Don't give them compliments on their looks or attractiveness. It goes straight to their head in a bad way. Tell them you like their shirt or pants or shoes and ask them where they got it, throwingthe conversation back to them.
I love all your posts, they make a lot of sense to all women of all backgrounds. Years ago my goal was to get plastic surgery, but then I realized after four years I did not need to work two jobs to put my body through Hell. I saved my money started watching your videos and decided I am beautiful with all my flaws. My change of plans instead of doing what I thought I wanted I decided to finish my A.A. Degree were I left off seven years ago. Now in April I will be graduating with my minor in social work and my masters in Physiology. After going through my life journey of changes, I found my happiness in my education. As a result, of my changes I started meeting more intellectual friends who have more substance. Plus, I do not have to deal with what I used to deal with friendships and dating. I wish I seen your videos when I was a teenager my life would have been very different. Thanks Heather PS. Many blessings
Can I get your opinion on something? Since younger generation before me maybe you can give me some inside. Do you think it's abnormal that I greatly value getting attention from women especially when I go out and exercise and go running whenever a woman Smiles at me or I catch her looking at me my self-esteem skyrockets and I feel happy for the rest of the day. But when nobody tries to flirt with me or talk to me or look at me I start to get very depressed. Do you think that's abnormal?
Oh yes! My rule is if I am unsure about what to wear, I go the more conservative route, but something I can switch to something sexier(like a backless top under a jacket that I can take off).
1.eye contact , 2. Just smile at Them like a present ( say you remind them of someone) !always look better in person, don’t talk too much, make them work for you, talk about them
that's so true! I'm light skin Shera and white men almost NEVER try and date me...they would always say I'm beautiful but they would end up dating someone with darker skin...interesting...I always get the Africans, blacks, or mexicans
Sounds like a plan to me! These jealous hateful women want to take over the workplace. Let them work themselves to death, stress out and deal with other hateful jealous women like themselves while those of us who are sick of it remain feminine, secure with our husbands, freedom to do what we want with no stress!
OmG! I love love love you right now... This video is firrrree! I literally just started it, exactly at 2:28 and love your advice coz i'm kinda shy but that will totally work... I'm so doing this from now on! Yasss! Mhen black women are litttt! You're a queen mam... God bless you🙏... About to go catch my man! 🏆
I go out with a friend that is just as beautiful as myself but I find that guys flock to her because she dresses scantily and is very "deer in headlights" ish. But then they see me, I'm fully dressed with some cleavage going, I got my "no nonsense" face on and they're like...."yeahhhh I'm gonna avoid that one!" LOL men know who women they can fuck with and they know I'm not the one, but I gotta start looking more friendly. lmfao. Sometimes I really do look unapproachable af and the type of guys I like tend to be timid until they get drunk off their asses! LOL
But do you want a guy for one night, or for a year? That’s the difference girl. Men should think you’re a challenge. Maybe just try relaxing your face. Smile a bit. Resting bitch face is a bitch. But it weeds out losers.
beautifullEternal it definitely does and that’s what I like about it! I honestly am not even looking for anything. Just someone I can talk to when I’m bored!
ok what if you have a pleaser type of man that's always doing things for you without asking how do you keep him chasing without falling victim to all the sweet things they do...married hubbie 10 yrs older
I love you. I just practiced my flirting yesterday and he came over and introduced himself. I didn't close the deal he wasn't a dusty but he wasn't a millionaire either. 🤪
I used to be much sassier and flirtier.I lost it when my ex broke up with me.So just last month I pulled in a guy with flirty eye contact but never knew what to say .We were at work and I wanted to chat elsewhere,not have my nosy catty co-workers in my mouth 😡😮😐
Can you done video for nice girls on how to act because there is a lot of contradicting advice be open and smile but a bitch at the same time plus as a naturally nice person when I try to be a bitch i go over board cause it's not natural to me plus I'm a true Gemini if it's not the Angel it's the devil out u feel me
Its called ACTING and it requires a bit of manipulation and dishonesty on your part. Smile and be nice only if you're getting what you want, be a bitch when you're not. That's how you should be with humans in general, not just men. Due to my Muslim/religious upbringing I used to be super nice 95 percent of the time - the result was heartache and strangers walking all over me. Now that I've taken my rose tinted glasses off I'm learning how to protect myself from the outside world.
I️ have been in a relationship for over 4 years, he is separated and says next year he will get divorced. Aside from that; I️ am currently not working and I️ dropped a hint that I️ would like help for a bill and he won’t get the hint. That is frustrating. I’m not sure how to take care that.....
Being a married woman yourself, what are your thoughts on dating married men who are willing to provide for you. I had this situation before, but I just felt it was morally wrong to interfere in someone's marriage because I wouldn't want that done to me. But I respect your views, what do you think about that type of situation? Thank you and love your videos xoxo
It is inappropriate. But if you’re not intimate, then you don’t cross the most sacred boundary of sexually attaching yourself to the married man. The likelihood of consistently being provided for without sex is low. And you risk ruining your reputation. It’s up to each individual to determine if the situation is worth it.
Got it date somebody who has a home a car and a decent job that pays more than minimum wage. Got it that's also what I look for in a woman with the exception that I wanted to be 18 to 22
Hey love, I am a true fan of both ur channels....do u mind helping me because I'm a dancer...but I sometimes talk too much or make them feel too friend vibe and can't get him to get a dance from me..... Do u have any tips girl? I know u do....lol
I dont talk to them only 3 mins max. Dont sit down on a chair beside them stand up and keep it moving. Ask for a dance very fast. Save conversation for early in the night with regulars
It's real simple you over-analyze stuff as a woman. See someone you think is cute go up to a person you think is cute introduce yourself and say you would like to get to know the person because he is cute.
These rules don't apply to me I'm a new age man I stayed home and play video games don't have to work cuz I live off of my rental income and have a low sex drive
Why flirt ? Be pure. No birth control. No drugs or porn or promiscuity or self stimulating behavior. Pray and meet good hardworking moral man who wants a pure beautiful passionate and obedient God fearing woman. Don't be a gold digger but you want a man who can support a family. Remember you are not going on a fishing trip. Be Godly.
There are so many old hags who are taken falling all over many men who are single and act as if they do, they compliment the hell out of these guys, are protective of them and block you from them, the guys are idiots and don't notice because they're so self absorbed and being catered to by these women even waitresses get in on the competition. This city is Fd up. They need go away or I need to move, it's exhausting. I'm getting so tired of all of this.
These women cock block sort of speak. I had a woman who I thought was my friend who was sabotaging every person I would talk with, I would introduce her to people, then next time I saw that person they would be weird with me and whatever rapport we had no longer exists. It would be the beginning to get to know that person, then weirdness. She has a guy, is super protective and secretly insecure but also sabotages anything I try to do. Yes, I stopped hanging out with her. I wish I caught on earlier.
