Do Childfree Over 50 Regret Their Decision? 

00:00 this is it 00:40 you know that feeling people get? i don't get it 01:50 when you feel like you don't have a choice 02:59 my cactus update....are they still alive?? 04:10 life is already a lot, right? 05:11 some of us just wouldn't make good parents 06:25 i needed/need a lot of time to do this 06:45 listen in on a weird conversation i have with michael Original Article: ruinmyweek.com/reddit/askreddit/over-50-child-free/

My aunt is 72 and she is the happiest person I know. She is childfree. People who say "you will regret it" just want to punish you for your freedom with an emotional threat.

There are more people that have kids and regret it than childless people who regret NOT having kids.

I have no kids nor would I ever marry a man with kids. I don’t even entertain men with kids.

The married couple with the strongest and most beautiful relationship I've met was actually a child-free couple who lived across the street from me. They were in their 70's and absolutely adored each other. They both had incredibly fulfilling careers doing what they loved, had spent their younger years traveling the world, and were always doing things together. They had a workshop/shed in the backyard where she made stained glass windows and he welded and restored old books and instruments, and on the weekends they would travel around and visit estate sales together.

60 and no kids. Also no regrets. Some people just shouldn't have kids. In a world of 8 billion people, why is this even a concern.

The more I find out about myself the happier I am that I'm single with cats.

I'm 61....no. No I do not regret my choice to be childfree. My friends who had kids are now being saddled with the responsibility for caring for their grandkids because their children buy the most expensive everything and can't cover their bills. Their golden years and the carefree retirement they worked SO HARD for is being sucked away by the financial problems of their adult children. It never ends for them.

To all those saying "Who's going to take care of you when you are old." A woman I know is elderly with three kids and a few grandkids, and NONE of them take care of her. She is on her own. There is no guarantee your children will look after you in old age. That's a selfish reason to have kids anyway. Childfree women shall NOT be shamed!💜

You CAN know at a young age. I knew by 17 kids weren't for me. I like kids, just didn't want the responsibility. I'm almost 62 and never had a regret. Lovin life!

I just have no tolerance for people who pressure others to have or not have children. You'd think letting others make the personal choices that work for them wouldn't be a difficult concept

Child free life = Drama free life. Being child free, I luv the fact that I can come home at 2 a.m. in the morning and watch a film in my home theatre and then on a whim pause the video and take off to Helsinki for three days of cloths shopping and off to St. Torres for some beach fun with ZERO questions, ZERO family commitments, and returning home to my immaculate California summer house and walking into the theatre room and unpausing the video and finish watching the film. Single life IS life! All my family and friends with kids are so envious I can only tell them , "life choices."

If I grow old and realize I regret it (I wont) then I will have to live a very short time with that regret. If I have them now when I don't want them at all and regret it- I have to live my entire rest of my life with that regret. The decision is easy.

I'm 49 and child-free by choice and I don't regret my choice at all. I'm an aunt to an adorable four year old a mom to an even more adorable cat. But birthing and raising a human of my own is not for me. There are so many paths to happiness and some don;t include kids.

"You'll end up being an old maid." No, you'll end up being a maid to your husband and kids.

More people regret having kids than people who regret not having kids. I would much rather regret not having kids than regret having them. Love ur stuff Hannah keep it up ❤️

Most of the people saying "You'll regret not having kids!" ...are internally regretting having kids. Projection...

32 here. Finally met my best friend's one-year-old daughter and that made me think I would want kids if they could all be like this easygoing child. She doesn't cry much, and when she does, it's ultra easy to sate her. She's a very happy toddler. But then I realized that's not unconditional love when you expect someone to act a certain way for your convenience. So, yeah, the childfree life it is for me.

I'm 66 and haven't regretted it at all. Ever.

I am over fifty and have zero regrets! I enjoy giving my energy to my work. I need time for myself in order to function. I also need uninterrupted sleep. I feel like I have a better quality of life than parents do.

I’m in my 70s and nope, no regrets about being childfree. It was the correct choice for me.

I think better to regret NOT bringing a child into the world, rather than bringing a child into the world and regretting it

Never assume a man will pay support even with a court order .

58..zero regrets. I like my life with my husband and dog just fine. Kids do not fit into our life. We're always doing something. We don't have to find a baby sitter. Nor do we have to wonder if we can afford something because our kids need something. Just this week alone we..went out for a nice dinner to celebrate my hubby's promotion, took our dog to bark at the park baseball game, a wine party at the zoo, and this weekend were going to the mountains overnight. Next week I have yoga at the zoo, going to a concert, and throwing my parents a 60th anniversary party. And we are basically busy every week until the end of the year. And this is the way I prefer life to be. Meanwhile to many of my friends are so consumed with either still taking care of the grown assed kids (and not all of them because their child has a medical issue) or their grandchildren.

I'm 86, childless by choice. Never regretted it for a minute.

Life is about choosing what to regret Parenthood comes with misery and occasional happiness Childfree comes with freedom and occasional loneliness

I knew by age 8 that I didn't want children. I'm 72 now, and have never regretted a child-free life. I'm healthier and have a more peaceful existence than any of my friends who had children. You can manage your finances more easily, as well as your lifestyle when you aren't working around the needs of children. I adore other folks kids, love to cuddle babies, and have never wanted to bring up any of my own.

IM 71, childless by choice. Was married 40 years. We created 4 business together. When he passed on i found another wonderful man without kids. My life has been a rich tapestry of adventure and success.. not perfect but who gets perfect? I love kids but the responsibility and all the limits they bring just was not for me. I have no regrets.

50. No regrets. I am grateful every day that I have not contributed to world overpopulation.

I like that people who don't want children, don't have children. It's for the best for both parties.

Many women think having a child with someone will save a relationship or make someone want to stay with you. It never works.

The one comment I get the most, “who would take care of me? My kids will care for me”.It is not true, plus why parents put that responsibility on their kids. I grew up in a large family, I love my parents but they believe that just because they gave me life and a roof over my head until 19, I am in debt to them to watch them in their older years. That’s the selfishness of parenthood in my opinion. It is not unconditional love like most have believed over time. It does have conditions and big ones. I could not put that on I kid if I had one.

I'm old and child free. When I was younger and someone would announce they were pregnant, my first thought was to feel sorry for them, or wonder if they were OK with the pregnancy. I knew I didn't want children, and didn't have any. Thinking you can live life with no regrets is simply wrong. Everybody wonders about the road not travelled. That's OK. Not every life experience happens to everybody.

life is too hard for me to start worrying about a person who is dependent on me

Im glad you asked older women. Right now i keep seeing "child free by choice" videos by people in their 20s and early 30s who literally have 15-20 years to go through life and change their mind. Its really pointless listening to them. Meanwhile women over 50 are actually living with their decision to be child free, so their opinion is born out of a real life experience.

I love my children but if I knew the world was going to be this bad. I never would have had any.

Someone just told me recently "do you think about who's gonna take care of you when your older" Like, seriously. I don't sit around thinking about this 😂.

A lot of parents with children regret having children.

Never. Got my tubes tied with 37. So happy. The doctor Was very supportive of me. He asked if I am sure and i have to pay 250 EUR

Thanks for sharing. We'll stated. Just got back from swimming in the cold water lakes this afternoon........ from the houseboat on the lakes of the Ozarks USA , childfree for life

I'm 60 years old. No regret.

My aunt & uncle didn't have kid. They're happy

I am a single man in my 30s. I never want to have children. Nor do I want to come in between anyone who either has/wants to have children. Is there any advice for me?

Not this 65 year old. I am happy child free.

I’ve probably posted this on some other videos of hers, but anyways: I had several therapists push this on me I’d tell them I don’t wanna get married or have children, and I’m content with my job They insisted “yeah, but you don’t wanna be fifty and look back and regret not getting married or having children or going back to a school” …,,,I would rather regret NOT doing those things instead of regret DOING those things. Especially brining an entire life into this cruel world….

Here is the thing, they don't regret not having children, they regret not fitting in anymore with their friends and family. I used to think why these old people who can't fit amongst us hang out with us. It is because they fit better with us than the parents of their age.

I still don't want kids or want to raise them, but I am starting to have concerns about the family line ending, and I don't know where that comes from. I have 3 siblings and I assumed they would all have multiple kids but me. But my brother doesn't want kids either, and my sister has 1 kid but he has developmental disabilities so we are assuming he will not ever have a partner or children. Only two of my three nephews plan on kids, one is on the way. It is odd that the family line is shrinking and not growing. My mom has 4 kids, but 4 grand kids, and probably just 2 great grand kids. But the weird part is, I can't pinpoint why it bothers me so much and where that's coming from. The uneasiness still doesn't give me any desire to raise kids of my own.

I turn 54 this Sunday (June 25th). I do not regret being childfree. I knew very early that I didn't want children. I just don't like kids or teenagers. Hell, I can barely stand young adults. I also didn't want to be married. I knew that early on too. I don't even want a pet. I just don't want to be bothered. Coming home to complete and utter peace is everything I have wanted ever since I left home at 23 years of age. I just didn't see being married and raising kids as a great life. God willing, my parents will celebrate 66 years of marriage this August. They had me and my brother, who passed in August 2020. He waa 62. I grew up in a loving home with the bestest Daddy in the whole wide world!! Yes, I'm a Daddy's Girl and I'm spoiled rotten until this very day. So, it wasn't my upbringing. I just prefer to be alone. I'm childfree, husbandfree, relationshipfree, dramafree, and any other kind of free you can think of. I wouldn't give that up for nothing. I live the life I want. I have absolutely no regrets. Be blessed but, more importantly be a blessing....🙏🏾

Married 52 glorious childfree by choice, yrs. Not one single regret. Able to retire out of racist amerikkka, while friends are raising grandkids, and worrying about them get killed by cops

I'm a 66-year-old woman who never wanted kids. My nervous system (introvert here) is not designed for the noise, chaos, sleeplessness, constant worry, messy accidents and crushing responsibilities. I don't regret acting according to the dictates of my mental and physical constitution. As a child, I'd see couples with children in public and feel sorry for them - like they were living in a prison. I preferred stuffed animals over baby dolls. Now, I love my alone time and petting my cat. Some people would see me as a pathetic loser, but they can go eff themselves, lol.

Yeah my favorite stepdad died recently, none of his 4 children visited him at his deathbed. There are no guaranties whatsoever that you wont end up alone at the end.

I just found your channel and I'm so excited!! I've been on the hunt for an outspoken childfree youtuber for quite a while now. I've been childfree for like 3 years now and I live in a conservative middle eastern country, the struggle is real. Thank you so much for these videos ❤

There is a video of a lady who was homeless for almost a year. She lived in her car. It is a documentary called What happens when you lose your home at 72. Look it up. and BTW, she had many kids 😄 none of them cared..

Funny how we’re always told when we’re young not to have kids then when we’re older and don’t have them we’re judged

I'm 60 years old, childfree, and have zero regrets. But it's important to know that regret and joy can coexist perfectly,if that helps anyone 🌞 I have a good husband and numerous pets. That's my bliss.

I am a little worried about the lead up, not the 'dying alone' zone (I'll be fine in the nursing home era) it's the years leading up to that, the 60's to 90's zone. I'm an only child and only grandchild. I wont have extended family support when I start to struggle with technology or cant drive, but am otherwise right to live on my own. I think about all the support my mum and uncle have given my grandparents and it's been a lot. I also don't have a partner and likely wont ever seek one out. That said, I wont change my mind. Having kids wont guarantee that support and I know it's not the right path for me. I'm sure I'll figure it out when I get there.

Thank you so much for making this video!!! That’s exactly what happens with me. Every time people scare me with the regret I have to go and search about child free women 😂 This one time, I asked myself, what if one day I will feel empty, like I have no goal, no purpose, purpose always pushed me in life, what if one day I got too bored with life and myself and started to get really depressed?! And that stayed with me for a while until I told myself, you lived almost 30 years all by yourself, you’ll be fine in the next 30 give or take years 💁🏻‍♀️

My husband and I are over 50. I am also an Asian American woman. Do we regret our decision t be childless by choice? Absolutely NOT.

I'm less abled so financially I can't do the 'travel the world, shop all I want' thing many child-free channels seem to be focusing on, but being without money doesn't mean that I am poor because I have TIME!!! I have all the time in the world to rest, to stay in bed to recuperate, to go for a walk, watch movies or simply be and enjoy the moment with a cup of tea. Having time to also do volunteer work or spend time with stray cats and dogs, give them love and care is also priceless. ❤

i'm 71 and no regrets about remaining childfree.

52 years old childfree woman here and no, I don't regret not having kids at all, the contrary is the fact, with every passing years my choice of being cf gets reeinforced. Thar said, the truth is no one can say what is going to happen in the future, so being realistic , yes, there is always a possibility that you can regret your choices no matter if the choice is to be cf or becoming a parent. As I see it, I think it is better to regret being cf than regreting a child. At the end , it doesn't matter what people think, only you can take the best decision for your self. Having kids out of fear for ending alone when you get old isn't a good reason to bring a whole human into this world. 1. It is unfair for the kid and 2. Residences for the elderly are full of parents whose kids just don't care.

I have never wanted a kids. I'm 54 I have no regrets about being child-free.

I’m 48f and have no regrets at all. In fact, I wake up everyday so glad I have my freedom and am able to do as I please. I’m happy with my husband and dog and that’s enough for me. My life is full. 🥰😊❤️

Never had babies and I retired at 51 years. Having children while living in America is way, way, way too hard for non-rich people. If I had been rich, I may have had kids, but I've never felt financially secure enough to even take time off work for maternity leave. I have some strong feelings that someone should be a stay-at-home parent when the kids are still living at home. Both of my parents worked full time and I basically had to raise myself. I'd never do that to a kid. Since I never earned enough as a 20-30 something to live on a single income, so...kids never happened.

53 year old child free high school teacher! Love my students don’t regret not having kids.

I've also worked at elderly care unit, and weekly visits were a rare thing to whitness - let alone daily visits. I think the most disappointed in life customers in the unit were the elder people who had sevelar adult children, who had indeed bought the "they'll take care of you when you're old" saying and tuns out none of them would do so. On the other hand, some of the most positive and content with life people in the unit were ones with no children, who had lived the kind of life they truly wanted, and had no unrealistically high hopes of relatives nursing them, but had instead taken the matter into their own hands and made sure they'll have the assistant they need when they get older. As a side note, you shouldn't count on having a partner supporting you on your elder days either. So many relationships end in breakup, and even they didn't, the harsh truth is that one of you will die earlier than the another - sometimes even decades earlier. So, no matter what's your circumstances in life, it is a very good idea to make practical preparations for your elder days well ahead. It doesn't have to be a sad thing, it can be a positive experience, where you feel empowered by the fact that when you plan carefully, you'll have power over your life even when you're old.

I have nothing to talk about with parents. They do not know anything but childcare for kids and grandkids. I just came from a backpacking trip from Peru and I am planning another trip. They do not want to hear that. lol

it was not a choice, but I don't have regrets. I have dogs, they are great.

I don't regret anything! My life has been amazing. The only thing that bothered me is when people just CAAAANNN'TTT understand that this is a legitimate life choice. People are funny that way.

I've seen people have kids for ridiculous reasons "to take care of them in old age", "because couples get bored in 2-3 years with each other, they need something to give them purpose and bonding", "because family/society pressure", "society will consider us infertile".. and the most horrible reason was that some women want to have kids because when their first kids are older they stop getting attention and importance from their families. So they want to be pregnant again to receive that. It's horrible out there. My parents were doctors but both were emotionally immature and at 30 I was still suffering. Only recently I've begun to feel nice about myself. I will never have children unless I feel I can provide absolutely everything necessary to them, including love, emotional support,etc. But considering I'm an introvert, need a lot of quiet and alone time, have Aspergers syndrome and my husband has ADHD, we won't be having kids.

Yes, I'm 52. My partner and I are both child-free and prefer dogs to love and to nurture. I read an article in the "That's Life" magazine saying that it's more fun to be a grandmother than to be a mother (e.g. the parents have to be the Bad Cop when the children are being naughty). Some people may think that way but I'd be groaning at the prospect that my (hypothetical) adult daughters and/or sons will dump their grand-babies onto me whenever they wanted to go out to have some fun away from the kids. I'd soon be feeling used! Luckily, I don't have to worry about being swarmed by screaming kids, because I didn't have children in the first place! No children = no grandchildren! No baby sitting! I can sit down and read or write a book...or find some other interests or hobbies to try out.

The only things I would want to teach my un born child would be how to practice safe sex or how to get a vasectomy or hysterectomy.

I dont have any fear if regret because i know myself well enough to know that pregancy and birth are something I dont want to experience and even the thought of it is distressing to me. I'm also not a nurturing person by nature (i don't even enjoy keeping pets) so even adopting a child is not appealing. I strongly prefer being around adults largely because they're independent people so it's just not in me to raise a child. I've always felt that i like kids but only in small doses. I have younger siblings and cousins and i see them from time to time but then i go home to my own child free house and that's just how i like it. I can be an auntie, and older sister and a mentor but not a mother.

Well over 50, I do not regret not having children. I actually only like visiting kids in my family.

I enjoy living in a more blue area of the US and not having kids. Finally left a really red area where it was hard to meet more diverse minds. Much happier. My husband and I actually have a social life now. I really don’t want kids, but where we were before that was very much expected of us and we were not treated to kindly. People can be mean! Now where we are, I am really happy now. We have several childfree couples we enjoy hanging with. That made all the different. My 30s sucked so bad. I got ditched by all my friends with kids and pressured all the time. It would have been sad to just do it because that is what you are suppose to do.

I’m a teacher but I hate working with kids. I’ve always taught adults (I teach languages) and I swear to god no matter how I love teaching adults, it never makes me want to teach ANY kids, even my hypothetical ones (who I’m not going to have because no thanks)

I just woke up today feeling like I never want to have kids . It’s kind of sudden but I feel more expansive imagining a life without them

3:24- You have to wonder what kind of parents they were to their children that they don't bother to visit their elderly parents.

It's been a while since I've watched your videos, I'm just catching up with all of them! I always enjoy your videos a lot 💖 Love your hairstyle!

I know I won’t have regrets because my reasons for being childfree come from a place of kindness. I believe that having children is the cruelest thing a person can do. Forcing babies to exist is crazy. I can’t see myself creating a body and a soul to satisfy a whim. Nope. Not me.

I never want to have kids, and whenever someone says something like 'but who will keep you company/take care of you when you're old?' I just feel sorry for their kids. To put that kind of expectation on someone just feels wrong and unfair. Is that really why people have kids?

I would love it if there was a child-free home for the elderly. I'd book myself in it with all the other child-free folks and we'd talk about our different travels, life experiences, literature, playing games, being naughty and playing pranks until we visit each other to help see each other off (wearing white at my send-off ). My family surrounded my grandparents and two older aunties who all passed from cancer. All my 5 sisters and I are on diets and exercise regimens to prevent getting cancer, clearly somewhat traumatized by it. Death is profoundly inevitable but I don't want to do that to my family. I cherish and make the best of the moments I create with all of them NOW. My death and I are intimate - I've always been dark like that. Every day I remind myself, "I am going to die". I might even do an Odin-style death from Thor Ragnarok, sitting on a bench on a cliff in a beautiful country and appreciating the fact I've been gifted with life with all my cherished memories, admissions, gifts and laughter in love.

My grandpa is 85. Him and grandma got married in 1963 and had 3 kids. They pretty much had to raise me and my brother and now my grandma has passed and two of his sons have passed away and out of the 4 grandchildren I’m the only one that talks to him. I feel so bad for him. And plus he’s the only one left out of 14 brothers and sisters he’s literally lost everyone besides me and my dad. That’s probably why I don’t want children. Your not promised anything in this world

I've been teaching ice skating to kids for 5 years. I LOVE teaching kids how to skate. . .when they want to learn it. Half the kids don't really enjoy it and some throw a tantrum. Once they aren't interested lessons, I'm not interested in them. But when they enjoy the lessons, I enjoy them. But, I also teach adults and the same feelings apply. Kids are humans, just smaller. I don't love all of them.

MOST PEOPLE NEVER ADMIT IF THEY REGRET THEIR LIFE DECISIONS AND MOSTLY DENY TO SAVE FACE.

You can potentially end up with a lot better people around you if you get to pick which ones they are rather than the stranger you birth.

Your channel is great. 😄 Thanks for posting this video! I totally get how you feel, and I do get stressed sometimes when I think about how much of an oddball I am for not wanting kids.

Oh my, so glad I came across your channel. I thought I was the only one that felt like this!

I've known absolutely nobody that chose not to have kids, and regretted it. I have known parents that seriously regretted it. Completely anecdotal, but seeing the lived experience of parents makes it an easy decision not to have children personally. I do not want to go through the horrors of pregnancy, tantrums, financial difficulties, and responsibility. I have bipolar disorder inhereted from the women on my maternal side, and i dont want to take that gamble of putting this intense and excruciating disorder on another human being. I have watched someone who is unstable emotionally parent and saw the damage that woman did to her poor child and while i know that i would likely be a "better" parent than she is I dont want to risk potentially damaging my child because they inherit my generational trauma. My line may end with me, and that is a good thing. No more children will have to bear the weight of this screwed up family history ever again.

Its weird for me because I grew up really wanting kids, but then these past 2 years I went through the entire experience with my sister with birth, newborn stage, starting to crawl and walk and let me just tell you its HELL. my husband experienced it too and is literally going to get a vasectomy now, I am completely fine being an aunt but I cant imagine my germ freak self throwing around dirty diapers like she does all day and the constant cleaning it takes, she is constantly needing to throw the kid at other people to babysit it so she can work to even afford it and we both have weak arms so even holding the baby around alone really painful, the child needs 24/7 attention so its pretty much all you can do all day long. no freedom

Thank you for your channel. Our indoctrination to being breeders is so outdated

I don't have kids, I'm 39 years old and I do not regret it. I mean is fine if you want to have kids, if that makes you happy, but not bc of pressure. I think some people think that happiness is a formula and it's not.

3:16 This is the sad reality. I remember many years ago, reading an Ann Landers column from a woman who explained that while she was in the hospital in a coma, her family came to visit. While they were in her room, they were discussing who would get what of hers after she died! But she came out of the coma and wrote to Ann, explaining that she could hear her relatives talking and how she no longer trusts her family and cautioned the readers to know that being in a coma isn't the same thing as being unconcious.

I can’t imagine life without having kids. I respect people who choose not to have them. I also have great empathy for those who can’t have children but want them. My eldest Son whose 15 says he wants to marry one day but he child free. I think he’s still young but I told him if he still feels this way when he finds his “Future Wife” he needs to be up front early on.

Good video. I hope I will not regret not having kids, but yet again, I don’t know what it would be like, so you don’t miss something you never had:) PS. I like your hair😍 & sorry, English is not my first language😂hope I got my message through

You can also regret having kids also.

I’m 68, married for 43 years, retired for ten years, and happily child free. I’ve heard all the crazy things people say from bullying, to the ones who will pray for you because you haven’t been gifted with a child. Amazingly, I have had dozens of parents secretly tell me that they wish they had the courage to not have children. So many people who regret such a huge decision. So sad. I do hope their children don’t know because that could be devastating.

I've never wanted kids unfortunately fell pregnant once at 19 after making one bad decision. I carried to term gave baby up for adoption I've no regrets I know the kid had a better life with someone who wanted them and couldn't have their own kid. I'm asexual hated the one and only sexual encounter I had and the nine months of pregnancy. I have no interest in getting into a relationship im a introvert with extreme anxiety around people. I live a quiet solitary happy life with my two dogs. I run a small online selling business from home that brings in enough to cover my rent, bills, pet insurance and means I don't have to do a job I hate stressed out and surrounded by people. I don't need a lot to survive as I have no interest in going out or spending money on socialising. I'm a night owl and like to stay up late watching movies or on RU-vid and sleeping until noon or walk the dogs in the people free quietness of dusk or dawn. Having a child would be messy, loud, stressful for me. You have to give your whole life up for them, you have to work jobs you hate and stress you out to make enough money to provide for them. You have to be social and take them out to parks and have playdates with other kids and talk to parents because its not fair on kids to be kept away from the world if parents are introverts. You have to attend parent teacher meetings and be smart enough to help with school work which has got so freaking advanced. Sleeping in in the morning is a thing you'll never have again when you have kids you'll never again be able to have a moment peace or do anything for yourself everything you do has to be for the child. Not enough people truely think it throw before they have kids and how it will change their whole life. Woman don't have to have children it's not their sole purpose and its better for a child to have a parent who wants them and is equipped to deal with the difficulties of parenthood than be neglected or not treated well. If people want children then they should definately have them or even adopt them but if they don't want them they shouldn't have them because it's not good for a parent or the child if they weren't wanted or if the parent is incapable of taking care of them.

Nice video! It would be also very interesting to see a video about really young people, who decided not to have children in the future. I'm turning 24 next month and one of my personal values is to modify my lifestyle into a life, where I would focus more on work and hobbies and not on children. My family members will need my help and I want to be here for them, like a handy uncle. But some people tell me that I'm still young and that I will probably change my mind or regret it. That could be true of course, but I have different mindset right now. If I did decisions that don't lead to having children, I would probably not want them. Persecution of young people should also be a part of a discussion...

Hannnah ok grrrrrl 'these tresses' are THE bestest ever!! Too fab and I was all over the more recent lighter--lots of dimension then 'this' change . . .wowzee so modern and youthful. Suits you to a T. So glad the cacti are thriving. Oh yeah...fab video as always in all ways.