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Unfortunately that Doesn't bring in views Like making parents into villains and getting people to call CPS on them more. 😕

@@lowkib3201 it’s not making them into villains he’s telling the truth. They are exploiting their daughter to make money they have no jobs they’re not a normal family. All they do is buy stuff for themselves, and Abby gets donuts and an iPad …if your child cannot give consent to be filmed its wrong.

Same here. I watched for the same reasons. He has definitely opened my eyes to child exploitation!

Yeah..i fell for them at first too, because of abbey, ❤ then i found out from ppl posts, asa got a girl pregnant..before percilla came along. The story goes us, he dosent speak of it, i read that he didnt...dosent help the child n mom in anyway, i texted him, brought this shit up to him...all he gloated about was..like...I BUY HOUSES..I TAKE CARE OF M Y FAMILY..I BUY ABBEY EVERYTHING...BLAH BLAH BLAH,,,STILL WONT ADMIT IT..

They don’t know how lucky they all and should be appreciative to what they have got.

Is there anyway to donate to her?

I’m so sorry about your friend, you sound like an amazing friend and I’m thinking of her 🙏 Living with chronic illnesses and several chronic pain syndromes is hard , that’s with my husband. But Your friend is my hero because I know what it takes to be an autism parent let alone all the stuff she is battling…I honestly can’t imagine. These ppl here make me sick & they have no clue what it’s really like to be that stressed. Your friend is truly in my heart ♥️

@@amandaford864 that’s so sweet 🥹

That aboutsly horrible what's happened to your friend... but that like say no one around you can be stress because you know someone who's worst off. That toxic in itself.

albussnape2, The eating compulsion is the result of ABA, autistic adults kept warning them one of the after effects of ABA is reward obsession. They kept rewarding Abbie food with ABA and she’s now obsessed with food.

She can use the bathroom on her own during the day. The reason she has to wake her parents up is because she's locked in her room at night via baby gate and other locks that she can't figure out. And as u said, she wears pull ups at night with her backwards pajamas. I do just want to call out, to Josh's entire family vlogger point, is something that I shouldn't know.... But do. 🤷🏻‍♀️😳 And THAT is why people shouldn't exploit their kids online!!!🙀🤔🙀🤔 I know way too much about their family!

I agree a hundred percent everytime someone comes to work with Abby Asa has to be right there enterfering with what the worker I trying to help Abby.

I don’t think he lied, CPS workers regardless of what country or location you work in - always have a sensitive case they are needing to get to.

He did. It's against the law for them to speak about cases.

@@littlekitsune1 You’re allowed to say “I have another case I need to get to” or things like that - but you cannot give details or say anything that can IDENTIFY a person/case.

The man just always seems to have that air of _I'm right/I know better and you're wrong_ about him. It's gross.

@@eighthdoctor why are you so bothered about it.

How do you know how old she is mentally?

@@rachaelreynolds6975 Asa has said it and I have had children. It's easy to watch Abbies behaviors and see this.

I think she can learn some self care skills and such but she’ll likely always need assistance. She can still learn things though it’ll just take more repetition. I think it’s hard to say she’s mentally however many months because she still has the extra years of life experience plus it’s hard to know what she might understand but not be able to communicate.

@@c.swinford8283 nope. You're wrong. She's profoundly ID and has no ability to reason. Her parents are lazy af and at age 17 she hasn't been taught to even use the bathroom. Her father stated her mental age a few times but they are in such denial that it's not really discussed at length. She understands as much as any young toddler under the age of 2. That will never change.

How do you know she is 18-24 months old mentally?

Horrible person her name is Priscilla not Pigcilla. People are horrible on this horrible dcp channel. He's a bully 😤

@@user-cz8kz1dh9iActually, she has all kinds of names. Pigcilla, Percillerpotamus, The Beast, Twatty the Tubberson. Big P, Mama Sow. Take your pick.

@@bigpbullwinklejr.6285crying

​@user-cz8kz1dh9i 😅😅😅. No he's not.

They suck in the US, period, and definitely don't go to every call. Disabled kids get bumped up the priority list, though.

@@littlekitsune1 they make kids with special needs a priority because they make more for the system.

The CPS and importance should be made by looking at differences in their parent's and parents' behavior and mental state, not the children's state! Period!

In America a lot of CPS & CYS cases get ignored.

Today (5-29) a new video was posted called Sick Sucks and it is really rough. Please watch the first 10-15 seconds of the video where Abbie is dosing off on the patio and Asa leaves her there ALONE and walks into the house, closes the door behind him and continues to film. After all the complaining about CPS last week, they should see this video. Why would a sick child be left alone outside beside a swimming pool? She had been awake for a couple of nights and could have wandered right into the pool!!! She could have had a seizure or any number of things.

That's not true. I called on my own sister over my nieces and they told her it was me and that I live in Hawaii. (She lives in Tennessee and I'm the only one she knows here so...)

Yep@@YOUAreTheSecretToLife

@@cakimmer91 really?? Wow, ok. Maybe it differs from state to state...

I did DOUCHE BAG...it varies by state...YOU are obviously the one that doesn't know what they're talking about 😅😜@@YOUAreTheSecretToLife

I had some make false allegations to Cps after I fired them. I knew who it was the whole time because I told Cps I recently fired ____ because they were hitting my child and my child was crying that they were scared. When I said that cps worker looked at me and said “looks like it was filed out of retaliation”

Most of it Is Assumptions And Speculation. These Videos Even Drive People to Call CPS to their home For no Reason. Little Stuff Like She Was Ledt by the pool In The Video but they Did See Cilla There So They Assumed She Was Being Neglected. It's Weird and Kinda Scary To See People So Invested on separating a mute Disabled child From Her Parents For ASSUMPTIONS. 😳

I don’t think she said it in the context he said. He would have said I’m sure your busy with more pressing cases and she probably just agreed.

I hate the sound of Asa's voice too Asa I very cocky he thinks he is KIng S^^t so annoying totally agree with that about him 😂

Same here

I know , i know . Abbeys so, so sweet n innocent. He does claim...abbey will be well taken care of, if something should ever happen to the parents, thats great, the son will be helping her through the years, himself .

Same here

I am so very happy to read your story and although it is a bit bad that people gave you so much backlash but sometimes it is needed to make people see what they are doing to us. Abby is actually not giving consent in many diffrent ways. From shaking her head “no” to pushing away the camera. There are kids(some are now adult) that now speak up when their family has exploited them by living in a van and filming every day. Or non speaking kids that type and tell that way that it was a hell with parents that put everything online. I was pushed to speak and not have my own pace which actually cut into my ability to speak now. Im 32 and i am thankfull to live in the netherlands and there is (nearly) no access to ABA. That would have crushed me as it has crushed many others. Thank you for being mindfull about what you put online and what you dont. We are just humans with a different need of support then others. :)

For your son sake please delete. I know you probably think you are so amazing and that everyone needs to know what an amazing job you’re doing but please stop. It’s the most heartbreaking thing my mom has ever done to us. Is post my struggles online for everyone and colleagues and neighbors to see. You know he holds guilt but your son cannot help it. Please stop sharing his every struggle.”he can give consent now” no. And as an autistic person I would never want to disappoint my caregiver/mother by telling her to delete all her memories. You have to do the right thing now.

@nelson wells do you still have contacts at J$A that are trustworthy? It would be nice to know why they pulled Abbie. Also do you know of anything else that would shed some light on these horrible people?

Honestly, you just sound snarky

@@MrsEyes512 so you're fishing for confidential info on a child while watching a channel talk about exploitation while they exploit someone else's child negatively for money... makes sense

@@MB-ml8ti you're an idiot.

I’m so sorry for your loss. Your son was very fortunate to have two parents that loved and took care of him. And I’m sure he brought you much joy. You and your family are in my 🙏🏻❤️

I’m so so sorry for your loss. Praying for you & your family. It sounds like your son had the best of the best for parents. My heart goes out to you both 🤍

Yes, this. We have two kids with additional needs (one severely medically fragile and one on the Spectrum). Our life is far from normal and will never be normal. People who don’t live this life do not get it. I don’t agree with the way this family exploits Abigail. There are a lot of things that they do that I don’t agree with. However we don’t know all of what goes on in their home, and I can tell you from experience parenting a child with needs like Abigail’s is exhausting.

Interesting. I’m not from FL so I didn’t know of these changes. If they could really use the McKay money to provide home schooling that would worry me immensely! They don’t have a plan or a teacher with specialized training. This is not good.

@The Girl That Could they don't need a scholarship they are loaded.

as someone with autism I'm disgusted with fathering autism and I hope that they lose their channel.

@@Emily-ld8sk I actually ended up putting my grandson’s pictures on private because they’re 2 and 2 months on my Facebook and IG. My son on the spectrum is 23 so more can see his pictures, but mostly friends and family. I have few on my Instagram of him and my other 2 adult children. Josh , really opened my eyes when it comes to just posting pictures bc of all the nasty pedo’s!! I agree, how can they be okay with putting Abby in danger!? I know Asia seen Josh’s videos or know’s how creepy those fans are!? I’m sorry but no money will ever be more important than my family’s safety!! I remember when we finally got good internet ( not dial up anymore lol ) and I had my 1st laptop, I was finally able to do my own research on autism. My son was born in 98 and we had to be his advocate to get his diagnosis which finally happened when he was around 11yrs old. We didn’t have hardly any resources in my area att and we didn’t know other parents with kid’s on the spectrum , so I might of looked for a channel like fathering autism back then. Fortunately they had forum’s and Facebook groups to talk to other parents about it. So I think fathering autism still could have the channel and do well without Abby ( but Abby brings in the $). Not that I’d watch him,but I know my son looks up channels about autism or looks up others on the spectrum. They know they can make it as a channel without Abby , but they’re selfish and it brings them so much more money than they’d make without her. It makes me sick!!

Abby’s parents are putting a big target on her it’s makes me nervous for her they don’t think about her safety just how much money they can make off of her if they are doing this for her Future all the money should go in the bank for her not on house cars and trip for them it’s abbys money

They’ve become about $$$$ and arrogant narcissism. They can’t handle doing the full-time care, irrespective of their income-generating commitments or fun adventures. Honestly, their daughter’s needs and behaviors would wear down any one person trying to do even half-time care.

Seriously! I agree 10,000%. The worst part, in my opinion, is that Asa & Priscilla constantly drag Abbie to Dunkin Donuts meet-&-greets with her "fans," & they force her to take pictures with these people & even hug them -- all the while knowing that she cannot consent to any of it. She literally cannot speak. Her communication skills are extremely, EXTREMELY limited. There is no way for her to tell her parents "I really don't feel like doing a meet-&-greet today" or "Hey, these people are making me extremely uncomfortable, please don't make me hug these strangers anymore." The way Asa & Priscilla exploit her is absolutely heartbreaking to me. They parade her around like she's a goddamn show pony & not a human being. Is that not the freaking textbook definition of child exploitation? I mean, come on now -- what else would you call that?! Considering how gross & creepy some of her "fans" are, I'm honestly shocked & disgusted that her parents still make her do these meet-&-greets. It's vile.

🤣🤣 I wouldn’t think a place like that would get good business.

It’s a short term business. Interest will change and drop all together.

I guarantee money is walking out the door. If the owner is not there everyday, money is walking out the door.

They are SO cheap!!!!!!! Almost every video they talk about getting discounts, etc. Cillas page is all sponsored ads. It's pretty gross.

jamieerickson, Because claiming they’re ‘special needs’ is ableist language, describing them as inferior people.

I think they said she pulled the pad apart. I live in the UK and because safeguarding would not allow the kind of putting on pyjamas back to front to stop the picking, purchasing washable pads was the answer . Seems to me they don’t want her to have any independence.

Ya right? These people don't even get up early in the morning. I've seen many many vlogs where they comment that Abbie sleeps until like 10or 11 most mornings and Asa always says it's bcuz Abbie stays up so late. But Abbie depends on them to go to sleep at night she doesn't put herself to sleep. This family is the epitome of lazy and now she's starting to really gain weight. Not surprised since it seems she always wants to eat and they stuff her full of it. All processed and junk food and sweets. I get it's ok sometimes but everyday? They clearly don't care about her being healthy and always pass it off that she's just a typical teenager. No sorry Asa she's not. They are 100% responsible for the way she eats since they are the ones feeding it to her. She doesn't go and buy this crap herself. Yes teenagers like junk food and will often buy themselves treats, but Abbie isn't going out buying the junk, they stuff her full of it. Sadly by the time she is 18 she will most likely be pretty overweight if this continues. And it's not just that they feed her a lot, it's how much and what they feed her. I swear every vlog I see if them there is always a clip of them eating or going through the drive thru for donuts or getting ice cream or chick filet or Chipotle. It's never eating something healthy.

@@christinarodriguez7843 agree! And typical teen? BS...most teens are pretty cognizant of their diet especially if they are serious dancers(as mine) and/or athletes. Yes they like junk food but I think they like to have a say in healthy stuff they eat. I'm frequently running to grocery store for yogurts and different fruits that she wants packed in her lunch. I understand not all teens are health conscience but when they are 100% responsible for her diet, they should be ashamed. She eats like shit. Processed foods, take out several times a week. Sugary dunkin drinks etc..they are lazy. He always says he shows us what he wants. Then show us what a happy healthy family does. For God sake, why don't you walk your dogs daily...show that!!! My 12 lb Chihuahua walks with me daily...lives for that walk. I can't imagine Mav and Sandy NOT wanting daily walks. Ugh, they are Lazy Humans!

I agree completely. Abbie's parents need a MAJOR reality check, especially if they still think there's ANY realistic chance of Abbie living independently someday. That is clearly NEVER going to happen. Abbie seems like a great kid, don't get me wrong, but her intellectual disabilities are EXTREMELY profound. She has to be constantly prompted to do anything & everything, or else she gets distracted & wanders off. This is clearly a child that will need full-time 24-7 care for her entire life. Asa & Priscilla make so much money off their RU-vid channel, they could easily afford to hire some of the best professionals in the field to come teach Abbie & give her a truly world-class education -- but they don't. Instead, they spend all that money on things for themselves -- cars, real estate, fancy electronics, vacations, an RV, etc., etc. Abbie's needs always, ALWAYS come last for these people. And that's what bothers me the most about the Fathering Autism channel. They should honestly be ashamed of themselves.

Having basic life skills is very important. Having some ability to contribute to home activities is also obviously important.

What does "having some ability to contribute to home activities" mean?

Josh is teaching us a lesson about exploiting kids because it’s gross and disgusting what I like about Josh is that he’s the only one that looks out for everyone on here including his fans on her because he’s teaching us a valuable lesson because these RU-vidrs don’t give a dam they love exploiting kids online for content which is gross and disgusting when I have my first child I will never ever do that ever

I remember them saying the lawsuit only paid for a certain amount of time and that time was coming soon…uggghhh, they need to pay for her to go to school!

You are right! CPS came to their house cause of the gate at Abbie’s door! They said if I remember correctly she doesn’t know how to open the gate or climb over it so if she needs to use the restroom in the middle of the night she will have to be extremely loud! So sad…

@@fridab1952 while I can see why they are using it for a safety concern, there are differently better ways to handle it!

@@CrystalDawn1991 Yes there are better ways to use a gate for safety! They had no gate at their old house and that house had stairs too! If anything I would have the gate on the top of the stairs or on the bottom..

she doesn't know how to use the bathroom as her parents haven't potty trained her as they are lazy.

@@sethmishne mhmm No I’m pretty sure she’s independent with the bathroom. She’s a flight risk. But regardless children with autism do regress

Asa does often brag about that , sayin shell be ok if shed list her folks, god forbid .

Hey Gina, try to brag a little harder.

Florida has scholarships

She is not bragging. Coming from a mom of seven, I worked nights and my husband days just to afford private education. We sacrificed to achieve what we thought was best for them. They always had what they needed, not always what they wanted. They are now grown to all be productive adults i am proud to call my children.

@@maddietrafford1225 LMAO that's kinda harsh

Depends on respite care and which state

I have a disability and I got to do a post secondary program from my local high school housed at my local college until I turned 22.

That is exactly right!

She has going to a private school, though. It s an excellent one for those with autism. Possibly the best in Florida. They are doing her ANOTHER huge disservice by pulling her out early!

Why was the state even involved with your child - it's none of their business if you choose to not use institutional "education" or not. My kids have never set foot in a school and never will - traveling is very educational, it can provide real life experiences that schools can only dream of providing.

He bought his dad a bike bike recently... With a motor. I think that's the confusion

To film her more 😢

Probably!!! And they don't have to be burdened with getting her up every day, packing lunch and answering to teacher for Abbie's needs.

YES!!They me tioned the money in a previous video.

What settlement…for what..?

They will be getting grant and funding checks directly coming to them now. Not the school. Everything they do is all about the money. Abbie is their money maker. Horrible parents.

@@kellibrenneke2253 Yes! Asa mentioned in a vlog very recently that he was tired of the whole “dropping her off and picking her up” routine. He said he was glad he will finally be able to sleep in. I also think they are wanting to distance themselves from the mandated reporters and removing her from school will do that. Asa probably suspects everyone and their brother of calling CPS on them, but the school officials are probably ranked pretty high on his list. Asa and Priscilla know they are circling the drain and their vlogging days may be numbered. Most viewers are tuning in for Abbie. Asa, Priscilla, and Isiah are simply not interesting or charismatic enough to support viewership on their own merits.

Not true Pricilla makes good money on her own!

​@@annequeen6544 because of the clout and attention she got from abby.

@@annequeen6544 LMAO

No. Dunkin had more sense.

Why are they saying she graduated isn't she 16?

I always thought it was because the school frock legal action to stop them from filming at the school which I suspect affect’s their revenue stream. They barely talk about school events like a prom or the flounder pounder. From what I know about Asa that makes sense because he doesn’t like being told no.

@@PostcardCathy I think Josh said that they sued the school and it might have been because they were filming so much at her school, which is a special school, but the school might have also spoken up about their concerns, especially when Priscilla dropped off Abbie with her face covered in blood from a bloody nose and then just left because she was "in a hurry."

@@AliAngelpie haven’t watched this video yet and haven’t really been keeping up with the masses but I thought the school they sued was a public school before the current school that is specifically for special needs children and stuff. Did they also sue this “new” school?

@@AliAngelpie they sued the public school district when Abbie was like 5 or 6 because they basically were warehousing her. I’m talking about JSA doing something like getting a restraining order to stop them from filming or other parents pressuring them because there is always a chance that they or their kids might get a second or two of scewwntime because for example the kid might walk through the frame as they film.