don't mind abute using the same dress then you do it but were not them
The best friend with the lighter hair is not really holding back in MY opinion She just wants to take it while the other best friend is holding back a lot
Realistically both of them should have said no to that dress. Edit: Does nobody read the previous comments? Like 50 other people have said 'they did' 😆😂
Actually having the same dress in a wedding with my friend is like a dream. To me. It’s just so nice to think that in many ways we are connected and that we are really good friends
Do the Right thing I’m at 0:31 and I’m assuming it’s Jennaya.. or something like that, she looks like that, I’ll update you if it’s correct edit: i’m not sure but it looks like it’s the other one lmao nvm they both good, but Terengganu looks like she’s the one
Because one came after the other which meant that everyone would just be like, "oh shes wearing the same dress as the first girl." Since they said hey have the same friends
True friends would rock it out together, same dress, same shoes, same hair, same day. And if not the same dress, then two different that look very similar. A whole twin wedding
People are saying their friendship is toxic, when it’s really not! They’re obviously very supportive and truly love one another like sisters. Its sweet, and they said it themselves that friendship is more important than a dress. They are truly the best of friends
I feel like this isn’t even about the dress, the dark skin girl is way genuine and value their friendship more that the dress but the other light skin girl just wants the dress no matter what and I fell like she doesn’t value their friendship (smh though)
Laura first of all what you aren’t gonna do is come at me crazy bc somebody else made you mad. i said it in a respectful way to SOMEONE ELSE not you so if anyone should shut the fuck up it’s you. second i never called it racist i said that they have names. Because they do. Names that were said in the beginning and multiple times throughout. Nobody wants to be called by their features. If i said annoying ass bitch instead of laura wouldn’t you feel some type of way? everyone deserves respect
Terreni, I hope everyone has such a great friend like you....you make me proud to have friends....to sacrifice something as important as the wedding dress, was out and out, FANTASTIC! I hope you have a really happy married life!
@@MC-bc2ew She said if Terrani finds a DIFFERENT DRESS then SHE will say yes to both of their dream dress. In other words, she said to Terrani "go find a different dress"
But again they did say they shared the same friends so nope.. the second girl said that when her friend showed her the dress, she said "that she had saw that dress too". She saw it second so she should get another dress for her wedding. I dont know🤷♀️
@@justme3846 both sympathised? Did they, really? Because what I seen was one was a genuine friend who cares more about her friends happiness than her own & the other appearing to feel sad because she didn't want to look bad on TV. If she was that good of a friend & was genuinely sympathetic she would have said neither of us will get this dress, we can both find a different dress instead of I'll wait 'til she settles for something else then I'll come back for this one... Selfish & bad friend.
Fairy Princess how does that make here even remotely selfish? She was obviously saying that she would only accept it if her friend found one she absolutely loved way more than the other. If she didn’t, she would pick a different one too, that’s not being selfish at all and it doesn’t make her a bad friend smh
I love this. I see so many situations on this show with "friends" being jealous and selfish, but these two were true friends and truly cared about each others happiness.
They're the most amazing girls I seen on this that wants the other friend happy even if it's the same dress. You could never find a friendship as true as these girls shows!
Hadya Abdallah she literally said before the woman started speaking that she knew her friend was holding back and when she tried to say yes she stuttered because she felt bad so don't try and make her seem out to be the bad friend
@@bubblegirl9854 she was clearly about to say yes, regardless of whether she "stuttered" or not, whilst the good friend had lied and said she didn't like the dress so that her friend would buy it instead. U decide who the better friend is
soaply SHE didn’t she sent the dress to her friend first doesn’t mean she chose it first and in the video she said she was gonna try on the dress first because her wedding is first
7:34 she is just amazing, I would love to see more people like her, and her friend, I really wanna more friendships like this, just as beautiful as this..,but we don’t have a lot of these friendships in this world.
I also liked how Lori corrected Janaya when she said "I know she likes this dress." Lori said 'you know she "loves" this dress.' Janaya was ready to take the dress from her friend from the beginning until the consultant shared with everyone how generous and good her friend Terrini was by sacrificing her own wishes for Janaya. I felt Janaya didn't want to look bad in front of the entire room so she "seemingly" gave up her dress when in actuality she really didn't bc she told her friend when she finds ANOTHER dress she'll Say Yes to the Dress, without even acknowledging the fact the consultant just told her that Terrini ALREADY chose that dress privately in the dressing room. I think everyone could see that Janaya was being selfish. She was only pretending to put Terrini first. I'm sure they are both good friends to each other, but you can tell which one always gets her way.
@Nneoma she said hide the dress as a joke. They've been best friends for 16 years they are gonna be mean to eachother as a joke but that is what makes true friendship because you know that the other would never say that to you that so you immediately know it's a joke. And in the end she decided that her best friend is way more important than a dress so how is she toxic
the dress definitely fits the first woman's body better I feel but that doesn't mean the other girl still didn't look stunning. This is an amazing friendship between these two women. props to them
Tessa - No, she does not seem like that at all. They both separately found the dress online and liked it. She clearly was upset about the whole debacle and apparently in the end neither of them bought the dress. Best to try to imagine the best about people rather than start a rumour.
I saw the whole show they step out before the brides tryed the same dang dress on.again i want to knw who got the dress it looked better on terinni and she found it first.
Who? I mean really who set this rule up? Really. So u just going to let some random person tell u what to do? What if u wanted to wear a red, pink, blue, or whatever color u fall in love with dress & based off "tradition" u have to wear a white dress? Plus if that's the case really all women were suppose to remain a virgin as well until their wedding night. Did u follow that rule?
The second one, her back fit the backless cut of the dress well. Boobs are not a problem that what pushups are for. There is no fix for extra back fat, no offense. It really wasn't that amazing but the 2nd woman takes it for me
or they can share the same dress and they only pay 1500 each, theyre wedding isnt on the same day so thats fine nd exactly, bestfriend goals! edit: hold up bro how do i have 200 likes x
@@killurrabbit3388 they're pretty similar and they can always adjust it for the other bride but they tried the same dress and both looked pretty comfortable
They’re amazing friends. ESPECIALLY Terinni.. I just watched both of their wedding videos and Jenaya was the one who wore the dress they both loved. Terinni wore the other ball gown that she tried on and didn’t like as much.. but she looked sooooooo amazing!!!!! Both ladies did
I love these ladies. Friendship means more to both of them and that's beautiful to see. BOTH should get the dress and have different tiaras and veils. It's really that simple!
i don’t get why everyone‘s saying their friendship is toxic- like obviously they both were ready to give up that dress so the other one can have it. i agree, that they both should‘ve just said no to the dress and try to pick another one, maybe at two stores instead of going to the same but this friendship isn‘t toxic :/
Not both of them were ready to give up the dress. Terinni was holding back all the “That is MY dress” emotions so Jenaya doesn’t feel bad but Jenaya did not hesitate to show her how much she loved it. Also some of the things she said were really disrespectful towards Terinni saying “hide the dress” etc. Another thing I noticed is when Jenaya came out with the dress Terinni kinda tried to cheer her up and tell her how beautiful she looked but when she finally put the dress on Jenaya was giving an awkward stare (like a “you just tried my dress on” stare). Lastly, Jenaya said if SHE doesn’t find another dress, I would have to say no but Jenaya herself won’t even try another dress on. I can’t judge their friendship based off of that 8 minute video but she seems very toxic here.
@@raniat.1543 Jenaya is the one who told terinni to try the dress on or else she wouldn’t have even done that. They were both supportive. And jenaya said if she doesn’t find a dress she loves that’s not the dress she will find something else. Nothing was toxic. They both love each other and didn’t want to take the dress from the other.
